How to treat women correctly

A woman is the same person as a man. Therefore, we must treat them properly and know how to treat women properly. After all, they bear a huge responsibility for the birth of children. Therefore, they deserve respect, admiration and kindness. And, although we all know that there are women who can be mean and bitchy, however, this does not give a man the right to behave cruelly with a girl, or communicate with her as if she is just an object.

There are many ways a man can show a girl love, kindness and attention without being too nice. And while being nice is great. But this article will focus on how to treat a woman the way she deserves. So here are our ten ways to treat women right.

Don't treat her like an object

First of all, you need to remember that a woman is a person just like you. Therefore, there is no need to treat it as a thing or an object. Remember that they have their flaws, just like you. And any woman is not perfect, just like any man. This imperfection is part of being human.

After all, too many guys, when they meet a girl, focus on getting her to go to bed with him. But such behavior only shows one thing: that a woman is treated as an object that can be used and abandoned. These days, many channels and resources are filled with intimate scenes that motivate men to be physically intimate with women. But if this is your only goal, then such an unhealthy obsession will not lead to anything good. And in the future, it can cause serious mental health problems, in addition, it will be quite difficult for you to build a successful relationship with someone. Therefore, treat girls with respect and not as an object for entertainment.

Be polite and respectful.

Stages of the emergence of feelings in men

First of all, a man evaluates a woman’s external qualities (face, figure, behavioral characteristics). Determines how pleasant she is to him at first glance.
Then he evaluates her intelligence, hobbies, and interests.
Then spiritual rapprochement occurs. At this stage, special attention is paid to common interests and hobbies.

Having gone through all the stages, the man makes a decision about what future awaits him with this woman (friendship, short romance, strong love that will lead to marriage). It is necessary to go through all the stages of the emergence of feelings, otherwise disagreements may arise between a guy and a girl, and the relationship will end very quickly.

When a man begins to have sincere feelings, the relationship goes through 5 stages:

Initially, the guy experiences physical attraction and sympathy. This distinguishes women from men. Girls usually evaluate intelligence first.
Then the guy's feelings fade away. He ceases to understand whether he is doing everything right, he is tormented by doubts. A woman just needs to wait a little, this stage will end.
Afterwards, the man realizes that he wants to be with this girl and become special to her.
Souls are intertwined together. Now the guy completely trusts his beloved woman.
All these stages are closed by the engagement stage. A loving man is ready to marry his beloved and live a long and happy life with her.

There's no need to rush. It is necessary to go through each point so that the representative of the stronger sex comes to the most important thing - a happy family life.

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Take your gifts!

Most guys understand that for a successful relationship, you need to be responsible for both yourself and your beloved, help her in everything, treat her with understanding and attention, and restrain yourself in some moments. But, you need to take into account the fact that the weaker and stronger sex have different concepts of love. For women, the main thing is to build a family, have children, for men - to own and protect what he has.

Be polite to girls

Women love men who are polite to them, and this is one of the best ways you can really make a good impression on her. Say “thank you” often and show gratitude for what she does for you. Show attention and care. Be a good listener, and under no circumstances interrupt when the girl is speaking. There are a few things that irritate women the most. And one of them is when a man constantly interferes in the conversation and tries to express his opinion. So don't interrupt and be polite to women.

Respect for a woman, how to show it to a man

Talk to her respectfully. Don't make her feel like she's less important than your accomplishments, work, or goals.
Listen to her. Not only to the words a woman says, but also to the feelings she is trying to express. This will show that you truly respect her thoughts and feelings.
Compliment her. Be specific about what you're praising her for so she knows you mean what she's accomplished.
Try to show interest in what she likes. Does she like to cook? Help her. She likes sports? Train with her. Does she love art? Watch it with her.
Be lenient. There is no better way to love someone than to openly forgive and forget. Anger will not improve your relationship. (Here are 100 ways a woman can show her respect for her man or husband).
Plan small trips or outings periodically. Drive or take her to places where you can have a good time.
Set goals together. Respect for a woman will be shown by whether she knows about your goals and whether she took part in setting them. If you both know what you are aiming for and what you are working towards, it will be easier for you to support each other. In addition, common goals will bring you even closer together.
Admit your mistakes. If you are open and honest, you will show that you are imperfect too and then she will feel closer to you.
When she asks you for help with something, don't answer in an angry manner. Show the woman that you don't mind lending her a helping hand. Women don't always like everything they have to do either, but someone has to do it.
When you discuss a topic that is serious to her, don't turn it into a joke. Listen and talk calmly, thereby showing your respect and love for the woman you love.
Look into her eyes while talking. Show her that you are listening to her carefully and you care about what she has to say. Do not be distructed.
Spend as much time with her as possible. Does she want to feel like the most important person in the world to you? Let her feel it! The best way to do this is to spend time together.
Make an effort to look good. Keeping yourself in good physical shape, shaving, taking a shower, using deodorant - all this is a sign of your respect for a woman. After all, you are doing something that makes her feel attracted to you.
Don't ignore her concerns if a woman says something is bothering her. Discuss her concerns with her, even if they seem trivial to you. Small things today and tomorrow can develop into big ones that will be difficult to solve.
Surprise her. Give her a beautiful card or letter. Come with flowers. Buy her the gift she wanted, but don't wait for a special occasion. Surprises are what keep your relationship going.
Be gentle with her. Think about her comfort, for example, while watching TV, sit next to her and hold her close to you or take her hand.
Write SMS to the woman you love. Use text messages or calls to show her that you are constantly thinking about her, even when you are apart. And by doing this you will show respect to her.
Show affection in public. Take her hand, kiss her, hug her. Don't be ashamed or afraid to show others that you love her.
Be aware of your delay. Will you arrive home from work later than expected? Let her know about it. Then your wife will see that you respect her feelings and experiences.
Be interested in her experiences and concerns. If you want to be the hero who helps her, you must know what she is afraid of. There are many unstable factors and worries in a woman's life. You may be able to help her with things like work, housing, or even just letting her know that she is important to you.
Don't compare her to others. She's your number one! Why even start comparing? She should be the only one you care about.
Help her in the kitchen. You can show your respect for a woman by giving her the opportunity to rest, for example, by washing the dishes after dinner. Better yet, cook her dinner yourself from time to time.

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If she's upset or hurt, hug your crush and tell her you love her and care about her. A woman just needs to feel like you're there for her when she needs you the most.
Brag about it. When she's around or when she's not, brag about her. Too many people talk negatively about others, especially their life partners. But did you choose her for something? So brag about it.
Let her freely say what's on her mind. When a woman speaks from her heart, don't tell her that her feelings don't matter.
Keep getting to know her. Try to find out more about her. Discuss everything you think about. Find out what her point of view is on life's deeper topics. Ask as many questions as possible.
Don't make her feel guilty. Don't put your problems on her. If you have a problem, talk about it patiently.
Make her something with your own hands. Don't just buy gifts, create them. Maybe you can dedicate a YouTube video to her or create a personal blog for her where she can journal about her relationship with you.
Take a photo with her. Women love to be photographed, but even more they love joint photos with their loved one. Try to take photos at all events that are important to you and every time you relax or travel together. This is a way to capture a precious moment.
Jokes with her. Are there many serious problems in your life together? Try to add a little fun and jokes into your relationship. But know when to stop so you don't irritate her.
Call her cute names. You don't want to sound like a boss just by saying her name. Make your relationship deeper and more personal by calling your loved one pet names and sweet words. (Here is a list of pet names you can call your woman.)
Be courageous enough to accept her help. When it comes to emotional things, you may need a little help. Let her help you. This will show your respect, trust and love for the woman.
Love a woman and give yourself to her for free. This will help you, even in the event of disagreements, maintain relationships and continue to care for the woman you love.
Consider her not weak, but precious. Women are usually more emotional than men. But this is not weakness. She should be the most important person in your life, precious.
Not only appreciate the way she looks, but also love her personality. If a woman knows that you value her for who she is, and not just what she looks like, then she will love and appreciate you even more in return.
Realize that she is your gift. Remember that every day of your life with her is a gift in your life. You can be alone taking care of yourself, but remember that she is there to take care of you too. Don't take it for granted.
Do what you say. When you agree to something and promise to do it, then keep your promise. It may not be easy for you, but do your best to keep what you promise.
Celebrate her achievements. Don't just say "that's cool" without further reacting to her achievements. If she has done something that she is proud of or that you are proud of, let her know. Buy a bottle of wine or something else to celebrate the occasion.
Confess your love to the woman you love. Tell the woman you love that you love her! There are never enough confessions for a woman, remember this. Therefore, remind her every day, hour, minute that you love her!

Don't tell dirty jokes or use dark humor in conversations

If we are talking about how to treat women correctly, then we must always remember to communicate politely and correctly with them. What I’m saying now is that you shouldn’t use swear words, vulgar jokes or black humor. Be sure to watch your words and phrases when communicating with a lady. Some guys don't know how to communicate politely with girls, and try to get their point across using swear words. But in a society of women such behavior is unacceptable. Using obscene language or dirty humor in front of a woman is a serious obstacle to building a harmonious relationship with her.

Money issue

If in ancient times money was not so important, now the world is completely mired in capitalism.
Money is needed everywhere and it is very desirable to be able to earn it. A man's self-esteem depends largely on these pieces of paper. However, this is not important to all girls. Rather, it is important specifically for the stronger sex. And it’s very nice to be able to give your love all kinds of gifts, or at least provide her with a stable life. It is clear that not everyone has a certain set of qualities to earn big money, but there is one most important point that cannot be ignored.

Never be greedy. Even if you’ve been wearing worn-out socks for a long time and can’t afford to buy new ones, never regret once again pleasing a woman. The socks will wait, but the girl’s respect for you may begin to disappear.

The ideal option is for the man to work and bring money into the house, and the woman to take care of the house and children, but in the modern world, where girls strive to have equal rights, exceptions may be allowed. Nowadays there are quite a lot of young couples who live and work, investing equally in providing for life. Therefore, everything depends on the specific situation and you should not hang heavy labels on each other.

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Show a sense of humor

Women like men with a sense of humor. I think this is a known fact, but a lot of guys forget it. And they behave so seriously that the girl is even afraid to talk to him or ask him something. Don't be afraid to laugh at yourself and say something stupid. Try to make her laugh by telling a funny story from your life. You will look much nicer in her eyes if you are not too serious and will make her smile.

What to pay attention to

Men are often interested in the question of how to behave with a girl. After all, every person is afraid of losing their loved one, of doing something wrong. You need to understand that every young lady, when communicating with a representative of the opposite sex, pays attention to his appearance, behavior, education, and character.

Appearance does not always mean an ideal physique and pumped up muscles. The main thing is that the man is neat, knows about the rules of personal hygiene, has a normal hairstyle, trimmed nails, clean clothes, well-groomed shoes and has a pleasant aroma.
Manners of behavior imply courtship and adherence to the rules of etiquette.
Education. What matters here is not what kind of education the young man received, secondary specialized or higher education, but how developed and intellectual he is, how interesting it is to communicate with him.
Character. It is important for a girl that her partner is self-confident, caring, knows how to take responsibility, is purposeful, kind and brave.

Smile back at her

Smiling lets a girl know that you appreciate what she has to say and that you are interested in her. Smiling also shows that you are a social person and will be fun to be around. This says that you have a positive outlook on the world, and you will not be bored. But make sure that your smile is genuine and don't force yourself to smile, otherwise the girl will understand that you are not a sincere person and this may lead to mistrust.

Attitude towards wife8

How should a man behave in a relationship with his wife? Marriage is the logical result of the relationship between a man and a woman. And when the husband sees in her not only an object of sexual pleasure, a person who is tasked with maintaining the house, everyday problems, raising children and solving all issues of improvement, the girl’s happiness is not in danger.

A wife is also a person who needs to be taken care of, supported, provided for, and forgiven for her shortcomings. A man should allow his woman to be weak and capricious. However, you need to keep a line so that she does not perceive the man as a mattress.

A man can sometimes be strict, but every action must be done on the basis of love.

Look after her

The next way to treat women correctly is, of course, to be a gentleman. Invite the lady to wear your coat or jacket if she gets cold outside. Accordingly, in a cafe or restaurant, help remove outerwear. Pull up your chair in a restaurant so she can appreciate your advances. Open car doors. In general, whenever possible, try to court a girl. This will show that you are a truly caring person and that you will be a comfortable person to be in a relationship with.

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He should be the head of the family and make decisions. In a relationship, a woman wants to feel like she can always count on her boyfriend. A man must support her in any circumstances.

And if they have common children, even if he has a mistress and he will get a divorce, support the woman (especially until the child is 3 years old). The financial well-being of the family is an important part of a man’s concern. He himself will be satisfied if he can support his woman. And pleasing and pampering with gifts is a wonderful contribution to a relationship.

But how to understand whether a man loves or uses a girl only for a temporary relationship, we will tell you in the next article.

Be interested in her opinion and mood

Also, in order to properly treat women, you should regularly ask how she is feeling, how her day went, how her mood is, how she is doing at work, and so on. Always remember the ethics of treating a woman, otherwise you will not be able to build a long-term relationship with her. Many girls feel men quite well, and as soon as they notice disrespectful behavior on their part, their attitude towards them becomes completely different.

How to achieve harmony

We discussed above that the energy that a man draws from a woman to successfully realize and maintain the well-being of the entire family must be constantly replenished. A woman is charged with energy, being in harmony with herself and the world around her. How to create and maintain harmony within yourself?

A well-groomed healthy body is imbued with energy and beauty. Exercise regularly, visit doctors and follow their recommendations.
Prayer or meditation will help harmonize the state of your soul.

Negative emotions cannot be stored in yourself. Choose a hobby that will not only help you get rid of destructive thoughts in time, but will also give you pleasure. For example, try learning how to draw on water (ebru), this drawing technique will be a worthy replacement for relaxation or psychotherapy sessions.

Harmony, and with it the energy within you, will also grow if you stop trying to change others, and focus on your growth. For example,

sign up for several trainings on topics that interest you;
visit a country you have long dreamed of;
try a new sport;
buy and read a book that will take you to a new level of knowledge.

Don't invite her home immediately after meeting her

Successful relationships take time to develop. Therefore, you should not rush things and invite a woman to your home after a recent acquaintance or first date. This will show that you only want one thing and are not interested in this woman as a person or as a romantic partner. Let a little time pass and you will get to know each other better. The girl herself will let you know when she is ready for this. If you rush things, it will end badly. You should also not behave vulgarly with women. They don't accept this kind of behavior. You can tell all your dirty jokes to your friends. But in the company of a woman, behave with dignity.

If the girl is unfamiliar

There are situations when a young lady appears in a guy’s field of vision, in whom he shows a special interest and wants to make the best impression on a stranger, because it is important to win her over to communication. In such a situation, you need to behave as follows.

Find the right moment to meet. If the meeting took place in some noisy establishment, then it is better to wait until the girl comes out into the air. If in a nightclub, you can invite a beautiful stranger to dance. If you see a young lady in a subway car, you can get out with her at the stop and, if possible, start talking.
It is important to maintain confidence and a calm demeanor.
Be original, but in moderation. Some guys start a conversation with the phrase “does your mother need a son-in-law like me?” Not every girl will like this kind of beginning of a conversation; it is better to start talking by introducing yourself, voicing your desire to meet such a charming girl.
Do something for your chosen one. For example, offer to carry your bag, give up your seat on the subway, or order a cocktail at a nightclub.
Invite on a date. If the girl is in no hurry, and she makes contact, she is as interested in you as you are in her, then you can suggest going to a cafe. It is better to make a date as soon as possible, rather than delay it, otherwise it may fall through.
If a young lady gives her phone number, be sure to agree with her on the time of the call and call exactly.
If a girl refuses to communicate and doesn’t want to go on a date, then you need to show self-control, humble yourself and look decent.

Hug her if you're already in a relationship

It is extremely important to show love and affection to your partner if you are already in a romantic relationship. If you are saying goodbye to your lady, or meeting after work or school, then be sure to hug and kiss her. If you won't see her for a long time, then you can make the hug longer. In fact, I really love these long hugs, like many girls. Because they make us feel needed and loved. But don’t try to hug a lady if she refuses and you don’t know each other well yet. There is no need to force a woman into anything or put pressure on her. By doing this, you will push her away, and she will question the relationship with you.

A man can't shout at a woman 7

This is the behavior of an unworthy man. It is wrong to adopt the manner of female behavior; if there are two women in the family according to gender roles, then the relationship has no prospects. He must be romantic, attentive, caring and show signs of attention to his woman. Show your love

It is very important for every woman to feel loved. When a girl knows that a man loves her, she feels beautiful and confident. Women's self-esteem is built in most cases on the attitude of her man. She becomes inspired.

If a man wants to get something from his partner, for example, for her to do some housework or any other services, he needs to convince her that he loves her. It is important that he supports her and listens to her.

Family relationship psychologist Satya Das claims that every day you need to devote at least an hour to listen to your woman. Because she just needs to talk it out. You need to show signs of attention and care for a woman at any stage of your relationship.

Act natural

There is no need to pretend to be someone you are not. “Don’t put on the mask” of a macho man, a smart guy, or anyone else. Be yourself and act natural. This will make you much more comfortable treating women correctly. If you hide behind the image of another person, you only make things worse for yourself and show your weaknesses. Be natural, but get better. If you don't like something about yourself, try to change it. Women like men who work and take care of themselves. So become a better person, work on your shortcomings, and treat women with respect.

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A man must consider a woman's purpose 6

The task and dream of any representative of the fairer sex is to continue relationships in a family with children. If a man thinks that he doesn’t need this, then he shouldn’t give false hopes to the girl and immediately outline his priorities. If a guy is not going to marry a girl, then it is absolutely forbidden to live together and continue the relationship for more than 3 years, and after 30 years the probationary period is 1 year.

Since he has no right to take away a woman’s chance to become happy. Having learned that a girl is pregnant, a man should not, even if he does not want a child, offer her an abortion. In order to avoid this situation, it is better, of course, to protect yourself and take responsibility for your actions.

Flirting, gifts, compliments

Look, touching and flirting are extremely important in seducing a girl. If you don't show her what you want, she may misread your hints.

If at the initial stage both partners are still embarrassed to openly show sympathy, that is, the touches will be as casual as possible, the glances will be indirect, then with each subsequent meeting you will pick up the pace.

A couple of dates ago you sat opposite each other, and today you are hugging each other next to each other. That's a stupid hint, right? If you pester her for six months with walks with a light kiss on the cheek goodbye, the woman will simply get tired of this drudgery.

How to understand at what stage of a relationship?

At first, you both feel shy. Even you, no matter how macho you are, feel a slight discomfort: what to talk about, how to look, where to put your erect dick? With each meeting, such moments become fewer and fewer, and sooner or later you will normally suck her in, and she will no longer mind.

So the stage of the relationship depends on what the woman allows you not only in private, but also in the presence of friends and strangers. The more time you spend together, the more comfort and personal conversations there will be in your meetings.

Don’t forget about the golden rule: “Women love with their ears.” For a normal man, it is not shameful to give a compliment even to a stranger. At a minimum, you will please her, and at the most, you can get a piece of sex.

So before you properly build a relationship with a girl, learn to compliment them. But remember, they must be as truthful as possible; women don’t like it when people tell lies to them.

As for gifts and flowers, remember, for women, as for children, gifts are another language of love. That is, your bouquet in combination with a compliment will show your feelings much better than an hour-long tirade on the topic: “Lena, you’re awesome!”

Yes, there are women who don’t know how to accept gifts; to be honest, they don’t want to give them. But it's often not their fault that they've encountered assholes who have sunk their self-esteem below the waterline. You yourself will want to give gifts to real, high-status women, just to see her happy eyes once again.

Why does the stronger sex underestimate the weaker?

The ossified male brain is accustomed to seeing a woman as a perishable fruit with a too short ripening period. Most men believe that girls are young, stupid creatures who are cheerful in their youth and only interested in dancing.

The famous misogynist Schopenhauer compared young maidens to female ants whose wings fall off after fertilization. Women's beauty is also rapidly disappearing.

The German philosopher's contemporaries did not argue with him. In the 19th century, girls were taught exclusively in home economics, social manners, dancing, literature and basic arithmetic. But today Schopenhauer's words have lost their relevance.

Girls develop diversified. And now they are not just a beautiful toy in the hands of the stronger sex. Women master professions, conquer space, and are successful in science. There are many female scientists among Nobel laureates, and most of them made real breakthroughs in science.

The weaker sex is the leader in sports: in figure skating, tennis, and swimming, fragile beauties are not inferior to men. Some professions today are considered the prerogative of women: teachers, workers in the trade and beauty industry.