How to Flirt with a Girl ⭐ Working Examples and Best Techniques

To make a lasting impression on a girl and sink into her soul, a bright and memorable appearance is not enough. It is much more important to have the ability to present yourself and communicate correctly with girls, to be charismatic and attractive, intriguing and interesting. After all, sometimes it happens that an outwardly inconspicuous guy enjoys stunning success among the fair sex, while a slender and fit handsome man feels the need for female attention. The secret of male success lies in a well-honed ability to flirt. How to flirt with girls?

Mistakes of men or how not to flirt with girls.
Rules for flirting with girls.
Flirt with girls on social networks. Examples and tips.
Nonverbal ways of flirting.
The best phrases for flirting with a girl.
Rules for flirting with girls on the road.

First of all, you should decide what flirting is? After all, not all young people understand the meaning of this capacious word. Flirting is a set of manipulations and behavioral traits used by a person in order to attract interest and attention from members of the opposite sex. Some people argue that the art of flirting is impossible to learn, that such communication skills are either present in a person from birth, or they are not, and will not be in the future. Actually this is not true. There are rules that, once you master, you can become a master of flirting.

Mistakes of men or how not to flirt with girls

To answer the question of how to learn to flirt with girls, it is important, first of all, to find out what mistakes guys should avoid in flirting and what not to do? In this case, the chances of success will be high.

Lack of sincerity and pretense.

Representatives of the fair sex are very sensitive to lies, deceit and insincerity on the part of men and react sharply to such manifestations. You should flirt with girls in a good mood, having psychologically prepared yourself for flirting in advance, otherwise you will not only not get close to the girl, but will also push her away from you. If you have to force yourself to smile at a girl and forcefully say pleasant words to her, then she is unlikely to continue communicating with you.

Inappropriate sexual references.

You must be extremely careful with sexual innuendos so as not to scare off the fair sex or give her the impression that she is being harassed. It is not forbidden to give compliments regarding appearance, but vulgar words and indecent advances will lead to sad consequences. Sexual flirting is only possible if the guy and the girl are already quite close, both psychologically and physically.

How to start flirting in correspondence?

Virtual freedom is conducive to romance. Let's figure out how to flirt with a guy by correspondence:

Extraordinary. Dilute the cliché with fresh notes and turn his head:
“Dreams do come true: guys like you really exist.”
Feminine. Be sweet and gentle. This is exactly what is expected of you:
“You are so strong in this photo. I want to be held in my arms.”
Boldly. Take him out of his comfort zone. Ask unexpected and provocative questions:
“Would you like to live this day differently? With me, for example?

Rules for flirting with girls

The first rule of flirting with a girl is that a guy needs to be confident. Often the fear of rejection interferes with men's personal lives. If a guy has decided for himself that this or that girl is of interest to him, then he needs to clearly and clearly tell himself that he will seek her affection, that he is worthy of a try and can count on success. Girls relax faster with confident guys and start flirting much more willingly than with those who don’t believe in themselves. Below are examples of flirting with a girl, which will become a kind of cheat sheet for guys.

The guy at the party liked this or that representative of the fair half of humanity. Their gazes met, their faces beamed with a fleeting smile. He decided for himself that he wanted to meet her. This decision was the beginning of his flirtation.

“Your smile is so dazzling that I see nothing but it.” I hope my vision will not return soon.

The guy hinted that he was interested in further communication with the girl and in ensuring that she remained in a similar state of mind for as long as possible. The main thing is that he made it clear to her that he was projecting himself next to her.

- The weather is so good today, and I’m not talking about the sun in the sky.
- Come on, tell me about what you were doing today, besides thinking about me?
You can also compare a girl with some animal (cat, fish, bunny), but this is not trivial.
“Only now I realized who is sitting in this young, insidious creature. A wild, rebellious cat sharpens its claws in you. Oh, how I love cats. I know how to pacify them. I'm also affectionate.
You can flirt with girls using a variety of nicknames for this purpose. Light teasing with original, funny, but pleasant names will not go unnoticed by women. If a girl is young, fragile, graceful, you can say about her:
“Baby, don’t look at me with such an angry look.” Babe, I want to tell you something, I'm sure you'll like it.

What can ruin a successful flirtation?

It often happens that the correspondence that follows a successful acquaintance gradually fades away. People start leaving messages less often, and then stop communicating altogether. Why is this happening?

Flirting is easy and fun communication that implies mutual interest of the parties. His “worst enemies” are boredom, lack of sincerity, and artificial phrases. This should not be forgotten when considering options for what to talk to a girl about and how to do it.

Flirt with girls on social networks. Examples and tips

Many people think that it is much easier to flirt in the virtual space by correspondence or via SMS than in real life. But this is not so, because in these cases the guy does not see the girl he is flirting with, does not have the opportunity to monitor her reaction and feel her energy. How to learn to flirt with girls on the Internet? First of all, a man should carefully examine all the contents of a girl’s virtual page. As a result of studying the profile of the fair sex you like, you can find out a lot of details about the girl’s life, her hobbies, friends, interests. It’s worth looking especially carefully at the girl’s list of groups and communities to understand what she’s interested in.

Psychologists remind us of the famous mirror effect. In real life, you can subconsciously arouse a girl’s affection by repeating her gestures and facial expressions. In virtuality, this method is also valid; the guy needs to edit his profile in accordance with the data obtained while studying the girl’s page. This does not mean at all that you should forget about your individuality and completely adapt to the habits and tastes of the girl you like. The young man’s task is to make the girl understand that she can find a common language with the guy. For example, if a guy notices that a girl is interested in traveling, he can be recommended to subscribe to an interesting group that addresses this topic and repost a meaningful entry about travel.

How not to start a virtual conversation?	What is the best way to start a conversation on VKontakte or Whatsapp?
Hello. How are you doing?	Hello. I saw your page in a group about learning a foreign language, and I wanted to write to you. I'm also interested in this language.
Will you tell us about yourself?	I'm interested to know everything about you.
Are you married? Do you have a boyfriend?	I want to know if the heart of such a lovely young lady is occupied?
What are you doing?	How do you spend your free minutes?
Maybe we can meet?	Good afternoon. After I had the good fortune of seeing you in real life yesterday, I can’t help but want to get to know you.
Come on, shall we meet?	Admiring your photograph is a pleasure, but I am sure that in life you are even more beautiful.
Do you want to go on a date with a handsome guy?	It’s hard to believe, but yesterday I saw your smile in a dream, and today I found your photo in the boundless Internet space.

To attract women's attention on VK, it is best to create intrigue at the beginning of the conversation. A girl will not be able to ignore a well-written intriguing question. You can also leave a catchy comment under the lady’s photo. Typical compliments about unprecedented beauty and slimness will not arouse a girl’s interest.

Nothing like that...a photograph...will do
Cool earrings. Admit it, did you steal them from a friend?
Nice dress you're wearing, but why does it look a little dirty to me?
What slender legs. You probably love to pedal.
Your cat definitely took this photo
A creative approach to choosing a hairstyle. Surprised.
Are you sure this color is yours?

The above comments do not contain insults, but they covertly call on the girl to respond, so they will not be ignored, because the offended beauty will want to justify herself. The likelihood that the girl herself will write to the guy who left such a comment is high. To find out how to flirt with a girl you haven’t met yet, you should read and memorize ready-made phrases.

What should we not forget?

Flirting in correspondence with a girl saves a young man from many of the hassles that courtship requires in everyday life. For example, he does not have to spend money on bouquets of flowers, cinema tickets, or visits to cafes.

However, the lack of real communication does not mean that you should forget about gallantry. You need to start your daily correspondence with a girl you already know in absentia not with the banal expression “Hello, how are you?”, but with a wish for good morning, a bouquet of flowers and a cup of coffee. Of course, the bouquet and coffee are emoticons or pictures found on the Internet. After this message, there is no need to immerse yourself in correspondence; you should mind your own business. A girl whose morning begins with flowers and a cup of coffee “in bed,” even if it’s fake, will look forward to the evening and will happily begin to communicate with a young man on any topic.

Nonverbal ways of flirting

In addition to verbal and virtual flirting, there is also non-verbal flirting. Many psychologists consider this method of attracting female attention to be the most advantageous and effective. The human body has its own language. If a guy learns to understand it and communicate correctly in it, he will be able to win the heart of the most capricious and selective girl. What does body language include and how to learn to flirt with a girl using non-verbal methods?

Smile.
Sight.
Gestures.
Facial expressions.
Touching.

Guys should remember that a smile is a powerful tool that can help facilitate the process of winning the lady of your heart. This is an important component of smart and successful flirting. The smile should be light, natural and relaxed. A guy should pay attention to the girl's response. Does she smile back at him? Is her smile sincere? The girl’s natural smile is the result of the fact that she let his emotions pass through her and accepted them.

How to understand that a guy is already hooked?

A “just acquaintance”, when moving to the status of a “fan,” begins to behave differently towards you. Let's note the sure signs that a pen pal likes you:

Activity. Our friend visits your page more and more often. Shows concern if you are away from the Internet for a long time. He himself looks for reasons for a virtual meeting and is the first to start communicating. It's obvious that he likes you.
Interest. Thoughts about you visit him more and more often. He really cares how you did on the exam you mentioned earlier. Several times a day he will ask about your well-being when you are unwell. He will definitely clarify how you got home late at night if he is familiar with your schedule. He will ask you to send him a fresh selfie to cheer himself up.
Brevity. The level of mutual understanding eliminates the excess of words. There will be more and more replies from his side, and their volume will gradually decrease. He writes little about many things, which means everything is going according to plan. You already speak the same language.
Quotes. Pay attention to how often in correspondence he refers to your words. “Remember, you said”, “To the point”, “You said the right thing”, “You were right about...” - in this complex world, your gentleman has found a foothold. It's you.

Examples of non-verbal flirting with a girl.

A guy and a girl are having fun in a nightclub. She tells him something, and he, pretending that he didn’t hear her words, leans towards the girl and whispers in her ear: “I didn’t hear you, baby. Will you repeat it again?"

A guy and a girl are walking in the park. The guy suddenly touches the girl’s hair and tells her: “Your hair smells like strawberries. I really like strawberries, and you?”

Women's psychology is such that ladies' interest in a man rapidly increases when they notice that he is attracted to other representatives of the fair sex. The subconscious gives a signal that there is something in this man that deserves attention. Psychologists note that it is for this reason that girls often fall in love with those who are married. You can use this pattern to attract the girl you like.

A guy and a girl are walking down the street, and the guy notices that a stranger, a random passerby, has shown interest in him. He can add a sense of humor to the matter and say, smiling: “This girl probably hasn’t eaten yet today. She looks at me like she's about to swallow me. We should feed her."

What's the best way to flirt with a guy on the Internet?

Any game is successful if you follow the rules. They exist in virtual relationships too. Remember how to quickly win a guy by correspondence by flirting with him:

Enjoy life. With him. Move worries, affairs and yourself into the background. Ask him to talk about his hobbies and plans for the weekend, post a photo of his beloved dog, and show him the best views of the city.
Give him pleasure. Carefully monitor the reaction of the guy you like via correspondence to your words and online gestures. Liked the photo where you are curly? Did you notice the lipstick color? Leave everything as it is for now. Put off going to the hairdresser and makeup artist. Capture the image.
Don't speed up! Open up gradually, like a bud, if the goal is to seduce a guy by correspondence. Let some conversations about very personal things remain understated as a hint for continued communication:
“I’m not ready to talk about this topic yet.”

The best phrases for flirting with a girl

To understand what flirting is and how to flirt on VKontakte or in real life, you can find and read books and creative articles on this topic. They will introduce you to the basics of flirting and give valuable tips. For example, a reference book for those who want to learn how to conquer girls will be Max Liss’s book “Flirting. Secrets of easy victories." The author clearly explains the meaning of the word “flirting” using vivid and interesting examples that will help everyone who does not master this art understand the most important secrets. There are dangerous words that are forbidden to be uttered while flirting with a girl and phrases that will make it easier for a man to conquer and conquer the girl he likes.

Dangerous words	Best phrases
Baby, do you want to take a ride in my cool car? Is she just waiting for you? (Girls do not like men who brag about their financial status and property).	This sweater looks amazing on you. (Doubt in the words of the author of the compliment makes the recipient want to understand the situation).
And you're hot. I'm on fire. You don't want me to burn alive, do you? Cool me down.	I am not yet able to determine what it is, but there is something unusual about you that arouses my interest.
Doll, I intend to conquer your fragile heart. No one has ever refused me before.	Why do you smell so good?
Come to my place for tea with a spicy continuation.	There is something about you that lifts my spirits.
Your feet are made for my hands to stroke them.	Well, what should I do with you? (These words should be said with a smile.)
You are, of course, a very nice girl, I would hook up with someone like that, but you should join the gym.	So unusual and funny. Your eyelids twitch when you smile. But it suits you very well.
Putting on makeup is probably your hobby.	It's very nice to talk to you, but I have to run. Happily.
I'm so tired today. Let's go to my place. You will bring me to my senses with your gentle hands.	If you keep talking like that, I'll have to spank you.
How do you feel about breakfast in bed? Do you like to please beautiful men in this way?	I’m interested to know in which flower garden such an unusual flower like you is grown.
Bunny, I want to know, did you feel good with me?	I haven't missed you at all. You come into my dreams so often that I don’t have time to get bored.

If a relationship with a representative of the fair sex is in full swing and if she is a shy and modest girl, then you can say to her the words that are written below. They contain a slight sexual hint, talk about the guy’s mood and encourage the girl to relax.

You know, honey, I don't bite. Unless, of course, you ask me about it yourself?
You're not a very good kisser either. You need to train more. It's better to work with someone who is an expert in this matter. For example, with me. I am always ready to come to your aid.
One of our mutual acquaintances said that he has never met a girl more beautiful than you. I couldn’t even think that I would say the same about you.
You make me want to be better than I am.
Your dress is lovely, but where are the rest of it?

Other examples of flirting with a girl. They will be useful to young people who want to meet the girl they like.

I am a collector of interesting inscriptions on T-shirts. Can I read what you have written there?
I often hear the phrase “Whoever you mess with, you’ll get rich from.” I really want to learn from you.
This decision was difficult for me, but, nevertheless, I decided to approach you with my feet and start a conversation with my tongue.
Something happened to my eyes. It's hard for me to tear them away from you.
I have memory problems. I forgot if I already came to meet you?
Girl, do you happen to have some string in your purse to start our conversation?
Will you give me your kiss or will I have to lie to my diary?
What's your name? I'm interested to know if it goes with my last name?
I feel so sorry for the passers-by. Because of your beauty, they turn into a gray mass.
Don't think that I want to get to know you. Actually, I want to ask you out on a date.

It is important to remember that flirting is an element of communication with the girl you like, but it should not completely replace communication with a representative of the opposite sex, otherwise the guy will have nothing to count on. This is a bright way to attract female attention, but a relationship based on flirting alone is doomed to failure. Therefore, young people should take into account all the recommendations given above.

Gestures, facial expressions, body posture 3

Researchers have proven that a number of components influence the overall impression we make. Of these, only 7% is what a person says; 38% - the way it was pronounced; 55% - relates to body language. The right gestures and facial expressions will work in your favor. In this regard, here are some recommendations.

Pay attention to your posture. Straighten your back. Pull your stomach in, spread your shoulders. This will create an impressive appearance - which means that on a biological level she will recognize you as a more competitive male.
Use open poses. Don't cross your arms and legs. On an unconscious level, the lady will regard this as readiness and openness to communication.
Keep your chin slightly up; Also direct your gaze above the horizon line. This will create a confident appearance.
Smile. There is no need, of course, to do this continuously, like a madman. But still, a moderate smile will help you create the impression of a successful and satisfied person with life. Try to keep the corners of your mouth raised rather than down throughout the conversation. This way, facial expressions will signal the pleasure of communication. Drooping corners of the lips, on the contrary, indicate sadness and boredom.
Gestures should be moderate. Don't wave your arms like a windmill; Don’t constantly smooth your hair with compulsive movements. Move slowly even if you are nervous. You can carefully straighten your tie - for some reason, many women really like this gesture.

Look into the eyes. Yes, it actually works. Researchers from the USA conducted an interesting experiment. It involved 2 groups of young college students of different sexes, 48 people each. The subjects in one of the groups did not avoid eye contact while talking with each other. Others were told to focus not on the eyes, but on the hands of their counterparts. It turned out that in the end, in the first group, mutual sympathy arose in 54%, and in the second - in only 3% of the subjects.

By the way, you should also not look at the floor, ceiling, or stare at your phone too often. This will show that you are either bored with her; or you are not confident in yourself.

Remember the “three second rule”. In practice it works like this. You looked at her. Smile sweetly, and then immediately look away. Wait a couple more moments and look at her again. So, this time, if the girl catches your eye, then look into her eyes again - but now without a smile.
After these manipulations, take a break and do something else. Contact has arisen between you, so you don’t have to worry - she’s waiting for attention to be paid to her again. It's okay: waiting in this case is only beneficial.

Touching. The main thing is to remember: no one says to immediately feel all her charms. It should be a light touch, done as if by chance. Once upon a time, a researcher from France N. Gueguen conducted an experiment. In it, 20 participants had to meet each other on the street and ask passing beauties for phone numbers. Half of the subjects inadvertently touched the girls. It turned out that these lucky ones were much more likely to be able to get a phone number from a stranger.

Copying behavior. She often looks into the eyes - try to do the same; if the lady only occasionally glances at you, do not look at her closely. If she leans back on the chair and relaxes, also spread out like a jellyfish on the sofa.
When flirting with women, shaking hands is also acceptable. But don't shake her little hand like crazy. This gesture should be confident, but not very long. If she gives you her hand with her palm down, this is a sure signal that you need to kiss her.
Don't fidget, tap on the table, bite your nails, chew a pencil, walk back and forth, scratch your head, put napkins in a glass, and so on. If it is absolutely necessary, and nervousness overcomes you, it is better to clasp your hands together or put them in your pockets. Take 2-3 deep breaths and exhales. Remember something pleasant from your biography. This will help you relax.

Rules for flirting with girls on the road

The life of young people is full of interesting and exciting events: travel with friends, memorable trips with beautiful girls, road romance and adventure. If you know how to flirt correctly with the fair sex, you can turn an ordinary trip or vacation with girls into something unforgettable and exciting. How to flirt with girls on the road, while traveling and relaxing with them? Below are examples of questions that can be asked to girls in order to attract their attention and win them over, as well as ready-made phrases that can be used to win the hearts of beautiful ladies.

Forbidden words and vulgar expressions.	The best phrases for flirting with girls on the road.
Did you know that a car is the best place to make love?	Girls, can you hear how hard my heart is beating? This is his overdose of female beauty. But I'm ready to die admiring you.
Why are you sad, beauties, don't worry. I have a spacious bed at my dacha. We'll fit everything in, so you can relax. If, of course, you can.	There seems to be something wrong with my car. He goes crazy from the company of such beautiful girls. At least the engine didn't stall from overexcitation.
Girls, how do you feel about experiments? For example, on the road.	This wind goes well with the smell of your perfume and hair.
Your beauty makes my weak points even weaker.	There are no stars visible in the sky today. But I know who can replace them. Girls, maybe you will smile and illuminate our cheerful company with your light?
It's a sin not to do mischief with such girls.	My cat is thinking about me now and is jealous. He's not as lucky as me.
Have you ever thought about doing this in a group?	How nice it is to know that the king of the roads has so many charming favorites.

Road flirting, like any other, does not tolerate vulgarity and cheekiness. This is a surefire way to ruin your holiday with girls and push them away. But, on the other hand, flirting on a trip or on the road does not require maximum concentration from a guy and following any strict rules. Light, relaxed communication with playful notes, communication that does not necessarily have to be continued, is quite appropriate in this case.

How to flirt with a girl for a guy

Turn up the music. She's kind of like you. As cool and airy as you.
Girls, maybe you're hungry? Who wants to try what? Our menu is varied. For an appetizer, I suggest choosing a languid, masculine look, and for dessert, 50 fresh kisses of my own preparation, enough for everyone.
Baby, it looks like you're blushing. How about we stop and you can get some fresh air? Not otherwise, I have this effect on you.
Oh, you liar. She didn’t tell me that you know how to light a fire in nature. Personally, you have already lit a fire in my heart.
Madam, you are shooting so hard with your eyes that now I will bleed from these wounds, die, and you will have an accident.
Your most beautiful place is dirty.
Are you feeling cold? Do you want me to hug you and warm you?
It's starting to rain. How do you feel about kissing in the rain? Personally, I’m all for it with both hands.
Could you blink your fluffy eyelashes, it's stuffy here in the car?
You are all so bright and graceful, like little sea fish. And I am kind and good, like a dolphin. Who wants to swim with a dolphin?

A cheerful youth company can consist not only of a guy and a girl, but also of several guys and representatives of the fair sex. Therefore, you should flirt with this fact in mind. After all, young people often want to make a lasting impression on the entire female half. The examples given above will help you do this.

How to move from virtual to real communication?

Having coped with the task of how to make a man fall in love with you through correspondence, you are faced with a new one - how to move on to a real relationship. The transition should be smooth, taking into account the need for emotional acclimatization. Step-by-step instructions for your actions:

Move from text to voice and then video messages.
Plan your first date with your boyfriend. Dream visualization will allow each of you to get what you want:
“How would you like to see me?”
Take the initiative if the guy hesitates. Invite him on a first date to a place that is comfortable and safe for you:
“Ready to experiment? Shall we go offline? I offer a great place...”

Advice for shy people

Excessive timidity is not the best companion for flirting. As practice shows, insecure girls can forever remain in the eyes of successful men just gray mice whose presence they do not even notice.

But the feeling of anxiety can be overcome:

Work on your appearance, makeup, hairstyle, wardrobe. Contact salon specialists for help.
If it is difficult for you to construct sentences correctly and beautifully, or you are simply lost and don’t know what to say, go to public speaking courses. Reading books, magazines, and browsing news sites will help you be interesting. And most importantly, listen to what the interlocutor is talking about.
Self-confidence is often an acquired character trait. It can be seen in posture, gait, gestures and manner of speaking. A few workouts at home in front of the mirror will definitely improve the situation. Analyze what you would like to learn from other people and develop these qualities in yourself.

Surely there are people next to you who, just like you, find it difficult to communicate with the opposite sex. Help them become firmer and get rid of shyness. Thus, you yourself will not notice how you have turned into a sociable and self-confident person.

How to intrigue a man by correspondence - Formula of intrigue

Intrigue formula = question + desire for an answer + hope

Those. after your first message, a question should arise in a man’s head, then a desire to get an answer to it, and then you give him hope that you will satisfy his curiosity!

In the first message you can write to the man:

“Hey, there’s one thing I liked about you” (If you’re not familiar)
“Hi, I’ve been wanting to tell you this for a long time - I like one thing about you” (if the man is already your acquaintance)

From such an SMS, the question immediately arises in his head: “What trait did she like?”

That's it, the intrigue is created. Then your task is only to promote it. Don’t immediately say what feature you liked, stretch out the pleasure. And when a man asks, “What trait did you like?” , you can answer “I can’t talk about this in correspondence, it’s too personal.” In this simple way you can encourage a man to meet you.

With the help of such a simple intrigue in the first message, I almost immediately receive the phone numbers of girls on a dating site (Screen below)

Recommendation: to increase the intrigue, do not immediately respond to a man’s SMS. Let your answer wait, so time will work for you.

Read on the same topic: Virtual correspondence with a man - rules of the game and flirting (Opens in a new tab)

Forms of flirting (3 types)

A mild form of flirting is often expressed in friendships. A superficial manifestation of not so much feelings as affection for a person. There are no hidden agendas here. There is no long touching, shooting eyes and hunting for attention, unlike traditional flirting.

Physical – a certain set of signals, a type of behavior of a man that allows a lady to understand that she is a desired object. Also, the physical form has a psychological connotation.

Examples of manifestation:

One or two hands of a man rest on his hips (manifestation of masculinity)
In a sitting position, legs wide apart (demonstration of the genital area)
Touching a woman's arm, elbow, shoulder (harmless touching)

Gentlemanly aka Polite flirting - implies good manners and caring for a woman. He is extremely attractive, allows a lady to feel real male care and lean on a hard male shoulder. This form has been ingrained in us since our teenage years, from the time we were taught ethics in school classes.

Examples of manifestation:

Help with outerwear in the wardrobe
Giving hand when exiting the vehicle
Help in carrying heavy loads (of course, with the exception of a handbag, no matter what it is)

Is it true that each of us has done this? In this case, you have been familiar with flirting for a long time!

Traditional is exactly what comes to mind first when you hear the word “Flirting.” Achieving physical contact by using all available methods and means of communication. To do this, you need to have a wealth of knowledge behind you and be able to speak clearly.

Don't worry, you will learn everything you need further!

How to learn to flirt?

Coquetry and flirting are an entertaining process and a way of meeting people. But you need to be able to present yourself correctly so that your opponent understands that you are interested in him and responds.

Important! Many women have been using coquetry for hundreds of years. This is usually a powerful weapon that bitches use against men. With the help of it, they attract their attention and attract them into their networks.

You don't have to be a bitch to learn how to flirt. The main thing is to follow the recommendations:

Be natural. There is no need to endlessly chat and lisp.
You should not do actions that do not match your appearance.
flirt with the person you choose.
The look should be playful and enticing. With the help of the eyes you can express feelings - passion, interest, desire. Smile more often and make non-verbal hints, you can flirt beautifully with your eyes.
Self confidence.
Keep the image mysterious.

These are just tips to help you flirt with men correctly. Of course, a lot depends on your character, your own character and desires.

You can love a person very much, stay awake at night and think about him, and not take action. It is important to overcome fear and pay attention first.

All this will allow you not to miss your person and start a further love relationship with him.

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What should you not write to a girl?

Here are examples of the most disastrous phrases when dating online.

I'd like to see you closer.
Hello! How are you? (This is simply the top of the list of the most boring tackles).
I suggest you take a ride in my expensive car.
I like you, I don't even know why.
You remind me of my ex, but you're better.
When I saw your photo, I almost collapsed.
We come from different social backgrounds, but if you want, we can try.

If you are thinking about what to write to a girl when you meet her, then forget about vulgarity. Frank questions like “What position do you like?” will cause confusion in the interlocutor.

Don't try to highlight your material wealth. Don't ask about where you can spend a large amount of money. It's more like bragging.

The phrase “Girl, doesn’t your mother need a son-in-law?” is sent to the blacklist. An old joke that's unlikely to get anyone's attention.

What can you write to a girl about her appearance? Any bright and pleasant compliments. Just forget about the phrase “Terribly beautiful.”

Don't make mistakes at the start

Writing an original message to a stranger so that she smiles, melts and even falls in love will not work right away. At the start, just avoid mistakes. No, if nature has gifted you with the beauty of Jude Law or the charisma of Javier Bardem, even for vulgarity you will receive a smiley face. I'm not Lowe, you're not Bardem. Make no mistake.

Platitudes and cliches

What, trying to interest a girl in a “hi-how-are-you” way? Remember duckface. “Hi-how-are-you” irritates a girl just as much as “ducky lips” irritates you. It’s easy to filter out cliches and platitudes: the first thing that comes to mind is to put it in the trash.

Not a word about sex

Even in direct style there is not a word about sex. The Internet frees your hands, but keep them on the keyboard. “Sexy babe. I want to get to know you better,” - with such a tackle you will go farther. Although….

As Yesenin correctly noted, “always and at all times, good, kind girls went crazy from hooligans.” So psychologists say: girls love aggressive, vulgar and rude guys. Good boys end up in the friend zone.

Don't load it

Writing hello to the girl and following up with a claim for IQ-150 is also not an option. The young lady will not sit in an intellectual knockout. If you see a tattoo on your shoulder, don’t write about the chemical composition of the ink. Tell me you want to stuff yourself too. Ask what tattoos girls like, where it’s best to get them (on the arm, stomach), from which artist.