Relationship
What to do if you want to make the girl you like fall in love with you, but doubt your abilities? What to do if you want to be the most desirable and the only one for her? I will answer your question right in the first paragraph! What a twist! So, to make a girl fall in love with you, you must be less in love with her than she is with you. Understood?! Yes, but probably not entirely! Falling in love is a drug. Therefore, you need to turn the girl into a notorious drug addict who will become more addicted to you than you are! Read the entire article and everything will be clear what needs to be done!
Show your importance (value)
Significance is how valuable you are to a girl. The greater the significance, the more the girl will invest in the relationship. And the more she invests, the more she will fall in love with you. Everything is very simple. For this …
Be a leader
The great Greek philosopher Socrates once taught, “The unexamined life is not worth living.” And he was absolutely right. A girl won't fall in love with a guy who has no direction and doesn't know who he is. This is not a man, this is a child. Girls need a man who knows what he wants, is confident in himself and moves towards his goals. And for this you need to become a leader in life. Every girl needs someone who will lead her to her dreams, and not just some “weapon man.” Therefore, have big goals, a plan to achieve them and real actions. There are already enough balabols.
Be interesting
What does it mean? And the fact that you shouldn’t be like everyone else - only go to work and drink beer with friends in the bathhouse on Fridays, and on weekends just lie down in front of the TV. It is necessary to create a certain lifestyle so that she falls in love with you, or rather with your lifestyle.
What can be included here:
- be sure to engage in one or two sports or go to the rocking room, and finally, to the stadium to work out on the horizontal bars and uneven bars;
- constantly meet new interesting people;
- create and develop your own projects that can grow into a profitable business or are already a business (this will make you an interesting person in the eyes of the woman you love!)
- have your own hobby ;
— spend interesting leisure time on weekends and don’t sit at home;
— travel constantly, both within your own country and around the world.
Be unavailable
The mistake of many men who want to make girls fall in love with them is that they begin to devote a lot of time to them. But also A.S. Pushkin wrote very correct words: “The less we love a woman, the easier it is for her to like us.” Who do we fall in love with most often? In unavailable women. Likewise, women prefer unavailable men. This is a function of the mind. While we don't have something, we want it. Therefore, you should not constantly talk about your love for a girl. It’s better to show a slightly indifferent behavior, reducing the importance of your relationship, but this does not mean that you need to become an inveterate bastard.
How to demonstrate indifference:
- do not call or write 100,500 times a day;
- disappear for a while;
- when you meet, joke about her, make fun of her, treat her like a child;
— in a company, communicate with other girls, flirt, touch them, show interest on the part of other girls.
Remember! The girl falls in love not with you, but with the image. If you want to make her fall in love with you, create in her head the image of your personality that she will fall in love with.
Be unusual
Maybe I will surprise you, but women are not always attracted to guys who are no different from each other. To start a relationship with a hot girl, you have to be unusual. And right now you will ask me “how can I be unique, Leon?” Don't worry, you already have it in you. The options are varied : maybe you write memoirs of adult film stars, you do powerlifting, you like to read the classics, you lived in New Zealand, you worked on an organic farm.
In any case, this should be used. You shouldn’t talk about this all the time, but you need to be able to drop a word in time to interest your interlocutor. If you are still ordinary, it is time to change.
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Give her emotions
We like what gives us emotions. Or the one who gives emotions. And here men have big problems. Because we are about mind and logic, and women are about heart and emotions. We just speak different languages. Therefore, if you decide to make a girl fall in love with you, then you need to create an emotional connection with her.
Smile and laugh
Make her laugh. Girls love guys who make them laugh. Know that laughter helps produce dopamine (the hormone of happiness) in our body. So learn to tell funny stories and jokes. You should have fun and enjoyment together! The main thing here is not to go too far and not look like a real clown. Everything is good in moderation!
Give compliments
Who doesn't like receiving nice compliments? Everyone. And girls especially love them! Just please, don’t praise a girl in order to make her fall in love with you. Otherwise, all this will backfire on you. Remember that a compliment to a girl should first of all be sincere from the heart.
Make it romantic
You can follow the standard path: flowers, restaurant, gifts. But this is the “beaten” path and you will be like everyone else! And you need to be original. Therefore, invite her to some unusual place - it doesn’t matter whether it’s a climbing wall or Tolstoy’s estate - the main thing is that you both find it interesting there. To get to the point, it’s better to find out the girl’s interests and fears, otherwise if she’s afraid of heights, she obviously won’t fly in a hot air balloon. In general, study such a topic as “roof blowers” and stock them in your arsenal, so that you don’t have to think every time, but how to evoke unrealistic emotions in her. The main thing in this matter is not to go too far: your task is to surprise, not shock.
And yes, don’t just give positive emotions, otherwise you’ll be as sweet as a white marshmallow!
70% positive + 20% neutral + 10% negative = a girl in love with you!
Do you have a good job? Talk about it. No? You're lying
Before you continue reading, let me remind you: this is an article on how to impress a woman, not how to find a future wife. Of course, if you lie to your date that you are a lawyer and graduated from Princeton, and then it turns out that you are a gardener with a high school education, your relationship will not last long. But if you don’t have far-reaching plans, and at the same time you earn good money, use it.
Artists, writers and actors appeal to aesthetes. Lawyers, investors and entrepreneurs are more interesting to business girls. If you are one of them or are doing something similar, congratulations, you can succeed. Otherwise, lie. If you don't like lying, that's great. You'll make a great boyfriend for someone, just not tonight.
Trigger your instincts
And the last thing you need to do to make a girl fall in love with you is to have great sex with her. To do this, it is necessary to evoke animal instincts in her through kinesthetics or, more simply, through touch. Do you remember how you spanked your school and college girlfriends on the ass? So it was your mistake! There is no need to rush headlong into the quarry! Everything needs to be done gradually.
Touch
You need to start with those touches that are acceptable from the point of view of society and culture. They are called socially acceptable touching.
Shake hands when meeting.
Give your hand from the transport.
Take it by the arm while walking.
Kiss on the cheek when meeting or parting.
For such touches, look for a socially acceptable excuse. For example, an interesting ring on her finger - he took her hand in his, touched the ring, and let go. Or, with an approaching drunk, you can take her by the shoulders and bring her closer to you, as if fencing her off from danger.
Kiss tenderly
Next you need to move on to more serious touches.
Touching the girl’s hands, knees, back.
Light massage of fingers, forearms, shoulders, neck, back.
Kisses on the shoulders, neck, lips, etc.
Give her good sex
If you really want to make a girl fall in love with you, then you should have sex with her. Learn one thing. Real relationships begin after sex. All that is “BEFORE” is friendship. She can be your friend 1000 times over. Chat on different topics, go to the movies with you, do common things, etc. And at this time he can sleep with other guys. Here you need to know a little biology. During sex, a hormone called oxytocin is released. It forms attachment to a sexual partner. It is thanks to its development that partners remain faithful to each other and do not notice representatives of the opposite sex.
This is a whole separate topic that I will not touch on here. But sex is a powerful drug. And you need to give her such a dose that she cannot exist without you. Give her so much pleasure that she wants more. And don’t forget about yourself and your feelings at the same time. You yourself must get a buzz from the process so that this feeling is also conveyed to her. I'll repeat it again. Everything before sex is sympathy, which should not be taken so seriously.
So, I have listed the most effective ways to make a girl fall in love with you. You need to work on them and make them work on autopilot. But! There are moments when a girl can fall in love with you, as if without your participation. And here you need to understand how a girl who is already in love behaves, otherwise you can slow down for a long time and in the end just ruin everything.
Be confident, not arrogant
Don Quixote once said: “If you want to be a knight, act like a knight.” The same principle works with women. If you want to seem like a confident, successful man among women, behave accordingly. Remember that arrogance does not mean confidence; on the contrary, it shows timidity.
Be yourself, but behave in such a way that the woman understands that you are worth it. It doesn't matter to you whether she's interested or not, you're doing a great job anyway. Women are crazy about confident guys until they become cocky idiots.
How does a girl in love behave?
Ignores others
A woman who is in love with one particular man is cold, like a cartoon queen, to everyone else. That's just absolutely. In general, in general. At least even retired Brad Pitt will approach her. She won't care about him. The thing is that for a woman in love there is only one alpha male. And if she flirts only with you, then you are the one, the one and only.
Constantly in sight
Perhaps you study, work or relax together and she catches your eye very often. Maybe it's fate? Or maybe it's just an accident?! No. Most likely, she specifically chooses a place and time to annoy you and start a conversation on some topic. She wants you to notice her more - so beautiful and slender. And girls know how to make themselves look like that!
Looking for a reason to meet
A girl in love can invite you first to go for a walk along the embankment, go to a concert or city event, or ride bikes in the park. The difference between guys and girls in love is that girls don’t think - they act. And while you are figuring out how and where to invite a girl, she will do it first. If you have this situation, then the girl has fallen in love with you.
Acts a bit like a fool
Love is, first of all, a lot of stress. And stress, as a rule, turns a reasonable person into an inadequate one. Here she is - shrinking and shrinking when she sees you when she meets. May speak in a loose manner or as if lacking intelligence. She speaks in a manner that is unusual for her. She may behave too vulgarly, although this is not her style of communication at all. But by the way, the same thing happens to you. Now remember how you behaved the last time you fell in love. I'm sure like a fool. Here she is, acting like a fool. It's just stressful, that's all.
Open in communication
A girl in love will begin to tell you everything about herself openly and at the same time ask you various clarifying questions with great interest. Thus, she wants to know not only some facts about your life, but also understand the potential of her lover. She will want to understand what interests you, what goals and plans you have for the near future. If you notice that she is looking for common ground, hobbies or similar experiences, then this is a clear sign of falling in love.
Flirting
Of course, a woman in love begins to flirt. It’s just like in nature, when pink flamingos start performing mating dances. All girls can do this, although not all boys can notice it. And you need to see women's signals! What could it be. Maintains his posture, can swing his leg in a relaxed manner, straightens his hair, bites his lips, has a deep, direct gaze, leans his body forward towards you, can straighten his or your clothes.
Strives to be closer
A girl in love, intentionally and unintentionally, strives to be physically closer to the object of her sympathy. For example, take a man by the arm, touch him in passing, straighten the lapel of his jacket. The same is true when a man enters her personal space: she allows him to close the distance. A girl in love is not against a straightened strand of hair, touches, light hugs.
Shows concern
Women have a maternal instinct inherent in them and you need to know that it extends not only to children. She will take care of those who are truly dear to her. And the object of love will always be dear! Therefore, if a girl has fallen in love with you, then scan all the actions that will show her care for you. If a girl starts feeding you, then believe me, she is in love with you. This signal works 100% and never fails. However, she will not demand anything in return. Instincts cannot be removed anywhere!
Gives gifts
Giving gifts means showing sympathy for a person. Many guys do this almost automatically. Flowers, irons, earrings, telephones. But if a girl gives a gift to a man who was mentioned by him in conversations earlier and, as it were, in passing, then this is a clear sign that she likes this man. Therefore, such moments are especially worth paying attention to. This means that the girl is already seriously starting to invest in the relationship.
Asks questions about family, children, housing.
When a girl is in love, she automatically begins to imagine how she could build a family with you, have children and live happily in a cozy “nest” until the end of your days together. These thoughts, of course, will slip into your conversations. She will ask questions that interest her on this topic. And this is a sure sign that she is interested in you as her future chosen one.
I hope my article helped you clarify the issue of falling in love. In fact, I want you to be able to find your other half without using any tricks or tricks. I want you to just lose your head! This is so cool! Be yourself first. And the girl who should be nearby will definitely appear! Good luck in your relationship!
Be funny. Can not? Do not try
Women love funny men. If you make her laugh, she will go with you to another bar, if you make her laugh there, she will call you home, if you continue to make jokes there, then I think everything else is clear. It's important for women to have fun, though.
But if you don't have a sense of humor, don't even try. Nothing ruins a situation worse than a guy who isn't funny trying to get a woman together. You can't learn to be funny, it's either given or not. If you have such talent, use it. No - be super handsome, smart or rich.
Don't apologize for your intentions
It happens that during a conversation with a girl you begin to feel embarrassed, and this greatly complicates the process. What is the purpose of the conversation? Charming a girl, that's what it's all about. Is there anything bad about this? Not at all. Don't be arrogant, don't act like a jerk, be nice to her, listen to her, make her laugh. Do it all. But remember that you ultimately have one goal. There is no need to worry or suffer because of this. Say you're sorry in the morning.
Why do you need a relationship with an older woman?
More and more men want to meet a mature lady. Such couples are becoming the norm in society, and this trend is spreading throughout the world.
It is worth considering that there is no specific age for maturity. A woman's worldview begins to change after the age of thirty. The wonderful Balzac age of full flowering and maturation has shifted to 45-50 years.
Grown-up ladies know what they need in a relationship and are not afraid to speak openly about it. They know how to formulate thoughts correctly and not play the “guess it yourself” game.
They do not need a breadwinner and father for their future children. With them there will be no games of silence, incomprehensible insults and spontaneous hysterics. They don't "pull the blanket over themselves."
They trust themselves, know their body, have sexual experience, and are not afraid of bold experiments and new sensations.
Mature women have reached their sexual peak, while men of the same age have begun to decline. They are chic, calm, relaxed, they have charm. Life experience has turned into invaluable capital in the form of wisdom, and the face and figure have reached their mature richness.
Many infantile guys are looking for a nurse , a nanny and a passionate lover in one person. They can only count on success in countries with a large shortage of men, or on an insecure woman with low self-esteem.
In all other cases, they will continue to live with their mother.
Touch her gently
One more check. When I talk about light touches, I don't mean that you need to grope a girl, under no circumstances. But if you're talking to a girl and everything is going well, you can subtly touch her arm. If she doesn't mind, move closer or touch her leg with yours under the table. Without encountering any objections, allow yourself a little more.
If she pulls away, curb your appetite and look for someone else. This method will not only help you understand her attitude, but will also save a lot of time. But still, be more gentle, this is flirting, not assault.
Why do mature ladies need young lovers?
First of all, it is worth remembering that an adult woman knows exactly whether she is ready for a new relationship. You just decide to talk to her - and she has already made a decision for herself to give you a chance or not.
Don't think that a woman at the peak of her sexuality is easily accessible, quite the opposite. Mature ladies become very selective.
Thanks to their experience, they know exactly what they want. If she only wants sex, then all your attempts to fill all her personal space with you will be met with hostility.
The chances of becoming a young lover increase if the guy:
- Young, energetic.
- Physically healthy, attractive. Just don’t ask to touch your biceps, it’s no longer fashionable.
- Neat. Most women believe that a well-groomed appearance is a must for a lover.
- Intellectually developed, with a good sense of humor, but without buffoonery. Moderately funny and interesting to others.
- Gallant, well-mannered, sensitive. Just not old-fashioned. Listen, don't just nod your head.
- Original in courtship.
- Active in fun and love.
- Have an interesting hobby or passion. A tennis player has more chances than a gamer.
- It’s not enough to just be handsome; you need to have the art of seduction, originality, and the ability to please.
The idea that a man must have a lot of money is wrong. Your small apartment will be filled with forbidden pleasures and tenderness. An inexpensive car will be seen as a means of escape from harsh reality. Remember that you are young and promising, you still have a long way to go.
A mature lady needs a young lover not only for sex, although this is also important.
In such relationships, a woman needs emotional nourishment, a charge of vivacity and energy, a feeling of lightness, youth and carelessness.
Modern advanced psychologists claim that a difference of 10-15 years is ideal for strong relationships. The biological clock of partners and the peak of sexual activity coincide perfectly. Next to a young man, a lady becomes younger, prettier, and becomes slender and fit.
Having experience from previous relationships, an adult partner does not drag a young lover down the aisle. She does not need a shared life with the risk of divorce and division of property.
A mature partner builds relationships according to her own scenario, and this is a guarantee that she will get exactly what she needs.
Create an opportunity for seduction
Seducing a mature woman is much easier than it seems, although it requires special training.
Making acquaintances on the street or in public transport is not the best idea; she will not want to advertise her flirting with the young man. Ordinary flirting on the street looks indecent. It's stupid to ruin your reputation for the sake of a casual acquaintance.
It is best to start dating in a cafe or in quiet public places such as theaters, museums, and exhibitions. Dating sites can also be useful , but this is more suitable for teenagers.
In addition, a spontaneous meeting is much more effective than regular correspondence on the Internet.
If you don’t know how to seduce a mature woman, then remember the main rule - self-confidence. This is a valuable quality for men. It is important for hunters to know that their future partner is able to cope with a difficult situation without other people's prompts.
Dating rules
- Think over your image of a confident man in advance. Rehearse your look, smile, gestures, gait. At first it will look constrained and unnatural, but then it will become a habit.
- Don't rush to compliment and ingratiate yourself. You are not a child begging for candy. Better make an impression with your confidence and relaxedness.
- Capture her attention. Remember that you are not communicating with a young girl for whom everything is new. A mature woman will not fall for vulgarity and banality. She is not interested in how many girls you have taken for a ride in a cool car or how much beer you can drink with friends. Try to show a keen interest in politics, world events, books, music, all those things that make you an interesting conversationalist.
- If you are too young and have not managed to achieve anything in life, then share your plans, talk about what you want to do and what you want to achieve. Don’t talk about what you haven’t done yet and what you don’t understand well, it’s boring and uninteresting.
- Don't talk about your friends' teenage antics or your company. These conversations will make the woman feel even older and lose interest in you as a man. Instead of talking about a drunken party in high school, talk about your study abroad experience.
- Concentrate on its obvious advantages. No need to shower compliments, just tell us what exactly you liked. Enjoy her presence. She is funny? Keep her spirits up. Wants you? Reciprocate. Does she like to touch you while walking? Do the same, touch her back. Is she sexy? Let her know that.
Forget about age. The phrase: “For your age you are just a piece of candy” will repel you. If a woman asks how old you are, you can add your age slightly, the main thing is not to overdo it. If she is over thirty, instead of “twenty-three,” say “twenty-nine.”
Impress with determination. Men who know how to make money are valued. Tell us about how you have fun, about your hobbies, about your favorite sport, about self-development. If we talk only about the company or the family, then this will be a sign of lack of independence.
Feel free to talk about education and plans for the future. Do it without boasting or showing off. Don’t worry if you haven’t achieved great success yet, the main thing is an optimistic attitude and a passion for new discoveries.
Communication with other people
If you are in the company of friends, then they can also help you impress a woman. To do this, fortunately, you do not need to ask them to act as intermediaries in your acquaintance. It’s enough just to communicate with them – easily and naturally. Laugh, joke, spend time carefree, as you usually do in a friendly company. Watching you from the outside, a woman can easily see what kind of person you are and, perhaps, become even more interested in you.
Exercise: “Radiation”
- Choose any girl you like even a little. An employee, an acquaintance, or just a pretty ice cream saleswoman.
- Now imagine that this is the girl of your dreams, the ideal person whom you simply adore, admire, you have sincere and genuine love. In a word, “the fifth element.” Come up to her and calmly look into her eyes, smile and say in your mind: “I like you! I love you! I wanna be with you!"
- Try to express these emotions through your gaze, so that a spark runs between you or an invisible thread stretches out, and contact is established. Take a short pause, hold your gaze on her. You can mentally hug and kiss her.
- Watch the girl's reaction - many new discoveries await you.
So, did these tips seem trivial to you? Have you heard them somewhere? Then I’ll ask, have you used it in practice? Have you bought at least one lottery ticket, as in the famous joke? Maybe you can share your negative experience? And I will tell you about my positive experience, since I have been happily married for many years.
Call her somewhere
This is what I call the “glow check.” Just don’t do it too early, otherwise it won’t work and you’ll be sent away. But if things are going well, take her somewhere else (just not to your place). Here's what I mean : ask her if she wants to go to another bar, take her out for a bite to eat, go for a walk. Anything, really.
The point is this: if the girl you're charming doesn't mind changing locations, she'll soon agree to come to you (even if she's pretending it's completely different). If she doesn't agree, you can always stop and move on, which is also a good thing.
