Representatives of the strong half of humanity almost always hide their true experiences, emotions and feelings . But why does this happen and what prevents men from demonstrating their true attitude towards certain events, people and objects?
It just so happens that most men try to carefully disguise and hide their own feelings. From childhood, parents put into the little boy’s head the idea that men are strong, men should never cry, men should always have high self-control and calmness. Because of this, an adult youth, a young man and a mature man hides not only negative, but also positive emotions. For example, when they need to demonstrate love for the woman they like, they give up and do not say those tender words that should be said.
Many of us women don't understand why we behave this way. A man’s reluctance to show emotions is caused by several reasons.
A man is in love, but hides his feelings: signs of falling in love
Every woman who notices a man’s advances would probably like to know more accurately about his feelings.
But representatives of the stronger sex, as a rule, carefully hide them, finding it difficult to express what is inside them with words. For any person, love is his personal secret, and trying to hide it, the lover behaves in an unusual way. If you observe the behavior, posture, and gestures of such a man, then determining his intentions will not be too difficult. To start a serious relationship, you need to be able to distinguish real feelings from simple flirting.
Overly jealous
Most people have a little bit of jealousy, while others seem to take it to the extreme. Quite a few men are known to be overly jealous and this can definitely drive women crazy. Some of them get angry or upset if their girlfriend talks to a guy, tries to make male friends, or even looks in their direction. Excessive jealousy in most cases not only “drives women crazy,” but also repels them.
Signs of a man falling in love
Not usually caring about how he looks, he suddenly begins to dress modernly and beautifully, takes care of his hair, and wears good perfume.
Knowing that when looking at an object of interest to us, the pupils dilate, we can determine the feelings of a man by being able to catch his gaze.
The lover will talk to his passion with a changed timbre and intonation in his voice.
Also, obvious signs of falling in love with a girl will be pink cheeks, tilting the head to one side and eyebrows that look “housey” during a conversation. At this time, he becomes open to his beloved - he does not hide his palms, puts both thumbs in his belt, keeps his back straight, and leans his chest forward.
His pose can also give him away: a full-face position without crossing his arms and legs or sitting, with his knees pointed towards the girl, indicates that he is very attractive to the lady.
Characteristic
Strong love can cause:
Excitement at the sight of the woman you love.
This can be expressed by incoherent babbling or excessively active gestures during a conversation, accompanied by involuntary movements - adjusting hair and clothes, blotting the forehead with a handkerchief, removing specks of dust from shoulders and other unnecessary gestures.
How to attract a man's attention?
A woman and a man
Have you spent a lot of time observing a guy and come to the conclusion that he is not in love with you? There is no need to hang your nose, act according to the principle of “Magomed going to the mountain.” The seventeenth century has long passed and initiative on the part of a woman is not at all shameful, and psychologists generally welcome such actions!
How should you behave to make a man deeply interested in you? First of all, be a woman, and we will tell you the rest.
- For a man to pay attention to you, you must show interest in what is important to him. He loves fishing - ask for all the details about the latest catch. If he loves horse riding, read more about it and go out to talk. When he realizes that you have common interests and you sincerely share his hobbies, he will not even notice how he will begin to think about you every minute.
- You must be ready to listen to him until the last emotion when he talks about what worries him. You must listen! Do not advise, do not discuss, do not ask, in a word, absorb. At the same time, he must see that you empathize with him from the bottom of your heart and are ready to withstand such a monologue from night to morning and vice versa.
- Don’t throw scandals at him, especially when he’s actually “begging” for them. All men consider women to be slightly or completely hysterical creatures. If he promised to call at 11, but did not do this, and at 4 in the morning he was online on a social network, he is morally determined to listen to a storm of anger addressed to him. If, instead of screaming, you calmly say that such behavior was unpleasant for you (and at the same time you do not cry or pretend that the world collapsed from such an act), he will be very surprised and such surprise will be pleasant. A man will definitely appreciate your restraint and ability to calmly express dissatisfaction.
A few more tips
- Don't burden him with your problems right away. We are talking about a man who you like, but there is no serious relationship between you yet. And in order for them to appear, you must look as cheerful and cheerful as possible in front of him. If you constantly pump up the guy with your “everything is bad: I broke my nail, my hair is ruined by the rain, my salary is low, etc.”, he will stay away from you. Who needs extra negativity?
- “The path through the stomach” was known to your great-grandmother, but now many people neglect it and take it for outright banality. But in vain! No matter how old this statement is, culinary skills will help attract a man once and for all. However, you shouldn’t bring a jar of borscht to every date. To make a man interested in you, treat him to something special, for example, sweets or a cake you made. And you must do this unobtrusively, so that he does not understand that you specifically used your cakes as bait.
- And your most important hobby is that you must show him that you want and can be useful in achieving his global life goals. For example, he dreams of a large country house. Tell him that you know a great place where he can pour the foundation tomorrow or show him your knowledge of interior design. Of course, any such proposals must be truthful, because no one will build a relationship on deception.
Intergender relationships are not easy, we often cannot understand each other's hints, and this leads to numerous failed couples. If you have set out to find out how a guy feels about you or have decided to actively conquer him, you must remember that men, no less than women, want love and warmth and with the right behavior. You will definitely become a happy lady of your heart, and, perhaps, a wife.
If our article was useful, we also invite you to watch the video “10 signs that someone likes you”
Behavior of a man in love
An active lover finds a reason to be where his beloved is at that moment. He begins to get involved in the same interests as his girlfriend. He notices minor changes in her appearance and he likes it all. Although some men, on the contrary, hide their feelings so much that they become unapproachable and cold.
But more often than not, the one who is in love becomes a romantic, ready to get a star from the sky. He is attentive, caring, gives gifts, fulfills all the whims, and is the first to come to the rescue.
This behavior can be overshadowed by the lover’s excessive jealousy. Fearing that he has a rival, he may cause a scandal. More well-mannered men immediately lose their mood, they either withdraw or become simply angry.
Representatives of the stronger sex can show off their love with excessive eloquence. Some clearly boast about their life achievements, embellishing them. Almost all men, having felt sympathy for a woman, begin to find out the details of her life.
Another sign of a lover is the desire to touch his beloved, at least accidentally or in a fit of politeness (for example, helping to put on a coat).
Love and infatuation: is there a difference?
Falling in love is certainly different from love, although many people confuse these concepts.
There are three main differences between how men fall in love and how they love:
- A man's love flares up suddenly . A guy, seeing a girl for the first time, can instantly become inflamed with passion for her. But after a while, getting to know her better, he realizes that she is not his person and the love passes. Love can live forever. It develops slowly, slowly, becoming stronger over the years. Real feeling is not afraid of everyday or financial problems, and falling in love most often passes due to these reasons.
- For a guy in love, physical intimacy comes first. And a loving person, if circumstances force him, can do without sex, still feeling respect, trust and love for his partner.
- Lovers do not notice the shortcomings of the chosen one. And a loving partner knows about them, but accepts them with understanding.
Therefore, according to psychology, signs of falling in love in young men appear quite quickly. And it takes a lot of time to recognize the symptoms of true love.
Other actions of a guy who falls in love
1. Tries to conquer the girl by inserting funny anecdotes and jokes into the conversation.
2. Meeting his beloved is more important to him than all his other affairs.
3. He will always help if you ask him, even very urgently.
4. Becomes incredibly caring.
5. Trusting, he begins to talk about his cherished thoughts, secrets, and experiences.
6. The woman he loves is the best in everything, he admires her and wants to achieve great success.
7. A man in love always assumes the participation of the girl he likes in his affairs.
8. A person who truly loves is always ready to protect both from physical threat and from emotional shock, not allowing even the thought of offending himself. He can physically feel if his loved one is in pain.
9. Sacrificing his comfort and safety, in difficult cases he acts without shifting the situation to others.
10. Always listens to the opinion of his beloved, considering it the most important. May put aside what he is doing to be more attentive.
11. He remembers well everything that is important for the girl he loves.
12. Completely trusts, letting you go on personal matters, while being very bored.
Not all men in love can show the listed signs. Each person perceives the world in his own way and may not express himself according to the “standard”. The main thing for a woman is to carefully observe and feel. Or you can just talk openly.
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