How to bring a person to clean water?

Today, thanks to many Russian scientists and famous psychologists, we know some effective methods by which we can find out whether a person is lying or not. But, if you judge logically, it is important to find out not just what “he is lying or not lying”, but it is important to find out the truth itself in this or that matter, what exactly he is hiding. Here are the methods that, as practice shows, are the most effective in exposing a deceiver.

If a person speaks the truth, sooner or later he will be exposed. Oscar Wilde

Method 1 – Sudden Surprise

This method is that you must have a friendly and positive dialogue with the interlocutor.
The opponent should relax and feel that he can completely trust you. In order to get a good result, you should come up with a topic for conversation in advance, just such that it is far in meaning from your question. Wait for the right moment and ask your opponent a question that interests you. What's the result? As a result, a person will not be able to quickly figure out how to lie or laugh it off.

Find out the truth from a distance

Nowadays, many people prefer to communicate on social networks or via SMS. Therefore, sometimes a situation arises when you need to find out the truth in personal correspondence.

To do this, many experts recommend:

Tell your interlocutor that you are on his side and can accept any of his words. Try to really do this, or at least be prepared and calmly react to any answer.
Choose your words carefully - it’s much easier to do this during correspondence. For example, if you think that a person stole something from your things, then use the synonym “took” or the phrase “perhaps you wanted to borrow it for a while, but forgot to warn me.”
Tell us what exactly worries you without accusations or reproaches. Recognize that more than one person is to blame for the current situation, and you yourself could have made a mistake.
If you are sure that you are right, bluff. But do this carefully so that after such correspondence you do not lose the trust of your interlocutor and do not end up in his place.

Method 2 – Actor blackmail

Why acting?
Because in many films you can see how people blackmail each other with selfish intentions. Your arguments must be extremely weighty. Example:

If you have any suspicions that your husband often lies, show him the taboo on sex; for men this is one of the main needs in life.
If you want to find out the truth from a minor child, then in this case simply ban the use of a PC (personal computer).

How to achieve recognition from the female half

Sometimes a husband finds fault with his wife with stupid questions: where have you been, and who have you been with? It is he who knows nothing about betrayal, if it occurs. You can say whatever you want, your husband will believe it, if there is no real “evidence”.

But if there is accurate information about the betrayal, then the wife can also be brought to a frank conversation.

Advice! Never tell your husband everything. Men do not forgive infidelity. Even if they forgive, they will never forget. They are great owners!

If you want to know about your wife's double life, then try using these techniques.

Create an environment where your wife is always in front of you. This way she won’t have time to run to her lover. Now watch! Soon she will miss him, will not stand such a life, then she will openly tell him everything. Then you either break up or put up with the state of things .

Make a cunning move, showing as much care, affection, and participation as possible. Soon the wife will feel ashamed and she will confess with tears in her eyes. But a woman does not always fall for this. She may simply become depressed, go to another room, and then cry into her pillow. This is real proof of infidelity.

You can ask directly , most likely, the answer will not be truthful. Therefore, immediately say: I know that you have another man. Tell me, is it so or not? Do not give the opportunity to evade the answer if you want to know the whole truth.

If you want to promote your girlfriend to a truthful answer, convince your beloved that you know everything and are not expecting the truth. They say that girls are easier to succumb to such a “canard” and tell everything themselves.

So you found out about the double life of your other half, does it make you feel better? Of course not! Try to find an explanation for her betrayal in your own behavior. Perhaps she is bored, or you are not paying her as much attention as she needs. Dig into yourself!

Method 3 – Only sincerity and pure intentions

This slightly strange way is as follows:

You should not swear or raise your tone during a conversation with your opponent.
Smile and try to maintain harmony and balance.
Show your interlocutor that you want to understand him and help him.
Don't put pressure on your interlocutor.
The opponent must understand that he is not your enemy, but your friend. In this case, he will understand that there is no point in lying, because you can simply explain for what purpose he did this or that action.

Welcome "Kind"

It is effective if the lie did not lead to a world catastrophe or revolution, if the north and south poles remained each in their place, and also when planet Earth has not yet left orbit. This technique is from the psychology of communication - it does not recommend the torture of tediousness “will you say so or not?” He also denies swearing, swearing, spitting, or grinding teeth. But you should take into account such human qualities as sincerity and kindness, the desire to understand your interlocutor. The opponent, seeing you as a friend, will lose the supporting conditions for lying - why lie when you can simply explain the motives for deception?

I know everything, but it will be better if you tell everything yourself! Photo: Depositphotos

Method 6 – Spontaneity and unexpected originality

During a showdown on a topic that interests you, laugh loudly at the most inopportune moment. They may also ask you some stupid and awkward question, for example, about some intimate topic. Start saying to your interlocutor: “Thank you very much. I'm so grateful to you. If it weren't for you, I wouldn't be able to live in peace." etc. The dumber you make it, the better. The question involuntarily arises - Why? Because while your opponent is telling a lie, he subconsciously builds a chain of actions based on logic. From your spontaneous and stupid nonsense, your opponent will forget everything that his brain built step by step.

How to spot a liar in correspondence

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Many people think that in correspondence a person can lie as much as he wants.

Using some techniques you can find out whether the person with whom you are corresponding is honest with you.

Long sentences. He wants to hide his lies behind a mass of words.
Introductory words. If the sentence contains the words “maybe”, “I’ll try”, etc., then the person is hiding information from you.
Repeat information. To the question: “Has there already been something between you?” Trying to convince you, a person will repeat a lie several times, convincing you that “this is my friend,” “we are only friends,” or something like that.
By delaying your answer or typing for a long time, the interlocutor is clearly hiding something. He thinks about every word or decides whether to tell the truth or lie again.
If there is no answer at all, then this is already a signal!
The interlocutor makes you guilty: “Oh, you think so badly of me, everything is clear to me”!
If the interlocutor switches the conversation to another topic, he is clearly hiding something.
He may turn on the “fool”, clearly mocking your concerns. Don't let yourself be caught in these nets. He is stalling for time to come up with another lie.
If you hear complaints: either about being unwell or being busy. The person simply doesn't want to deal with you. If you have nothing in common with this opponent, then break ties with him.

Bonus method: We bring the husband to clean water

If you want to bring your beloved husband to clean water, then one method is enough.
Let's imagine this real-life situation:

Friday, end of the working day. You and your husband agreed to go to visit your mother-in-law, that is, your parents.
Your husband calls you from work and says that he will be very late at work today and will not be able to go with you to his mother-in-law. You immediately understand what's going on.
When your husband comes home, do not attack him from the doorway, this will only make the situation worse, and may lead to your loved one leaving the house God knows where!
Invite him to the table, let him relax, find out how his day went, what interesting things happened at work.
After the conversation, sit down and watch TV while your husband reads the newspaper.
Ask him, as if casually: “Darling, for what reason did you not want to go to my parents today?”
You need to remember that while you ask a question, stare at the TV or laptop, it doesn’t matter where. A man needs to see that this is not particularly important to you.
He will have no choice but to tell you a little truth.

Most importantly, do not forget that there should be no aggression or pressure.
Only a calm, moderate tone and gentle words, without any “assault” during conversation. Yabrova Ksenia · 09 Jan, 2019

When the husband got involved with another woman

If a woman begins to suspect her chosen one of having an affair, then under no circumstances should she rush and “beat” a confession out of the man.

Psychologists recommend first finding evidence, and then moving on to a “soft” survey, using the following techniques:

Speak in a calm tone, with a hint of sympathy. The deceiver must believe that they just want to listen to him and, perhaps, there is a chance that his wife will even enter into his situation.
Nod while talking. This gesture also inspires confidence and loosens the tongue. The attentiveness of the interlocutor and his empathy will help to lower his guard and find out more information.
A great way to find out about your husband's infidelity is to ask him to retell the same story several times. If a person lies, he will not be able to remember all the details and will be caught in a lie.
Ask open-ended questions that cannot be answered with a simple “yes” or “no.” Then a lot will become clear from the behavior of the beloved man, who will be either closed or open to communication.
If during a conversation the deception is revealed, do not rush to lose your temper, act up or raise your voice. At such moments, it is very important to remain calm so as not to do anything stupid and harm yourself.

Advice. All the proposed methods will help to split even a girl who could cheat or make another serious mistake.

The "I Know What You're Hiding" Method

This method is often used by operatives to force a person to tell the truth. During the investigation, a lot of evidence is revealed, which, if correctly compared, can paint a picture of the incident. This picture (not the whole, but only part of which you are absolutely sure of) is shown to the suspect and after that the phrase is said: “It will be better if you tell everything yourself!” After this phrase, a person has a feeling of fear that everyone really knows about his actions and he begins to tell the truth.

Magic ritual

Magic is on the side of those people who want to hear the truth about a person. Whether you need to use magical rituals is up to you to decide. After all, you may find out something that will push you away from each other forever. And if you love, you can’t live without him or her, and a conspiracy will help you find out the hidden, intimate? How to live with this then?

In parting, I want to say: first think a hundred times, and then turn to magic.

Magic ritual for sleep

On the day of the waxing moon, whisper in your husband’s ear while he sleeps:

“I remember the Glorious Lord, whose name everyone knows, whose name everyone glorifies. He rules all creations on earth, gives life to everything and everyone. I ask my Lord to put a petal of truth into the mouth of the servant of God (name of the man). Let that petal bloom in it and speak on its own. Let that petal in the dream of the servant of God (the man’s name) open into a great flower of truth, which will tell me everything I want to know, and I, the servant of God (my name), want to know everything. Key. Lock. Amen".

The husband will soon begin to babble the whole truth. Even if you fall asleep, his babble will wake you up.

How to find out the truth in a conversation

Tomorrow you want to have an honest conversation, suspecting that the person is not completely honest with you.

Write the person's full name on a piece of paper and light a candle. Move the piece of paper over the candle while reading the plot:

“He told me, he said everything, he wasn’t afraid. He came to me and poured out his soul. I'm talking about the servant of God (his name). On a universal scale, your truth is a drop, do not be afraid; in an infinite key, your truth is only yours. I will find out everything, I will understand everything, we speak heart to heart, we speak with our souls, not our mouths. As has been said, it will be so, but it cannot be any other way.”

Next, fold the sheet of paper in four and place it under your pillow. After the revelation, you need to get rid of it. Such a ritual will remove the fear of recognition from the soul of the interlocutor. Keep in mind that you will also tell a lot of things that you were silent about. Perhaps this will help improve contact with your interlocutor.

How to force a liar to confess

On the waxing moon, looking at the photograph of the liar, say:

“As soon as you look into my eyes, you stop lying. The truth makes you feel bad inside, it makes you sick, it’s better without it, tell me once, then it will go on its own, you can speak, so it pours out. Our frank dialogue. Everything pours out, everything leaves, everything comes to me. It’s easier for me and it’s easier for me. My eyes, your truth. As has been said, it will be so, but it cannot be any other way.”

The next day, look the liar in the eyes, then just listen: he will tell you everything as if in spirit. This technique can be applied to children who are liars. Now decide for yourself, do you want to know the whole truth?

"Reward"

It is extremely important for people to receive rewards. Moreover, people like immediate rewards more than those that are expected after some period of time. Try praising the person: “You tell such an interesting story,” “a very inspiring story,” and so on. But most of all, people like to receive information that interests them in exchange for their own - a favor for a favor. This is the basis of the principle of quid pro quo (from Latin - “this for this”). “You tell your harmless secret, and in return I will tell you my secret.” Using this technique, you can easily find out the truth that you need.

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Children's curiosity

Ask purposeful and provocative questions. Questions always pique the interest of the person you are talking to. You want to know something, but your counterpart immediately thinks “Why is he interested in this?” and “What else does he want to know?” You can use the fact that your questions arouse curiosity in the other person. Such questions should be quite intriguing and imply that you have certain information that he does not have. When people become aware of some gap in knowledge or awareness, it is comparable to being bitten by a mosquito. And it just needs to be scratched. The more you can hold onto your "target's" curiosity, the stronger the itch.

Masked man

If we are to tell ourselves the truth, then any of us must admit: “I am lying.” Moreover, we begin to change the truth from childhood, gradually learning the rules of behavior from our elders.

“Socialization does not leave us freedom of choice,” reflects client-centered psychotherapist Alexander Orlov. “For example, parents tell their son that boys don’t cry. No tears, no snot! And he learns to hide his true feelings. So we put on one mask after another, and we can no longer distinguish faces behind them. In this sense, we are all participants in one giant masquerade.”

We are afraid to open up, to show ourselves as we really are. After all, by taking off the mask, opening up to another, we take risks because we become vulnerable. In response, we may receive a painful blow, we may not be understood, judged, or rejected. Moreover, we - to one degree or another - hide the truth about our feelings and desires, even from ourselves. And this is another mask - so to speak, “for internal use.” Sometimes it helps us come to terms with ourselves, explains clinical psychologist and ethologist Boris Cyrulnik: “Self-deception is simply necessary for us to protect our self-esteem in spite of circumstances. At the same time, constantly staying in the world of dreams deprives us of the ability to overcome life’s obstacles.”

: Track who is saying what and where about you

This will help you kill several birds with one stone: you will find your speakers and platforms for communicating with them, you will understand what topics are suitable for you and whether dissemination tools work correctly. And, of course, you can enter into dialogue.

How to track? Use tools to monitor mentions in the media and the Internet (like SCAN and IQBuzz), set up alerts in Google Alerts and don’t forget about manual search - periodically look for news by brand name on social networks.

And finally. Remember: word of mouth marketing is, first of all, honesty and sincere emotions from communicating with a brand. Don't try to pay people money to talk good about you. It is a bad idea.

If people trust you, they are willing to vouch for you. Please and inspire them and they will bring you friends.

Method "Logical problem"

A simple and at the same time complex method to understand in order to force a person to tell the truth. To use it, you need to understand how lies work. When a person lies, he tries to present the situation so that it looks like the truth. At this moment, a logical chain of consequences is formed in his head and he is completely focused on it. At this very moment, you need to create a shocking situation for the liar, thereby breaking his logical chain. It’s very easy to come up with a situation that will shock your interlocutor. For example, when you notice that a person is lying, start singing and dancing loudly or of a personal nature that will force the interlocutor to switch thoughts.

Silence

It's this awkward silence that causes people to look at their laptops and phones, change their position or look at the door, hoping that someone will come in and calm the situation. As a result, one of the interlocutors cannot stand this awkward pause and begins a conversation. It will help you find out the truth if you keep the conversation going and ask questions. Creating silence in the modern world is intentional. Even in a room full of people experiencing awkward pauses, everyone has the opportunity to speak. Even if it’s something like: “Someone, please, say something already.” For many people, silence is unsettling. And sooner or later they will begin to say, perhaps, something that will play into your hands.

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Conspiracy to talk

In order to find out the truth and challenge your opponent to a frank conversation, a conspiracy to talk will help with this. Before. Before calling a person for a conversation, prepare for it.

The night before, write the name of the person you plan to meet on a piece of paper. Light a church candle and holding a sheet of paper high above the flame so as not to burn it, read the plot:

Fold the enchanted sheet of paper and place it at your head. After the conversation, burn the leaf and scatter the ashes to the wind. You need to know that the ritual works in two directions, that is, the person who performs it is also exposed to its effects. Which makes the future conversation honest and frank on both sides.

The first steps towards eliminating lies

It is necessary to realize that a person who speaks the truth is not impudent or boorish, but a self-confident person. Therefore, it is advisable to begin to accustom yourself to honesty in cases where it is not capable of harming anyone. You need to make a firm promise to yourself to give up lying. It’s best to say it out loud, share it with your best friend or husband, or you can just say it to yourself while standing in front of the mirror.

You can first try to express some truth in complete solitude. For example, about the fact that you don’t want to go to the theater because you’re tired, and not at all because you were urgently called to work. Listen to your words and discover that there is nothing wrong with them.
The next step needs to be taken with the interlocutor. He talks about some well-known situation. The other is tormented, but pretends that he is very interested. He sees his sour expression and is offended, mistaking it for a bad attitude towards himself. Therefore, it is better to immediately say: “You know, I have already heard about this, it is very interesting.” Then the conversation will take a different direction and everyone will be calmer.
If you are hired, you should not tell lies about yourself. Needless to say, you have the skill to work with the most complex equipment, the English language has been studied to perfection, and you have the opportunity to linger after the end of the working day. All this will be revealed immediately and at the end of the trial period the contract will most likely not be extended. It is possible that this is not at all important for the employer, and he simply asks questions according to a given pattern.
In personal relationships, you shouldn’t get into the jungle of lies either. A man tells a woman that he wants to marry her. In fact, he doesn't even think about it. His girlfriend says she loves him so as not to lose her partner. The relationship takes on an increasingly false form, hurting both. Therefore, when asked whether there will be a wedding, it is better to answer that it is too early to talk about it.
A special case is lying out of pity or compassion. Of course, it is unacceptable to tell another person that he looks bad today or is wearing an ugly and unfashionable suit. But at the same time, you don’t have to be particularly zealous in lying. In order not to offend your interlocutor, it is advisable to simply remain silent or answer a direct question that today you have not yet had time to look closely at him.

Constant control

Try to control every action of your spouse. Even if she is at home, call often and ask what she is doing. If your wife says she's going shopping with a friend, offer to give her a ride and then pick her up.

Ask in detail how your wife’s day was. Make her feel your control, make her nervous. Constant emotional stress is very difficult to withstand. The woman will become twitchy, and she will soon get tired of this situation.

As opposed to the control method, try the following method:

Instead of control, give your spouse complete freedom. Let him do what he wants;
in addition to freedom of action, show maximum tenderness and care;
give gifts, even small ones, but every day;
try to show your concern to remind your wife of the first month after marriage.

Most likely, this attitude will do its job. The woman will be ashamed of her betrayal. She will begin to compare you with her lover, and soon she will truly repent.

If various tricks don’t work, then try just talking. If, despite your spouse’s behavior, you continue to love her and are ready to forgive her, then say so directly. The wife will appreciate such a step and understand what she can lose.

Rules for conducting rituals at home

Magic rituals are actually simple to perform, so they are performed at home. For the ritual to be effective, the person performing it had to be honest with others. Higher powers do not help liars.

When reading the plot, the performer must follow the following rules:

You should fast for 3 days before the ceremony. During this time, you should not drink alcohol or meat, have sex, use foul language, quarrel with others and wish them harm.
Before the ritual, you should pray to your guardian angel and ask him for help.
Women perform the ritual on Wednesday, Friday and Saturday, men on Monday, Tuesday and Thursday. You cannot practice witchcraft on Sunday.
They say a magical text on the waxing moon after midnight.
The words of the conspiracy are read by heart 3, 9 or 12 times.
It is necessary to adhere to the technique of performing the ritual; making adjustments to it is prohibited.
The plot is read next to the person from whom they want to hear the truth, or on the eve of a meeting with him.