Feelings of jealousy, according to psychologists, are a sign of self-doubt and low self-esteem. However, many guys like it that their significant other goes crazy with suspicion, gets angry and nervous if the young man talks about other women. This adds spice to the relationship. We will discuss how to make a girl jealous and run after you in our article.
Evoking jealousy from time to time is good for a relationship. If it is provoked competently, passion will flare up with renewed vigor. From a psychological point of view, jealousy has several advantages:
- A man and a woman are constantly on their toes because they are afraid of losing their loved one;
- Young people treat each other attentively, surround each other with care and love;
- Jealousy helps you sort out your feelings. Its absence in a relationship is a sign of indifference and indifference to the partner.
However, jealousy also has side effects: quarrels, scandals, intrigues in response and even separation. Before making a girl jealous, think about whether you are ready for the negative consequences of your actions.
Let's start to start
Before we dive into such a fascinating topic of conversation, let me make an important note.
Make sure that the girl is jealous of you in reasonable doses. Pathological jealous people are not to be trifled with. Your main task is not to drive her crazy, but to make her perceive you as a guy who other women like, moreover, who is in demand.
Just by being a little overzealous, you can ruin everything and acquire in her eyes the lifelong status of a moron and a womanizer. It's a girl. She will think of everything for you, you just need to push her, but not in any way traumatize her.
It is better to proceed from her behavior:
- vulnerable
- don’t rush; - jealous
- the same thing; - long-term relationships
- especially since jealousy should be in small doses.
So, now about the first method of seduction that causes jealousy.
Problems that may arise
As has already been said, you need to feel the line and if you step over it, your relationship will break. The right approach is variety and good timing.
You should not court any one specific woman, so your lady will decide that you are cheating on her. But if you decide to communicate with a wide range of ladies, constantly switching from one to another, you can already see your desire to find something new and interesting, exactly what your beloved should give you.
It will be obvious how you lack female attention, which can’t help but make you nervous and worry about the safety of your relationship.
Learn to balance, play on her experiences, while never creating a serious reason to doubt your fidelity.
The task is to revive old feelings, and not destroy them and look for new love. You still have a responsibility to show love and care, while hinting at what is missing.
- A break up
Perhaps the worst thing that can happen is that it is not always possible to return your beloved.
- Indifference
Another, unfavorable outcome is if the girl closes her eyes to your adventures, and even starts looking for a replacement for you. Moreover, on her part, this will not be an attempt to cause jealousy, but rather a desire to find another, more faithful man. Jealous ladies are not always hot and groovy; sometimes they are simply tired of wasting their time on someone who doesn’t need it.
Chat with another girl in front of her
The easiest way to prove to a woman that she underestimates you is to demonstrate it to her. “Look what a beauty is chatting with me. Hey, open your eyes! I’m still a piece of fruit!”
No one suggests that you pick up another girl in front of her, it’s too harsh. It’s enough to agree with your pretty friend to start a friendly conversation in front of everyone. Maybe your loved one will catch you having a cup of coffee or at a party. Even if it is artificial, competition has been created. Let's move on to the fourth point.
#5: Make changes in your life
A girl can be made jealous not only of another woman, but also of her friends, her hobby - of everything with which she has to share you. Such jealousy is not so destructive, so you can safely use it:
- Disappear for a few days: don't call or write to her. Let him figure out where you disappeared to. This method works well at the very beginning, when a new acquaintance wants to seem unapproachable and has not yet decided whether she likes you. Then you will explain what kind of affairs and problems you had. At the same time, if the girl calls herself, then talk to her.
- Stay late at work, change your habits, come up with a new hobby, take better care of yourself.
- Set a password on your phone, tablet, computer - everything that only you use.
Rate another girl
Yes, as you already guessed, we are talking about that very appraising look for which our brother got a lot from his other halves.
The method is quite fun to implement. You are sitting, for example, in a cafe. Your crush goes to the toilet, and upon returning she watches you looking at another girl. The situation will be just perfect if the young lady you were looking at notices this and gives a positive reaction.
The chosen one will be challenged, she will involuntarily join in the fight for the male. Don't overdo the looks. Firstly, the sight of a carnivore can simply scare away the victim, and secondly, the object of flirtation, which is absolutely superfluous in this triangle, may perceive everything inadequately. You can’t wash yourself away from a male dog’s reputation. It's time for the sixth method.
How to cause jealousy?
There are many ways to make a girl feel jealous:
Important! These methods do not work the same on all girls. Some girls do not experience feelings of jealousy at all.
Social media
Girls always notice the appearance of a new beauty in their boyfriend's friends.
Ideally, if she can read the correspondence or a flattering comment on the photo of her new “friend.” To do this, just open the social page. network and walk away for a couple of minutes, leaving her alone.
Concealment
Another method associated with social networks is hiding.
When a girl passes by, minimize the browser window, block the phone, or simply turn away so that she cannot see what is happening on the screen. Then she will figure everything out on her own.
Show demand among women
During the conversation, mention that recently girls have often begun to be added as friends, ask to meet, or approach you on the street.
This should not sound like boasting, but rather like surprise.
Talking about others
In a conversation, mention an ex or a girl whom you have known for a long time (classmate, work colleague, old friend), pointing out some positive quality.
When talking, it is worth emphasizing that this friend is attractive and could become a good couple.
Important! Do not speak in direct phrases, use hints, let the girl figure everything out on her own.
Sudden gifts
Gifts can be considered in two ways:
- on the one hand - as a manifestation of attention,
- on the other hand, as a way to make amends.
A sudden bouquet of flowers after the appearance of a “new passion” can inflame jealousy even more.
Telephone conversations
A telephone conversation (or at least the beginning of it) must be heard by the girl.
It’s good if you can arrange this call with your friend:
- In this case, at maximum speaker volume, your significant other will hear a female voice from the handset.
- Then you can go into the next room (or move some distance away) and continue the conversation.
The conversation should last long enough for the girl to get tired. To the question “Who is this?”, answer that this is an acquaintance/friend.
A sudden change in lifestyle
When you have a partner for a long time, you begin to care less about your appearance. It’s worth taking care of your appearance, visiting a hairdresser, starting to exercise and watching your figure - these are the first signs of a new passion on the horizon.
Important! You shouldn't provoke a girl to jealousy too often.
The video shows how to make a girl jealous:
Compliment her friend
The main rival in any woman’s life is her friend.
So give your friend a compliment! Don't overdo it for several reasons:
- A friend shouldn't fall for you. Things could turn out too badly. The chosen one, as a sign of solidarity, will put a “cross” on you.
- You risk jeopardizing their friendship.
- and, of course, you are not a sadist to torture the girl you like like that.
That is why we are moving slowly, as if in a minefield.
First, compliment her appearance, something like, “You're super beautiful today.” Then, in a conversation with your chosen one, “rejoice” at the next evening together with that same girlfriend. Rest assured, you will touch a nerve. And then the seventh technique will help you.
#3: Make her jealous using your phone
Correspondence and telephone communication have long become part of everyday communication. If you don’t know how to make your ex-girlfriend jealous, then use these techniques:
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- Smile mysteriously after reading an SMS, even if it is a simple newsletter. Pretend that you are answering, but do not show the girl who you are talking to. You can even honestly say that this is just spam. She definitely won't believe it then.
- Let someone call you while you are communicating with a girl. Speak politely, but not too gently. Ask how things are going and say that you will call back later and you can chat.
- Hang up the incoming call and pretend to be texting. If a girl asks, then say that your friend wanted to talk on a video call, but you wrote to her that you would talk later.
While she's around, send messages to another girl7
This method also helps to cause an attack of jealousy and the desire to capture all your attention. When you spend time together, periodically get distracted by your phone and chat with other girls. The conversations should be fairly harmless, because if your girlfriend insists on knowing the content, you wouldn't have to try too hard to hide it, which could backfire. Meaningless correspondence with another girl will make her friend feel that other girls might be interested in you, and this will be another reason to pay more attention to you.
Long term relationship
You can make a girl jealous in different ways. It all depends on personal preferences, the characteristics of your friend’s behavior and your personal plans. Remember, you shouldn't go too far, especially if you want your relationship to develop in a positive way.
With a thorough check and questions or a change in mood for the worse, you can be sure that she is looking closely at you and does not want to lose you.
Bring it on 9
You will never know what emotions a girl is capable of until you provoke her into them. Very often, jealousy arises when a guy has achieved some significant success. Then she will try her best to keep the guy close. Many girls like celebrities, even if the fame does not extend beyond the boundaries of one city. For them, this is another reason for pride and self-esteem: there is nothing cooler than introducing your friends or family to such a guy. Therefore, if you want to make her jealous by achieving some significant achievement, start ignoring her. And then she will begin the real battle for your attention.
Expert advice ↑
And in the end, I would like to give advice that you should not often resort to these methods in order to cause jealousy if there is no reason for this. And you need to remember that the temperaments of every girl are different: for some ladies it’s easy to tickle their nerves, for others it’s easy to break their hearts.
How to increase self-esteem for a teenage boy? Read on.
Is jealousy good or bad? Find out the opinion of psychologists in the article.
Be happy and try not to resort to evil jealousy, because there are still many ways to diversify your relationship and bring back your former passion.
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Jealousy is a strong feeling that is almost impossible to control. A person in a state of jealousy is simply unable to think adequately. He does everything to bring his beloved partner back. He tries to please him, constantly follows him, worries, sorts things out. Girls usually like this behavior on the part of guys, it pleases their pride. Now guys are encouraged to do the same: make girls jealous so that they fall in love with them.
