Men are concerned about girls' attitudes towards the size of guys' penises. Are there people who don't think this is important? There are a lot of myths about what penis size women like.
Some of these legends do not inspire confidence, since they are subjective and the artificiality of the stereotype is felt.
These are the myths that exist in the female mind:
- The penis must be above 25 cm;
- The phallus should not be lower than 20 cm;
- For any lady, 15 cm is the norm;
- Less than 15 cm only for losers in sex;
- Length is completely unimportant, volume is important;
- If you love your chosen one, then 12 cm is normal.
The options do not stand up to criticism (except for the last one). It becomes strange that girls convince themselves of the veracity of such thinking models (is the size of a penis really that important for a woman?).
In fact, the size of the genitals does not matter. The main thing is men's health (potency). How skillfully a man participates in the process of penetration.
Age characteristics and physiology of women
A woman’s worldview changes at different times in her life regarding the size of her partner’s penis. Often a too categorical attitude towards non-compliance with one’s ideas about the ideal of a loved one’s sexual organ changes, becoming more loyal. For example, at the age of 18, girls judge their ideal size from magazine articles. They can't always understand guys' complexes. Although, according to statistics, most ladies do not pay attention to the genitals, but look at the sensual component of the relationship.
When a girl turns 20, she can reconsider the previous criterion, turning her attention to the effectiveness of sexual intercourse, placing the main emphasis on this.
At 25 years old, she does not consider the previous “requirements” mandatory; she can be content with less, considering this a normal length.
At the age of 30, what is important for a woman is not a large penis, but its “master”, whom she chose and fell in love with.
With further increase in age, this criterion will be of less and less interest. This model of the development of a woman's idea of masculinity is only an approximate system.
Ideal penis size according to men
According to statistics from the European website DrEd, the majority of respondents in 2020 consider the best penis size to be up to 16.6 cm. At the same time:
- 15% are absolutely satisfied with the parameters;
- 40% – satisfied;
- 30% – neutral assessment;
- 10% regard their own dimensions as unsatisfactory and would like to make a correction;
- 5% is an extremely low estimate.
The British Journal of Urology International states that more than 45% of respondents believe they are of insufficient length.
Does orgasm depend on size?
The dependence of a girl’s orgasm on the size of the penis is individual and is determined only by the physiological structure of the vagina, the emotional background and internal complexes invented artificially.
Very often, ideas about the dimensions of a “male’s” penis (small or large) are not similar to the real need. For example, the vagina does not allow for a large male penis.
Due to the imposed clichés, she is ready to endure pain, but only with that chosen one whose “hero” length is more than 25 cm.
Can such a girl have an orgasm? Probably not, since the stereotype that exists in her head does not fit with the physiological need of the body.
Such examples are rare, fortunately. Basically, women's intimate organs can be adjusted to a man's size. Therefore, orgasm does not depend in any way on length, width or thickness.
In order not to fall into the trap of a false idea, you need to pay less attention to the subjective stereotypes imposed by “myth-making.”
Cervical orgasm
Men dream of a long penis so that they can provide a girl with various types of orgasm. There are many types of orgasm, but the most common ones include: clitoral, vaginal and cervical. A man can provide the first two to a lady with his hand. But for an orgasm at the level of the cervix, you may really need a long penis or a vibrator.
But it is important to understand that here, again, not everything depends on the man. Because if a woman’s vagina is long, more than 13 cm, then it will be difficult for even the longest vibrator to reach there.
Polls
We can conclude that young men are embarrassed to declare their real size, due to the same stereotypes of the society in which they live. The guy begins to exaggerate his actual size, constantly adding centimeters to his penis, which, in his opinion, is not so. He adjusts his “giant” to the standards. This lie is not justified, since the size of the penis can be natural and adequate.
The myth that girls love a guy’s penis to be large is inspired by ancient ideas about fertility. A man with a large phallus was elevated to the rank of deity. Today they say about the dimensions of the dignity of their young people that it is important for them, but not so much that relationships depend on it.
The main thing is that a man knows how to use his large and small phallus correctly, so that he can give pleasure and satisfy his girlfriend. If such a result is achieved, she is ready to close her eyes to any size of her friend’s penis.
The survey involved girls for whom the criteria for selecting a candidate for the role of a lover remain strictly at the stereotypical level. They may only prefer a man with great characteristics (18-25 cm in size). If the chosen one does not have the necessary dimensions, then, in their opinion, he is not physiologically suitable for them. It's good that there aren't many of them.
The third type of loving ladies believes that the length can be short, but the thickness can be decent, which will have a positive effect on achieving orgasm. 3 to 3.5 cm in diameter is just right. The least fortunate are those who have a penis less than 15 cm.
These are not outsiders in the world of sex. They may belong to the type in which the penis only becomes enlarged to the required size during erection. Only then do women appreciate the full potential of their lovers.
A man should not feel like an outcast in the female world, since there is a lover of any size.
How to measure correctly
The length of the penis is measured along the upper surface, firmly resting the ruler on the pubic bone, and not just touching the skin, since the layer of subcutaneous fat can distort the data. The circumference is measured at the widest part (the head is not included in the measurement).
Correct measurement of length and girth
The measurement should be taken with a standing man with a full erection.
As a rule, men who independently measure themselves overestimate the indicators. They differ from the actual results obtained by medical professionals.
What do experts think?
Sexologists, urologists, and gynecologists think differently. It is noted that the average male genital organ is from 12 to 20 cm. There are several types of penises:
By form:
- Cylindrical (the tip and base of the trunk are approximately the same size);
- Mushroom-shaped (wide head, narrow base).
By lenght:
- Giant (24 cm and above);
- Standard (16 – 22 cm);
- Strong ones (8 – 16 cm).
The longest penis was recorded at 34.3 cm. Scientists, interviewing women, came to the conclusion that the optimal length of the penis is still 15 cm. It is painless for the uterus and is sufficient for conceiving a child.
The importance of length
Psychologists say that for women, the length of the penis has only visual significance. The fact is that the reproductive organ, even of medium or small size, in a non-erect state, when it is excited, increases several times larger than the initially large penis.
Some young ladies are even afraid of penises whose size exceeds 15 cm. They begin to think that it will be difficult to have rough aggressive sex with such a guy (and almost every girl loves this kind of sex from time to time), because he will hurt her with frictions. If the average size penis is 14-16 cm, then with such centimeters you can completely relax and surrender to your partner, as the girl’s soul desires.
Such fear on the part of women is fully justified even by physiological data. The average length of the female vagina is 12-13 cm. That is, it is clear that 14-15 cm is quite enough to massage the most intimate female points.
Psychological nuances
Experts say that a man subconsciously evaluates his partner as a potential mother of his children. Large breasts and prominent hips are indicators of fertility. In addition, guys who had an overweight mother often choose girls with a fat body as girlfriends or wives. Such preferences are explained by the impressions of early childhood, the sensations that the baby experiences during tactile contact. This is softness, comfort, calmness. The child likes these feelings and they are associated with the mother. And we are not talking about incest at all. It’s just that the comfort and coziness that a man experiences during intimate contact with a magnificent lady reminds of pleasant sensations from childhood.
In addition, sexual attraction also plays an important role. A girl in her body eats for pleasure and is not inclined to torment herself with diets.
Therefore, guys think that such a partner will be relaxed and passionate in bed. Many people also believe that representatives of the fairer sex, with a slimmer figure, know how to cook well and pamper their spouses with delicious dishes. Unlike skinny women and fans of a healthy lifestyle, they do not criticize their husbands for poor nutrition.
The reason for the success of obese women
One of the main explanations why men love fat women is the ease of communicating with them. Plus-size girls are not obsessed with themselves, so instead of endlessly checking the number of likes on social networks, they listen carefully to the interlocutor, laugh at his jokes and make a pleasant impression.
Another reason why men like plump women is that they are usually excellent cooks and know how to create coziness. Such girls are pleasant to be around, and they are more often considered as future wives, because they will provide a reliable rear.
Many overweight women approach life with an appetite: they travel, attend exhibitions and master classes, know how to laugh and get true pleasure from a delicious dinner.
What kind of guys are turned off by girls' bodies?
Speaking about what type of men like plump women, experts emphasize that an appetizing figure is appreciated mainly by mature individuals with individual taste. On the contrary, young men and people with an unformed worldview are more likely to like a thin person. Moreover, now a sporty, lean physique is in fashion.
Subtle girls can be seen on the covers of magazines, in advertising, and in movies.
Genuine beauty
It should be remembered that true sexuality lies in the ability to value yourself, regardless of the opinions of others. An attractive woman does not look around in search of male gazes, does not go out of her way to please someone. She is happy and busy, always passionate about something and not obsessing over the little things.
Sophia Loren once said that the elixir of youth exists, and it is passion for what you do. If a woman loves what she does, develops and strives for more, then she will glow from the inside.
It is not so important what size clothes you wear, the main thing is an inner feeling of harmony, joy from life and being filled with positive emotions.
Stereotypes are beneficial
The entire beauty industry - hairdressers, makeup artists, fashion designers and style consultants - is based on generally accepted model parameters. And tall and thin are in fashion today.
Millions of women, in pursuit of this ideal image, spend a lot of money on bringing themselves to fashion standards. In addition to the beauty industry, manufacturers of mixtures and dietary supplements for weight loss, plastic surgeons and massage therapists benefit from this.
Nobody wonders whether men love fat women. Advertising, social networks and the TV screen show slender models with toned stomachs. All representatives of the fair sex want to be like them, which is not surprising.
The stronger the desire of women to fit themselves into standards, the higher the income of “beauty sellers.”
When do you really need to lose weight?
Losing weight is necessary when a woman is not comfortable in her own body. When she decided to lose weight on her own, and not in order to seem more attractive. A diet for the sake of bringing oneself to a standard is rarely completed. The motive is too shaky, and the risk of failure is quite high.
If a woman decides to become slimmer herself, develops a program or signs up for classes with a trainer, her chances of favorable success increase.
She will note that the process of losing weight brings her satisfaction (after all, physical exercise contributes to the release of happiness hormones - endorphins) into the blood. Besides, there is nothing more pleasant for any girl than realizing that her old skirt is too big for her and she will have to go get something new.
The statement that obese women are unpopular is nothing more than a myth. Different men have different tastes, but they all value in women kindness and responsiveness, grooming and self-esteem, the ability to appreciate every moment and enjoy life.
Young mothers
Having singled out this subgroup from the “women” group, I want to emphasize the following. When a woman has a child, another point is added to her self-doubts - “am I a good enough mother.” Unfortunately, modern society only strengthens these doubts of women, which only adds to the pepper. Mothers are blamed for everything, they are shamed, they are condemned, they hint that the mother is not coping with her role. The list of requirements is endless. Mothers whose children are older eventually learn to protect themselves from this and still raise their children according to their ideas, but young mothers with their first children are practically defenseless. Of course, they have enormous problems accepting their own maternal NORMAL imperfection and NORMAL inadequacy to social requirements.
I'm a bad mother. If you didn’t do exercises with your child, that’s bad. A child who does not yet eat normal food is bad.
She did a lot of things for everyone, but she did little with the children and grumbled a lot. Bad mother. In order to be at least a little more resourceful than always, I take care of myself most of all and what makes me happy - so that everything is clean, so that everyone eats, so that all external tasks are completed. Will they think they had a distant mother?
I feel irritation, hostility, annoyance, seeing my daughter hunching over. That means I'm a bad mother. I couldn’t convince, explain, motivate to go to the pool, exercise therapy, or wear a corset. The feeling of powerlessness and futility of my motherhood. And this badness of mine as a mother is visible to everyone around me; I have no right to work with children, since I myself fail.
The children are told to clean their room fifteen times. While I’m nearby, they’re doing something, as soon as you move away, everyone is doing their own thing. And then it hits me. I get irritated, give vent to anger, then I scold myself when I swear at my children, then it seems to me that I am a bad mother.
I’m worried that I’m a bad mother, because the child doesn’t come to visit herself and no one comes to visit us. Now her craving for other people has decreased, but it was simply huge, and I feel guilty. I think it could have had an impact.
Before my eyes, I have a daughter who was very open and sociable as a child, but now she complains that communication is not working out for her, and it seems to me that this is my corrupting influence.
I would like to quote here a joke that is still relevant today by Bunmi Laditan, a Canadian mother and author of books on raising children: How to be a mother in 2017:
Ensure that the child's educational, emotional, psychological, intellectual, spiritual, physical and social needs are met, avoiding overstimulation, underestimation, unnecessary medications and procedures, overprotection or rejection, in a home without gadgets, processed foods, pesticides and plastic, using body positivity, awareness, democracy and at the same time, authority, care at the same time as nurturing independence, gentleness, but not permissiveness, in a two-story house located away from the road, with a yard, a multilingual environment and 1.5 siblings, who are separated by at least two years, oh yes, and don't forget about coconut oil.
How to be a mother at any other time before ours:
Feed them sometimes.
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Myths about the unconditional benefits of diets
Today the topic of a healthy lifestyle is relevant, and health is associated with a thin or average physique. Doctors warn about the effect of excess weight on blood pressure, the functioning of the gastrointestinal tract and the musculoskeletal system.
It is necessary to take into account that each person has his own complexion, which is useless to fight. For example, when a fat person loses 10-15 kilograms at once, his hormonal system may malfunction. As a result, he will return to his previous weight or gain a few more kilograms.
When doctors talk about the dangers of excess weight, they mean obesity, which threatens health when weight is 50-80% higher than normal. In reality, people whose weight does not exceed the normal value suffer from an inferiority complex. For example, women with clothing size 48. This is not overweight, this is an average body build, and losing weight at this weight is not recommended.
It is typical that women with normal weight tend to be thinner. For many, this becomes a real problem, although, in fact, it is a matter of self-doubt. The girl thinks that losing weight will solve her problems, while the reasons for her loneliness lie far from the number the scale shows.
Ideal Penis Size for Women
If we consider it from a physiological point of view, it is worth understanding whether this is true; 10 centimeters of a penis will not be able to bring a woman to orgasm. With deep penetration, pain appears, but on the contrary, there is no sensitivity. But if you do everything correctly, select the right positions where friction along the entire length is not required, then a large penis will do; for poses where full penetration is required, a small penis will do.
It should also be noted that a woman may not have an orgasm the first time, since it is necessary to rebuild her body to suit her partner, get used to his body, and decide on comfortable positions. With a small phallus, great importance should again be given to foreplay, brought to such a moment that the woman practically gets an orgasm, then the organ will definitely not play a big role. More kissing, stroking, caressing and stimulating the woman’s clitoris.
If a man has a penis length of 10 to 13 centimeters, then there are several tricks on how to help a girl experience an orgasm. It is worth laying her on her entire back, but raising her pelvis, for example, by placing a pillow under it. Place your feet on your shoulders. This will help you insert your penis vertically and will insert your smallest penis all the way.
Situations when a man with a large penis becomes a permanent sexual partner from the very beginning can be somehow upsetting, thinking that you can forget about orgasms and remember about constant discomfort. Here you can reassure the fair sex. The physiology of women is such that over time the vagina can stretch and adapt to different sizes.
It has already happened that size matters and is equated with a man’s success; its significance directly depends on the penis. He can control and influence the fair sex with his organ. Girls also believe that a successful man is successful in everything. This is the kind of man who looks confident and stately and satisfies a woman better. The best sex happens with him. Psychologically, this type of man easily attracts girls; a large penis serves as bait so that a woman wants him in all respects and for good sex. Women can get all the delights of pleasure from stimulation of the entire vagina, and maybe even imagining themselves as a porn star next to a male.
The secret of what is the optimal penis size has been revealed. Large for visualization, medium for all relationships, and small for good management. Someday such stereotypes will fade into the background and genital enlargement operations will completely disappear from our lives. In any case, this is an individual matter, Anastasia Ivleeva generally said in one of her interviews that a penis of 15 centimeters is sad, but according to the statistics and surveys given, it is believed that the most optimal size for a penis is 16 centimeters.
