In this article we will tell you:
- Psychology of a man's love for a woman
- Differences between a man's love and a woman's love
- What is the difference between love between M and F?
- Signs of male love
- How should a man love a woman so that she is sure that she is truly loved?
The love of a man for a woman is different from the love of a woman for a man. And every woman who strives to love and be loved needs to know what exactly male love is.
In the article we will talk about how a man’s love for a woman is manifested , how it works, and what its essence is.
We will rather talk not about love itself, but about male abilities, manifestations and characteristics.
Psychology of a man's love for a woman
Let's start with the main thing - male love is determined solely by the man's capabilities (opportunities in every sense).
Most often, these possibilities depend on the age of the man, and therefore we can talk about some age-related nature of male love .
After all, a man aged 20 to 30 will not be the same as a man aged 35 to 50. In other words, age does not always play a major role here, although most often it does. You will see this for yourself a little later.
A man’s age is determined not by specific numbers, but by his achievements and life experience. Some men remain children until the end of their days.
It is clear that men change in one direction or another. They acquire some qualities, and lose others. In this regard, there are differences in understanding the concept of “love”. For example, a physically healthy and successful man who occupies a high position in society sees love differently than a sick, poor loser. This example is an extreme.
But in life you rarely have to face extremes. Not all men become strong first. This refers to the physical strength and physical health of a man. Not everyone becomes rich or powerful.
When a man says that all ages are submissive to love, this means that at any age a man is capable of love, but at each age he loves in a special way.
The most stunning look is for him, not for a meeting of classmates
The syndrome of a victorious hunter losing interest in the game he has caught is no less common in women than in men. The fact that you got him into cohabitation or tied the knot does not mean that now he is forever in love with you. Yes, it’s vulgar, mean and banal, but about half of my male patients complained about facts of a girl’s neglect of her appearance after the relationship had become stable.
If he fell in love with a physicist with gray hair, a brown checkered vest and worn-out boots, he knew what he was getting into.
But since in your wedding photos you are a blonde in curls and roses, and now you are a cropped woman in a comfortable jumpsuit, then don’t blame me if they stop perceiving you as an attractive female. Moreover, when at corporate events you put on makeup and buy a new dress, and at home you walk around a la naturel in the same delicate pastel things (which the male eye perceives as faded and asexual). It's very simple, but women don't stop making this mistake. You are not obligated to be loved for who you are (moreover, you are not obligated to be loved a priori at all).
Differences between a man's love and a woman's love
Globally, love for both men and women is the same thing.
At its core, love is about meeting a specific set of needs for your partner.
Needs are not only different in type:
- physiological
- psychological
- social
But they also differ in priority both for each person and for gender (men and women). And this is where some difference lies. What is more important and self-evident for women is secondary and incomprehensible for men. And vice versa.
That’s why M and F will always not understand each other and enrage each other (unless, of course, they learn to understand each other).
Women's love
The feeling of love consists of two components:
- In the need to love;
- To be loved.
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As you understand, these are two completely different needs. To love is to give, and to be loved is to take. It looks different for men and women. That is, the question “What comes first?”
For men, it is primary to be loved . They are a little selfish, consumers of women's love. They want to receive love and feel loved. This is the same question when a man leaves, a woman should ask herself, “Did the man next to me feel loved?” If not, he will leave.
But when a man has received this “Be loved”, he returns love to the woman. How? Man's love.
But a woman first gives her love, she loves a man like a woman. Then she receives his masculine love from the man.
So what is this male and female love?
Women's love is emotionality, sensuality, warmth, affection, tenderness, a state of contentment. Yes, a woman should be happy.
When a man sees a satisfied woman, his mood also improves. For example, he came home from work, and his satisfied wife greeted him, and then he realized that everything was fine and his self-esteem increased. And whoever comes home and sees a dissatisfied wife, his self-esteem falls.
Women's love is the ability to ask. That is, women must declare their feminine “I want.” And the man fulfills it, receives the woman’s gratitude, joy and happiness. He also begins to feel happy.
How to understand that a man loves you?
We are always waiting for love. And now she comes to us, and our gray life is painted with bright colors. Love changes our thoughts, our feelings capture us, the world is perceived differently. The channel of communication between feelings and reason ceases to exist, because of this there is a danger of confusing flirting or infatuation with true love. After all, we will experience heartache and serious feelings in the same way. And our sick consciousness is not able to distinguish one from the other.
Love at first sight or sudden falling in love turns us almost into madmen and slaves. But somewhere in the back of our minds the instinct of self-preservation lurks. It is he who gives birth to the desire in us to understand the feelings of the man we love. I want to be sure that you not only love, but are also loved. How can you understand that the one to whom you give your heart undividedly loves you? Are these signs of a man’s love for a woman even present?
The following points that relate to love should immediately be stated. Why? The life of love is subject to its own laws, which we do not want to take into account.
It burns with a bright flame, alas, not for long. A year at most, or two at best. Next, a natural metamorphosis occurs with love: the feeling fades away or falls asleep. Therefore, the signs of a man’s love for a woman at different stages of the relationship will be different. We are interested in the initial stage of a love relationship.
What is the difference between love between M and F?
Three differences between the expressions of love between a man and a woman:
- For a woman, the emotional state always comes first. Women are always hunting for emotions and therefore pay attention to little things. For a woman, love is the feelings from his actions. For men, facts and comfort are important. Therefore, love for a man is specific actions that satisfy his comfort.
- For a woman, love is caring . Taking care of her emotional, financial, sexual, physical well-being. For a man, love is faith in him. When they don’t help, if they don’t ask and just give verbal support – “You can handle it!” You are strong! I'm proud of you!". This is a recognition of his strength.
- For a woman, love is not about respect . She may not respect, but she loves (=cares). A man cannot love if he does not respect and cannot love if he is not respected. Respect for a man is even more important than love.
This can be briefly explained by the main messages that M and F want to hear and feel:
- She wants to receive the message “I will never leave you” from him. Those. I will take care and act for you.
- He wants to receive the message from her: “I’m following you, wherever you go.” Those. I will give you the right to choose, take risks, make mistakes, draw conclusions and choose again.
Appreciate him
While the relationship is emerging, you simply adore him: the actions he does, the way he treats you - all this causes admiration!
Then the shortcomings slowly emerge. A few more years pass, and to the delight of your friends, “How wonderful he is!”, you feel sad about.
Never forget its merits. Our relationships with people have a funny property: people turn to us with the side that we consider.
If you want to see the best in him, cultivate the best in yourself. According to the law of energy exchange, you both will move forward and develop.
Especially appreciate his masculine qualities. For him, this will be the most striking manifestation of love.
Signs of male love
Have you ever wondered how a man's love manifests itself? .
So, men’s love lies in those very little things that we sometimes don’t even take seriously; men don’t know how to show their love like women do.
Man's love:
- this is to come up to hug from the back;
- this is a kiss before leaving home;
- this is the lunch or dinner he prepared (for which he should be praised and told that he was super-well done, and it turned out very tasty);
- this is an “I love you” SMS when he leaves somewhere for a long time;
- these are the words “let's go together”;
- when he brings his salary home.
Always be feminine
Women's sophistication physically and psychologically always attracts men, so work on yourself. Be interested in different areas, develop your personality.
If you are involved in a scandal and want to use strong language, replace it with strict speech that does not contain profanity.
Take care of your natural beauty. Avoid wearing bright cosmetics and experimenting with hair coloring. Everything should be in moderation.
Be confident in your attractiveness and grace. A woman should exude sexuality, but not show it off.
Talk about important things directly, without hints
Men understand hints, but more often these are hints from other men or those hints that are beneficial for them to understand. It is not customary for them (with the possible exception of the Japanese) to talk about the essence of the matter in Aesopian language.
When your husband wants to sell a batch of motorcycles to a client, he says: “We have a well-known brand, the warranty period is average in the market, and for wholesale we will discount you 7%,” and not: “The autumn leaf has withered on the lonely elm that grew on the sad hill , and it’s time to harness the iron horse to intelligent creatures and quickly run to the south from these places.”
Therefore, state it simply, but not globally, not “tell me straight, you stopped loving me, right?”, but “I’m tired of collecting your worms for ice fishing all over the house, this is not what my mother raised me for, hire a housekeeper.”
