Social networks, instant messengers, dozens of e-mails for various spheres of life - modern communication has long gone beyond the limited scope of live dialogue and rare letters sent by mail. Of course, when chatting with a girl, it’s impossible to assess her immediate reaction in person, but you always have at least a couple of seconds left to think about your answer and not blurt out too much. Take advantage of this time by checking out our list of interesting questions that will help you understand the character and intentions of your virtual interlocutor.
What can you ask a girl to interest her?
Flirting is a complex science that should be based not only on sexual interest, but also on intellectual one. Prepare a list of questions in advance that could amuse the girl and present you to her as a sincere interlocutor.
Question options:
- How do you feel about me wanting to ask you out on a date?
- How long have you been on a date? Do you want to refresh your memories?
- I had a dream that I invited you for a walk. Do you think he is prophetic?
- Do you believe in destiny? I started believing after I met you.
- I read in the horoscope that romantic adventures await me today. Do you believe horoscopes?
- I would like to invite you for coffee, but I don't know how. Can you help?
- Tell me, how many digits are in your phone number? What are they?
- Do you have any hobbies or are you just looking for something interesting?
- Skinny become your hobby
- You know, I have always considered myself a worthy photographer, would you like to be my fashion model?
- Does your computer work well? I'm a master at reinstalling systems, didn't you know?
- What would you like to receive as a gift? What can I do to please you?
- How do you feel about active recreation? Let's relax together?
- Have you already thought about how to spend this evening? I can give you a couple of ideas.
- What are your plans for the next evening, week, life?
- Girl, don't you need a very interesting and gentle interlocutor?
- How long have I waited for you just to ask how you are doing? Forever!
- Have you got a dream? Do you want me to give it to you?
- Do you often do crazy things? Maybe we can have some fun?
- You are happy? Otherwise, I can give you happiness.
How to interest a girl in a conversation? What should I ask her?
Avatar cat breed
If you don’t know anything about a girl’s work, then you can always start the conversation with pets (if she has them). This is fertile ground for conversation.
If you decide to start a conversation with “hello_kagdil”, then you don’t have to write anything further. This is a deliberately disastrous start to a conversation, a rotten banality to which it is impossible to respond with anything adequate. It is better to always be sincere and not use someone else's templates and memorized models. Start with an anecdote, send a picture, ask her about the valence of aluminum. Or about the breed of cat from her avatar. To be bright and original, you just need to be yourself and not be false.
How to ask a girl you like about her age?
The question of age for a woman can be very delicate and therefore such questions should be asked very carefully, without wanting to offend her.
Question options:
- Are you old enough to kiss me back?
- You look so confident and beautiful that it seems to me that you are older than me, isn’t that true?
- Will you tell me how old you are in my ear?
- If you were brave, would you admit how old you are?
- You look so good, so fresh and young, that I can’t even tell how old you are. Will you confess?
- I know it's tactless, but you definitely don't have to worry about it. How old are you?
- How old are you? Don’t be shy, I just want to know how many more years we can spend together with you.
- I’m embarrassed to ask how old you are, but I want to know: are you ideal for me or should I deviate from the ideal?
- If you don’t tell me how old you are, I’ll have to torture you with caresses for a very long time. Do you want this?
- How old are you? If you don't want to talk, at least give me a hint. I believe your every word.
How to communicate with a girl correctly to interest her?
Don't forget about humor
Your sense of humor is your weapon. Women appreciate it when a guy wants to make us laugh.
You're kidding! Whether she's dying of laughter or having a good-natured chuckle on the other end as she reads your text, she'll be grateful that you don't take yourself seriously all the time.
Now I won’t dwell on how to learn to humor and be witty - I’ll just give you a little hint: watch more stand-ups, comedy programs, communicate with those who, in your opinion, know how to joke.
How to ask a girl you like if she has a boyfriend?
When starting a relationship, it is important to make sure that the woman is free and open to new relationships. You should ask such questions very delicately, so as not to offend your interlocutor, and most importantly, not to “scare her away.”
Question options:
- I'm wondering if this woman is lonely or if I have a chance to win your attention?
- Most likely you have a boyfriend, but maybe I'm wrong?
- Let me ask you if the heart of such a beautiful girl is occupied?
- Tell me, is your heart busy? By chance, not by me?
- Oh, how I would like to live in your heart and thoughts. This is wrong?
- You have a boyfriend? Otherwise, I have a feeling that there already is and it’s definitely me.
- Can I ask you one important and exciting thing: are you free? I am ready to fight for every second of my freedom.
- You have a boyfriend? Stop! Do not answer! I don't want to know, I just want to fight.
- You have a boyfriend? It’s just important for me to know, will I have a chance to fight for you?
- Tell me, do I have a chance to win you away from the guy?
- Girl, don’t you need a guy you love? Very loyal and gentle, by the way.
- Girl, I like you so much that I’m ready to forget that you’re married.
- You really want to become your soulmate that you don’t even care whether your heart is busy or not. I hope it's free?
- Girl, can you leave your boyfriend for me?
- Can I give you everything in this world and everything that your “ex” boyfriend couldn’t give you?
How to start communicating with a girl? Flirting rules
Write short and thoughtful messages
When you write to a girl, it’s a dialogue. Many guys see this as an opportunity to monologue about how great they are. Remember that dating is a two-way street and both need to be involved!
A good way to maintain real-time correspondence is to send messages that contain only one idea .
Girls respond faster and easier to messages up to 20 words long (or a couple of lines long), which allows them to avoid interrupting the conversation for long pauses.
It's always a good idea to ask questions because it proves that you're interested in her and not just her looks. In addition, this will allow you to find out more information about her in order to understand whether your values, beliefs, and views coincide. All these connections create active chemistry between you.
How do I ask a girl I like if she likes me?
If you decide to win a girl’s heart, you need to make sure that the girl is not indifferent to you. Asking this directly can be quite difficult, so it is important not to frighten a woman with your “direct pressure” and at the same time attract her to you.
Question options:
- Do you like me? After all, I really like you.
- I feel like I'm falling in love with you, do you like it?
- I can’t stop thinking about you, I hope you like me too?
- I hope you feel the same way I do?
- How I like you! Goosebumps! Does this happen to you?
- I can’t stop thinking about you, what do you think this is?
- You are stuck not only in my heart, but also in my head. Don't YOU feel the same?
- What do you think I want to hear most now? The answer is simple, I want to know that you like me.
- I tried so hard to please you, I hope I succeeded?
- What else do I need to do to please you?
- I'm ready to do anything to earn your sympathy, haven't I succeeded yet?
- I want to please you and be the object of your affection. Is this possible?
- How much I am attracted to you, I guess I am not so attracted to you?
- Who do you think you like more: you or me?
- Do you know what I dream about? - I like you!
- I want all your thoughts and desires to come down to me and I will achieve this, do you doubt it?
- I didn't want anyone as much as you. Have you ever felt this way?
- Baby, I like you and it excites me. Do you think this will last long?
- I can’t help it, you’ve taken up residence in my head. Do you want me to send you away? But, I wouldn't want to.
- I like you, but can I count on such reciprocity?
How to attract a girl's attention? Flirting rules
Play "marriage"
You can also make humorous hints about your common future. But this can only be used when communication is already going well enough.
The point here is also quite simple: occasionally, when communication is already going well and cheerfully, significantly reduce your verbal distance to a minimum. As if the girl you are talking to is already in a relationship with you. Here, as always, the line is important. I often spontaneously, as if as a joke, start calling a girl “bunny”, “darling”, “my joy”, etc. The main thing is to stay on topic. You can also use all sorts of phrases like “I’m getting married”, about “your future”, about children, if the girl has a positive attitude towards this. The form is comic, frivolous, silly and often very vulgar, a kind of boyish tomfoolery. However, she will begin to unconsciously visualize this, and, as we all know, thoughts of this kind are very attractive to the weaker sex.
How to ask a girl you like her phone number?
Some guys are embarrassed to ask for a girl's phone number, and thereby miss the opportunity to make a romantic acquaintance. Unobtrusive and positive questions, based on all the rules of “successful flirting,” can help with this.
Question options:
- Girl, I lost your phone number and it's the worst thing that ever happened to me. Can you help me remember it?
- Girl, if I had your phone number, I would probably be the happiest! Won't you make me happy?
- You know, today is my birthday and you can give me the best gift in life - your phone number.
- I know it's not original, but I'm so impressed by you that I don't want to miss the opportunity to meet you. Would you mind leaving me your phone number?
- Girl, I’m ready to agree that you give me the full phone number, forgetting to give one number. And then I will prove that I can reach you on the phone. Will you make me happy?
- To be happy, I only need two things: your name and phone number. Will you help me become happy?
- What a pity that we don’t have mutual friends. I would definitely get your phone number, but now I just have to beg you to give it to me.
- If I had one wish that could come true, it would be your phone number. Don't know where to find the nearest magic genie?
How to ask a girl for a phone number beautifully?
Pay attention to the details that the girl says...
...And then weave them into conversation!
When deciding whether a guy is interesting to her, girls will evaluate how well (= attentively) he listens and how “on topic” he reacts during a conversation.
A great strategy to prove that you are interesting and smart is to remember details that the girl noticed earlier in the conversation.
For example, if a woman mentions that she likes red wine, you can (some time after this conversation) ask to meet by saying:
I remember you love red wine, and I heard that *** has fantastic red wines. Would you like to go there with me?
How to ask a girl you like how many boyfriends she's had?
Such questions are very intimate and not every girl will want to talk about this with a man, and if you have the opportunity not to ask about the number of guys, it’s better not to do it. However, if you want to test the sincerity of feelings or learn more about the person you are in a relationship with, ask the question in a humorous or sensitive manner.
Question options:
- I understand that I’m not your first man, but, to be honest, I would like to know how many guys you had before me. Won't you share with me?
- Let's talk to you about intimate topics? I’ll confess to you how many girls I’ve had, and you’ll tell me how many guys you’ve had.
- I love you very much, but one obsessive question does not leave my head: how many boyfriends did you have before me? Believe me, I won't be angry or jealous. I just want to know more about you.
- It seems to me that you are still such a heartbreaker! Admit it, how many men’s hearts have you already broken before me?
- You are so charming that I have no doubt that men adore you. This is true? Have you enjoyed popularity and male attention? Have something to brag about?
How to ask a girl a question on an intimate topic?
Why ask questions?
To meet new people and strengthen your relationships with them, it is important to ask the right questions. By exchanging your darkest thoughts, deepest desires and greatest dreams with each other, you simultaneously take your relationship to a whole new level. These questions are the perfect conversation starter to dive into a deep conversation with the person of your choice.
Our collection of 250+ questions is divided into six different categories so you can find the right questions for your specific situation. Check them out and have fun!
How to ask a girl in an original way “how are you”, “how are you living”?
It can be quite difficult to interest the girl you like. To do this, you should use the entire arsenal of jokes, beautiful words and compliments.
Options for unusual questions to start a conversation:
- How is my queen doing?
- Beauty, how are you doing sweetly?
- Hello! What does the queen of my heart do?
- I miss you so much, it’s important for me to know how you are doing. Tell me soon!
- What's new in your life, baby?
- As soon as I saw you, my head immediately began to boil with a bunch of questions: how are you? Where are you? What's new? Tell me everything!
- How are you Tell me immediately!
- How are you, what's new? I'm listening to you carefully!
Preparation of the questionnaire
Before writing to a girl, prepare a profile on a dating site:
- There should not be a lot of personal information.
- Please indicate your real age.
- Don't hide your marital status. Marriage, a relationship with another girl cannot be hidden. This will definitely come out during communication, so why ruin the beginning of the relationship, it will be difficult to regain trust. So write that you are disappointed in your soulmate and are in search, but have not yet broken off past ties.
- Real photo on the avatar. At the same time, remove photos from your profile that create a negative image (drunk, with a sloppy background, with a naked torso).
What's a cool thing to ask a girl?
If you want to cheer up a girl you care about, try using your sense of humor and ask her a couple of “interesting” questions.
Question options:
- Did you miss me? Answer truthfully, I know I missed you!
- I was told that you missed me. This is true?
- You know, I didn’t understand this, but now I thought: damn, I miss you! And you?
- Hello! Tell me, how many times did you think about me until we saw each other?
- Be honest, do I come to you in your dreams every night?
- I was blessed with great happiness here. That's not you?
- Did you know that your eyes can talk? I can clearly hear the words: “I’m glad to see you.”
- Girl, aren't you missing me?
- Girl, I’m sure that a meeting with you was written in my horoscope today. Do you believe horoscopes?
- I’m going to buy flowers, but I don’t know for whom. Is this you, by any chance?
- Girl, what flowers do you like? I want to meet you, but I’m afraid I won’t get the bouquet right.
- Girl, do you like delicious chocolates? I want to buy a huge box in honor of our acquaintance and I’m worried that maybe you like marmalade.
- Do you have a love song in your headphones? The thing is, I want to listen too. Will you give me one earphone?
How to start dating a girl with an unusual question?
Find common interests
In general, the best way to start a conversation is to find some common topics. Take a quick look through your crush's communities and find areas that overlap.
It’s best to ask different questions (about studies, pets, hobbies, TV series, music, movies, games, anime, etc.), and then you’ll find common themes. After the girl answers your question, you can answer it yourself. It is very important not to turn the dialogue into an interrogation (that is, you only ask questions). If a girl answers in the same way (I see, uh-huh, mmm, yeah), then 90% of the time she doesn’t want to talk. In an amicable way, after 1-2 weeks of communication, you should invite him to go out somewhere (if they reciprocate).
What to ask a girl to get to know her better?
Some questions that a guy can ask a girl will allow you to learn better and more about your loved one.
Question options:
- Can you tell us something interesting about yourself?
- Tell me what kind of girl you were as a child: obedient or mischievous?
- Try to surprise me with some fact from your personal life. Have something to brag about?
- Admit it, you are still that girl, do you have any interesting stories from your life?
- I’m sure you’ve had a lot of adventures in your life that you’re not ready to tell everyone about. But, to me, do you dare?
- You are so interesting! What do other people say about you?
- Do you think you have a funny personal story?
Topics for conversation
There are a lot of topics, so choosing the right one for yourself is not difficult:
- Live nature;
- journalism;
- astrology;
- fortune telling, predictions, magic;
- hobby;
- needlework;
- floriculture;
- humor;
- story;
- painting;
- music;
- movie;
- literature;
- photo;
- cosmetics;
- hair, face and body care;
- perfumery;
- diets;
- accessories;
- boutiques;
- shoes;
- cloth;
- fashion events;
- children;
- Pets;
- garden Garden;
- attractions;
- trips;
- present;
- rest;
- holidays;
- self improvement;
- psychology of communication;
- psychology of love;
- psychology of relationships;
- trainings/tests;
- esoterics;
- Mystic;
- souvenirs;
- sex (18+);
- Sport and health;
- weight loss and weight loss;
- room design;
- sewing.
Common mistakes
It is important to remain calm in any situation.
Keep your face, even if the girl insults. Every guy should know what questions he can arouse the girl’s indignation and create hostility towards his person. Let's look at what mistakes young people most often make when starting to communicate with the opposite sex on the Internet.
- Banality. If a young man begins his dialogue with the phrase “Hello, how are you?” or “...what are you doing now?”, then the girl can simply ignore such a message.
- The presence of swear words or slang expressions in speech. It's a rare girl who will respond to an uncultured man. If your chosen one does not respond to messages or sends you to hell, this is not a reason to write insults and call her names.
- Hints of intimacy. This includes compliments towards the girl’s figure when inheriting a photograph, and the desire to look at her in person. Such a statement at the initial stage of communication will be negatively perceived by the girl.
- There are grammatical errors. Girls don't like to communicate with guys who write poorly.
- The use of fake pages is unacceptable. The girl will not contact a person whose account does not have personal photos, but instead a photo of a car or a photo of some celebrity. And, if there are no friends yet, then this will alert the chosen one, she will not want to communicate with such a person.
- Never throw out all your problems, failures in your personal life on a girl, don’t talk about your illnesses, don’t make yourself look like a loser.
- There is no need to embellish yourself, deceive your interlocutor, or act feignedly. It is important to understand that sooner or later everything secret will become clear.
