How to prove to a girl that you love her?

How can you prove to a girl that you love her? In word and deed. Yes, women still love with their ears. But not for long. Your sincere confession will fade from the girl’s memory. You need to be reminded of your feelings. Regular and varied. This is not a lady's whim. What prevents modern young ladies from taking their word for it is the genetic drive to search for a worthy hunter and a cozy cave. Rarely does anyone manage to get to the registry office via a short, direct route. Don't expect to be the lucky exception. An exciting test drive awaits you: plans for the future, romantic shows, meeting your parents. But believe me, it's worth it. Let's look in detail at what steps you will have to go through to prove your sincere feelings to a girl.

Sweet messages for a girl

You know? I never, ever planned to love so much, and I never thought that I would think about you so often. But I like it!
You are my last thought when I go to bed at night and my first when I get up in the morning.
When you are with me, time stops and everything else in the world ceases to matter.
Do you know how wonderful it is to wake up every day knowing that I have you? You are ideal.
Do you know how magnets magically attract each other? This is how my heart feels when I'm with you. I can't even explain this attraction I feel.
This morning I woke up and walked around smiling, and then I realized that I was thinking about you.
I could spend every minute of the day with you and still feel like I'm not enough.
I always thought that “happiness” begins with the letter S, but now I know that it begins with M (the first letter of the girl’s name).
It means a lot to me to hear the sound of your voice every day.
I want time to stop when I'm with you, but it always finds a way to fly by.
You are the most beautiful girl I have ever seen. I love our nightly conversations and how you fall asleep on my chest when we watch movies.
You are such a bright light in my life that I almost don’t remember what my life was like before you showed up.
You understand me so well, it’s like you can read my thoughts.
My parents told me to never give up on my dreams while I was in school. That's why I'll never let you go, girl of my dreams.
With your beautiful smile you make my sadness disappear.
If I could grant a wish, I would give you the opportunity to see yourself through my eyes. Then you would understand how special you are to me.
Good morning. Tell me something in a voice message - if I hear your voice in the morning, my day will be better.
You have the most beautiful eyes I've ever seen.
You are the embodiment of my dreams.

Write a confession online

This is the simplest and most accessible option for letting a girl know that she is needed. You don't need to be a brave hero to do this, but it is better to think carefully about the heartbreaking text. True, you need to proceed from the characteristics of a particular young lady, because some may be afraid of such an outpouring of soul. You can start with minor hints in the form of short messages in the messenger or social network. Give compliments, as if by chance:

“I really like talking to you. I feel happier when I read your messages.”
“The weather is so nice today, but one thing is missing to make the day perfect - a walk with you.”
“I remembered you at work today and my soul felt so warm.”

Use light, unobtrusive humor in your messages, but beware of being rude and vulgar.
How to tell a girl that I need her in a simple and funny way?

“Remember Dobby from Harry Potter? Lately it has been reminiscent of my condition. So, you haven’t given me socks yet, so I will fulfill any of your wishes, madam. For example, if you want to take a walk with me today, then I simply will have no choice but to obey!”
“Listen, I know that you’ve been wanting to hang out with me for a long time, but you’re embarrassed to say so, so I’ll spare you the pain and invite you to have coffee today!”

Don’t be afraid to seem a little stupid, girls love such simplicity and melt from such humor.
Even if the lady hasn't thought about going on a date at all, she may find it fun to go out and have a fun evening. When you go for a walk, be not just a funny joker, but also give compliments regularly. Make her feel wanted and needed!

Serious confession

Writing a long letter with sincere feelings is a very risky step.
It can either endear you to you or repulse you forever. You need to study the girl’s nature and if she loves romance, then this option is suitable. However, you need to communicate with the lady for a long time before expressing important words.

Sometimes, a sincere confession will solve all the problems at once, and the girl will attack with kisses at the first meeting. And this happens, so you shouldn’t despair and think that this is a hopeless path.

The simplest, but not the most trouble-free, method2

If the guy’s goal is intimacy in itself, and not a long-term relationship, then the banal phrase “I want you” is quite suitable without any hints. Based on the girl’s reaction, it will be clear what she was counting on. A slap in the face means that the failed partner dreamed of a completely different development of the relationship. Intimacy with her, in this case, becomes a very vague prospect, not only today, but ever.

A possible reaction to this revelation could be the phrase “I’m not like that,” or “what, right away?” Then you can count on a positive result after several romantic dates, a moderate amount of compliments and strong drinks.

The answer may also be “I love you too.” This scenario is possible, but very rare.

Therefore, we recommend that you familiarize yourself with practical ways to persuade a girl to have intimacy in our next article.

How to prove your love to a girl through actions

So, you've made up your mind. How to prove to a girl your love for her? How to convince your friend that you love her, will not leave her and will be faithful to her?

In addition to traditional courtship and such signs of attention as meeting, holding, congratulating on the holiday, inviting on a pleasant date, giving flowers, bringing medicine, if the girl is sick, you also need to take into account the individual characteristics of the young lady. You must learn to listen to what she says herself, to decipher the hints that she gives to you. Understand what exactly a particular lady needs and do it. This way she will distinguish you from other men who tried to court her in a stereotyped manner. Moreover, sometimes a woman doesn’t even care about typical trips to a restaurant or gifts; your efforts without specifying what exactly she needs will simply be in vain or even misinterpreted.

Everyone has their own love language, a channel through which they best receive signs of attention and interpret them as manifestations of unambiguous self-love. Determine what your girlfriend's love language is and act in its direction. There may be several such channels, but usually from one to three. Let's look at the most common love languages, including words, help, time, touch and gifts.

How to prove your love to a girl in words? Words as a language of admiration for a girl are a very common channel. Women love, as you know, with their ears. Almost all women love compliments, and for some this channel is dominant. When this is the case for your chosen one, you just need to learn to admire her and regularly express it in words. This way she will receive the inspiration and boost of energy she needs. You will become simply a pleasant person for her, and over time, a necessary person, because she will receive attention from you in a language she understands.

Help is the language of benefit. If you determine that a girl is extremely pleased to receive help from you, even if you are not an expert in the right areas, always try to show your participation and attention to her requests for support and assistance in practical matters. This language can be mistakenly interpreted as a search for benefits through relationships, an attempt to solve one’s problems through a man. However, for a girl whose language of help is the main one, this is a natural manifestation of love. To identify it, watch how she acts when there is a chance to help you. If she tries to participate, it means she would also like to receive such signs of attention.

The language of time is time spent together. For example, these are walks in the park, joint, even the simplest communication. If this love language is native to a girl, she may even love to sit silently next to you, to be together even without talking or doing things together.

It’s interesting and at the same time not always easy at the beginning, when a girl’s dominant love language is touch. She vitally needs hugs, kisses, stroking. When she is tired or sad, and you just hug her, give her a massage, she will not only relax, get the kinesthetic sensations she needs so much, but will also feel great gratitude to you and will become even more drawn to such a caring and sensitive man. Give her touch, she appreciates it both in itself and as a prelude to intimacy, which is very important to her. The chosen one with a pronounced channel of touch will treat intimacy with all emotional depth; sexual compatibility, the sensuality of her partner and his ability to give her pleasure are extremely important to her.

The next language, the language of gifts, like compliments, also belongs to the traditional channel of courtship. It is worth saying here that for some women it is, however, not so important, for others it is so important that they may be considered materialistic and too concentrating on things. Although receiving a gift from a man for such a woman is not a benefit, but a sign of attention and love. This channel, like others, comes from childhood, even then she had the idea that if she loves, it means she gives gifts. This can no longer be changed. Without paying attention to the natural language of love, you can only leave the lady with a feeling of being unloved, no matter how hard you try to prove your love for the girl in other ways.

Determine exactly which love languages your girlfriend perceives, and do something that is addressed to her channels of perception. For example, if this is touching and at the same time gifts, give her a massage course. If in addition there is time, then take the course with her. Or, for example, you found out that your praise and help are important to a girl - remember what the girl asked you for, what she designated as her need, and do it. And then also praise her for the fact that she herself copes with something perfectly. Move away from the stereotyped signs of attention, be unique, and you will become indispensable to her. She will appreciate that you heard and felt her for who she is - this will be the best proof of love for the girl.

What to write in the morning?

Don’t bombard her with messages in the morning, because she just woke up and is getting ready for school or work. In order not to distract her, it is better to simply wish her good morning and success during the day.

How and what to write to a girl in the morning “hello” to make her melt? The subtle art of compliment will undoubtedly help here. Telling her how much you need her and how you feel will give her the confidence she needs to tackle important tasks. The girl will be grateful to you, which will certainly strengthen your friendship. Here are some good options:

“Let the sunbeam give you its tenderness and wake you up with a light touch.”
“When you wake up, the black and white universe is filled with bright colors.”
“Now the birds outside the window sang to me that a new wonderful day has begun for the most wonderful girl in the world.”
"I am in the excellent mood. I divide it in half, into you and me, and send you wishes for a successful day.”
“Did you order a cloudless sky, a clear sun and a wonderful day for the sleeping beauty? Then accept and sign.”

If you've been in a relationship for a long time, the message may be more intimate:

“Good morning, beauty. I feel the aftertaste of our wonderful night. I remember the scent of your beautiful body. From the first days of our acquaintance, I knew that I was not mistaken about you. For me, you are the most ideal girl."
“Thank you for the passionate night. I hope you were still able to rest and gain strength. Have a nice day! Will meet in the evening. Your loving man."

What nice things can you write to your girlfriend on VKontakte if you are not nearby? Tell her how sad and bored you are because of the separation:

“Honey, good morning. Now we are far from each other, and I really want to wake you up with my hot kisses, hugs and breakfast in bed.”
“Darling, being away from you I appreciate your affection and care even more. I miss your warmth so much.”
“We are separated by distance, but in my dream today we made love tenderly and passionately. I look forward to making the dream come true.”
“We're apart and it's hard. But when you wake up, come to the window: we can see the beginning of a new day together. And I know that at this moment you will smile.”
“It’s bad weather outside, but I’m warmed by the thought that somewhere a loved one is waiting for me. You are the source of my strength."

If you live with a girl, a nice message that you write in your own words will refresh your feelings. Don't miss the opportunity to remind her of your love.

“My gentle sun, illuminate the world with your radiance. Adore you. Good day to you!”
“The most charming and attractive, good morning! May your eyes always shine with happiness and may the smile never leave your face.”
"You are my joy. I'm proud of you. May your day be filled with pleasant events and nothing will overshadow it.”
“This morning is like you: just as fresh, cloudless and sunny. May it bring you goodness, good luck, small and big joys.”
“In the morning all the stars go out. And only one, the brightest and most desirable, illuminates my path day and night.”
“Let the new day give you only positive impressions and emotions. And in the evening, a romantic dinner by candlelight with your faithful knight awaits you in our castle.”

Morning messages will help a girl understand that you are thinking about her from the first minutes of your awakening. Wishes for a good day will give you the vigor and energy necessary to achieve important goals.

The most common mistakes

Before you think about how to tell a girl that I need her, read about the mistakes that most guys make when trying to establish contact with a lady:

Weak character. Never write snotty little phrases to a lady like: “I can’t live without you,” “I feel very bad without you,” etc. They don’t like whiners, even if the girls themselves think in such categories. Even if whining works, they will date you out of pity and then leave for another man.
Annoyance. Under no circumstances write tons of messages with declarations of love.
Especially don't do this if the lady doesn't answer any of them. Have patience! A woman needs time to think. If she sees a flurry of emotions in thousands of messages, she will close the correspondence in a panic and turn on ignore. Ultimately, she will begin to be annoyed by the intrusiveness and you may simply be blocked.
Aggression. Yes, persistence is important in a pickup truck, but it has nothing to do with aggressiveness. Don't put pressure on the girl with constant offers of meeting or hints about sex. Any decent woman would simply tell such a sex hunter to go to hell. Stop demanding answers to your queries, otherwise the person will simply withdraw and become afraid.
Don't be full of quotes. If you want to seem like an intelligent person, then quote great people in moderation. Communicate in your own words and don't show off, because you may come across as an arrogant asshole.

#2 Think inappropriate things

Eye contact alone is not enough to create sexual tension.

It is what your gaze carries that determines whether a girl will be interested in you or turn away irritably.

And what influences this view? – Your thoughts that are running through your head. It is they who are reflected for us in the eyes of a man. You can treat this as you like, but try to check it and you will see that this is actually the case.

That's why if you're nervous and tell yourself that you're a loser that no woman would want to sleep with, then it's a guarantee that we'll think that about you too.

Some people argue that you should think positive thoughts, tell yourself what a great guy you are, and that any woman would be lucky to meet a man like you.

While this is better than the suicidal self-flagellation that many guys think about, it is also not a good strategy.

In fact, it’s much more effective and damn much more seductive - if you have hooligan thoughts when you look into a girl’s eyes.

You are free to think whatever you want, but it should excite you.

Maybe it's you imagining her naked next to you later that night, or the different ways you please each other.

When you think of something naughty, it puts a satisfied grin on your face and shows off your sassy confidence that no girl can resist.

We pick up on the sexual challenge you are throwing out and this in turn makes us think about pleasure and you right now!

From the realm of fantasy

To begin with, you should know that girls, like boys, periodically experience attacks of sexual desire. It doesn’t matter whether she has a relationship or not. If you have a partner, then you won’t have to hint at anything. The girl herself will talk about her desires and show readiness for intimacy.

If there is no partner, then someone will be lucky that evening to meet her in a club or bar and receive an unexpected sexual gift without any preliminary courtship. But such female behavior is rare, so it would be a good idea for a guy to learn how to hint to a girl about intimacy.

How is this possible?

Communicate with us without words. More specifically, show that you have those character traits that unconsciously turn us on.

These are, for example, confidence, social and emotional (EQ) intelligence, dominance, charm and playfulness.

Most men (to your delight) have absolutely no idea what they can convey and demonstrate all this BEFORE they approach a woman.

Let me share with you three ways to create a strong sex drive in any girl before you even talk to her.

#1 Let her catch you

If you're going to take a girl, take it! Jokes aside, but nevertheless, there is some truth here.

There is nothing more unpleasant for a girl than to catch the eye of a guy looking at her only to have him immediately look away, as if he had been grabbed by the hand, like a naughty child who stole candy.

"It's not me! I’m actually sitting here, fixing the primus.”

Here's the thing. If you don't even have the strength and self-confidence to look at us without apology and feeling some kind of terrible embarrassment, then there is a high probability that you do not have the opportunity to give us the sexual experience that we fantasize about. This is the logic, female.

Plus, in order for sexual attraction to arise, the situation must be like a two-way street. That is, there must be a mutual event with the consequence:

- you noticed each other;

— you had a feeling that something else might happen.

Looking at the girl and not looking away is the best way to do this and thus communicate that you are not afraid to show your sexual interest.

Afterword

Take into account not only personal characteristics, but also age. At 20 years old, girls are more attracted to romance, at 30 years old - stability, thoughts about family, building a career.

Beware of psychological vampires, extortionists, manipulators. If a girl is playing with you, she enjoys the very fact of manipulation, of being forced to prove her love, then this is obviously a losing game. Vampire girls' favorite game is Dynamo. Consider whether you are wasting your potential.

Determination

So, seducing a girl without words means you need to find determination. But I’m not talking about the confidence that psychologists constantly talk about, but about something else. About your intention. The goal is to seduce this particular girl.

The point is that when a person knows how to do something right, he doesn't feel like crazy.

Guys who understand WHAT they want and why they do things have a HUGE advantage when it comes to attracting and seducing girls.

There is some subtle feature of female perception here - such men, just by their appearance, ALREADY made a pleasant and captivating impression and awakened sexual desires deep inside us. Long before they take a step towards us.

How to prove to a girl that you love her

Some believe that love, as an axiom, does not require proof. This is partly true, because if feelings really exist, they are rushing out, they are simply difficult to hide. However, there are situations when love still has to be confirmed with something.

How to prove to a girl your love for her, and is it necessary to do it? Sometimes a girl doubts a guy’s feelings due to negative experiences from past relationships. Women tend to be amorous, to get caught up in emotions, and perhaps she opened up too much earlier, which she shouldn’t have done, as it turned out. Now she has met sincere love, but no longer believes in it at all or constantly periodically goes into doubt. If you decide to overcome her negative programs and set out to find ways to prove your love for a girl, you should succeed. Women love persistent guys, and a man who truly loves and seeks reciprocity usually gets it.

If a girl has had a bad experience and has formed a negative program about relationships, she may believe that love does not exist at all or that men are not capable of love. Sometimes this manifests itself hidden, in the subconscious structures of the psyche. A girl herself may dream of building a relationship, thinking that nothing is stopping her personally, but constantly seek confirmation of her negative attitude from the outside. Then she will interpret any event as an obstacle to the development of relations; if even a hypothetical rival arises, she will distance herself, and in the event of conflicts, she will immediately give up. Accordingly, building a relationship will become almost impossible, since she is unconsciously against them, believes that they will not happen, and even expects a break in order to confirm her negative picture.

An observant, loving guy here may notice that from time to time the actions of such a young lady can be focused on breaking up the relationship directly or can provoke a breakup. And this, naturally, does not happen due to her sincere desire, but due to the work of these negative programs. It’s great if the guy is reasonable and has a stable psyche to resist such provocations and try to strengthen, build and protect the relationship.

But the question arises, how to prove to a girl that you love her? A guy can prove love by deed, demonstrating that he is not one of those who will betray. And this is not a quick way, a woman always needs proof of love, this is not a matter of one day, not one month, not one year. Therefore, a guy needs to initially examine his feelings, whether they are so strong, and whether he is so interested in this woman. After all, in fact, it is very difficult to maintain the purity and strength of feelings for that person who is endowed with a negative program and constantly provokes and tests love for strength. This kind of work is not easy. There will be behavior on the part of a distrustful girl that will one day make you want to stop fighting, give up, and break up with her.

Only a strong man who is firmly convinced that they will eventually build a strong relationship together can truly prove his love by convincing the girl and dispelling her fears. When a young lady with all her appearance, with all her actions, tries to destroy everything, to show that she doesn’t need you as a guy, is not interesting, that she really is not capable of love - a guy who decides to prove love must stick to his goal. Negative programs are easily capable of destroying something that has a wormhole, that is built on “sand”.

A couple initially brings together people who often sincerely love, are compatible, and dote on their souls. But gradually the negative program begins to spoil the relationship, people can break up - not because they are no longer suitable for each other, but simply because they were unable to maintain the relationship that they like, were unable to resist their negative unconscious expectations and false life scenarios. Having set a goal to achieve a relationship, a guy can actually achieve it, the only question is with what effort, and whether he is ready for it. It will be necessary to show remarkable perseverance, invest a lot of energy and not give in, not change the goal, even when there is a very powerful provocation coming from the negative attitudes of your girlfriend. The attack streak of negative programs also ends. Obstacles to building a relationship will strengthen you if you can overcome them and continue on the path. Only such a long-term confirmation of love can prove it to a girl. A simple show of affection from time to time can also attract a lady's attention only for a while.