Meeting people on VK and other social networks has now become the norm. Moreover, in many cases, girls are active and ultimately receive rewards for their courage. If you look at it, there is nothing supernatural about a woman trying to start a conversation in the 21st century. Long gone are the days when representatives of the fair sex had to sit modestly in their “little room” and silently wait for the knight. Not everyone, we note, waited.
Now you can take the initiative into your own hands. The main thing is to do it correctly. The question of what to write to a guy when meeting him on VK comes to the forefront in importance. The phrase should not spoil the first impression and should contribute to a successful start to the correspondence. This article collects certain positive experiences on this topic.
How to start a conversation with a guy examples
If you decide to meet a young man on a social network, then before writing a message to him, you need to carefully study his page. Quite often, social network users post information on their personal pages about their interests, hobbies, place of work, study and residence. Of course, we cannot be sure that it is 100% truthful, but based on statuses from the feed or photographs, the communities in which a person is a member, you can form an idea in your head of what a guy who appeals to you might be like. .
We present you with several options on where to start correspondence with the guy you like:
- Find a photo in his open photo album where he stands against the backdrop of a beautiful landscape or landmark and write a comment under it: “What a beautiful place! I would also be very happy to take a photo there for myself. Although, maybe it’s not the place? And I won’t look as good in photographs as you?” If the guy is adequate, then he will definitely answer you with a mutual compliment. All you have to do is put your page in order so that it has beautiful photographs.
- If you see on a guy’s page that he constantly rides, for example, on a bicycle, then most likely this is his hobby, he is for a healthy lifestyle. You can contact him with a supposed request: “Can you tell me where I can go to get my bike repaired? Otherwise mine is broken, but I see that you understand this matter . A guy will definitely be interested in a girl with whom he has the same interests.
- If you find a photo on the page that was taken in the same country where you have been before, then you also have the opportunity to grab onto this: “Hello! Listen, did you also vacation in Egypt this summer? Cool! Did you manage to try the local cuisine? I just never managed to do it... I really regret that. Costs? "
- If you see that a guy was relaxing at the same club as you over the weekend, you can write to him like this: “Hi! Had a great dance yesterday! The girls and I just couldn’t take our eyes off it! Did you study somewhere?”
- If you see a guy often hanging out in a park, you can pretend that you recently moved to the area where the park is located and are now interested in the attractions of the place: “Hi! I see you often walk in the park near which I now live. Can you tell me what is interesting to watch in it?”
- Find one of the experts on the friend list of the guy you're interested in and ask, “Hey! I’m looking for an excellent photographer, I see in your contact list (for example) Ilya Grechkin. What can you say about him? Good specialist?"
- You can pretend that you are a pollster conducting a survey and you really want the answer: “Hey! I’m conducting an interesting experiment - a survey of what feats modern men are capable of. Would you mind sharing what is the most important feat that you yourself are proud of that you have ever accomplished in your life?”
- Look at the university where the guy studied and start communicating with him like this: “Hello! It says on your page that you studied at MGIMO (for example). My childhood friend Maria Pirogova studied there. Don’t you know one?”
- You can also pay attention to the school where the guy studied. Pretend that you also studied there: “Hello! This week there will be a meeting of school No. 12 graduates. Are you going to go?
- You can simply not come up with anything and write to the guy about your intentions, only very tolerantly: “Hello! You have a very interesting page! I couldn’t ignore it and would like to get to know each other better. How do you generally feel about dating via the Internet?”
When you write to a guy, choose the correct form of address:
- If he impresses you as an intelligent person, then it is better to address him as “you” and you will also have to choose an appropriate topic. If he is your peer, then don’t worry, and address him as “You”.
- Don’t use cliche phrases: “Hi! Hello how are you! How do you like me?". They are only suitable for guys with a frivolous outlook on life. It's unlikely you need one.
Advice from psychologists
Considering all of the above, it becomes clear how best to get to know a guy on VK. Correspondence should be kind, unobtrusive, filled with positive and cheerful moments. The main advice from psychologists is to be yourself, not wear masks and have a dialogue about common hobbies or favorite musical groups. It is important not to cross the acceptable line and not start political or religious conflicts.
At further stages of communication, psychologists do not recommend showing jealousy. This will not tie a guy to a girl - it will have the opposite effect, he will want to break the taboos. Relationships based on mistrust cannot last long.
You shouldn't talk about gender stereotypes. Few people like to hear: “Why should a girl drive?”, “A woman should sit at home and cook.” It will be unpleasant for a guy to hear from a girlfriend: “A man must,” “He must,” etc.
Psychologists have a negative attitude towards starting acquaintances by talking about their problems. Yes, in this way the girl hints that she needs male support, but few people want to have additional problems, especially considering that the new acquaintance is still a stranger. It is much better to start the dialogue with a joke and set a positive mood.
To get acquainted on VKontakte, you don’t need to reinvent the wheel, it’s better to be yourself and treat people with respect. Kind and positive correspondence will help build similar relationships in the future. Any girl who decides to meet a new guy wants to achieve a similar result.
How to meet people on VK, examples of correspondence
To make it clear who plays what role in the communication, we will make several symbols:
- “M” is a designation for a young man in correspondence;
- “F” is the designation of a girl in correspondence.
Option 1
AND
- Hello! Are you a lawyer by profession? Do you really need professional advice?
M
- Hello! I will be happy to help such a pretty girl.
F — I have problems with my neighbors, they are constantly making noise. Where should I go with this question?
M - I can solve this problem not as a lawyer, but as a man. Where to go?
F - Thank you! Write down the address)
Option 2
AND
- Hello! I'm going to go to the performance you were at, judging by the photographs on the wall. Share your impressions, is it worth going?
M
- Hello! It's nice that there are still girls who are interested in theater. You know, emotions cannot be expressed in a few words. I suggest we meet and have a cup of coffee? I'll tell you everything.
F - Really? How amazing! I would be very glad to hear an expert's opinion!
M - Then write the address! I'll pick you up! You don’t mind that I switched to “you.”
F - No, of course! I am waiting!
Option 3
AND
-Hello! You have great photos on your page! What do you use to take pictures?
M
- Hello! I'm a professional photographer, so I shoot everything with my camera!
F - How great! Do you take pictures of people? I would book a photo shoot with you.
M - Of course! I photograph beautiful girls for free! So pick a time and see you.
F - Thank you, I can drive up right now, tell me where.
Option 4
AND
- Hello! And this is you eating at the Magnit restaurant (for example).
M
- Hello! I’ve been working there for 2 years now, or rather relaxing, because it’s more of my hobby.
F - Seriously? I thought this was your whole life's work! You eat so beautifully!
M - Thank you! Come tomorrow, I’ll sing for you personally.
F - I’ll definitely come! And I take you at your word!
Option 5
AND
- Good evening! Do you have a couple of minutes?
M
- Kind! How can I be useful?
F — I’m working on a dissertation in psychology, and I need some answers to simple questions from you.
M - Only if it’s not complicated) Let’s switch to “you” then. It is more comfortable.
F - Ok!
Option 6
AND
- Hello! Tell me, have you been living in Moscow for a long time?
M
- Hello! No, I moved six months ago, but we know each other?
F - No, that’s the point) I want to meet someone who will show me the city.
M - I’ll be happy to show you Moscow at night, because I’m very busy during the day.
F - Great, in the evening the city is probably even more beautiful than during the day.
Option 7
AND
- Hello! Do you like live music?
M
- Hello! And who doesn't love her?
F - Super! I'm in a band and we'll be giving a concert tomorrow in the park. Come.
M - Well done! What instrument do you play?
F - Come and find out) And not only about that)
Option 8
AND
- Good night! Why can't you sleep at such a late night?
M
- Hello! A lot of work. And you?
F - Same problem. There is no time to rest at all.
M - Then maybe let’s relax together tomorrow with a cup of coffee in the morning?
F - I would love to! Let's. Write the time and address.
Option 9
AND
- Hello! How do you, such a young man, manage to do everything? I looked at your page, every day there is something new and interesting!
M
- Hello! I'll take that as a compliment)
F - I just don’t have time to do anything at all, I’m always late everywhere.
M - This is typical for girls, so don’t worry about it. But, if you really want to learn how to plan your time, let’s meet and share my secrets!
F - Thank you! I will be very grateful to you!
Option 10
AND
- Hello! How long have you been a member of the Entrepreneurs 2000 community?
M
- Hello! Yes, I learned a lot of useful things from it to develop my business.
F - Great. I’m new to this and I’m already lost in a ton of information.
M - If you need help, I can suggest something.
F - Thank you, but it’s better for me to meet in person) Otherwise, I still won’t understand anything in the correspondence.
What next: how to keep his attention and interest
In principle, to attract the attention of a guy on a dating site, you don’t need much intelligence. Pleasant appearance and unobtrusive initiative are enough. But to prevent interest from evaporating at the speed of boiling water, maintain the right degree.
- Do not expose the urgent need for communication and anxiety about its absence. “Where did you go”, “Why don’t you write”, “I’m waiting for your answer” - phrases for defeat.
- Talk mostly about him - everyone likes to be talked about. Speak, but don't talk. Don't pretend to be a Real Madrid fan if you don't know what a penalty is.
- A good tip is to ask for help. Men like women who ask for help. This makes them feel courageous and smart, that is, they feel superior. “I’m choosing a lawn mower for my father’s birthday – do you think Makita or Husqvarna is better?” “I got (game name) as a gift, but I can’t get past level seven! You are a cool gamer. Help me out!” (if he is a cool gamer).
Remember that communication for the sake of communication has no practical meaning if the purpose of your stay on dating sites is not to stretch your fingers. As soon as you are convinced of the adequacy and safety of your partner, go real. Everything interesting happens there.
How to start a correspondence in VK examples
- "Hello! I’m participating in a beauty contest, and I want to ask you to vote for me, if it’s not difficult for you.”
- "Good morning! Is anyone really awake at this time on Sunday? I thought I was the only one crazy.”
- "Hello! How do young people spend their weekends in this city? I just moved before I knew anything.”
- "Hello! I work as a volunteer at a city nursery. Tomorrow we are organizing a meeting of all those who care about the fate of abandoned animals. Come, we really need support."
- "Hello! I'm an artist, I'm going to open my own exhibition. I’m interested in your opinion about my paintings, maybe there’s still something to work on?”
- "Good evening! I saw in your feed that you often visit Omsk. I have relatives living there. Can I ask you to give them gifts from me the next time you go there?”
- "Hello! You have so much great music on your playlist! I’ve already downloaded half of it for myself! Do you want to go to a real rock concert? I have invitations"
- "Hello! It's a wonderful evening today! I want to go for a walk in the park, but I have no one to keep me company. Maybe you're not busy? We’d like to get to know each other at the same time.”
- "Hello! Where do you buy books? I see that you are fond of reading fiction, and I am also a fan. But I can’t find a site where I can place a large order.”
- "Hello! We don’t know each other, but I would really like to talk to you, because, like you, I love cooking!”
What to write to a guy first: simple ways to impress
Now dip your pen into the inkwell and write. And although the banal “Hello, how are you,” uttered through the lips of a woman, loses its sophistication and acquires a fresh flirtatiousness, it’s worth using your brain to not just catch attention, but to make a lasting impression. This is easy to do with a compliment.
The Power of a Compliment
It’s quite strange that so few women use a simple way to win over any man on a dating site - give a compliment. The compliment should be light and relevant. Leave the eloquence of the times of the Egyptian pharaohs in the bins of your rich spiritual world. “Your eagle gaze pierced my trembling heart” - something like that will at best cause a smile, and sometimes it can even offend the interlocutor.
Men like it when their tribal advantages are emphasized - sexuality, strength, will: “I’ve never seen such expressive biceps!”, “Who gave you such an amazing smile?”, “I want to make sure that handsome guys are interesting conversationalists. Can you help?”, “I don’t know what is more in you - magnetism or romance, but you are definitely not like others.” Praise those virtues that exist in reality, and not ghostly. Talking to a slight guy about biceps is, to say the least, merciless.
Common denominator
You can approach from the other side. Like a springboard, start from common points. “Hello! I saw your photos from Tbilisi. I'm just planning to go there. I want to ask a few questions about the city and your impressions. Do you mind?”, “I also often visit this park, but I’ve never seen you. How could I miss it?”, “Is this luxurious Doberman yours? I always dreamed of having a dog. Is it true that Dobermans, contrary to popular belief about their aggressiveness, are friendly and peaceful?”
Life hack from a psychologist
To feel confident in any situation, not just on a dating site, adopt the following life hack. If you don’t know how to start or maintain a conversation, ask questions. Firstly, you will save your interlocutor from the headache of what to say so that the conversation flows like a babbling stream. Secondly, the question form of communication will emphasize your focus on him.
How to interest a guy by correspondence
- "Hello! Did you really go to school 12, as indicated on your page? I just don’t remember having such charming guys at school?”
- "Hello! Are you from St. Petersburg? All my life I have dreamed of moving to this city. It seems to me that there is nothing more romantic than this place on the planet!”
- "Good afternoon! Why not in the park or at some picnic on a holiday? Or do you manage to combine relaxation with online communication?”
- "Hello! Does it say on your page that you work as a dentist? Listen, how can I get an appointment with you? The tooth has been bothering me for 2 days now.”
- "Hello! It's nice to see that modern guys are for a healthy lifestyle! How long have you been going to the gym? Your body is gorgeous!”
- "Hi! How do you know Olya Zhdanova? We are just the closest friends, and she didn’t even introduce me to such a charming guy? It's unfair)"
- "Hello! Can you tell me where I can get shoes repaired in your area? I was walking through the park and broke my heel, and now I’m sitting here and don’t know what to do.”
- "Hello! I came to your city to study. Don't know how you are doing with your rental property? I want to come and arrange accommodation in advance.”
- "Good evening! On my day off, for the first time, I didn’t think of any leisure time for myself. I see that you are also passing the time at home? Maybe we can go somewhere together?”
- "Hello! I met you yesterday by chance in a store, and today I also found you by chance online. Maybe this is fate?
What to write to the guy you like: set goals
While you're wondering what you can write to a guy, I'll ask you this question: is goal setting an important condition for success? And I’ll answer right away: yes. The destination is the point of arrival. A goal is a clearly formulated desire. Having decided on a goal, you look for (and usually find) means (words) to achieve it. Without a goal, you go somewhere and end up somewhere. Like in the fairy tale about Alice.
- Tell me, please, where should I go from here?
-Where do you want to go? – answered the Cat.
“I don’t care...” said Alice.
“Then it doesn’t matter where you go,” said the Cat.
Don't be Alice. Set transparent goals. Be aware of why you are wasting precious time on dating sites. Are you looking for a partner for what? For example, go to galleries, engage in tantric sex, create a social unit. Each goal has its own style of communication. By the way, what a manner it is to write first. I've probably asked this question a hundred times already.
Examples of correspondence with a girl dating
Option 1
M: Hello! What a pretty girl you are! You can't take your eyes off it!
J: Hello! Thanks a lot! Only you are exaggerating.
M: I think not! Let's see each other and talk better?
Zh: Why not) I’m free tonight.
Option 2
M: Hello, girl! Can you tell me where in your city I can order flowers and have them delivered by courier?
J: Hello! I think this information can be found on the Internet)
M: I just need a safe place so that you can definitely receive flowers from me. I am simply amazed by your beauty.
J: Thank you for the wonderful compliment and for the romantic impulse)
Option 3
M: Hello! I want to express my deep gratitude to your mother for giving such beauty to this world!
J: Thank you! I'll pass it on)
M: And thank you for being able to increase it)
Zh: And you, I see, understand female beauty?
Option 4
M: Hello! How long have you been doing yoga? I'm just exploring this direction, and I doubt a little whether I can defeat her.
J: Hello! The main thing is the right attitude and, of course, there is no need to doubt it either.
M: Can you tell me which coach is better to contact?
Zh: There is no one better in our city than Lena Minkova. I want to go to her.
Option 5
M: Hello! Do you often go to the pool in the city center?
J: Hello! I definitely disappear there every weekend.
M: Can I join you?
F: Come on) What, are you into swimming?
Option 6
M: Hello! I have 2 movie tickets, they were given as a gift, but I have no one to go with) Don’t you want to have an interesting time?
J: Hello) What kind of movie is it?
M: Any) If only you agreed.
J: Thank you) Why not) Now I’ll see what’s on the poster.
Option 7
M: Hello! I see you often take part in social events. Is it really interesting to you?
J: Hello! Yes, I want to be useful.
M: Great! What is the next event of this kind you are going to attend?
Zh: Why are you interested, do you want to join?
Option 8
M: Hello, beauty! I really like your photos! It seems to me that you are incredibly photogenic. I want to give you a professional photo session.
J: Hello! Thanks for the compliment! I already have good pictures, why do I need more?
M: There is never too much beauty) So agree)
F: A tempting offer)
Option 9
M: Hello! How long have you been dancing? My sister just really wants to find a good teacher. Do you recommend anyone?
J: Hello) I teach myself, so you can come to class.
M: What time does training start?
J: Every day from 14:00) I will be waiting for you.
Option 10
M: Hello! When do you have time to rest? You only have photos from work!
J: Hello! Why such interest? Any suggestions on how to fix this?
M: Yes) First, I suggest we have lunch together)
F: Constructively) Where and when?
Search for an applicant
This is the most critical stage, which is associated with a large number of difficulties. The girl does not want to get an experience with a negative connotation and disappointment instead of a romantic love story.
You should not make acquaintance with a person whose profile is not completed. This “pig in a poke” can turn out to be a very unpleasant interlocutor or, conversely, a great guy. After the conversation begins, it will be difficult to say about the lack of sympathy, so as not to offend, so it is better not to take risks with empty accounts. In addition, if a young man does not fill out information about himself, it means he is not looking for acquaintances.
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Correspondence with a girl examples of communication
Option 1
M: Hello! Why do you have such sad eyes in all your photos?
J: Hello) Unusual question)
M: A girl like you should only smile)
J: You can try to cheer me up)
Option 2
M: Hello! Interested in going on a weekend tour?
J: Hello! It depends where and in what company)
M: So that nothing bothers you, I suggest spending this weekend together in our city) And the next one, if you like everything, wherever you want)
J: An offer that’s hard to refuse)
Option 3
M: Hello) I want to meet you, because it seems to me that we are very similar)
J: Hello) Why was this conclusion made?
M: I see that my hobbies are the same as mine, and I read similar books.
J: Then maybe) Let’s try to communicate)
Option 4
M: Hello! My name is Lekha) I really liked your work) How long have you been modeling with clay?
J: Hello) That’s nice to hear) It’s rare to meet a guy who would be interested in this type of activity.
M: I just sculpt too. I can show you my work too)
Zh: I’ll be very happy) It’s useful for development.
Option 5
M: Hello! I watched your collection of videos! Yes, you are a girl with a great sense of humor!
J: Hello! Is this such a rarity?
M: Unfortunately, yes) What are you doing in the evening, there is an opportunity to get to a local stand)
J: I don’t have any special plans, so I might as well go)
Option 6
M: Hello! How are you going to spend the holidays?
J: Hello) Do we really know each other?
M: Not yet. But I would really like to, it seems to me that you are an unusual girl.
Zh: Well then, let's start with something simpler)
Option 7
M: Girl, good evening! You've won a theater ticket! Congratulations!
J: Hello! And I didn’t seem to participate anywhere)
M: And this is an absentee competition in which you are already the winner) Where to bring tickets)
J: Are you resourceful and enterprising)
Option 8
M: Hello! I came across your profile because you are on my sister's contact list. Now I can’t help but write to you)
J: Hello! Who is your sister?
M: Marina Lobova)
Zh: Well then, I know a lot about you)) Nice to meet you)
Option 9
M: Hello! Are you a model by any chance?
J: Hello! I'm just learning)
M: I can immediately say that a great future awaits you in this field)
Zh: Are you connected with the modeling business?
Option 10
M: Hello! Would you like to take part in the charity event: “Beauty will save the world”?
J: Hello! So what should you do?
M: Just come and decorate a wonderful evening at the theater)
J: Thank you for such an original invitation)
First words
Here you need to understand the psychology of men. Let me say briefly - it is important for us to give an answer or a solution, it is important for you to reason and worry. We start from this.
"Hello. I saw you on the Internet, you seemed like a smart guy. I need a man's advice. My good friend was dumped by her boyfriend via text message. Do you think this is a manly act? So, as a representative of the stronger sex, what advice would you give her?”
"Hello. I saw you on the Internet and thought that you could give me some good advice. I’m planning a man’s gift for my brother’s eighteenth birthday, there are tons of options, but I want something very masculine. Your girlfriends are offering to call a stripper, do you think this is a good present?”
"Hello. I saw you among mutual friends and decided that you were the one who could help me. My beloved cat, Julbars, dropped my dad's screwdriver. The last one is in pieces, the first one is in a pre-trial detention center. The court ordered compensation for the loss. Please provide me with all possible assistance in choosing and purchasing this light industry product. Don’t leave Murzik on planer and milk and sprat.”
The above is just the general gist of the approach. The phrases must be tested by you. But the essence is male help, advice, action. Look for specific things to write in their profiles.
Examples of correspondence with a man
Option 1
M: Hello! I haven't met such a beautiful girl for a long time!
J: Hello, so we haven’t met yet)
M: This can be easily fixed) I can pick you up)
J: I work in a coffee shop. If you want, you can come)
Option 2
M: Hello! Are you interested in psychology?
J: Hello! Yes, I am a child psychologist by profession.
M: Interesting profession) Do you love children?
Zh: Of course, they are so innocent and real)
Option 3
M: Hello! How do you spend your free time? What is your hobby?
J: Hello! I don’t think I should talk about this with a stranger)
M: So there’s no problem) My name is Andrey) Let’s get acquainted)
F: We will) I'm Katya.
Option 4
M: Hello! I won’t hide it, I really liked you, and I don’t know where to start a conversation with you.
J: Hello! Thank you for your frankness)
M: Maybe let's switch to you first?
F: Good start) Come on)
Option 5
M: Hello! What kind of music do you prefer to listen to?
Zh: Hello) The same as on my playlist) Why are you asking?
M: I’m just going to a concert tomorrow where our pop stars will perform) I can take you with me)
J: If you invite me, then I’m all for it)
Option 6
M: Hello! I don’t know how anyone can miss such a beautiful girl like you?
J: Hello) Thank you for such a wonderful compliment, although it sounds rather dubious)
M: Why? I just expressed my first impression)
J: Then I have the same idea about you)
Option 7
M: Hello! Where are you spending this weekend?
J: Hello! Hanging out with the girls) Do you have any suggestions?
M: Yes) Let’s tell your girls that you’re busy, and I’ll keep you company instead?
J: A very bold proposal) Can you give more details?)
Option 8
M: Hello) How I would like to do something nice for a girl like you to be remembered forever)
F: Hello) Then get a scarlet flower)
M: Write the address) They will deliver in a few minutes)
J: Thank you for your promptness) Will you come in person?)
Option 9
M: Hello) How are you?
J: Hello) I'm bored.
M: Why can’t anyone cheer up such a girl?
J: Because I’m alone) if you want to improve the situation, you can try)
Option 10
M: Hello! You have an excellent taste! Did you learn to dress so beautifully somewhere or is this talent natural?
J: Hello! Mom taught me)
M: Well done mom! And you, as I understand it, are still a student?
J: Yes) But not only that, I also have time to work)
What messages are best to send before going to bed at night?
At any stage of a relationship, pleasant messages before bed play an important role. A caring girl can write a nice good night message to a guy to show her tenderness and care. Before going to bed, the chosen ones often dream and like to imagine their beloved, so the words should express love.
A few examples that are recommended to write to guys before bed:
- “I would climb into your dreams to make them more beautiful and pleasant”
- “I can’t sleep because of the moon and thoughts of my beloved”
In the morning you need to be cheerful and write to your chosen one in a good mood. To begin with, to write to a guy in the morning, a simple and good phrase “Good morning!” will do. It is recommended to add a guy's nickname or nickname that will be associated specifically with you.
Flirting correspondence examples
Option 1
M: What a charming sun looks at me from your page)
F: Thank you) I can shine even brighter) The main thing is to be able to light up)
Option 2
M: I look and admire) What beautiful eyes you have)
J: Thank you) I don’t often hear compliments on this)
Option 3
M: I have never met a more beautiful girl than you)
Zh: This is an ordinary photo) But it’s still nice)
Option 4
M: A body like yours should bask in the warm sun in a tropical country.
J: Everything is in your hands) I’m not against such an event)
Option 5
M: What a charming beauty you are! The look is so deep!
Zh: Thank you) Everyone says that I fight with my eyes on the spot)
Option 6
M: Thank you that our world is still decorated with such women!
Zh: Thank you that there are still men who know how to appreciate this!
Option 7
M: I dream of waking up in the arms of such a beauty!
Zh: Don’t rush things so much! But dreams tend to come true.
Option 8
M: It seems to me that the sun comes out every morning only because you are in this world.
Zh: Thank you) I am touched by such a compliment.
Option 9
M: Hello, beauty! Where did you come from so much that you can go crazy?
F: From mom and dad, dear)
Option 10
M: I didn’t even think that I would be so lucky and would see the girl of my dreams.
Zh: I never dreamed of hearing such words addressed to me.
Why it’s important to write first: the benefits of initiative
Writing first on dating sites, contrary to the stereotype “the man should make the first step,” is a commercially profitable event. Firstly, there are few girls who “write first”, and the attitude towards them is appropriate - the same reverent attitude as towards rare precious metals. Secondly, you gain the opportunity to choose among EVERYONE, and not among those who wrote to you (admit it, more than 90% of those who wrote are guys of low social demand). Thirdly, this is a useful skill in every sense - to take, and not wait. Once you become skilled at dating sites, you can use them everywhere.
Correspondence of lovers
Option 1
M: My beloved! I want to really hug you now, it’s a pity that I’m far away!
F : Nothing! I look forward to your return! And know that I won’t let you go anywhere all weekend!
Option 2
M: How are you, my sun? I miss you already!
F : And I) I don’t even know how I’ll survive this week until we meet again)
Option 3
M: Hello, honey! Today I woke up thinking that I am so happy that I have you!
J: Hello! Now my morning is the best! How nice it is to read such words from the person you love!
Option 4
M: It seems to me that you are my destiny! No one understands me better than you!
J: I have the same thoughts! My dearest person is you!
Option 5
M: Hello, my beauty! How was your day? Has anyone offended you?
J: Hello! No) I walked through it all thinking about you!
Option 6
M: When will the weekend come? I'm so looking forward to our meeting)
Zh: There is very little left, although I am also counting the days, my beloved!
Option 7
M: What are you doing today, my precious? I'm sorry I had to leave you for so long.
J: Hello! I miss! Never leave me again! I exist without you!
Option 8
M: How is the most gentle angel doing?
Zh: Waiting for the best man in the world to arrive, warm you up and hug you!
Option 9
M: I want to wish you, my joy, the most beautiful and tender day!
Zh: It will be like this for me anyway, because I love you!
Option 10
M: I'm so glad that I have you! It feels like I have grown wings!
J : I have the same feelings for you! I am the happiest person on the planet!
How to cheer up a girl in correspondence
- You can send the girl some funny picture with animals or children. The girl will definitely smile when she sees a funny and cute image.
- You can send the girl some video. This could be a person's unsuccessful performance at a talent show or just a selection of funny shots from the Internet.
- If you have known a girl for a long time, then send her a fresh joke. You need to be sure that she will laugh and not think something bad about you.
- Come up with a very witty, but at the same time unambiguous question for the lady of your heart. He may not cheer her up, but he will make her smile.
- Write a funny poem for a girl. But just make sure it's not vulgar. Otherwise, the girl will consider you a pervert.
- Choose non-banal compliments for the girl, then she will definitely smile when she reads them.
- Tell the girl some funny story from your life, but it shouldn’t be long, otherwise the girl simply won’t read it all.
- Send the girl some funny emoticon that you like. She will then associate him with you.
- Take a photo of yourself in a funny costume and send it to your girl so she can laugh at you too.
- Just write something nice to the girl. Only these should not be banal words, but a whole poem of romantic words.
All correspondence options are just assumptions. You can start communicating according to our example, but it is not a fact that a girl or guy will answer you as described in our options. Get ready for the fact that you won’t be able to win the attention of the person you like online the first time.
Basic mistakes
When looking for a long-term partner, you need to become more serious. Carefully formulate your first sentences, study other people’s negative experiences. To avoid being ignored by your interlocutor, do not raise the following questions:
- his ex-girlfriends;
- health status;
- conflicts and family troubles;
- complex and dark themes.
