We may be interested in how to build a house, a bathhouse, a factory, an enterprise, a business, a rocket or a ship. But for some reason we pay much less attention to how to build strong and healthy relationships. Meanwhile, this question is no less serious than all of the above, because by laying the foundation and laying out “brick” after “brick” in a relationship with a loved one, we ultimately build a real palace. And someone creates a blooming garden. And for some, relationships are akin to outer space. But in any case, building relationships is an idea, for the successful implementation of which you need to have the necessary knowledge and skills. And in this collection we will introduce you to important nuances regarding this issue.
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Why does a person need a relationship: answers from psychologists
The relationship between a man and a woman is a specific topic, so it makes sense to immediately clarify what we will talk about in the article, and what exactly is meant by the word “why”. We are not going to tell the obvious to those who already know why they need a relationship. Our task, firstly, is to present academic concepts in simple human language. And, secondly, to find in the depths of academic science something interesting and useful that will most vividly and imaginatively illuminate the question “Why does a person need a relationship?” and maybe help you find your own exclusive answer. Read more…
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What kind of relationships are there?
We all understand what a relationship between a guy and a girl is. Each person had their own unique experience.
You also need to understand that there are two types of relationships:
- Polygamous. This is an open relationship. Polygamy is a very poorly common type of relationship.
- Exclusive (monogamous) . The majority are in exclusive relationships; this is when there is a girl and a guy 1 on 1.
Only you decide which choice to make between them
What choice to make is only your priority and your choice .
Only you can decide what kind of relationship you want. Both relationships have their pitfalls.
It turns out that many people fall into exclusive relationships unconsciously .
Polygamous relationships are more a matter of choice.
Top 7 sure signs that they are trying to take advantage of you
In this life, one way or another, we all use someone for our own purposes. Bosses use workers as hired labor, suppliers use customers as a source of money, wives use husbands to carry heavy loads, husbands use wives to cook food and wash shirts. In all these cases there is some kind of mutual exchange. So, just if no exchange occurs, it’s time to suspect that they are trying to use you in the worst sense of the word. How to recognize manipulation? In this article we will talk about the most striking and common signs. Read more…
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To live together or not to live: advantages and disadvantages
When you have been dating for some time, the question arises: “Should you live together or not?”
Let's first remove questions about money, about a place to live, who will move to whom.
When you start living together , you need to say 2 important things:
- You spend more time together and begin to depend on household factors . You need to understand that when you live together, relationships begin to develop differently.
- There must be an understanding that the candy bouquet period will pass for you . The chemistry and psychology of the relationship between a guy and a girl changes, an eerie mutual love passes at some point. According to various studies, this happens from 3 months to 2 years, and you will have to move to some other plane.
Are joint goals an illusion or a way to strengthen relationships?
People who are even slightly interested in the psychology of relationships in couples have already repeatedly come across tons of advice on how to strengthen their relationships. And among these tons of advice, the recommendation to have common interests and common goals ranks high. This is, in general, correct, but a thoughtful reader and attentive observer still gets a feeling of either understatement or inconsistency. Why is that? Yes, because the concept of “joint goals” is much broader than advice to start learning English together or going to dances. In this article we will try to consider this issue as objectively as possible. Read more…
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In what cases does polygamy occur?
First of all, it is the guy’s understanding of how much he needs other girls besides the main one.
Polygamous relationships also occur in cases:
- When a guy doesn't have a main girlfriend.
- When a man leads a free lifestyle and he simply loves freedom.
I'm talking about polygamous relationships, which are still a choice . That is, a man has relationships with girls after intimacy, and he has several of them.
Joint goals and top 12 ways to look for them
Finding common goals, despite the complexity of the process, makes sense to strengthen relationships. If a couple manages to find a common goal, such an alliance becomes a hundred times stronger and more reliable than any other tandems that go with the flow and don’t even really know what they want from each other, except money and sex. And even the very process of such a search will already be rewarded with greater mutual understanding, mutual respect and mutual interest in each other as individuals. Even if you don’t yet want to overshadow the cloudlessness of your romantic relationship with some kind of goals, it doesn’t matter, just start a dialogue now, while you are ready to listen to each other endlessly and enjoy every minute when the two of you are together. And we will help you with this. Read more…
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Psychology of relationships between a man and a woman - 6 simple rules
How to build harmonious, mature, respectful and, most importantly, long-term relationships? Now you will read about six rules, six pillars on which psychologically healthy, resourceful relationships rest, and if you manage to integrate these rules into the relationships of your family, your fairy tale will have a happy ending!
Rule #1: Mindfulness
If you often argue with your partner and have difficulty achieving mutual understanding, then my new book “Into a happy relationship through self-love” is for you. After reading it, you will not only master the psychology of communication, but also, by introducing exercises from the book into your own relationships, you will finally give yourself a full-fledged “happily ever after.”
I included in the book all the most common problems that clients come to me with, and told me how to solve them - in theory and in practice. After reading it, you will learn how to get rid of love addiction, remain faithful in a relationship, regain passion and maintain interest in each other. The book is about how to resolve conflicts, competently defend your boundaries, find a way out when interests do not coincide, and communicate so that everyone is satisfied with themselves and each other.
After reading the book, you will be able to achieve a healthy union, which is initially built on a conscious attitude and self-love. After all, the foundation of a healthy relationship is the ability to listen to your own needs and, based on them, build communication with your partner.
Even if it seems to you that your union is already on the brink, if desired, it can be restored and even turned 180 degrees if you know the psychology of communication and introduce its methods into your relationship.
And if you are free, then you are in an even more advantageous position. After reading the book, you will know how to immediately build the next relationship correctly, without working on mistakes.
You can read the full description and reviews, as well as purchase the book here.
Happy reading and happy family life!
Rule #2: "Winners"
As you already know from the beginning of the article, one of the main mistakes in relationships is lack of faith in a partner, as well as words and actions that degrade his dignity. Where he failed, your partner knows himself. Nowadays, a psychologically healthy, harmonious person starts relationships for pleasure, in order to be happier, to share his joy with others and increase it in size. To achieve this goal, both partners give each other good, pleasant and useful words, actions and even thoughts. They are interested in each other's development and each helps their partner achieve success in all areas.
What does this require? Sincere, genuine faith in your partner. Words that increase his self-esteem and his belief in himself. Actions aimed at increasing his self-worth and confidence. Thoughts about his success, growth and development, sincere wishes for him all the best.
All this will give your partner energy and inspiration, thanks to which he will believe in himself, will achieve his goals and, most importantly, will love you more and more every day.
It is important for everyone to hear words of support from the person closest to them, to know that they have something to rely on and that there is someone who believes in them. After all, if a loved one believes in you, do you really have a chance of not believing in yourself?
A woman who gives a man energy and inspiration, believes in him and openly talks about it every day, a man will never leave. He will appreciate her and will do anything for her, just to feel that she believes and know that she considers him a winner.
The psychology of relationships between a man and a woman is as follows: sincere interest in the happiness of another gives rise to an energy exchange aimed at developing the partner’s abilities, talents, achievements, as well as increasing his emotional level and quality of life.
“You are talented, smart, effective, skillful,” “you are strong, you know how to get things done, capable, worthy of the best.” “You will succeed.”
It would seem such simple words. Why don't most couples say these to each other every day, and stubbornly continue to get divorced? It’s good that you are no longer one of them, and soon your relationship will turn 180 degrees towards happiness.
I also made a video for you “Psychology of relationships between a man and a woman”, in which I talk about how to come to complete well-being and mutual understanding in a relationship:
Rule #3: “Helpers”
Let's remember the second mistake in relationships - don't do everything yourself. Learn to ask for help and then thank for the help provided. Any person wants to feel needed and in demand, and, as you remember, it is requests for help that make a person understand that his partner needs him, is in demand and is irreplaceable. Ask your partner to help you and accept this help with joy and gratitude. Ask for help sincerely, and then your partner will know that you need him. It is so important for him to feel important. And sometimes it’s so important for you to unwind, relax and get help from your loved one. As a result of such an exchange, both partners benefit, and the relationship wins: one receives help, and the other is convinced of his importance and hears words of gratitude that inspire him to do even more and better for his partner.
Rule #4: “Fight the right way”
It is generally accepted that a quarrel or conflict is something negative, leading to not the most favorable consequences for relationships. But a conflict is a clash of interests, which means it’s a great opportunity to get to know each other better and take relationships to a new level. Now I will tell you how not only not to quarrel, but also to make a quarrel a turning step towards rapprochement.
You need to communicate politely but firmly. Never raise your voice to your partner. There is an opinion that a person shouts when he wants to be heard. But it has long been proven that the human psyche reacts in exactly the opposite way: a person stops hearing you just at the moment when you raise your voice at him. Thus, you should only yell at your partner if you want your conversation to lose all meaning.
Start every argument on the good side: talk about what is positive about your partner and what he does for you and for the relationship. It is important that your words are sincere and that you really mean it.
Talk about the feelings and emotions that you experience. “I feel bad that we don’t have this”... “I’m offended that”...
When you are sure that you have been heard, express your wishes. What do you want? “I would be extremely pleased if next time we”...
The main rule is that you communicate sincerely and frankly. They didn’t fuss and didn’t look for workarounds, but said what they thought. But in a new constructive form. Don’t say the pronoun “you,” because after it, just like with a raised voice, a person stops hearing you. “You couldn’t”, “you forgot” - is perceived as a claim, and the first reaction of the human psyche to such words is to defend yourself, and not to listen.
Your task is to make sure that the person hears you and listens. Therefore, replace “you’re bad” with “it’s unpleasant for me,” and “how could you” with “it’s hard for me, I’m offended.”
As a psychologist, in consultation via Skype, I can help you resolve family conflicts and learn to understand each other better, as well as correctly convey your interests to the person, so that he hears you, and you can come to the most favorable decision for both.
You can sign up for a consultation and see the cost using the link, and you can read reviews about me and my work here.
Rule #5: “Love”
Myself. Only those relationships where everyone loves themselves can be harmonious. Where everyone has their own territory, which does not depend on their loved one.
What is self-love and one’s own territory in a relationship? Your own territory means interests, thoughts, your own world, independent of anyone. Self-love in a relationship is when I can make myself happy by having my own territory, I can generate happiness and joy because I know myself, I am a separate person, I know what makes me happy. And I create relationships in order to share this happiness with others and thereby increase it in size.
What does the lack of territory and self-love look like in a relationship? The lack of one's own territory stimulates the desire to occupy the territory of another. Control, check, depend, doubt, suffer in his absence, wait, worry, get angry that he came later or didn’t call back right away. Such a person does not love himself. He encroaches on the territory of another and, like a bath leaf, clings to his partner and begins to choke him with his “love.” He does not have his own territory, no interesting exciting work, no close friends, personal hobbies and hobbies, and he smears relationships across all the voids of other areas of life. If the other has his own territory and loves himself, then such a relationship is doomed to failure. After all, it is impossible to force love. You can only inspire love. And the one who stands with a rolling pin at the entrance when you are three minutes late home does not inspire love.
A harmonious relationship is where everyone loves themselves, has their own life, is a separate person, does not try to merge with a partner and control him, simply because he has his own life, which is of the greatest interest to him. A harmonious relationship is when you feel good together and you give each other joy and pleasure. But you are fine without each other. You can read more about what self-love is in this article.
Thus, the basis of any happy relationship is, first of all, a happy relationship with yourself. And in order for you to build a relationship filled with love and respect, first you need to learn to love and respect yourself, to become a separate person with your own separate territory.
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Rule #6: “Speak up”
Talk to each other. Never overthink, do not build illusions from fragments of phrases and hints. Don't leave anything unsaid between you. And stop thinking that your partner will figure it out on his own. Men, for example, do not build canvases of illusions and guesses, as women sometimes do. They perceive direct conversations much easier and practically do not recognize signs and omissions. And women who tend to think and guess are, perhaps, an even greater threat to relationships. After all, a man will ask, ask again, and find out. But the woman herself will come up with an idea, she will be offended, and who knows what consequences this may have! And sometimes, of course, the opposite happens.
So speak, speak! Do this calmly, politely, but firmly. Speak your mind. Let your partner understand what you really want. Talk about how you feel (even if your mother said that you have to endure it. Remember the beginning of the article - my mother did not know psychology).
Nowadays, relationships are created in order to be happy. Do everything described in this article, and over time you will succeed.
Maintaining personal space in family and relationships
Many people know the feeling when loving people look forward to a wedding celebration and, full of hope and enthusiasm, begin life together under one roof. From now on, they must share affairs, worries and everyday life with each other. Now they will fall asleep and wake up together, cook, receive guests, celebrate memorable dates, get ready for work and plan vacations. A harmonious life together is a great value, but harmony can only be achieved if partners respect each other’s personal space. In today's article we will talk about personal space from the perspective of family and relationships. Read more…
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What is psychological comfort?
A person is essentially an egoist and first of all takes care of himself. Subconsciously, everyone is afraid of being used, so they pull the blanket over themselves. And only after understanding and realizing that love is, first of all, giving, a person begins to experience comfort and satisfaction from communicating with his soulmate.
Some tips for creating harmonious relationships
A distinctive, but far from very pleasant feature of modernity is that life is increasingly filled with substituted, and mainly material, values. True values such as trust, love, family, friendship, etc. faded into the background somewhere. However, somewhere inside, in the hidden corners of the mind, in the depths of the soul, thoughts still appear that something is wrong. And if these thoughts are allowed to develop, they will inevitably lead to the understanding that in life the first place should not be money, not power or fame, but a person’s relationship with himself and with others, and even more so with loved ones. people. In this article we will talk specifically about the topic of relationships between two people, namely: how to build a harmonious relationship with a loved one. Read more…
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What you should never do - 3 forbidden tricks in relationships
Most of us grew up in Soviet times, and our parents and grandparents, who grew up in Soviet times, passed on their way of thinking and beliefs to us. In the post-war period, people got married because it was impossible to survive alone, and many families were created on the basis of the proverb “if you endure it, you fall in love.” There was no trace of any psychology of relationships back then, and therefore their relationships are for us rather an indicator of how not to do things, how not to communicate and how not to live. But unknowingly, we nevertheless adopted their model of behavior, which successfully earned ≈80% of divorces. So, what did they do that we should never repeat?
Technique #1: “Losers”
The first thing that was almost customary was to insult each other and inadvertently say that “you’re a simpleton and a fool, and you won’t succeed,” “no one needs you but me,” “you’ve always been a loser.” and stuff like that. In other words, there was a lack of support and protection in the relationship, and mutual jokes that humiliated dignity and lowered self-esteem became more rude and painful every year.
You must understand that popular psychology did not exist back then, and the foundation of relationships was in most cases forced or forced. Many people did not know what a resourceful and healthy relationship was. But now you are reading this article, and it is your duty to pass on to your children and grandchildren a new, psychologically healthy model of relationships. After all, no matter how many smart books your children read about this, unconsciously they will still internalize the model of their parents’ relationships, that is, yours.
Mutual reproaches and insults, lack of faith in your partner are a great force. A woman who does not believe in her man’s success, does not respect him and allows herself insulting words towards him, can turn a charismatic and successful man into a typical “couch character” with a low standard of living and a complete lack of self-confidence. A man who doesn’t value his woman at all can also easily, in a few years or even months, turn a beautiful, blossoming woman into a worthless, hunched over little thing who really becomes “nobody needs anyone else but him.”
Why is this happening? Because anyone, even the most self-confident person with a core of steel, hearing the same words addressed to him, sooner or later begins to believe in them. Call your partner a loser every day, and after some time he will start thinking about himself too, and the time is not far off when he will actually turn into a complete loser. As they say, whatever you name the ship, that’s how it will sail.
Sometimes it seems that many people take pleasure in showing their partner that he did everything wrong, he did not succeed, and he is nothing. Perhaps this is the biggest mistake in a relationship, as well as the most traumatic thing for a person - immersing him in a feeling of failure and unfulfilled expectations. If you act this way, you will never see a successful partner next to you. In this unhealthy atmosphere, your partner will fade away day by day, and will cease to be desired and loved for you and for himself.
Technique #2: “We ourselves”
Another big mistake of that time, which we successfully adopted from our grandparents, is that we should not rely on anyone, we should not ask anyone for help, and we should solve all our problems ourselves.
Human psychology is such that he can and sometimes wants to solve the problems of his partner; deep down, every person enjoys helping. But only in those cases when they ask him for help and easily accept it from him. If, for example, a woman makes it clear to a man that she refuses his help, he will most likely stop offering it over time. Because refusal of help is perceived by a person as uselessness and lack of demand.
What do we end up with? Cheating, separation, divorce. And all because the spouses, proudly announcing to each other that they do not need anyone’s help, eventually begin to feel unclaimed and not needing each other. Women came to me for consultations who never asked their husbands for anything, did everything themselves and believed that he should be grateful to them for this. And then, one fine day, the husband left for another. Because he did not feel his strength and irreplaceability, being next to a woman who did not need anything from him. And the other one probably needed his help, which means, in his opinion, he needed him too. Any person is happy when he is asked to help, because it means that he is valued and valued.
In the modern world, both a man and a woman can exist without a relationship, both can support themselves and, if necessary, call a “husband for an hour.” And, doing everything on their own and not feeling their own relevance in relationships, people cease to understand why they need relationships at all.
In the case when a man does not ask for help and believes that he must do everything himself, the situation is also deplorable. When such a man finds himself in a psychologist’s office, it turns out that he shares practically nothing with either his friends or his wife. It’s somehow “not accepted” among friends, “I’ll look like a weakling,” “they’ll make fun of me.” And the wife - “Who will she rely on, who will be her support and protection, if I myself need her help? She will stop perceiving me as a protector, she will stop respecting me.”
As a rule, after several consultations we find out that all these thoughts are delusions generated by the ancient negative attitudes of the father or grandmother. Having dispelled these misconceptions, we come to the conclusion that sharing problems and asking for help is one of the things that preserves and fills relationships with pleasant joy, binds people to each other even closer and gives both partners an important reason to love each other.
Technique #3: “Strong and independent”
This mistake is similar to the previous one, but differs in that the person not only does not accept help from his partner, but also tries to compete with him.
We live in a world where long-term relationships are only possible for two opposite roles. Even among same-sex couples, roles are often distributed in two different directions and both partners complement each other in everything. If one is better at cooking, then let the other fix the plumbing. And if two people in a couple try to be equally strong and perform the same roles, such relationships are usually doomed to failure.
Nature will strive to make opposites out of them. So, if a woman takes on male roles, her level of the male hormone testosterone may well increase. Such a testosterone-rich couple will have excellent, stormy sex for the first time. Then the man’s testosterone level will begin to fall, it will become weaker, and he will begin to have problems with erection. Over time, he will lose interest in his strong woman. And it will be better for him if this happens as soon as possible. Otherwise, he may lose his job, self-confidence, and besides, his body will weaken, he will become more fragile and feminine. So, it is completely unprofitable for a man to be in a relationship with a strong woman, otherwise nature, striving for eternal balance, will make him a weak man.
And this is not about the fact that a woman should be weak and a man should be strong. This means that in a couple no one should compete with each other. If you find yourself wanting to earn not just a lot, but more than your partner; on the desire to be brighter, better, more beautiful, more interesting than him. On the desire to stand out against its background. Or the fact that you are insulted and humiliated by his successes, while you fail. All this may mean that you unconsciously have a burning desire to be better than him, to defeat him.
So, these were the three most common mistakes in relationships. Of course, there are many more such mistakes in life. And in those couples where partners make these mistakes, discord in the relationship occurs quite quickly. Avoid them if you want to create harmony and comfort in your family.
Sternberg's three-part theory of love
We invite you to get acquainted with the extremely interesting three-component theory of love by psychologist Robert Sternberg. He identifies three fundamental components of love and several of its forms, based on different combinations of these components. These components include intimacy (meaning a sense of unity, belonging, cohesion, connectedness), passion (meaning sexual attraction and accompanying romantic relationships) and commitment (in the short term, the desire to stay with your partner, and in the long term, the creation of joint plans ). Do you think all the components are present in your life? What is your form of love called? Read more…
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Books about unhealthy relationships
“Assertiveness. Have your say. Say no. Set boundaries. "Get Control" by Patrick King
Patrick King, author of books and business coach, teaches how to competently defend your interests and protect your boundaries. And this is a real practical guide for those who suffer from chronic forms of their own helpfulness.
The author also offers readers a unique 27-day plan for emergency strengthening of their own borders.
Buy a book
"It's Complicated" by Harriet Lerner
Resentment, despair, anger - these emotions poison the life of a couple. Doctor of Philosophy and psychotherapist Harriet Lerner explains how to regain happiness and enjoy communication. Her advice will help you gain wisdom and self-confidence.
With the help of the author, you will also understand why it is so important to be able to hear and listen and what our loved ones really want from us.
Five love languages
Have you ever felt like you were talking to your other half “in different languages”? Do you feel that you are sincerely expressing your love, but you are not understood? Why is this happening? It's not enough to be sincere; you and your partner need to speak the same love language. This is a very important step towards harmony and happy relationships. If we express and perceive love in different ways, we will mistakenly believe that love does not manifest itself in any way. What are the different love languages? How to determine them? How to learn to “speak” them? How to avoid misunderstandings and how will this improve your relationship? Answers to all questions in this article. Read more…
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How can a guy position himself correctly for polygamy?
Be honest with yourself and with the girl.
Tell her right away that you don't want an exclusive relationship.
Tell her about the friends you're dating.
Say that you also like her and you don’t know what will happen next.
Let her understand this completely and open up to her from the beginning.
So a man gives a girl a choice: either she takes it completely, or leaves.
She understands everything.
How to tune your brain for harmonious relationships
Why is communication necessary even for an introvert? What prevents us from building harmonious relationships? How can you learn to enjoy meetings with friends, relatives and colleagues? Psychiatrist Amy Banks answers these questions in her book On the Same Wavelength. But if you don’t have the opportunity to read it yet, our article will help you. We will briefly look at the author's main ideas: we will talk about neural pathways of communication and talk about the importance of such things as acceptance, calmness, resonance and energy. We think that after reading the article, at a minimum, your knowledge base will be replenished, and at most, your perception of relationships and even your partner will change. Read more…
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Types of relationships
In nature, there are different types of biotic relationships : symbiosis, cooperation, mutualism, commensalism, tenantry, predation, parasitism, competition, neutralism, amensalism. These are the types of relationships between organisms in nature.
Types of relationships between people:
Related
Kinship relationships involve interactions between close and distant relatives. This is an area of life in which we do not choose our environment.
Relationships with parents are of great importance in life.
Friendly
Partnerships are based on mutual assistance. They involve two people helping each other. Such relationships can turn into friendships or friendships.
Friendly
Friendly relationships involve interesting communication and shared leisure time, but without emotional intimacy.
Friendly
Friendship is a close relationship in which there should be mutual trust and respect.
Professional
Professional relationships are built on a common goal.
Online program “Building Relationships”
In 4 weeks on this program, you will learn how to build a relationship in which both partners will be happy and satisfied, learn to help cope with difficulties and develop together, find mutual understanding and live in harmony with your partner. The program will help you live a happier and more vibrant life, unlock your potential and expand your boundaries, as well as save time and protect your health, because healthy and strong relationships help you overcome obstacles and solve problems faster and easier. Find out more...
Don't underestimate the importance of the topic of building relationships. In the end, there is nothing more important than the people who are with us. And our whole life may depend on how skillfully we build interaction with them. Good luck!
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Why can't you build relationships?
Sometimes it happens that a beautiful and smart woman cannot build a relationship with a man.
The reasons can be very different, but the main ones are:
- Bad example of parents. It is very important to understand that all people are different, as well as situations. It is quite possible that your life will be more successful than that of your relatives;
- Demands on men are too high. Give free rein to your feelings, not your mind. Treat men more easily;
- Takes on the male role. You shouldn’t do this and make decisions for men. This scares them away. Be feminine, gentle, defenseless;
- Idealization of a partner. Accept your partner for who he really is. Do not idealize him, do not attribute to him the qualities that you would like to see in him. Otherwise, you will have to be disappointed in him later;
- Self-dislike. Love yourself, be confident, smile more often. Do something you enjoy.
But very often a woman cannot build a relationship with a man because he:
- Womanizer;
- Egoist;
- Gigolo;
- Despot;
- Alcoholic.
If a woman has nevertheless linked her fate with such a person, it is better to end the relationship with him as soon as possible and try to find a worthy match. There is no need to dwell on negative experiences. Live, rejoice and believe that very soon everything will be fine for you.
