Female pickup - tips and tricks to conquer any man

It just so happens that the popular word “pickup” is first identified with the male art of seducing women. This “biased attitude” existed, at least until recently. Today, women are increasingly taking up the baton in this simple matter, developing their own ways of easily seducing men and developing and improving the technique of female “pickup”.

Long gone are the days when, seeing a handsome man, women waited for him to decide to come up and speak. Now representatives of the fair sex are increasingly taking this initiative into their own hands without hesitation.

Female pickup: how to make a man fall in love with you

1.Women's pickup: goals set
2.Female pickup: techniques and techniques of seduction 2.1.Woman’s view
2.2.Appearance
2.3.Gestures
2.4. Start of communication

3.A car will help make a man fall in love with you

3.1.Where and how to look?

4.Conclusion

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Pros of a pickup truck

Are you charming, smart, modest and guys don’t give you a pass? Congratulations! My friends are probably going crazy with envy. But is there a reason? Analyze the experience of your relationships. Who was the initiator? Particularly persistent and daring alpha males? This is not the kind of thing you dream about on sleepless nights. Leave the right to choose for yourself! Among the undoubted advantages of a pickup truck:

She is her own boss. Light and non-binding flirting lasts exactly as long as you deem necessary. Didn't you walk enough, didn't play enough? Don't deny yourself anything! I wanted to go down the aisle and do some magic at the stove - please. Tell your conquered chosen one that the concept has changed and you prefer a prenuptial agreement to sex without obligations. He will be sincerely happy about such long-awaited news.
There is something to be proud of. Dressing up and putting on a daily parade for your friends or older boss is pointless. Apart from black envy, you won’t get any other response. Look at yourself in the mirror! Hiding such beauty within four walls is a crime. Get out into the world immediately! Collect compliments and keep track of broken men's hearts. Successful flirting increases self-esteem and forces you to set the bar high in order to retain the title of fatal beauty.

The ideal female pick-up artist is the one who...

Loves and respects himself.
Not aggressive, but proactive. Independent.
Relaxed and free in relationships.
He doesn’t carry around a suitcase of complexes.
Understands a man and accepts him for who he is.
Knows how to give pleasure.

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Any woman is already a natural pick-up artist. In fact, she does not need to learn the science of seduction at all, because nature has already given her all the tools for this. All that remains is to use them competently and wisely. And the main thing is to understand what exactly are you waiting for? Imagine that all the men are paying attention to you, salivating and dreaming of at least holding your hand. Are you sure you need this? Or do you still dream of meeting your future, one and only man?

When turning to trainings and plunging into the science of seduction, be sure to realize that the level of male attention to you will increase. And decide for yourself whether you want it or not.

Pickup Basics for Women

How to dare to flirt if you are afraid of being rejected? With such a mood, it is worth postponing the attempt to attack the opposite sex until better times. The first rule of pickup for women: prepare properly before you go all in. Find the zest in yourself and learn to demonstrate it to the handsome men around you, choose the right words to make acquaintances, practice NLP techniques.

Developing your strengths

Remember on what occasion do male colleagues or friends usually give you generous compliments? A wasp waist, a velvety voice, a stylish image or a sparkling sense of humor and a broad outlook? Conventionally, all potential bounty hunters can be divided into two types: beauties and smart women. For the former, “pumping to the fullest” means intensive training in the gym, frequent visits to fashion boutiques and beauty salons. For the latter, personal growth trainings, advanced training courses and reading reference literature are provided.

Opponents

So where to start the dialogue? We present a selection of effectively working openers - initial lines of conversation with the future victim of your spell:

Sincere compliments: “I’ve never met such handsome men before. I can’t pass by without making an acquaintance”; “You have an amazing perfume: you inhale and feel in seventh heaven. Let me be close to you to prolong the pleasure.”
Requests for help : “Can you help a natural blonde start a car?”, “Can you walk me home? I’ve never returned so late alone before.”
Valuable information. “It looks like this is a fan of spectacular football. I know one sports bar where you can cheer with your heart for the right team in a good campaign”; “Aren't you interested in the best bird's eye view of the city? I’m ready to take you to the observation deck and become a personal guide to an unforgettable experience.”
Apologies. “I’m sorry I accidentally offended you. I'm so awkward. Are you okay?"; “I accidentally stepped on your foot. What can I do to make amends?”

NLP

Are you used to setting ambitious goals for yourself? Neuro-linguistic programming life hacks will help you achieve the favor of the best representatives of the stronger half of humanity. If innate modesty and strict home upbringing prevent you from openly hanging yourself on the neck of a muscular stranger, then the method of psychological “processing” of the male consciousness will definitely be suitable. He will run after you like silk! Among the most popular pickup techniques for women:

"Pendulum". Today you are behaving like a young lady head over heels in love with a gentleman. You start conversations on frank topics, look intently into the eyes, dangerously approaching the victim of your radiant smile. But tomorrow the partner, with bated breath, observes obvious signs of sudden cooling. You don’t look in his direction, keep your distance, remain silent. You unexpectedly say goodbye in the middle of a date, citing incomprehensible urgent matters. Nothing warms up guys more than the need to catch up and keep at all costs the girl they mentally called theirs.
"Hidden manipulation." A woman's initiative is usually not welcomed by men. Any attempt to control a partner will definitely be met with hostility. Watch your language: any guide to action can be formulated in the form of a veiled request. "Give me a hug!" – no alpha male will obey a general in a skirt. “How I wish someone would come up and put an arm around my shoulders” sounds to men’s ears like a plea for help. What knight would deny a fragile and tender girl the fulfillment of her cherished dream?

Non-verbal communication

Don't get hung up on what exactly you say to a man. He loves not with his ears, and this feature should be taken into account in order to “blurt out” his true intentions at the right moment with an eloquent pose of his hands or feet. Let your body show your partner all the shades of passion that you are capable of during close contact:

Head. Tilt it slightly to one side to allow your gentleman to admire the beautiful line of your neck and the wave of flowing hair.
Lips. Half-opened, calling for a kiss... Your chances of success are obvious if the interlocutor does not take his eyes off them.
Hands. Make sure your palms are open. Touching trustfulness looks very feminine and inspires the interlocutor with the right thoughts about the possibility of moving to the stage of closer communication.
Legs. Socks spread to the sides will serve as a sufficient hint to the gentleman that the way is clear. The time has come to allow yourself something more than just admiring from a distance the bend of your knees in thin transparent stockings.

"Mirroring"

“Be on the same wavelength with him” - this is one of the basic rules of a female pickup line on how to make an interesting man fall in love with you. Imitate your interlocutor’s behavior to speed up the rapprochement process:

do not raise your voice if your partner is used to speaking quietly;
don’t look away when a man tries to make eye contact with you;
talk to him in the same language, avoiding lyrical digressions on narrow professional topics that the object of attention is clearly uninteresting.

How to understand that a man is in love?

If your pickup was successful, you will clearly notice that the man is in love with you. This becomes especially obvious if he already takes the initiative, shows signs of attention, gives gifts and invites you to a restaurant. You should not show the full depth of your happiness, keep your distance and give the man the opportunity to show love and care for you.

In addition to signs of attention, you should expect warm and open communication, to which a man devotes the first free minute he has. He doesn't make excuses that he was busy, had a lot of work or was tired. But the best sign of winning a man’s heart is the priorities that are set anew after meeting you. Ask yourself: what does a man prefer: communication with you or with friends, his own interests or joint activities that bring you joy and pleasure?

Every girl who takes care of her external beauty and at the same time pays special attention to self-development and nurturing a mature and highly moral personality is capable of making a man fall in love with herself!

Internet pickup (message examples)

Some shy and indecisive young ladies have difficulty communicating with the opposite sex. The fear of appearing funny (being stupid or blushing with excitement) forces you to postpone contact with the guy you like for an indefinite period. Virtual communication can be a good pickup lesson for such girls. Looking at the profiles of men bored alone on a dating site will inspire you to engage in bold, non-committal flirting. Advice for aspiring seductresses:

Cast a shadow of mystery over yourself: “A beautiful stranger dreams of intimacy with you. All details in a personal meeting”, “I feel an intense attraction to you, despite the distance. Who knows, maybe I am your destiny?”, “I often dream about the man of my dreams. You look suspiciously like him. What if the dream really came true?”
Talk about your suddenly flared passion: “Broken my heart. Would you provide first aid to someone who has suffered from your charisma?”, “I saw your photo and lit up. A strong desire to touch you, to feel the embrace of strong arms.”
Promise enchanting sensations: “I’m ready to open the doors to another dimension for you. I’ll teach you bad things quickly and in a fiery way! Before meeting me, you definitely never experienced anything like this”, “Do you miss the thrill? I'll help you catch up. It will be hot!".

How to get a gentleman into your networks7

Saying a person's name several times during a conversation can help you create an emotional connection. You can also repeat the gestures of your interlocutor, which will best position your partner towards you and allow him to be more open psychologically, even if he is unsure of himself. But you should not abuse this technique, so that the effective technique does not turn into complete copying.

Oddly enough, many men are insecure and are often afraid of new acquaintances. Indeed, almost 40 percent of the stronger sex feel uncomfortable on the first date. You should also try to exclude gestures and behavior that demonstrate disinterest in the guy, because if your companion is already unsure of himself, and then on a subconscious level he incorrectly perceives the signals of your body, then consider the matter lost.

Cons of a pickup truck

Innocent game or dangerous activity? It's up to you. We still consider it necessary to warn about the main risks:

The creation of a family nest is postponed indefinitely. Why bind yourself with unnecessary obligations and hang out at the stove all day long if you’re already happy with everything? Prolonged flirting and an active search for an ideal companion are dangerous because a lady who is too interested in a relationship forgets to look at her biological clock. You need to have children, arrange a home and plant a garden on time, while you still have the strength to do so.
Relationships with female friends and colleagues are hopelessly damaged. Unable to compete with an experienced predator, the surrounding ladies will begin to avoid your company. You don't give them a chance to get male attention. This cannot be forgiven.
Some men prefer to keep a safe distance from you. The fear of falling into the web of flirtation at the cost of their own freedom or adultery forces them to cowardly flee. The notoriety of an accessible, “concerned” lady will relentlessly haunt those who “overdo it” with unbridled flirting.

Emergency attack rule3

You cannot neglect the rule of writing first. This doesn't just apply to young girls. Adult and confident women are allowed to take the initiative into their own hands. They say that they have an eye for a good male, and their hand is full of “phrases” towards the goal - the male ego. True, you can’t overdo it, otherwise you can get a completely different reaction in return.

Men love with their eyes, so less words mean more action. It is better to talk about some undertakings in areas that interest only him. This will help create the illusion of responsibility for his concerns and expectations. Moreover, when a woman talks about specifics, it is more appreciated.
Psychologists recommend engaging in “recruitment.” You need to cast a bait with the words “hi, how are you” and wait for a reaction. If positive, you can continue communication, but unobtrusively. Boys at any age are timid, but good and well-mannered boys are also mannered; they rarely respond to messages from strangers, especially handsome ones.
You cannot put pressure and constantly check the availability of a future satellite in the network. This will repel and scare away. If you litter the line with emoticons, the entire text will turn out to be too cute. You can get scared again.

Don't forget about etiquette. The more pretty the girl behaves, the greater the correspondence between the photo and reality is felt. There are many cases on the Internet where women simply begged for money for support, reluctantly got in touch, and then, out of the blue, dropped on their interlocutors along with a ton of alphabetic symbols. This is somewhat frightening (remember, a man is a frightened creature).

Defense and time frame4

For him to notice the tactics, you need to pause, monitor your email, and constantly be “offline.” It helps to observe the person from the outside. It is advisable to monitor his account to see how many new girlfriends are already aiming for the almost occupied place. It’s easy to miss coffee and sweets; all you have to do is overlook it and forget about the significance of the correspondence. If the goal is to please, you need to do everything so that the man wants to write first. The only sure and proven way to do everything at a distance is time. We need pauses between conversations, preferably like this:

He asks a question or writes something, the girl does not answer immediately.
He is online and catches his interlocutor online - you need to postpone the correspondence or reschedule, citing important matters. What matters are more important than a guy? This will hurt him and hurt his pride.

And then you can safely build a portrait of a person’s psychotype. The answer is a good guy who doesn’t like being played around with. If he doesn’t answer, he’s a touchy boy who hasn’t yet reached adult women’s games. And in general, correspondence should be conducted in a pleasant atmosphere, in the evening, but not later than midnight, otherwise he will consider it in bad taste. Well, yes, which of the well-mannered girls writes to the boys so late? He will think that he is not the only one and will give up this whole idea.

Greeted by clothes - literacy and speech7

If in reality they are judged by the image, then on the Internet they look at the manner of communication, the ability to express a thought correctly and convey it to the interlocutor in the form in which it was embedded. The human brain is designed in such a way that it forgets 60% of information immediately, sifts out and passes through a “sieve” only 20% of important facts. Don’t be surprised if the guy later says something like “I remember you said something like that, but I forgot to remember exactly what you were talking about.” If there are errors in the messages, this will repel or suggest that the person in front of him is a young, underdeveloped intellectual who is bored.

After all, there are now a lot of beautiful girls on the Internet, well-groomed, but not older than 16 years old, so they still don’t know how to use ordinary speech patterns, or express their thoughts on paper. Things are bad with dictations and the Russian language.

It is also recommended to abandon trivial things and painfully memorized statuses from VKontakte. This is the last century, and now those who know how to make jokes, but not go too far, are at a premium. You can feel the fine line, but be careful, since a man may not show offense, and then respond in kind. They are fearful and vindictive boys.

Down with complexes and feelings of guilt8

Men don't like it when people complain to them, especially if it's a girl doing it. It’s harmless, but this is how he sees it: I found a shoulder vest, and he has to listen to other people’s problems as if he doesn’t have his own. In many ways they are right, but women want to feel sorry for themselves. Ok, let's do that later. At the moment there is no need to relax, as a man wants to see a confident woman in front of him (almost himself). If she values her crooked nose and tartar (not to be made public), she will be able to stand up for herself in any situation. Such opinions are listened to.

It’s better if there is already some kind of photograph in a silly style on the Internet. This will make it clear to the public and the main visitor to the account that the girl is not shy about the nature of her character and does not accept herself for who she really is.