150 questions to get to know your interlocutor better

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Never Will I Play is great for teens to start a conversation, learn more about each other, or just have fun together. It will also help you learn what others did or didn't do in their lives.

We provide you with a comprehensive list of never-before-told questions for teens that you could use as inspiration to create your own set of questions.

Experiment

Intimacy is formed when people have a genuine interest in each other. At the same time, accepting your partner for who he is. This is a state that is often called “souls touching.”

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Agree, it is much more comfortable to be in the company of a person when you can be sincere with him than to communicate with someone, “putting on” a mask and playing the expected role. Is not it?

Psychologist Arthur Aron once asked this question, what exactly helps to form intimacy. Therefore, in 1997, I decided to undertake an experiment, which is known in the world as “36 questions”.

Its essence was that complete strangers had to ask each other a list of questions provided by Arthur.

Test for teenagers psychology test on the topic

Special test for teenagers!

1. Do you often experience a craving for new experiences, to be distracted, to experience strong sensations?

2. Do you often feel that you need friends who can understand, approve, and sympathize with you?

3. Do you consider yourself a carefree person?

4. Is it very difficult for you to give up your intentions?

5. Do you think about your affairs slowly, do you prefer to wait before acting?

6. Do you always keep your promises, even if it doesn’t benefit you?

7. Do you often have ups and downs in your mood?

8. Do you usually act and speak quickly?

9. Have you ever had the feeling that you are unhappy, although there was no serious reason for this?

10. Are you able to decide on anything in a “dispute”?

11. Do you feel embarrassed when you want to meet someone of the opposite sex who you like?

12. Does it ever happen that when you get angry, you lose your temper?

13. Does it often happen that you act thoughtlessly, on the spur of the moment?

14. Do you often worry about the idea that you shouldn't have done or said something?

15. Do you prefer reading books to meeting people?

16. Is it true that you are easily offended?

17. Do you often like to be in company?

18. Do you ever have thoughts that you would not like to share with others?

19. Is it true that sometimes you are so full of energy that everything in your hands burns, and sometimes you feel tired?

20. Do you try to limit your circle of acquaintances to a small number of your closest friends?

21. Do you dream a lot?

22. When people shout at you, do you respond in kind?

23. Do you consider all your habits to be good?

24. Do you often have the feeling that you are to blame for something?

25. Are you sometimes able to give free rein to your feelings and have fun in a cheerful company?

26. Can we say that your nerves are often stretched to the limit?

27. Are you reputed to be a lively and cheerful person?

28. When something is done, do you often mentally return to it and think that you could have done it better?

29. Do you feel uneasy when you are in a large company?

30. Does it happen that you spread rumors?

31. Does it happen that you can’t sleep because different thoughts come into your head?

32. If you want to know something, do you prefer to find it in a book rather than ask people?

33. Do you have palpitations?

34. Do you like work that requires concentration?

35. Do you have tremors?

36. Do you always tell the truth?

37. Do you find it unpleasant to be in a company where they make fun of each other?

38. Are you irritable?

39. Do you like work that requires quick action?

40. Is it true that you are often haunted by thoughts about various troubles and horrors that could happen, although everything ended well?

41. Is it true that you are leisurely in your movements and somewhat slow?

42. Have you ever been late for work or a meeting with someone?

43. Do you often have nightmares?

44. Is it true that you love to talk so much that you don’t miss any opportunity to talk with a new person?

45. Do you have any pain?

46. ​​Would you be upset if you couldn’t see your friends for a long time?

47. Are you a nervous person?

48. Are there anyone among your friends that you clearly don’t like?

49. Are you a confident person?

50. Are you teenagers easily offended by criticism of your shortcomings or your work?

51. Is it difficult for you to really enjoy events in which many people participate?

52. Does the feeling that you are somehow worse than others bother you?

53. Could you bring some life to a boring company?

54. Does it happen that you talk about things that you don’t understand at all?

55. Are you worried about your health?

56. Do you like to make fun of others?

57. Do you suffer from insomnia?

Special test for teenagers!

Processing the results.

To answer the question which camp - extroverts or introverts - you belong to, you need to calculate the sum of the “yes” answers to questions 1, 3, 8, 10, 13, 17, 22, 25, 27, 39, 44, 46, 49 , 53, 56 and “no” answers to questions 5, 15, 20, 29, 37, 41, 51.

If the sum of points

from 0 to 10, then you are an introvert - closed within yourself;

From 15 to 24 - you are an extrovert - sociable, facing the outside world;

From 11 to 14 - you are an ambivert - you communicate when you need it.

To determine the coefficient of emotional stability, you should calculate the sum of “yes” answers to questions 2, 4, 7, 9, 11, 14, 16, 19, 2, 23, 26, 28, 31, 33, 35, 38, 40, 43, 45, 47, 50, 52, 55, 57 (see chart).

If the number of answers is “yes”

From 0 to 10, then you are emotionally stable;

From 11 to 16 – you are emotionally impressionable;

From 17 to 22 – individual signs of nervous system instability appear;

From 23 to 24 - you are at risk of a nervous breakdown, neurosis.

Extroverts

Extroverts are a type of personality (or behavior) that is oriented outward in its manifestations, towards others.

Extroverts are characterized by behavior in which a person strives to:

communicating with people

attention from others,

participation in public speaking,

participation in crowded events and parties.

Extroverts are “charged” with energy from the outside world - from actions, people, places and things. They are energy wasters. Long periods of inactivity, inner contemplation, or loneliness, or communication with only one person deprive them of a sense of meaning in life. However, extroverts need to supplement the time they spend in action with intervals of just being, otherwise they will get lost in the whirlpool of frantic activity. Extroverts have a lot to offer our society: they express themselves easily, are focused on results, and love crowds and action.

Extroverts are like solar panels. For them, being alone or being inside is like being under heavy, dense clouds. Solar panels need the sun to recharge - extroverts need to be in public for this. Like introversion, extroversion is a temperament with a constant pattern of action. It cannot be changed. You can work with it, but not against it.

An extrovert can be an excellent toastmaster, organizer (often on a voluntary basis), official, manager of people, artist or entertainer.

Introverts are a type of personality (or behavior) that is inward or self-oriented.

At its core, introversion is a type of temperament. This is not at all like shyness or aloofness; it is not a pathology. In addition, this personality trait cannot be changed, even if you really want to. But you can teach him to work with him, not against him.

Introverts are characterized by behavior that is more related to comfortable solitude, internal reflections and experiences, creativity, or observation of the process.

The most important characteristic of introverts is their source of energy: introverts draw energy from their inner world of ideas, emotions and impressions. They conserve energy. The outside world quickly puts them into a state of overstimulation, and they have an unpleasant feeling when there is “too much” of something. This can manifest itself in twitchiness or, conversely, in apathy. In any case, they need to limit social contacts so as not to be completely devastated. However, introverts need to supplement their alone time with time in the outside world, otherwise they may lose their sense of perspective and connection with others. Introverts who can balance their energy needs have resilience and tenacity, can see things independently, focus deeply, and work creatively.

Introverts are like an electric battery that needs to be recharged. They need to periodically stop, stop wasting energy and rest in order to recharge again. It is the opportunity to recharge that provides introverts with a less stimulating environment. In it they restore energy. This is their natural ecological niche.

An introvert can be an excellent scientist, researcher, observer, writer or self-employed entrepreneur. If an extrovert needs the presence of other people for comfort, then an introvert is comfortable working alone.

Ambivert

An ambivert (in psychology) is a person who has average scores on the introversion-extroversion scale. Extraversion means being outgoing...

Explanation of the test for teenagers.

Determination of temperament type.

If in your environment there is a person around whom everything is falling, collapsing, flying, ringing and breaking, and his voice is heard with such volume that it can be heard in the most distant corners, then he is probably a choleric person. It doesn’t give in to pressure, it’s more likely to start itself up so that it doesn’t seem too much. There is no need to push it or start it at all - it will explode without additional help from you. And when “Ostap gets carried away,” then just hold on! “Light tank” is how one of the girls described her choleric boyfriend. A.P. Chekhov accurately noted that choleric people don’t understand jokes and can’t stand everything. It has a terrible property that makes it of little use for family scandals: you raise your voice at him, and he raises it even more. You hit a cup - he hits a dinner plate, you throw a pillow at him, he... however, it’s better not to throw a pillow at him... You must be prepared that a choleric husband with a pure but angry heart can throw a shoe or an iron in your direction , grip, guitar, stereo, chair - whatever comes to hand. Then he will cry and ask for forgiveness. It’s better, of course, not in the emergency room...

The choleric person is mobile, does not keep himself waiting when he needs to come up with something, propose, or take the initiative. The famous psychiatrist V. Garbuzov claims that the ancient natural biological function of choleric people is the conquest of new spaces for the pack (tribe, state, family). So keep this one in the peaceful walls of your home! It is not surprising that he always strives to run away somewhere. He's not running from you, of course. And to new, unknown battles

In most cases, modesty is not a noticeable feature of a choleric person. Confidence in many choleric people turns into self-confidence. He doesn’t really like to finish, think out, polish, although if he gets seriously carried away, it’s difficult to stop him. This also manifests itself very noticeably in courtship.

Doesn't like to wait. He perceives failures as a challenge from fate - he either acts feverishly or falls into apathy. In general, the companion of such a man should get used to his mood swings, hot temper, and periodic verbosity. If he speaks, it is problematic to interrupt him; if he sulks in a corner, it is also difficult to stir him up. Well, at least he’ll explain what’s going on (melancholic people are rarely capable of this). It is almost impossible to predict his reaction to something new - he is not predictable!

Such a “gift” moves in a specific way: quickly, impetuously, one gets the impression that he has too many hands, elbows and knees. Usually he grabs, pulls and throws. Hugs are temperamentally appropriate (be careful with your spine and ribs!). It is difficult for him to sit widely and comfortably in an armchair or on a chair - he would rather sit on the edge, like an eagle on a cliff - about to take off! He needs everything right away. And a lot... Don’t try to put a “muzzle” of decorum on him, this will develop into neurasthenia, neurosis. Do you need a mentally damaged husband? Then give him room to maneuver, a shelf with things that you don’t really value, a couple of enemies, a goal to conquer, and lock him in four walls less often. Give him the happiness to run after you, reward him occasionally with passionate dates. In the end, it also has great benefits: if someone starts pestering you, the choleric person will hit him before you react. So a taboo free space will soon form around you, like around a royal person.

A sanguine person is similar in some ways to a choleric person, but he is better suited to be a scout - he has good self-control, is balanced, and does not get into trouble. If there is one striking feature, it is an even optimism and efficiency. The confidence of a sanguine person is adequate, mobility does not threaten the interior, decisiveness depends little on mood. If a sanguine person has ideas, he considers it natural to bring their implementation to their logical conclusion. If the situation gets tense, unlike a choleric person, he not only becomes collected, but also does not lose his sense of humor. He can lighten the atmosphere with jokes and jokes. A sanguine person can make not only a character actor, but also a universal actor - he has a good command of emotions, his speech is loud, his intonations are lively, his facial expressions are varied. It is easier for a sanguine person to be known as the life of the party, the ringleader and the favorite - he is sociable, but not intrusive; a confident but not aggressive leader, active but not fussy. He loves company, makes acquaintances easily, and is pleasant at home. He switches easily, does not get hung up on problems, hence what is called lightness of character. I’m not inclined to quarrel over trifles, and in general he’s easy-going - in a word, he’s a cutie! The natural role of a sanguine person is the arrangement of “infrastructure” - connections between fellow tribesmen, management, social well-being. Therefore, a sanguine person is quite suitable as a husband, but still has a couple of disadvantages. For example, his tastes, interests and inclinations are not particularly consistent. Can be quite amorous. Fans usually revolve around a sanguine person, like planets around the sun. A sanguine person enjoys the company of the opposite sex - he literally basks in the rays of his own eloquence and charm. “Well, how can I drive them away, dear, I can’t deprive these lovely girls of MYSELF! It will be too hard for them” - such reasoning with a greater or lesser degree of self-confidence is characteristic of sanguine people.

A job for sanguine teenagers needs one that offers a variety of activities, business trips, and a change in activity. Can change places of work in search of one where it would be interesting. If he doesn’t find one, he openly gets bored and complains. If he gets carried away, then that’s a different matter. He is able to work, but this ability is not always realized. He likes to command more than to obey, prefers to decide for others, to put people in their places. Therefore, if life does not correct the sanguine person, optimism turns into mocking, wasting life; leadership - into tyranny, the desire to crush those who are weaker and dependent on him.

Phlegmatics are also quite easy to calculate. He is the opposite of choleric. In class he “doesn’t violate”, he doesn’t go around with women, he’s invisible in an argument, he’s the last one to enter a fight. True, if he does, it will be more difficult to stop him than a choleric person. Because the main feature of a phlegmatic person is inertia, that is, he swings for a long time, and when he swings, he cannot stop.

Have you seen at the station how a loaded train starts moving? If you compare it with a passenger car, is there a difference? Can you mentally imagine how to stop this very loaded train at full speed? How about stopping a car under the same conditions? The inertia of a freight train is many times greater than that of a passenger car. Now you understand what a phlegmatic person is, just starting to do something, and a phlegmatic person who is already seriously interested in something. These are two big differences. And you may not recognize your own husband in these two states. Yesterday it was a lazy fat man lying on the sofa and slowly sketching out a kitchen refurbishment plan on a piece of paper; today it is a woodworking machine that knows no rest, monotonously and measuredly churning out planed boards, parts and interior items. Sometimes you can’t even get enough for lunch - that’s how you get involved in work! But the degree of hard work of a phlegmatic person depends on his upbringing: he can become a hard worker or a lazy person (just remember Oblomov)!

A phlegmatic person is also convenient because the apartment is quiet with him. He doesn’t like to say unnecessary words, and his voice is often not loud. Speech is calm and without emotion. According to the observations of A.P. Chekhov, “he is always serious because he is too lazy to laugh.” It’s difficult to get him out of his temper; he’s in no hurry to get offended. Things around him are in order, he is confident in his knowledge and capabilities - and such confidence is built from scratch, but on hard-earned experience and competent, leisurely calculations. Usually he doesn’t allow himself to be drawn into an argument - if the argument is really interesting or if the disputants are pestering you, please give me a couple of weighty judgments. And again - silence. The natural biological role of a phlegmatic person (according to V. Garbuzov) is the arrangement of the territory “freshly conquered” by choleric people. Therefore, the following points are important for a phlegmatic husband:

the territory he came to is his territory, and without any military action;

no one is stopping him from settling in and arranging it to his liking;

in this territory, no one is rushing him - everything has its time, and the phlegmatic person does practically nothing from the start.

A phlegmatic person has a good sense of rhythms and cycles, and is not bothered by monotonous work - he knows that summer gives way to autumn, and autumn to winter, and he will still have to plow in the spring. Even if he is a manager or businessman, from the outside he looks like a “plowman” - stubborn, unhurried, measured and patient, he “sows” his modest or large business and skillfully cultivates it. Even though there is hail and snow, nature has no bad weather. Having a delicate and vulnerable mental organization, you cannot survive regular natural disasters. And giving up means only ruining your previous work. Therefore, looking for poetic subtleties is not for the phlegmatic. Life's difficulties do not knock him out of the saddle; he perceives them as simply ordinary everyday troubles. If there is noise and commotion around, pitching and cannonade, a phlegmatic person is able to work with virtually no damage to quality. Sometimes phlegmatic people even seem rude because of their unemotionality and thick skin.

And indeed, they are the most “thick-skinned” of all temperaments. You can’t take them “weakly”, you can’t sell them unnecessary goods, you can’t persuade them into a dubious deal. It is also difficult to drag a phlegmatic person into the registry office under the influence of an impulse - this is not a passionate choleric person or an addicted sanguine person! But... ah! No one knows how to wait so faithfully and for a long time for his beloved as a phlegmatic person. He is one of those monogamous people who, having met youthful love 10-20 years later, as if nothing had happened, goes down the aisle with her - he knew that he would not get away from him! And the fact that the beloved is not so fresh, far from being the morning rose, is not something to drink from the face, the main thing is that the person is the same.

A melancholic person outwardly “disguises” himself as a phlegmatic person - he is quiet, quiet, avoids unnecessary activity, and is not expressive. But it has at least two fundamental differences. His quietness and equanimity are purely external, but inside there are nerves, like exposed wires, hidden resentments and doubts. The slightest fluctuations in the human field are recorded: he notices half-looks, half-smiles, breaths and eyebrow movements. He can hear the grass growing. Is it any wonder that screams, scandals, tears and, God forbid, life dramas throw him out of balance. And therefore, when a melancholic person finds himself in a critical situation, he sometimes even loses the ability to think sensibly, and sometimes he simply “hides his head in the sand,” like an ostrich. Not because he is stupid or irresponsible, but because the load on his sensitive nervous system is prohibitive. The fuses simply “burn out” and the person switches off for a while. If I hadn’t passed out, I would have quickly seen a psychiatrist. So the old trick with “hooligans” in the gateway does not work with a melancholic person. He might get into a fight (he’s a man after all!), but then... You will be forced to spend many hours having calming conversations, giving him valerian to drink, caressing and comforting the melancholic. It is possible that he himself will run away from you - if he does not want to appear before the Lady of his heart in such an unmanly form. But he can’t do anything with himself - he’s not a fighter by nature!

In addition, he is indecisive, unsure, making a choice is sheer torment for him! And getting to know the lady of his heart is a real problem for a melancholic person. What wild psychological tricks must a melancholic person in love perform on himself in order to simply come up and find out the name and contact numbers of his passion! Yes, he rarely meets people on his own. The melancholic person really likes large noisy companies and avoids numerous contacts. In everyday life, his ability to take offense at little things and react to minor troubles can be quite annoying. Requires more warmth and consolation than representatives of other temperaments. The only good thing is that you can expect the same from him in return. A melancholic person is a faithful friend, a poetic, subtle nature that easily senses your mood. Do you want flowers, serenades, sighs under the moon? Please! Just don’t bother with requests very often:

solve one or another fundamental issue;

select the type of deposit in the bank;

change the job to which he is accustomed;

agree on roof repairs (overhaul, luggage transportation, etc.) A well-mannered melancholic person, of course, will try to shoulder this heavy load, but too frequent abuse of his masculinity can disrupt the harmony of your relationship. The natural function of melancholic people is diagnosis. A melancholic person in society is an analogue of pain cells in the body. Troubles started in some place - people got sick there. The same is true for a melancholic person: as long as everything in society is relatively smooth, familiar, and calm, the melancholic person is also calm. As soon as the slightest signs of disturbance appear, the melancholic person is in tension. His sensitivity allows him to perform well in almost any diagnostic activity, be it checking computers, medical diagnostics, psychology, pedagogy, economics, management, and even politics. The melancholic person is actively worried - expect troubles in the future. By the way, despite such a fragile structure, melancholic people do not drink too much more often than representatives of other temperaments - they protect their health! Naturally, each of the four temperaments presented in its pure form is rare. More often you can observe transitional forms - choleric-melancholic, phlegmatic-sanguine, etc. Of course, this also applies to women. There are no combinations of melancholic and sanguine, choleric and phlegmatic - they are too different.

Questions about the past

The past creates us in the present, which is why it is so important. Yes, people change, but not as quickly as we would like. Therefore, the one who betrayed once will repeat it again. Questions about the past will help you understand your friend and trace the connection between his present and past.

Childhood

  1. Have you ever kept a diary?
  2. Did you like going to kindergarten? What did you dislike the most?
  3. Was it easy to study at school?
  4. What changed you as a teenager?
  5. Who was your first love?
  6. Do you communicate with your classmates and school friends?
  7. Do you have Brother or sister? Are you a good communicator?
  8. If you were asked to change something about your childhood, what would you choose?
  9. What did you dream of becoming as a child?
  10. What were your hobbies, what sections and clubs did you attend?

Biography

  1. What was the best period in your life?
  2. What was the worst period in your life?
  3. Have you ever lost someone close to you?
  4. When did you feel the biggest adrenaline rush?
  5. Which of your parents are you closer to and why?
  6. What are you most grateful for?
  7. What did your last relationship teach you?
  8. What is your biggest regret in life?

Alarm bells: 5 reasons to contact a psychologist

Constant fatigue and poor health

Sleep is the first indicator of physical and mental health.

The teenager wakes up exhausted and lethargic. During the day he can be busy with interesting things and chatting with friends. By evening, anxiety increases and fears appear. A teenager cannot fall asleep for a long time, replaying the events of the day in his head, analyzing his behavior and the words of other people. As a result, he falls asleep from fatigue. Sometimes he wakes up during the night. As a result, in the morning he has neither the strength nor the desire to get out of bed.

Gradually, this behavior leads to chronic fatigue and lack of energy for any action. Lost interest in life. Attention becomes distracted, memory deteriorates. Body signals begin: headaches and stomach pains.

Obedience

If a teenager is always “good” and “behaves correctly,” then this is a reason to take a closer look. Such a child is convenient for adults, but what will this behavior lead to in the future? How will the lack of independence, responsibility and ability to make decisions affect your life? What happens when there are no significant adults around to tell you what to do? What will he be guided by when choosing an activity for himself? Will he build a family?

Adolescence is an important stage of separation. And those who do not pass it will face difficulties that will become especially noticeable by the age of 30, when the midlife crisis begins.

Closedness

The teenager does not want to communicate. He has no friends. Avoids communication with parents. The main background state is anxiety. Being stressed for a long time, a teenager puts himself into a depressive state.

Aggression

In relation to yourself and others. Attempts to harm yourself. Rude, inappropriate communication with friends, parents, classmates, teachers, strangers. Provocation to quarrels and fights. The predominant states are anger, rage. Inability to calmly discuss the situation.

A sharp change in lifestyle

A sharp change in social circle, clothing style, hobbies and interests signals internal problems that the teenager cannot cope with. A teenager may abruptly stop following his usual daily routine, as well as comply with the rules of life at home and at school. May stop paying attention to his appearance.

Questions about love, family and friendship

It is a similar view of family values ​​and friendship that determines the longevity of a relationship. These questions will open your eyes to many nuances that you didn’t even know about.

Man and woman

  1. What is a stumbling block for you in a relationship?
  2. Could you take back someone who committed treason?
  3. Would you share your password with your partner?
  4. When do you think a person is ready to get married?
  5. How will you react if your parents don't like your chosen one?
  6. Do you usually stay friends with your exes?
  7. When was the last time you broke someone's heart?
  8. Could you move for love?
  9. What do you think about online dating and Tinder?
  10. Do you think quarrels are sometimes necessary or should there always be an idyll?

Love and money

  1. Can you fall in love with a very fat person if he is rich?
  2. How do you feel about relationships for money?
  3. Are you ready to support your soulmate?
  4. Should both people in a couple earn the same amount or is it not important?
  5. Should the budget be shared or does everyone pay only their own expenses?
  6. What is better: “heaven in a hut” or a marriage of convenience?
  7. A comfortable life or true love – what will you choose?
  8. Is it possible to start a family if both are unsteady on their feet?
  9. Will you be comfortable if the chosen one is much richer than you?

Love and children

  1. What kind of parent do you think you will be?
  2. How do you feel about abortion?
  3. How much does it cost to have a child?
  4. How many children do you want?
  5. Can you raise someone else's child?
  6. Will you live with an unloved person just because of the child?

Love and sex

  1. How do you feel about explicit messages with photos?
  2. What is acceptable for you in intimacy?
  3. Are you ready to support what your chosen one offers, if you haven’t tried it before?
  4. Have you ever been in a loveless relationship?
  5. Do you believe in love or do you think it's just attraction?

Your relationship

  1. Who is the person you can talk to about literally anything?
  2. Could you tell me if you killed a person?
  3. Who would you invite with you if you decided to do something illegal?
  4. What sometimes irritates you about me?
  5. What's your favorite way to spend time with me?
  6. Is it easy for you to communicate with me, do you get emotional relief?
  7. What do you think we have in common?
  8. Do you like my friends?
  9. Do you want us to be friends for life?

How to Play with a Teenager

The rules of the game, which I've never played, are quite simple and can be customized to suit the convenience of the players involved. Here's one way to play.

Players take some candy with them, sit in a circle and take turns talking about something they have never eaten or done. Sentences should begin with the phrase: “Never seen.” For example, “I have never tried kayaking.” The rest of the group who tried kayaking should have a sweet bite. If only one person has tried kayaking, you can ask them to provide you with detailed information. In the end, the winner is the one who eats the most candies.

Race for likes

One of the problems of the last decade is gaming addiction.
Olga Vasilievna assures that from the list of games and the hero you can understand what problem a teenager has: “Guys who choose an aggressive character come to see me. By participating in battles, the child receives an adrenaline rush that does not go away after leaving the game. That is, the boy does not return calm to the real world, he is still excited. And it happens that this excitement is taken out on the weaker.

A ban on playing can alienate a teenager from his parents. Therefore, it is important to limit the time spent in front of a computer monitor. You also need to find the right way to release excess energy.

And further. Seeing that some teenagers on Instagram are successful and have their own income, children begin to develop complexes. By the way, psychological trauma can easily be caused by a photo that classmates posted on the Internet, and the teenager turned out poorly in it. Likes and comments are really important for children. This is a rating system that raises their status. They feel much more confident than users who are unpopular on social networks.

In order to have emotional contact, you need to be part of the child’s social circle. It is important to know who he is friends with in reality, online. It is worth conveying to him that with any problems he needs to go to his parents, who will help and will be for him.

Adolescence is a rather difficult period

This is a rather difficult period, for both sides, because teenagers do not understand what is happening to them, and parents do not know how to help their children. Moms and dads often complain that they no longer recognize their child and don't really know what to talk about with them.

It is necessary to create a list of discussions that can be the beginning of open dialogues.

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