In order to decide to ask a girl out on a date, you need a lot of courage. Our worries and nerves immediately go away when we hear the long-awaited agreement. But we rarely think about what to do next. Where to invite a girl on a date so that she remembers it for the rest of her life and becomes the beginning of a long, happy relationship? A place for a date should combine several factors:
- Firstly, it should interest the girl, leave a pleasant imprint of memories and a desire to go with you to further meetings.
- Secondly, the meeting place should show you from the good side, the girl should see only the good traits of your character, you should be able to show care and initiative.
- Thirdly, the terms of the date will reveal the girl’s character and help you understand whether you want to build a relationship with her or not.
So, where does a man invite a girl on a first date? Let's look at several options that may be useful to you.
Restaurant
Restaurant, nightclub or cafe, no matter how romantic this idea may seem to you. Music and a large number of people around will definitely not be able to help you win the heart of a girl. Therefore, choose places where you can clearly hear each other, you can sit comfortably, relax and have a light snack! Ideal: a hookah bar, a cozy cafe, a good restaurant - for those who want to impress with their capabilities. Book tables in advance, or keep the numbers of the selected establishments handy
Street breakfast
Unlike a noisy restaurant in the evening, with obligatory evening dresses and adherence to etiquette, a street cafe is perfect for a first date. You can relax and chat during breakfast, and then go to some establishment. You just need to take into account that the weather outside is sunny and warm.
You should not set a meeting time for early in the morning, because your girlfriend may turn out to be a “night owl” and getting up early will discourage her from wanting to be with you.
First date
She said yes. You've been waiting for this for a long time, you were afraid to offer to meet, you were worried, but now you've received an answer.
This meeting determines whether your story will continue or not. Anxiety is inevitable, so you should choose a place where you both feel familiar and comfortable.
Dates that encourage conversation will help you get to know someone better and determine whether it's worth taking on date No. 2. Dating expert Kate McLean.
A park
The classic option is suitable if you feel awkward looking into your companion’s eyes for a long time. In the park you can treat her to ice cream or cotton candy. Walk along quiet alleys and talk calmly.
Warn your beloved about the hike in advance so that the walk is not overshadowed for her by a painful hobble in heels to the nearest bench. Or the cute chattering of her teeth from a cold she wasn't prepared for.
On a first date, it is important to provide an “escape route”, as it is possible:
- after 15 minutes of communication you will understand that the girl is not your type;
- she will not want to continue talking to you after a little dialogue.
The park is a place where you can say goodbye easily and culturally. And during a sincere conversation, walk as much as you want, feed the birds or ride a boat.
If you wish, you can extend the date and take the girl to the cinema or cafe.
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Cafe
Restaurant, pizzeria, cafeteria or other catering service - choose for yourself. Be guided by your preferences, the girl’s desires and financial situation. Remember that the cafe should be quiet in order to talk calmly and get to know each other better.
You shouldn't drink alcohol on a first date. Save going to the hot spot for later meetings.
Remember! A date doesn't always go smoothly, even if everything is planned. Don't expect much from the first meeting. Enjoy the conversation and don't be upset if something goes wrong. That's okay, it's just not your girl.
Bowling
This is a place for a lively and exciting pastime, it will help you see your girl with all the bright emotions that are inherent in her. In order to win her over, you can sometimes give in to her, but only so that she does not notice this, because she may be offended by the fact that you consider her weak. Also, it is important to take into account one nuance: if your companion has very long fingernails, then bowling is definitely not an option. Because you risk ruining the meeting.
Museum
Unlike cinemas, theaters and restaurants, a museum is a very quiet place where there is a lot to discuss. You will immediately understand how serious and educated your girlfriend is. When you say “let’s go to the museum,” your girlfriend will immediately let you know how serious she is about you. If she just wants to get bright emotions or “cheat” you out of money, she will immediately refuse, this is a kind of test. If she is interested in you, then going to the museum once will not be difficult for her, but, on the contrary, will become an interesting excursion into history.
Where to invite in winter, spring, summer, autumn
In autumn or spring (at the beginning or very end of the season), provided the weather is good, you can invite a girl to the same places as in the summer.
List of places for a first date depending on the time of year
List of places for a first date depending on the time of year
Balloon
If your chosen one is too deeply in your soul, you can spend money and give her a hot air balloon flight. Believe me, she will definitely never forget this. During the flight, you will have the opportunity to hug her and show your care, because almost every girl is afraid of heights, and you, at this moment, seem to her just like a superhero. Just don’t tell the girl about your destination before arriving at the place; let the balloon become a real surprise for her and give her genuine emotions.
Non-standard approach
An unusual approach is always and everywhere appreciated. Few people will like a guy who thinks in stereotypes, uses standard phrases and performs standard actions. Success pursues those who are able to break patterns and show that it is possible to do familiar things differently.
There is no need to be afraid to experiment and do spontaneous things. Life experience proves that girls prefer desperate guys rather than smart, handsome guys. Appearance and money are an important factor, but far from the main one. If the main thing for a girl is the financial component, you shouldn’t pay attention to it, since it’s a dummy that will go to a tight wallet at the first opportunity.
Ice rink
If the date takes place in winter, then the zoo and the balloon are no longer needed, you don’t want to freeze your beloved. An excellent alternative would be a skating rink. It will also give you an opportunity to bond, especially if both of you, or at least one of you, can't ride. You will be able to hold hands, hug and talk all the time. This will also help you see all the facets of a girl’s character, for example, if she teaches you to ride, you will be able to see what kind of mother she will be for your possible children, whether she will be able to teach them correctly in the future.
SPA salon
Something that can definitely drive any representative of the fair sex crazy is a spa salon. There the girl will receive all the procedures she needs and will be able to unwind and relax. Just be careful, if you are too persistent, the girl may think that you only want sex from her. Therefore, do not be too active and act only after certain hints from the girl.
Quest room
Nowadays, various quest rooms are becoming increasingly popular. And for good reason, because the themes of the rooms are different and will be able to show exactly those human traits that you want to know. In various labyrinths and riddles, you will have enough opportunities to communicate, embrace, and act as a hero for your companion. Just find out in detail about the room in advance and think through a plan, you don’t want to embarrass yourself in front of the girl and not prove yourself in any way.
Romantic date
Nothing impresses a girl more than romance. Night sky, stars, meeting sunset or dawn. As they say, the need for invention is cunning. Whatever you choose, a tick in your karma is guaranteed.
Roof
Look for a tall building with a beautiful view of the city. Visit the site before your scheduled meeting and remove any trash. Find out if the attic is locked, or negotiate with the management company to avoid any troubles. It’s better to meet on the roof in the evening, the view of the city at night, the view of the sunset - it’s more romantic than the scorching sun.
You can take a warm blanket, blanket, champagne, glasses and sweets. Or get serious: a laid table, music, flowers, balloons. It’s just like in the movies, girls love it. It depends on your financial capabilities and how much you want to surprise or impress your crush.
Cinema for two
A movie date is not just a trip to the movies. Hall for two. Comfortable reclining chairs. Possibility to order dinner and decorate the room with candles and rose petals. Don't forget to choose a movie that suits the girl's tastes to enhance the effect of the date.
Unfortunately, private cinemas are not available everywhere. Pay attention to the VIP room for several couples. Or plan to travel to a big city if distance allows.
The article “How to invite a girl to the cinema” will help you ask nicely and not get rejected.
Night walk
Walk around the city, drive a car, swim on a boat. Whatever you choose, no matter what locality you live in, it’s always romantic at night. Starry sky, big city lights or the sound of the surf. Everything is conducive to a sincere conversation.
Limousine ride
If your lady is a refined person who needs to be constantly pleased, then give her a trip around the city at night with a bottle of champagne and fruit. Yes, it will cost you a pretty penny, but she will remember this date for a long time. Languid muted music, alcohol and the two of you. What could be better? This option is more suitable for those who are determined to move on to intimacy as quickly as possible.
Skydiving
If your lady love prefers an active lifestyle and extreme sports, then a parachute jump will be an unforgettable gift for her. Only you should, first, find out from mutual friends whether she has jumped before. After all, if this becomes her hundredth anniversary jump, she will definitely not have any memories of your date.
We’ve figured out where to invite a girl on a date, now we’ll look at where your date will turn out to be boring and uninteresting:
If she says buy me this, buy me that
You say: “No, don’t wait. I like you! I'm not going to pay for you. I like you, I want you, I can give you a lot of pleasure! But this does not mean that I am your sponsor! I'm honest with you."
And that’s it, she immediately understands: “ Oh, that’s what a guy is .” Everything is clear now.”
She will not demand gifts and other things.
You let her know who you are.
That's all. This is an excellent start to any relationship where everything is built on sincerity.
The beginning of a relationship without lies, where a woman is not trying to suck money out of a man , and a man is not trying to buy a woman.
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Cinema
This is a very bad idea, because all the time that you have to communicate, you will sit in complete darkness and will not be able to talk because of the noisy movie. Moreover, you don’t know what genre of films your lover prefers. As a result: you will see each other without knowing anything about each other.
But some cinemas have days where they show horror all night long and if you find one, you can grab your friends and have a great time.
Places for a relaxing holiday
If your relationship has progressed and you have a second or third date, you can relax a little. But only just a little!
Remember that a girl needs to be constantly surprised and pampered with surprises, otherwise a well-spent first date will come to naught.
Reference! If you decide to have a second date in a relaxed atmosphere, we recommend using the same meeting places that are recommended for the first date. It’s better not to repeat yourself: if the first time you went to a cafe, now you should choose a museum (hookah bar) and vice versa.
Here are some more ideas for a relaxed date:
- Street food festival, fair. At such events you can eat deliciously and drink equally deliciously. In addition, at such festivals, everything is often done for a comfortable and cool pastime. There you can find hammocks, cozy bean bags, and relaxing music playing in the background;
- Coffee house. Slightly different from a cafe in that you should spend less time here. However, a cup of aromatic coffee and a pleasant conversation for about an hour can set the date up for a good continuation.
Family dinner
Perhaps you have fallen head over heels in love and are ready to introduce the girl to all your relatives. That's great, but put yourself in her shoes. There are many strangers who strive to find out everything and even more about her, constant questions and examinations. Any woman would feel awkward in such an environment. Moreover, it is too early for such a moment, you know very little about each other and your decision can change a hundred times.
How to end the evening and what to do next
After a pleasant evening, it is important not to forget to exchange contacts if this has not already been done. When a guy gets to know a girl, finds out what she lives and is interested in, it is easy for him to understand whether she is suitable for further relationships and starting a family. It is also necessary to remember that the young man must match his companion. It is important not to stop communicating, to be interested in the affairs of your chosen one every day, and not just during the first romantic date. The decision about where to go next can be left up to the girl, it will be fair.
The main advice, which has already been repeatedly announced by experts, is to be yourself. Wearing masks cannot lead to positive success. Such behavior will give rise to more than one conflict, cause scandals and lead to a breakdown in relationships. If a person starts dating a girl, it means he is in love with her. It is extremely unpleasant to realize that it was all a game.
