Some women are only suitable for the role of obedient mistresses. On the good side, they should be seriously pitied and forgiven, but when such a lady, without any qualms of conscience, tries to destroy your marriage, then thoughts of mercy are the last to come to mind. Of course, if your marriage has long outlived its usefulness and all that is keeping you from divorce is the presence of a shared apartment or house with your husband, then the appearance of a mistress can only be beneficial and break the Gordian knot of interpersonal problems, thereby giving you a chance to start life from scratch . However, if you love your husband with all your heart and want to save the family at all costs, then it’s time to think about how to get rid of your husband’s mistress as soon as possible. Even an innocent hobby can develop into something more over time: so stop procrastinating and urgently find those effective ways that will help you defeat your unexpected rival and return your husband to the family. Everything is within the law, of course!
Venereal "surprise"
You can use this method only if you have an active sex life with your husband, and he does not suspect anything that you are well aware of his affairs on the side. Each of us always has acquaintances in clinics and hospitals, right? Well, the time has come to take advantage of this circumstance and get the usual form for a female smear test. Describe it to the extent of your imagination and intellect, add a stamp (again, acquaintances, yeah) and one fine evening share the unpleasant news with your husband.
The nature of his reaction will directly depend on how convincingly you portray righteous anger and sincere bewilderment.
The most interesting thing is that even if your husband starts blaming you for everything, you still win: he will start to think that you have a lover, which means he will be distracted from his affair. Well, the seed of doubt that you sow in his mind will bear fruit over time and he will think carefully about whether he can even trust his new passion. Victory!
How to influence your husband?
You should not act through relatives and friends. Persuasion will lead to nothing until he himself decides what he wants. Blackmailing children is the last thing. You shouldn’t turn kids against their parents; for an unstable child’s psyche, parental quarrels are a mental trauma.
Demand to end the relationship within, for example, a week. If the “left” moves do not stop, you file for divorce. There will be plenty of time to think about the consequences.
Before you rush into battle for your unfaithful husband, decide for yourself whether you are ready to forgive? If you want to save your family, and your spouse is making extraordinary efforts to be pardoned, you should think about it.
Crime and Punishment
No, in order to use the second method, you do not need an ax and a dubious theory about the right to kill. It is very simple, but is only possible in one case: if the scoundrel works under your command. Did you find out about the affair? Take action urgently! You can, of course, fire her, but with this reckless step you will only give your mistress even more time for pleasure in bed with your husband. But going on a long business trip is just the thing! Moreover, if she flatly refuses, then increase the degree of the offer with a solid increase in salary.
Women, of course, are susceptible to all sorts of dubious passions, but they will never miss the opportunity to improve their financial situation.
Psychologist's opinion
Whether to forgive betrayal or not is a personal matter for everyone, but if you still decide to take your husband back, then you need to forgive him. It is necessary to know the reasons why he began to cheat in order to avoid making the same mistakes in the future. A man should know that he is loved and welcomed at home, and an irritable wife with a sour expression on her face only contributes to adultery. Take care of yourself, take a break from your daily worries to visit a cosmetologist or go to a cafe with your friends. Try to be in a good mood more often and not make trouble over trifles.
Counterstrike
It's good if you have reliable male friends. At least one. After all, in order to cope with an insidious rival, you need to use similar methods. The point is simple: the young man begins to actively “process” his rival on social networks, calls her on the phone, offers to meet and ultimately gets his way.
It’s great if he himself looks like a rather enviable match: attractive appearance, a car, material security, more or less decent intelligence.
The faster you can make an unsuspecting woman fall in love with you. And at the same time, scare away your husband, because he will quickly understand that his passion has a boyfriend on the side: in such situations, married men take a decisive step back, right into your arms.
Elena, 29 years old, Tomsk:
“I thought for a long time about how to get rid of my husband’s annoying passion, which literally did not give him a pass. And in the end she persuaded her old friend to seduce her. In the end, everything worked out for the best: she immediately left my husband alone, as she saw interest on the part of a lonely man. This is where the attractiveness of the proposed method lies: mistresses, as a rule, instinctively always know that the husband is unlikely to leave his wife, and therefore they easily cling to the first chance they get to find full happiness with a free man.
Tip #4. Engage in self-improvement
The worst thing to do in such a situation is to give up on yourself. Cheating does not mean that your life is over; there are still millions of men in the world. If earlier you spent all your resources on arranging your “nest,” now you can finally take care of yourself. This is an excellent reason to change your hairstyle and join the gym, then the man will begin to wonder if he is doing the right thing by wanting to leave a gorgeous woman for the sake of momentary pleasure on the side.
CONSPIRACY. Seriously? Seriously!
Yes, if nothing else helps, then why not? Moreover, female cunning frees your hands and allows you to use even the most controversial methods to protect your family. There are also a few recommendations here that are still useful to listen to:
- avoid strong conspiracies that can cause a threat to human life;
- concentrate on the image of your husband and positive emotions while reading the plot;
- do not tell anyone about your decision, and carry out the procedure at a time when no one is at home.
Remember that even a simple conspiracy to separate him from the object of his passion can help. It is not at all necessary to resort to radical curses and rituals for the death of a mistress. You risk seriously regretting what you did later! Just in case, we leave the text of a completely decent and harmless conspiracy here. Will it come in handy?
“A cat and a dog never make peace, they quarrel all the time, so let my husband (name) and (name of his mistress) constantly swear, argue and leave. My word is for their separation soon, for them to forget each other forever, and not for the feelings that they were once united to scatter into a thousand pieces. Amen".
Anna Bagdasaryan, 55 years old, psychic:
“Such a conspiracy works best if you first write it on paper, and then set the sheet on fire and pronounce the necessary words over the flame three times in a row. Light candles at this moment - they not only help create the right atmosphere, but also concentrate the right energy, enhancing the effect of what is said.
What not to do?
- Tolerate and pretend that nothing is happening. Don't lose your dignity.
- Communicate in the language of ultimatums. It is in the nature of men to dominate in any situation, and you are trying to force him to accept your terms. Talk, discuss, but without unnecessary emotions. You will still have to communicate, but do not give way to aggression. If your spouse makes contact himself and wants to discuss some nuances, do not refuse, even if you have already decided to separate.
- Trying to make a man feel guilty. Any normal person understands that his actions caused mental trauma, but not everyone wants to show that they are ashamed. If, after ending the relationship with his mistress and returning to the family, the macho man who has been on a spree is constantly reminded of his misdeed, even the calmest ones will explode.
- Maintain intimate relationships. The male ego is pleased by sex with two partners. Firstly, you cannot be sure of safety from infections, and secondly, since the fugitive spouse retained access to the body, it means that nothing terrible happened.
- Tell all your relatives and friends about your trouble. Even if they sympathize with you, talking about how meanly he acted will not bring you back, and only the lazy will refuse to gossip about your relationship.
- Seek help from fortune tellers and magicians.
- Don't stoop to spying on your unfaithful spouse. Meeting your mistress will not bring you positive emotions. Well, what do you tell her? Leave my husband, we have children? She cares. Neither tears nor threats will yield results, and you don’t need moral suffering. Strength is needed in order to build a new, happy life.
Be better than her
Men only take a lover when they are bored. Yes, it’s boring with you. And often they can be understood: you are unlikely to be a model of sexuality in a dressing gown with a ladle in your hands. And even though your husband loves your borscht and order in the house most of all, he will go to his mistress for sex and intense emotions. How to be? Be better than her. Absolutely everything:
- more beautiful;
- cleverer;
- sexier;
- more resilient;
- slimmer;
- calmer;
- wiser;
- more interesting, etc.
Give up your old look and enlist the support of fashion salons and boutiques with cool clothes. Start paying attention to what interests your husband - and always keep the conversation lively on key points.
Let him become interested in you. How it was once when you were just starting to date, remember?
In the end, there is no better way to end a husband’s evil passion than to take her place in his heart:
- actively provoke your loved one to be intimate;
- change your sexual image;
- position your sexuality on social networks;
- experiment with poses and learn new techniques.
Types of mistresses of married men
Holiday girl
She loves the beautiful life and parties. Always in search of a man who will pay her bill at the club, in return she is not averse to brightening up his future leisure time. Very often dates several men at once. “Married men” who are in the mood for easy adventures love such women. Because their goals are the same - just to have fun.
Psychologist's comment
If a man has such a mistress, he probably has a surplus of resources: time, money, physical capabilities. After all, the holiday girl is very “gluttonous.” But the question arises: a mistress is a “holiday”, and who is the wife then? Why doesn’t the husband find a holiday within the family, but looks outside it?
Some wives choose total control over their spouse. But this will not tie all husbands hand and foot (rather, it will force them to show miracles of conspiracy). The right tactic is to emotionally saturate the marriage. Develop interesting joint activities: travel, hobbies, self-development. Fill your life with impressions so that your husband has no time, no money, no energy left for another “holiday”.
"Blind" mistress
It’s not her fault that she ended up being one of the “corners of the triangle.” The man hid from her the fact that he was married. She can even learn this unpleasant news from her wife herself, who suddenly called with threats. And only then does it become clear why the beloved never showed where he lived in six months of a whirlwind romance.
Psychologist's comment
Having discovered the truth, the “blind” mistress herself may indignantly disappear from a man’s life, and forever. But you need to understand this: with her, he tried to replay the relationship that he had with you at the initial stage, looking for a repetition of the pleasant moments he experienced.
Remember what initially attracted your husband to you (for example, you knew how to enjoy every little thing, and over the years you began to look more and more at the price tag). Try to renew the lost “enticement”.
Gray mouse
She has very low self-esteem, she doesn’t believe that she deserves a good guy, and when a married man proposes a relationship to her, she grabs the offer like a straw. Such mistresses are convenient: you can keep them nearby on a short leash for years, without really promising anything.
Psychologist's comment
A wife may look like quite a glamorous lady, but she probably defines her husband’s position in the family with the word “should.” But it means dependence, which contradicts the natural male role. A plain-looking woman who unconditionally puts a man on a pedestal (a male, a hero, a being of a higher order!) receives a flood of attention from him.
The gender role of a man (even if outwardly he does not correspond to it) must be supported in every possible way. If he feels like a macho next to you, then the “mice” will have nothing to profit from in your household.
Natural Lover
She knows that he is married, and that suits her completely. After all, it is she who skims the cream - gifts, flowers, romantic dates. The “natural” woman does not seek the responsibilities of a wife. In fact, she herself may well be married.
Psychologist's comment
This "Alice the Fox" has perfectly understood the nature of man and offers him the illusion of expanding his range as a male. But - without the possibility of obtaining offspring.
This is difficult: not only are you required to recognize primacy in your husband, but you also need to have offspring. This is not so much about children, but about any joint projects. Children alone (as women often mistakenly believe) will not help protect the marriage here.
Huntress
She aims to take possession of someone else’s – usually attractive and wealthy – husband. The “huntress” is capable of bringing down an avalanche of details and photographic facts on her wife in order to “open her eyes.” At the same time she processes her husband. A popular tactical move is “accidental” pregnancy. Alas, when a scandal breaks out, the husband can really choose in favor of his mistress - “if only this hell would end quickly.” Most unfaithful husbands are very afraid that the affair will go to this stage.
Psychologist's comment
The most dangerous type. The Huntress is a result-oriented professional (which, by the way, can only be indirectly related to sexual relationships).
The best insurance, no matter how trite, is the kinship of souls. Make it a rule to be as open as possible between you, even to the most compromising information. It’s not for nothing that they say that love and truth are invincible. Strengthen unity with your husband, respectful and friendly relationship with him, willingness to treat “random vices” with understanding, accepting and loving him as he is in reality, and not in the fog of your fantasies.
Magic rituals to help
Looking for an answer to the question of how to remove a mistress from her husband, women often resort to the help of magical rituals. So, what should you choose: a conspiracy or a prayer?
Prayers
Sometimes all the efforts devoted to strengthening the marriage become in vain and there is no strength left to get rid of the rival. Then, there is only one way out - turning to higher powers.
Prayer from the heart is a woman’s real salvation and the best help in saving a marriage.
Conspiracies
Deceived wives often choose this method in order to punish their rival and return their spouse to the family nest.
Over time, the man will feel relieved of his feelings for his mistress, and will begin to feel affection for his wife and will begin to pay more attention.
You cannot perform rituals that could undermine your opponent’s health.
