She looks away all the time: obvious and indirect signs that the girl is not interested in a second date


She always looks away

You try to make eye contact and make eye contact. However, the girl does not want to maintain constant eye contact; instead, she looks away from you. This doesn't mean she's shy. This is a sign that she doesn't feel a connection between you.

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If a beautiful stranger averts her eyes, what does it mean? The following situation often occurs: you are sitting, for example, in a cafe and notice a beautiful girl at the next table. You looked at her, she noticed you and looked away. What does this mean?.. In fact, there are several possible answers:

  • The girl looks away as if diagonally - down to the right or down to the left. This means that she is still interested in you, but she is still embarrassed to show it, perhaps due to modesty or being flirtatious. To make sure of this, look away and wait for thirty to forty seconds. during this time , just keep her in your field of vision so you don't miss anything.
    And if she does glance at you again, then your suspicions, one might say, have been confirmed, and she is interested in you.
  • Another case, when your eyes meet, she does not lower her eyes, but begins to look around, for example, she glances around the walls, as if she saw something interesting there. Or he turns his gaze to people passing by. This suggests, first of all, that she has not yet decided how she feels about you, and is waiting for some additional gestures from you that would help her make the appropriate decision. Sometimes this requires you to simply smile when she looks in your direction again and you catch her eye. So, you will show her that you liked her too, and you are in the mood for an acquaintance.
  • But there is a third option. The girl, looking at you, quickly looks away a little upward, above your head. In this case, your prospects are not very bright. And, most likely, she’s not in the mood to get to know you at all or to get to know anyone at all right now, or she’s simply not impressed by you.

The situation is simple: there is you and a pretty stranger who has attracted you. But here’s the problem: the beauty doesn’t give any signals at all, even the most veiled ones, in order to spur you to more decisive actions.

Moreover, she doesn’t seem to notice you at all, and if your gazes collide, the girl looks away immediately.

Calm down, everything is going as it should. Just take control of the situation - attract the girl's attention with your own person.

Take a position so that you are within sight of the stranger. At the same time, she should see you inside and out, in full growth, in order to appreciate you and your appearance and not hesitate if you do approach her.

When the girl does shoot her eyes in your direction, catch her eye by smiling back. With a high degree of probability, the girl will again look away to the side, but what is important here is how she does it: if the girl looks away diagonally - left-down or right-down - you can be sure that you are interested in her, just a girl due to natural modesty, he is embarrassed to show it.

To test our assumptions, we will do the following: cast a fishing rod, waiting 30-40 seconds until the girl looks at you again.

Just don’t, I ask you, stare at her with all your eyes - this will negate all the purity of the experiment and ruin it. Just keep your gaze within a radius of several meters from the girl, glancing at her periodically.

If within the specified time the girl gives you a look again and again the girl looks away - congratulations, you have just received confirmation of her interest in you.

Sometimes it happens that when glances collide, a girl does not lower her eyes, but simply begins to look around: she glances at the walls, as if something interesting is written on them, or at other people standing or passing by.

What does this mean? First of all, it means that the girl is not quite sure yet and, perhaps, is waiting for some additional actions from you in order to come to a certain decision. All that is required of you is to simply smile sincerely at her, thereby showing that you do not bite and are in the mood for acquaintance.

When looking eye to eye, there is a third option: the girl simply looks up. This is the least successful turn of events for you, and you may forget about the girl because she is not interested or not very interested in getting to know you. The reasons can be anything: she has a regular boyfriend and she is basically not interested in you, she is immersed in her thoughts and has no time for dating. In such cases, it is best to let the girl go: well, just think, if it didn’t work out with one, it will work out with the others.

In the event that the girl, according to your assumptions, still expresses interest in getting to know each other (the girl looks away, moving her eyes diagonally down or to the side, and after a while glances at you again), do not rush to make an approach right away: break the ice in the heart of a beauty. Play staring contest a few more times, remembering to give her a smile.

As soon as you notice that the girl has stopped shying away and even smiled slightly in response, you can act: approach. However, do not forget to keep some distance - about half a meter, so as not to violate her personal comfort zone.

Good luck with your dating!
See also:

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  • Dating on the bus
  • Picking up girls

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  • https://pavel-kolomiec.ru/ Pavel
    In my opinion, this is ambiguous and it happens that if a girl looks away, she simply does not want to communicate and does not pay attention...
      https://vovka.su Vovka

      The fact is that the article itself talks about the repeated intersection of views and...

  • Siniiyogik

    Unfortunately, there are fewer and fewer girls with natural modesty every day, and the fact that she looked at you again may mean that she considers you a complete idiot and just wanted to make sure of it once again. Now, if she makes an attempt to flirt, albeit ineptly - then yes! She's interested.

  • Eugene

    if a girl has a squint, I don’t understand the way she looks at me or to the side

  • smy

    Yes, perhaps, if a lady looks away, then you have more chances than when she looks straight into your eyes with hatred. ))))

  • jig

    Interesting. Designed for ladies who have not been spoiled by the Internet, in theory. Many people do the actions described above purposefully after reading such instructions.

  • https://twitter.com/hariss777 Garrick Vadimov

    In my opinion, these staring contests are a game of subconsciousness... and a very good way to assess the situation. After all, the subconscious does not lie.

  • https://twitter.com/kuska_e Olga Eremeenko

    I think that the man said something that embarrassed her or told some truth about her without meaning to.

  • Zhenya

    A little unusual, but worth reading. Interesting

  • Popuas

    Quite an interesting article, of course there are many controversial issues, the reasons can be different, from a conditioned reflex to “gesture language”. It’s worth learning “sign language”, sometimes it helps

  • Sanka

    quite interesting

  • AlexDZ

    It’s just perfect to play staring contest on the subway, although it’s awkward to approach, and especially to talk. I remember how I caught a girl’s gaze on me, and she constantly looked at me, and when I paid attention, she immediately turned away. We met and met for a bit.)

  • Novel

    interesting judgment... But still, more often than not, a glance will not be enough...

  • Alexei

    That's exactly what I do. I try to attract attention i.e. get into her line of sight, then a gaze, and then follow the pattern. It's a pity that sometimes there is no time for this

  • Nikita

    An interesting article, of course, a lot is already clear, well, for those who are not at all enlightened “in women’s views”, then this article will help in matters of understanding...

  • laden

    Very ambiguous article

  • a lion

    Life situation . I used to be very shy to look girls in the eye.

  • Zakhar Khutsky

    An awkward feeling when you look away and then look at a person and their eyes meet. Now after reading, I’ll take a few tips into account

  • https://twitter.com/sedrikkun sedrik

    Useful, good article, if I had read something like this earlier, it would have been much easier. I just spent a lot of time trying to figure it all out myself. What came simply, well, instinctively or something. In general, gaze, facial expressions, movements, all this is important and you need to be able to notice such things and monitor them. Helps a lot in relationships.

  • zasor

    The reasons are different, of course, but the article is interesting.

  • major29

    If he takes it away, it’s not for nothing. It is necessary to do something about this, and then the card will fall.

  • https://twitter.com/kyntikoba66 Olga kyntikova

    super!

  • Sergey27

    Well, I didn’t think that gaze plays such an important role in communicating with a girl, I’ll take it into account, thanks to the author! )))

  • mishany20113

    I liked the article! I completely agree . and if a girl looks away, try to interest her in something

  • Sergey Tselovakhin

    Let him take it away, the main thing is not to give up and follow your goal and then everything will work out

  • Michael

    I can’t see because I’m shy and look away)

  • gufff

    Nowadays, ladies no longer “shoot” with their eyes (apparently not those times), and if there are girls who are shy, then there are only a few of them

  • romaxxxa

    The article is quite interesting. Can be applied in reality. Thanks to the pick-up artists)

  • Kirill

    The article is good, you can just wink, then it definitely won’t resist,

  • Miroslav

    the article is good. and will be useful to someone as a benefit. Anything can happen in life.

  • Stas Osipovich

    If a girl looks away, don’t despair; your whole life lies ahead. =-)

  • Gala

    Not a bad article. But it also happens that a girl is not at all interested in you, and you are trying to charm her, this can irritate the girl. It is better to study gestures, you can understand a lot from them.

  • VALYA

    It’s better to look away, otherwise it will hatch and evaluate it like at the market.

  • irmax

    In our time, girls who look away from embarrassment can only be found at the conservatory and in the monastery. And if you come to the library, they will already be waiting for you there, and you can boldly look you in the eye.

  • Dmitro0501

    Probably in some situations everything goes according to the same scenario as described in the article, but girls are different and perhaps some girls, even with a careful and unobtrusive approach, still will not pay attention to you.

  • nina

    Interesting article. Super!

  • Oleg K.

    Perhaps there are still some girls who look away. But mostly now they can come up and ask for a cigarette or beer. And the article is practical and informative.

  • denmilkan

    Sometimes it happens that when gazes collide, a girl does not lower her eyes, but simply starts looking around

  • Nyuta

    Good article)) I speak as a girl... As for other guys, maybe they just met the wrong girls or chose them. So they say you won’t meet such people, but they themselves fall for all sorts of bitches..... in life, in reality, and then they cry - give them a good one. Guys, know how to choose good girls!!!!!!..

  • Nyuta

    And for this, in the end, decide what kind of girl you really need.....

  • VlBor

    But maybe the girl doesn’t even look at you, but at the guy behind her, but when she catches your gaze on herself, she looks away. There may still be many nuances here.

  • Julia

    if a girl looked at you several times, it means she liked you, you can calmly approach and start a conversation

  • Paul

    Girls are cunning creatures. They are difficult to fool. It's unclear when she wants to meet you. And when he just wants to scam a guy out of money.

  • Oleg

    but it seems to me it’s the other way around, she’s shy about something, maybe she thinks that I’m like this and he’s so good and something is gnawing at her, maybe it’s her past and she’s ashamed in front of the people themselves

  • joni

    Eyes are the mirror of the soul. And you can read a lot in them. A look can both kill and give hope for life. And if a girl averts her eyes not diagonally, it’s not a fact that you have no chance. Just maybe you caught her at the “crime scene” when she was looking at you with interest.

  • Natalia Vinokurova

    If she looks away, it means she is not interested in you, or try to attract her attention. Or he's just shy.

  • Irina

    It doesn’t always work, but the article is interesting and interesting.

  • Olga

    Yes, everything is written correctly, but do not forget that each person is individual and each has their own problems. It is no coincidence that there is an opinion that the woman is in fact always the initiator of the relationship, even if the man has the impression that this is entirely his merit. And if a girl looks away, it can be anything, even banal - “Leave me alone, I’m not interested in you.”

  • Sergey Tselovakhin

    if it takes you away, it means you all failed

  • lola87

    A modest, shy girl usually looks away too early, even before a stable contact is born, thus signaling that she is not ready to establish a romantic relationship with a guy, although in reality everything is completely different.

  • hope

    Yes, there are two options here.. either she likes you and is embarrassed by you, or she is very uncomfortable with your presence. This is also easy to understand.. if the girl is cheerful at this time and is in a good mood, then she likes you and she is simply shy, and if she is silent all the time and looks around, she’s just waiting for a reason to quickly get away from you.

  • Lena

    If a girl likes a guy, she will still return her gaze to him, even if she is very shy

  • Fleur

    There are two options, either she liked you and your presence makes her feel embarrassed, which means you can go straight and get acquainted, but it happens that she simply doesn’t even want to see you, and she doesn’t like you, much less communicate with her. And here the main thing is understand her point of view, In general, there are many points in the article that are correct.

  • Elena Savina

    interesting observation, note to the guys))))))

  • Anna Mikova

    As soon as you notice that the girl has stopped shying away and even smiled slightly in response, you can act: approach. However, do not forget to keep some distance - about half a meter, so as not to violate her personal comfort zone.

  • bagira

    Not a bad article. But it also happens that a girl is not at all interested in you, and you are trying to charm her, this can irritate the girl. It is better to study gestures, you can understand a lot from them.

  • campanula

    Don't know. You guys probably know better how girls behave in a given situation. I can advise one thing: if you really like a girl, get her by any (non-criminal) means. Girls love persistent guys!

  • Dmitriy

    It’s just perfect to play staring contest on the subway, although it’s awkward to approach, and especially to talk. I remember how I caught a girl’s gaze on me, and she constantly looked at me, and when I paid attention, she immediately turned away.

  • Alexander_Bor

    One thing is for sure, if a girl’s eyes are darting, you are not indifferent to her.

  • Vladimir

    There is no need to rush, of course you need to make sure you are interested or not. But you shouldn’t slow down, mostly girls like persistence. So, go ahead and put theory into practice.

  • Lic

    If a girl looks away, she definitely likes you, she is showing interest in you. Falling in love at first sight. You could say this. If you also liked this girl, just go up to her and talk. It is advisable not to be in the company of friends.

  • Nikita Morozko

    then this means that you don’t like her and doesn’t want to look you in the eye(((

  • evgenn

    Shy girls who avert their eyes are a rarity these days. And if you meet one, consider yourself lucky.

  • Denisich

    OH full of reasons, the girl averting her eyes! No need to even list it! The article generally reveals the reasons! There’s even a lot of useful stuff for personal use! You can’t erase the words from the song! Yes, and why not? Why are you, Darling, looking sideways, bowing your head low..... Well, what can this look mean?

  • https://twitter.com/kaibichevo =Naska=

    I just read the article and understand that this is actually true! Excellent article!

  • Alexander

    A girl looks away for many reasons. If she doesn’t want to communicate, she looks away or even turns away.

  • Shelka

    interesting article, true. but why, why write all this? After all, there must remain some kind of mystery!

  • olgatropova

    It is still possible to miss in such a situation. We may look away for various reasons. But the general essence is captured correctly here. After all, whoever does not take risks will not receive champagne as a reward. And the repeated intersection of views is already a clear signal to action.

  • kaira366

    Girls don't always like persistence either. If you overdo it and stare nonstop, she'll turn her back on you)))

  • Sasha

    Probably in some situations everything goes according to the same scenario as described in the article, but girls are different and perhaps some girls, even with a careful and unobtrusive approach, will still not pay attention to you

  • Alenka Prince

    Everything usually happens spontaneously. Therefore, there is often no time to think about what it means. for example, looking diagonally... Not up to that. If we get lucky. The main thing is for the guy to behave appropriately.

  • Nikita's

    All this bullshit, women are attracted to confident men, no matter what you look like, whether she shoots with her eyes or not, the most important thing is that she is interested, do everything as your soul tells you, throw away all the triviality and go ahead

  • Tamara

    There are a lot of options here, which is why you look away. And even if the views intersect, it’s not a fact that it leads to something. The article, in general, is very interesting.

  • Vladislav

    Probably in some situations everything goes according to the same scenario as described in the article, but girls are different and perhaps some girls, even with a careful and unobtrusive approach, will still not pay attention to you

  • Oksana

    Sometimes it’s just not convenient… when you’re surrounded by other people. And in general, many factors surrounding us influence our views. The article is not clear.

  • Julia

    if your eyes meet a girl several times, it means she likes you, don’t hesitate, come and meet her

  • https://www.facebook.com/rustam.shneider Rustam Shneider

    This useful article can help a lot of people. but in general this is called a game of glances, how many times have you done this yourself, you look at a girl and in her beautiful eyes you can read half the information.

  • Irina Lunnaya

    An interesting and useful article. It is important to take the correct position in order to be in the visibility zone of a stranger and then play with your eyes. It is important to observe the girl’s gaze and draw appropriate conclusions.

  • IrinaKIV

    Yes, the article is interesting, the advice is also useful, you need to keep some distance.

  • https://www.facebook.com/rustam.shneider Rustam Shneider

    I don’t know about you, but my opinion is that if a girl likes you, then she will let you know about it, just at this moment you need to understand her in what way she does it or with her eyes, maybe with some kind of movement or just with words

  • Lucian

    Useful article. But the main thing is not to go too far and keep your distance. Otherwise you’ll run like dogs))

  • https://twitter.com/vowkodav Sergey Zhuravlev

    The article is useful. No doubt about it. After all, someone else’s soul is in the dark, and a woman’s soul is even more so: a mystery. Apparently, it uses not so much personal observations and experience of someone specific, but the conclusions of psychological research. However, we should not forget that situations are different, and views have different basis...

  • https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100004697883638 Viktoria Ezovskih

    I will only look away if the person is absolutely uninteresting to me, but the article is informative. It was interesting to read.

  • Alexander

    Useful article, although you don’t need to get acquainted like that….

  • Galina 11

    Why doesn’t the girl just leave? Why would SHE look for problems with a casual acquaintance, shooting with her eyes? No, I’m against this type of dating, and I don’t want to make it easier for men

  • NOVEL

    A lot depends on the look, but I don’t think one look is enough. It’s not necessary to catch her gaze, you can immediately approach the girl and ask the girl about something, for example, what time is it.

  • Yuri Laptev.

    I read it with interest, but this article is more for my grandchildren - I advise them to watch and exchange opinions. I think that they will be interested and they will leave their feedback on this topic too... Yuri Laptev.

  • Yuri

    even if the views intersect, it’s not a fact that this leads to something. The article, in general, is very interesting

  • Alexander Sivach

    Well, let him take it away, let it go away. On the contrary, I like it when people don’t look at me. They’ll also jinx it =) which is unlikely.

  • https://twitter.com/Miss_Pafos Miss_Pafos

    I read it with pleasure. Some flirt with their gaze, while others simply look away and don’t want to get to know each other. It all depends on the girl. Maybe she's just interested in looking at you and nothing more.

  • Sodden

    The look undoubtedly plays an important role for both partners. However, he can express a lot: from shyness and the desire to have passionate sex, imagining the intertwining of bodies, to a banal reluctance to communicate, a dead end in a conversation, unpleasant topics, and much more. Therefore, it is better to give it an indirect meaning and not take it as a call to action.

  • https://www.facebook.com/artem.bagmet.3 Artem Bagmet

    Useful information. Thank you. Be sure to read.

  • Leonid

    in class with classmates it’s fun to “play with them”

  • Maxim Petrov

    Screw them, I'll still have to figure out how she looks away

  • The girl often looks at you

    How often do you pay attention to girls who are not interesting to you? It's unlikely that you stare at them every time you meet. It’s the same with girls, only there is one thing: the guy pays attention and looks at all the beautiful girls, and there are many of them. For girls here, everything is different: a girl often only looks at the guy she really likes. But as you know, every rule has its exceptions. In most cases, a confident girl will look at you openly or if you don’t know her. Often in 90% of cases it happens that a girl is trying to hide her feelings, in which case everything will be the other way around. She will look at you until you see. I recommend catching her by surprise when she is standing behind you, try to turn around sharply, if she suddenly turns her head or turns away in the other direction, then something is wrong...

    Is it true that the look of a person in love changes?


    It is the eyes that are the true indicator of male feelings. When a person experiences love, regardless of gender and age, the body releases hormones that affect appearance and behavior:

    • heart rate increases;
    • he is in a state close to euphoria;
    • gait changes;
    • improves complexion, hair and nails;
    • pupil size increases.

    Interesting! It is the eyes that are the true indicator of a man’s feelings. The “bottomless” pupil effect indicates serious intentions. The absence of eye changes at the moment of love confession indicates light flirting without long meetings.

    How a man looks when he wants to seduce

    Seduction begins with visual contact and in order to recognize it there are several signs that indicate this:

    • You are talking alone and a man, looking at you, approaches.
    • His gaze darts over you, taking in your legs, face, hair and chest.
    • Make eye contact for longer than 8 seconds.
    • The pupils are dilated and breathing is rapid.
    • While a man examines your figure, a smile appears on his face, which means he liked you.
    • When the man saw that you noticed his gaze and began to smile. This means he is interested in you as a sexual partner.
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