Proper handling of money is of great importance if we want to achieve financial well-being and wealth. One of the factors that will help us do this is the love of money. Of course, it should be within reason.
Money is an eternal subject of debate, and all people have different attitudes towards it. Some people despise them, others treat them with indifference, while others, on the contrary, have a love of money that reaches the point of fanaticism. How to treat money correctly so that it is present in the required quantity, and at the same time not become like Koschey “who wasted away over gold”?
Parable
There is such a parable: in one village, which is located at the foot of the mountain, only two people live. The gods live at the top of the mountain. One of them is the god of money. So, one person treats money carefully and protects it. If a bill is torn, he will carefully seal it so that it does not deteriorate. This person loves to count money, he spends it with pleasure if necessary.
But the second person, if he received the money, puts it in his pocket without counting it. If a bill is torn, he throws it away: everything is completely ruined. If he wants to impress a girl, he can light a cigarette with a large bill. Question: Who, as the god of money, would you trust with money? That's right, the first person who loves money, who cares about what belongs to him.
So, if we use money carefully, then even the gods will be on our side!
Large bills
Agree, spending five thousand rubles at once with one banknote is more difficult than spending one hundred rubles. And therefore the next law is that money must be kept in large denominations. Conduct an experiment: take banknotes of different denominations, for example, 100 rubles and 1000. If you want, take dollars or euros. Which banknote do you like best? Which one do you want to save? Yes, and one more thing - never save for a rainy day! It’s better to save for something pleasant - a purchase, a trip, training or something else.
Rich people keep their savings in large banknotes. This, as it were, affirms wealth and prosperity, gives a feeling of monetary stability, confidence, and a reliable rear. If you don’t immediately have banknotes of high denomination, it doesn’t matter. You can accumulate at least ten rubles. The main thing is not to forget to regularly update them in your “piggy bank” for larger bills. If you saved 100 rubles each and saved up 1000 rubles, replace ten 100 ruble bills. for one 1000 rub. In this way, a large amount will gradually accumulate.
Caring about money
I once heard the following story: a woman bought a wallet so that her money would be convenient! Imagine the depth of thoughts! Now imagine that we are money, and we observe the following situation. Two women enter the store, they both buy the same wallets. One of them buys it because the old one is torn, and she is ashamed to appear in society with it. And the other one buys it in order to make it more convenient for her money. Which wallet would you like to get into? That's right, the one you bought for money, and not for yourself; to one where they will show love for money.
A method for transforming negative beliefs about money into positive ones
Many of you are already wondering how to change your attitude towards money, how to turn negative beliefs into positive ones. You probably know that many things related to your thoughts, worldview, or memory need to be written down on paper.
Firstly, it is a visual visualization of your thoughts and their transformations. So you see them with your own eyes and observe their changes. They do not remain vague and ephemeral in your mind.
Secondly, this is elementary muscle memory, so they really become better established.
So, you need to write down everything you think about money. That's all. Of course, it will be difficult to do this right away. This is not a very pleasant process and requires effort. Take a few days to do this, during which you write down absolutely every thought you have when you think about money. You will write down all the fears and negative thoughts about money and wealth. The main thing is not to deceive yourself or suppress any of them. Write even those that you may consider absurd. It is important to record the very first opinion. Relax and let your thoughts flow freely. This way you will know what you really think about it.
From everything written, we choose fears and negative thoughts.
These can be both beliefs from childhood and passed on from parents, as well as conclusions formed already at a conscious age. There should be several dozen of them, about 40. If there are fewer of them, then you are either deceiving yourself, or you already have a positive opinion and have achieved some success. Speaking of which, even more or less wealthy people should use this practice, since as wealth increases, needs and, naturally, beliefs change, so it’s worth checking your thoughts about money regularly.
So you've written down all your bad thoughts about money. You should not try to somehow explain or hide them, forget about it. It is in your best interest to work through them. Instead, you simply begin to correct all the bad things for the good, rephrase all these sentences, convincing yourself that you are right and instilling in yourself a new truth.
Write down the revised thoughts on another piece of paper and repeat to yourself that what you originally wrote is not true and does not correspond to reality at all. But new beliefs are the truth, it’s about you.
The piece of paper with old, negative phrases should be burned. This way you will truly get rid of your money fears and negative attitudes. They will disappear. When you burn a leaf, remember the safety rules! It is better to repeat and reinforce new thoughts regularly.
Here's how to change some negative beliefs about money.
- “I don’t have money” - “I have money and it’s enough for me to live”;
- “I will never get rich” - “My goal is to make money and I will achieve it”;
- “They are rich and spend money easily, we can’t do that” - “We can buy whatever we want and earn even more”;
- “Only people from the news or movies earn a lot” - “Those who want to earn a lot, and I am among them”;
- “I am from a poor family” - “I am from a good family, and I will become even richer”;
- “No one in our family earned a lot of money” - “I make money in our family!”;
- “I don’t have money for good things and equipment” - “I have good things. If I want even better, I can afford it”;
- “Big money can be earned only by deception or hard work” - “Many people earn good money honestly, and I am among them”;
- “Big money only brings problems” – “Big money brings success, and I will achieve it”;
- “I am unhappy because I am poor” - “I love my life and am always ready to make it even better.”
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