What does a man's gaze into a man's eyes mean? 12 reasons why he looks and doesn't approach

Most ladies have experienced an awkward moment when some random person shamelessly stared at them. This eloquent non-verbal signal is very embarrassing and makes you blush if the young man is handsome, or makes you angry if he is ugly. Why do strangers think they have the right to stare? Isn't that rude?

What does it mean if some guy often devours with his eyes? Read on to learn about all the possible reasons why a colleague or travel companion might behave this way.

Why does a married man make eye contact?

The first question that comes to mind is: why doesn’t the person who paid attention have the courage to simply speak? Most likely, the stranger is not free and is checking the availability of the lady he has his eyes on. He finds her sweet and attractive, wants to make sure that the young lady is open to communication, ready to become a lover. I don’t mind going with him to “have a blast” and continue the evening drinking alcohol.

Attention! Often a rude look in retaliation confuses the womanizer, and he turns away. If a pervert perceives a girl's interest as a signal of readiness for sex, and suggests privacy, then perhaps it is worth teaching him a lesson.

Why does a man look intently into the eyes and smile?

Some people are embarrassed to take the first step. Constantly looking from afar, they try to send signals of interest to their desired objects when they smile back. They want women to come up to meet each other first.

Passivity is the result of a “hothouse” upbringing and low levels of male sex hormones. The young man adopts female tactics of behavior, trying to please and intrigue.

Why does a guy constantly look at a girl?

It happens that a macho man reveres his girlfriend and considers her unattainable perfection. A guy who watches as if from afar, but constantly, clearly loves the lady, experiences excitement. He likes the way she laughs, speaks, dresses, and how she can smile sometimes. Thus, a man alleviates the torment by constantly looking and being impressed. He may often dream about meeting and imagine what would happen if he talked to the girl in person.

Important! The hackneyed “Madonna and the Whore” complex may be to blame for shyness. The young man freely communicates with simpler people, but with that nymphet who seems perfect, he does not talk about personal matters. He attaches too much importance to any glances and gestures of the object of desire.

Fact: If a guy has a crush, you'll find him crushing on you. He wants to take in the entire object of passion without looking away. Cupid's victim even pays attention to the tilt of her head and her friend's hairstyle. Watching from afar, the young man admires, but cannot muster the courage to compliment the young lady.

Sign #5 - Mesmerizing voice

Gradually, frequently communicating with a man, for example, on the phone, at some point you may notice that his voice has changed - it has become more sensual and measured. And not only the voice, but also the speech itself became different. Many riddles appear in his conversation; he seems to begin to provoke you to ask him more questions.

To understand whether he wants you or not, compare how he talks to you and how he talks to other people.

If he begins to drawl his words a little in a conversation with you in order to insert something more interesting or smart, then yes, you definitely arouse passion in him. A man who wants you will try his best to stall the conversation and not hang up first when you talk on the phone. Try to play along with him, and don’t end the conversation. You will be very surprised after talking to each other for several hours.

Why does a man avoid looking?

A representative of the stronger sex who looks at a woman's body longer than at her face experiences lust for her. He finds her body "hot" and attractive. The macho man stared to imagine what the friend looked like without clothes. This type of attention cannot be called a signal of love.

Although there is nothing wrong with wanting a young lady, a man who is feeling affection tries to make sure that his non-verbal language does not make his girlfriend feel awkward. He will either “softly” gesticulate or admire from the side.

Sometimes a young man may avoid meeting eyes because he is not in love, but is forced to look at an acquaintance because of her popularity in the company, among other guys. Studying her appearance, he is only trying to figure out what makes the nymphet so popular.

Attention! Some experienced pick-up artists are cunning and do not want to impose themselves prematurely; they try to interest an attractive person before inviting her on a date. They wait for a positive signal from their friend, remaining silent for some time. Strategists are either afraid of rejection or don't want to make fools of themselves. Watching from afar, they expect that they will stand out with their indifference among the crowd of admirers of a popular young lady.

Perhaps the scammer just wants to make the lady feel awkward.

Important! If a lady has ever had a showdown with a colleague, he actively shows attention in order to even out the situation and make the employee feel awkward. Perhaps a business partner is seducing just to win an argument.

Sign #3 - Desire to touch

A man who wants you badly will want to touch you in every possible way. This could be a simple handshake, he can offer his hand when you step over a puddle. He may start snatching plates from your hands when you clear the table. He may give you a friendly pat on the head or grab your nose.

Again, if you want to check whether a man wants you or not, sit as close to him as possible. If you don't bother him, he will move to give you more space. If he wants, then you will sit next to each other, slightly touching your bodies. You can jokingly push him in the side. If you excite him, he will accept the game and give you a little push too.

Sometimes touching is not possible (for example, you work together and cannot show your emotions to everyone). Then touching “through things” begins. A man may ask to guard his briefcase or important documents. He may take something interesting from the table and give it to you to hold. He might start showing you pictures of himself or pour you coffee in his favorite cup. By his desire for you to touch his things, he expresses the desire for you to touch him, as if he were letting you into his intimate zone.

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How a man's gaze changes when he's in love

There are certain signs that indicate lust (without falling in love) and that the friend is experiencing tender feelings.

• A sensualist who intends to quickly drag a lady into bed boldly “devours” the body with his eyes (but not the face or eyes). This is not only rude, but also very tactless.
• The lover watches unobtrusively, instantly averting his eyes as soon as they catch his gaze. It's a nice gesture. There is nothing wrong with lusting after a woman, but Cupid's victim will lust in ways that she won't know about it at first. A guy who continues to stare even after you discover that he is staring is either a sensualist or a boor.
• Some people look forward to exchanging smiles with the object of their desire. Emotion allows you to start a great relationship if you like someone you know. If not, then you should not look in his direction, trying to ignore the defiant gaze.
• A young man who often looks at someone is clearly in love. He can't think of a single good reason to talk to his girlfriend, but he also doesn't want to miss the opportunity to meet eyes. He signals, wanting to please. He expects the girl to return his gaze, give him a smile, or even start a conversation.

Facts You Need to Know About Different Emotions and Telling Nonverbal Gestures

There are obvious signs indicating that a person is clearly ill-mannered and does not know how to behave in society. Many ladies do not pay attention to such universal “markers”, and then, when they are already in a relationship, they wonder why their partner drinks, swears, and behaves inappropriately. What are they, the manners of a plebeian?

• Some boorish people devour a beautiful woman with their eyes. They don't know etiquette or are uneducated. They do not have the proper manners or common sense to behave like gentlemen. And they boldly look at a person if they find him unusual in something.
• Some guys "stare" just to find out how it works. Such youths are very selfish and obsessive. They love to confuse strangers by constantly looking at them, and when some naive person begins to show interest in response, they simply leave. This feeds the male ego.
• Some were not taught good manners by their parents, or that it was impolite to stare at handicapped strangers. If a representative of the fair sex is unlucky enough to have some feature that distinguishes her from other people, for example, a stutter or problems with hair, she is treated by boors.

How to React If a Stranger is Staring

• Many macho men believe that women dress only to attract the stronger sex. This is wrong thinking. But if a stranger is looking at you intently, and you think he is pleasant, then perhaps you should accept the rules of his game and smile.
• Staring can make anyone feel uncomfortable. There might be something sticking out of your hair or something stuck in your backpack. Some people become too nervous when people look at them and often become confused or lose confidence. Be brave and don't let little things ruin your day.
• A nymphet who has encountered a frank, boorish look can respond to the offender in the same coin: begin to examine his groin area point-blank. Usually the young lady, who is embarrassed by the fact that her body parts are being examined, quickly averts her eyes and pretends that she doesn’t see anything. But to make an ill-mannered person feel uncomfortable, you can start behaving even more aggressively than he does.
• If a guy behaves decently, looks embarrassed, and looks attractive at the same time, you can wink back. Then wait for a reaction from him.

It's worth considering that if you're truly attractive, you won't be able to make people stop looking at you. The only thing you can do is change your attitude towards what is happening, unless you want to get annoyed every time you go out in public. Your quality of life deteriorates because you allow yourself to become irritated by things you cannot control.

Body language and gestures

The human body can tell a lot. Posture, pose, gestures always mean something. The body gives vent to emotions through them. If a person tries to suppress his feelings, his blood pressure rises. Scientists use this fact for lie detector testing. But how do you understand that a man wants you? Look out for the following signs:

1. Tilt of the body or head towards the woman. Shows the man's strong interest.
2. Conversation in close proximity. A man filled with desire will strive to catch the scent of a woman, which can only be done by getting significantly closer to her.
3. Accidental touches, straightening hair, removing “specks”. You always want to touch the desired object. And because a man cannot afford to immediately grab a woman’s private parts, he will touch her in a “decent” way.
4. Copying a woman's movements and gestures. If a man wants to please, he begins to unconsciously repeat body language. This means simultaneously swinging your leg, squeezing your hands, crossing your legs, and supporting your head with your hand.
5. Heat, straightening his tie, unbuttoning his shirt, swallowing saliva, hoarseness in his voice. When a man is sexually aroused, his body temperature rises and his throat becomes dry. To feel better, he will be forced to swallow saliva or drink water(s). He will also try to get rid of excess clothes.
6. Tapping fingers, manipulating a wristwatch or other objects, rolling from foot to foot, etc. Reveal awkwardness, nervous tension, a desire to hide something (possibly sexual arousal).
7. Touching your “dignity”, placing your fingers behind your belt, barely noticeable movements of your hips back and forth. A man unconsciously gives signals that he is ready to make contact.
8. Facial flushing is another clear sign of sexual arousal.

Your feet will tell the whole truth. For some women, confirming a man's desire is not enough. They want to know how serious and direct his intentions are. Feet speak most reliably about honesty. If a man has nothing to hide, then his feet will be brought together and his toes will be pointed in your direction.