How to please a girl with words and actions?

In order for a relationship with a girl to always be on a positive and romantic wave, a man needs to show his feelings with good deeds, reinforced with pleasant words. It's no secret that girls love with their ears, so words play no less a role than deeds. But chatter alone won’t get you far, so psychologists offer some interesting ideas on how to please a girl.

Any relationship periodically goes through stages of fading passion and feelings, and only strong couples with real feelings overcome these situations. Wisdom and patience are required from a woman, and ingenuity, good deeds and pleasant words that stir up emotions are required from a man. The main thing is not to wait for an opportunity or a good reason to please the girl you love, since the most memorable actions are those that happen unexpectedly.

Words and actions

Even the largest and most unexpected pleasant surprise will not be so memorable and touching for a girl if it is presented dryly without emotion. Psychologists probably know how you can win women’s hearts, win them over to your partner, and also with what actions you can make amends, establish a romantic mood between a couple, and surprise your chosen one.

Any girl wants to periodically hear words about how loved, desired and attractive she is to her man. It's like caring for a flower that needs to be constantly watered so that it blooms and exudes fragrance. By nature, women are very sensual and emotional, so they especially need positive emotions. There are several demonstrative actions for the sake of your beloved:

fighting your bad habits;
gifts in the form of flowers;
self-development and passion for new activities;
developing all kinds of creative ideas for dates;
handmade gifts;
showing care (help in any difficult situations), etc.

Girls cannot imagine their relationship without attention to their person from their chosen one. Attention is manifested by pleasant SMS messages and calls, compliments about a new hairstyle, outfit or makeup, manicure. All efforts on the part of a man in the form of actions and pleasant phrases will be compensated by a good attitude on the part of his beloved.

How to touch correctly?

It is important that your hands and fingers (and especially your nails) are clean and dry. Even if you previously had a walk or a trip to the cinema, first of all you need to wash and dry your hands. It’s even better to take a shower for both of you, because a clean body is much more pleasant to caress.

No sharp or sudden hand actions. This way you can scare away the beauty. Remember, a woman’s “fire” burns slowly. And if the guy has already almost finished in his thoughts, the girl is still only thinking: “maybe there will be sex today?”
The first touches are gentle , modest, then gradually - more and more persistent and passionate. You can add a little arrogance, women love brutal macho men.
You need to touch all the time , a light touch with your fingertips, a light scratch with your nails can “turn on” a lady no worse than the “strong grip of an alpha male.” Alternate gentle touches with stronger ones; men's hands can work wonders.
You can’t stroke a girl against the grain of her hair and ruin her hairstyle (several hours could have been spent on it). Only “by the fur”. When a girl herself wants to undo her hair or, in a state of excitement, simply stops paying attention to it, then you can bury yourself in it and enjoy the special feminine scent.

Remember that there are social norms about touching. In the first minutes, you should not grab a lady’s breasts or buttocks that excite the eye. She will think that this is a man who only needs sex. And with womanizers the conversation is short.

Pleasant trifles

You can make your beloved girl very nice to a man without any financial costs or special efforts. If a girl sincerely treats him and has feelings, she will be pleasantly surprised by every little thing on his part. Psychologists advise periodically pampering your lady with symbolic romantic souvenirs, cards, balloons, flowers, and most importantly, sweets, because most girls have an avid sweet tooth.

Expert opinion

Elena Druzhnikova

Sexologist. Family relations expert. Family psychologist.

The stereotype that a girl can be conquered and surprised only with expensive gifts and constant presents is actually wrong. If there is true love in a relationship, the girl’s approach to choosing a gift, symbolism and attention from the man will be important.

When presenting such gifts, a man should say some pleasant words, confess the depth of his feelings, and emphasize the outer and inner beauty of his chosen one by hugging her. Psychologists note that women are not able to resist tactile contact, which strengthens the fullness of emotions and feelings between partners. It is better to show such signs of attention in everyday life, when she least expects it.

Oral sex

Such caresses delight both men and women. Therefore, if you want to satisfy your girlfriend and truly get closer to her, do not give up cunnilingus. Often men simply don’t know how to approach a girl in this regard, and are afraid of doing something wrong. If you know that awkward feeling, don't worry, you're not alone. Find out how to properly caress a woman with your tongue:

Don't start foreplay with cunnilingus. Not all ladies liberate quickly; many need time to prepare for such an intimate act. Therefore, start with other caresses so that the girl is as relaxed as possible.
Let the woman know that this action really turns you on. Many ladies doubt that having a man's face in close proximity to her genitals can give a guy pleasure. Dissuade your chosen one if such thoughts enter her head.
Lay or sit your partner so that it is convenient for you to perform oral sex. There is no rush in this matter, so take care of mutual comfort.
Every woman likes a different pace and tongue movement. The basic technique includes the following steps:
periodically touching similar places with your fingers,
back and forth movements of the tongue in the vagina.
With your free hand, caress your partner’s other erogenous zones: stroke her stomach and inner thighs.
If a woman is very shy, and you really want to give her oral pleasure, try blindfolding the lady. This trick will make her switch her attention to tactile sensations and add spice to them.

Track the reaction and remember the girl’s preferences. Each time you will gain experience in oral sex and become a real master of cunnilingus.

Do what she loves

Due to the fact that most girls actively maintain pages on social networks, you can once again please her with recognition on VK or on another site by sending a postcard, a song that is associated with pleasant memories, poetry and prose. In the same way, you can show attention in SMS messages; basic wishes of good morning and good night will show how much a man cares about her.

You can emphasize how attentive a man is to her interests and passions by giving her tickets to a concert of her favorite performer or to a theater, gallery or museum, it all depends on what the chosen one gravitates towards more. If a girl loves sweets, you can surprise her by preparing a dessert. No woman can resist a romantic date organized personally for her.

Nice gift

In addition to verbal confessions, you can emphasize the seriousness of intentions and the depth of feelings with the help of pleasant gifts. A gift from a loved one is an integral part of a romantic story, which is made up of memories and pleasant impressions. Psychologists offer the top 5 ideas for nice gifts for your girlfriend; the following things are included in this list:

your own T-shirt, which will be an ideal thing for sleeping and getting even closer to the girl;
a paired souvenir or decoration, for example, personalized bracelets, keychains with joint photos, pendants, etc.;
flowers in a bouquet or in pots according to the girl’s preferences;
jewelry, if a man can afford such expenses, be it a bracelet or a ring;
a photo album with joint photographs collected in it and signed dates, events, memories.

Do you like to give gifts?

Not really

Gifts need to be given in doses, since many girls, due to the fact that a man pampers them, over time begin to perceive gifts as proper things.

Poses that girls like

All sex positions differ in that in each of them the vagina is stimulated differently (the penis enters at a different angle, stimulating one point or another). Here are examples of poses that give girls the most pleasure:

Knee-elbow pose (doggy style). According to statistics, many women achieve orgasm in this position, as there is the deepest penetration. Additional simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris (with your hand, crossing your legs, or asking your partner) will help bring orgasm closer.
Half-bridge. It looks almost the same as the regular missionary position, only the woman's back is arched and her pelvis is slightly raised, while her shoulders rest on the surface. This position allows your partner to penetrate deeper, thereby bringing you to the peak of pleasure.
Cowgirl (a woman sits on top of a man). The wider the partner's legs are spread, the deeper the penetration will be. A man can help a woman by lifting her with his hands and moving to the beat.
Advanced missionary - a woman lies down and throws her legs over her partner's shoulders. This position will ensure deep penetration. If you stimulate the clitoris with your hand during the process (or ask your partner), then orgasm will not take long to arrive.

Prepare something for her

To amaze a girl with creativity and originality, when flowers and sweets are already boring, a man can do something with his own hands. For example:

a diary with photographs of the girl and a description of her beauty with various compliments;
making her favorite dessert with her own hands;
learning to draw and draw her portrait;
writing your own poetry or writing a love letter;
organizing a flash mob;
an inscription on the asphalt with a declaration of love and much more.

The best thing a man can prepare for his chosen one is a romantic date. This could be a picnic in nature in some beautiful place, dinner on the beach at sunset, or dinner in a restaurant by candlelight and live music. Much depends on what the girl likes, what interests and hobbies she has.

Advice from psychologists

Psychologists are real experts in the field of love relationships, so you should listen to their advice. To make your beloved feel good, experts recommend:

Hug her from behind. Girls like this version of hugs. This can be done while she is washing dishes or doing other household chores. Showing affection will excite the chosen one, as a result of which she will quickly free herself from troubles.
Write love letters. It doesn't matter what kind of handwriting a guy has. A handwritten letter is a romantic gift that will remind your chosen one of her feelings.
Cook for a girl. Women like to see a man in the kitchen. In their opinion, it looks both cute and sexy. Regardless of what exactly a man cooks, his beloved will definitely appreciate his efforts.
Don't give up in difficult times. Every woman has troubles. At such moments, the young man should be close to his beloved. It is his care and support that she needs most.
Motivate her. Thanks to this, a woman will have a desire to improve herself.
To compliment. Many ladies have low self-esteem. The main task of a man is to raise her. To do this, he needs to talk about the beauty and uniqueness of his beloved so that she begins to believe in his words. As a result, the woman will blossom and feel more confident.
Take care not only of her, but also of yourself. A man must live up to his choice. Untidy appearance and bad manners do not attract women at all. It is recommended to take care of your appearance in order to inspire your chosen one.

Now every man will be able to please a young lady in bed, as well as on the Internet and in real life. This is universal advice, so it’s worth listening to it.

Do something for her parents

You can surprise a girl without any money in your pocket by being smart. The best approach to her heart is her parents, the most sacred thing every person has. The man must please her mother and father, showing seriousness of intentions and a good attitude towards the girl. When meeting mom, you definitely need to give compliments, for example, saying “Now I understand who my girlfriend is so beautiful.”

From time to time you need to give flowers not only to your beloved girl, but also to her mother, emphasizing your respect and gratitude for your daughter. You can give your father a gift in the form of a bottle of good alcohol or other things taking into account his type of activity and hobby. You can also periodically arrange family gatherings, outings, dinners together with your parents, emphasizing your respect.