Love often faces difficulties. Sometimes you fall in love with someone who already has a partner. Some people believe that it is wrong to destroy other people’s relationships in order to achieve their own happiness. But there is another view: you have to fight for love. How to win a girl away from another guy if you have already decided to act?
Become her friend3
The more you learn about a girl, the higher your chance of winning her heart. First, try to make friends with her, become a close and important person to her. Don't show off your love interest prematurely. Try to act calm and confident around the girl.
No one should suspect that you are planning to take her away from the guy she is dating. Act only after you notice that the girl is ready to break up with her current partner for you. Signs that indicate this are listed at the end of the article.
Is it worth destroying a relationship?
If, nevertheless, a man or young man believes that the wedge has converged on this girl, and he is not embarrassed that by his actions he can break up someone else’s couple or family, he needs to act decisively.
Attention! Before you act, you need to think everything through. After all, a fleeting desire to just have a girl at a given moment in time can lead to very disastrous consequences.
Analysis of ethical and moral standards is a purely individual matter for each person. But it is important to remember that a person must be prepared to bear responsibility for any actions.
If, nevertheless, a man is determined to act, then, of course, simple pressure and charisma will not come out a winner here. The process of beating a girl is delicate and painstaking, requiring an individual approach to each person.
The approach and method of its implementation will significantly depend on the following circumstances:
- whether the man knew this girl before,
- are they, for example, colleagues or friends, or even friends of friends?
- It is important that this representative of the fair sex has marital ties.
Show that she can trust you7
Be the friend to whom she can trust all her secrets. In any conversation, try not to judge her, but try to understand, and one day she will start telling you really personal things. Make it so that she can talk to you about any things - including those that she does not dare to talk about even with her friends.
If a girl trusts you enough, she will be willing to talk about her boyfriend and her relationship with him. You can use her frankness to take action at the right time. Plus, when things get tough in her love life, you'll be there to make her boyfriend look like a knight in shining armor.
How to win back the girl you love?
It happens that the lady you adore so much shows no interest in you at all. But even in this case, you should not give up. If she refused to go to a restaurant or watch a movie, don’t be upset. Maybe you're starting with too many steps.
You need to be able to find an approach to every girl. Start with casual communication, find out what she is interested in. Perhaps she loves to read, and ask her to tell you about her favorite book or for her to give you some advice. Once you have common topics, your communication will become much freer and more relaxed.
The main thing is to be an interesting conversationalist and a pleasant guy. You should not immediately tell her about your sympathy, as you can only scare her with your intentions, and all your efforts will be in vain. She must love you herself, for this you need to act gradually and carefully, but you must not give up - everything will happen!
You can start conquering a lady by conquering her friends. If they think highly of you, then half the battle will already be over. You will become at least a potential candidate for her suitor.
There's no point in judging the guy she's with now. Looking like a boy trying to break someone else's idyll is not the most correct method for achieving success. Women tend to exaggerate, and if you are highly appreciated by her surroundings, then they will describe you even better in her eyes.
If you were good, you will become the best, and if you showed yourself to be mediocre, then it will turn out that everything is very weak. The main thing is to leave the best possible impression of yourself, and others will do this to exaggerate and colorize it.
In addition to the above, you need to make every effort to communicate your readiness for relationships and the possibilities of maintaining them at a high-quality level. Show your loyalty and affection, responsibility and confidence in your choice. It’s not difficult to exaggerate your merits, the main thing is to restrain your spoken words.
Girls love not only the wealthy and wealthy, but much more often those in whose eyes they see fire and an irresistible craving for movement. In this vein, the guy is always one step ahead, thinks further, and plans more, and the girl, feeling this fuse, will join him.
Touches and compliments from her boyfriend should pale in comparison to your seductive expressions. Let the power of words lie not in quantity, but in quality. One well-aimed and pleasant compliment, a light handshake when meeting, all this can bring much more pleasant emotions than the daily reckless attempts that she can hear.
Try to understand her in any situation8
People are always drawn to those who understand them well. Show the girl how important her feelings and thoughts are to you, how close they are to you. When she gets into trouble and asks you for advice, be there to give it.
This will make her turn to you every time she doubts something. She will get used to you, become attached and will value communication with you. Perhaps one day she will start consulting with you about her relationship, and you can turn this to your advantage.
Consequences
If the relationship has broken down, give the girl time to experience her feelings, sadness, and tears. Be patient and take care. The time has come to start a new relationship. While she's going through a divorce, start working on a future together. Not a word about the past, plan for joyful and memorable coming months. But also leave room for personal things. Let's rest each other.
Don’t disappear and don’t intrude10
Try to correspond with the girl regularly, but not too intensely. Contact her once or twice a day if you have something to discuss, such as a movie or news. If you don't have a good conversation topic, check in with her every few days to keep track of how she's doing. But be in touch if she wants to talk to you or needs your help.
Don't text her too often or too much, otherwise she will become uncomfortable with you. Also try not to disappear for a long time or without warning, otherwise the girl will think that you do not value communication with her.
Guys' mistake - friendly communication
The main mistake that guys make when trying to win a pretty girl away from a man is that they allow communication to move to a friendly level. Yes, a young man should be pleasant and interesting, but you need to try to be perceived as a suitor. The difference in two situations is noticeable:
- Friend - communication every day on various topics. At the same time, the young man does not pretend to be a life partner, but simply tries to support his acquaintance and become her friend.
- Potential guy - it all comes down to flirting. The topics of conversation are fascinating. The young man makes every effort to charm the lady, tries to hug her, kiss her, or at least just touch her. At the same time, communication does not occur every day, but whenever possible and necessary. He makes it clear that he is looking for not just a girlfriend, but a beloved and constant companion. But at the same time, the guy is ready to offer help in difficult times.
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It is important to have support and a strong shoulder if necessary. When a man is trying to take a girl away from her current partner, it is important to be nearby. This way he will become indispensable in her life and will be there in any situation.
Be prepared for the worst11
Attempts to fight off a girl can be sharply condemned by other people: your mutual friends and even the girl herself. Be prepared for the loss of her friendship, attacks from friends, and also for her boyfriend to understand your intentions and give you a hard time.
If you steal the girl of your dreams from another guy, you will have to always hide the fact that you ruined her past relationship on purpose.
Remember: when you become a couple, you will have to maintain the same level of attention and care towards the girl as before. Otherwise, the girl will be disappointed and eventually move away from you.
Is it worth getting your ex back?
Whether it is worth rebuilding a relationship with an ex-girlfriend is a personal matter for everyone. The main role in the decision is played by the reason why the couple broke up. If the feelings have passed or the young lady simply wants a better life, then it is unlikely that a new attempt to build a joint future will be crowned with success. But when the young man was to blame for the breakup, a small chance of a happy continuation is not excluded.
Before you take your girlfriend away from a new guy, you need to analyze the whole situation, understand the mistakes and make efforts to correct them. Then you will need to prove to your former passion that history will not repeat itself.
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To do this, you need to impress her and show that the guy is determined to change:
- Before you try to win back your ex-girlfriend, you need to get yourself in order. Clothes, shoes, hairstyle - a guy should be well-groomed from the tips of his hair to his heels. You need to join a gym, because a beautiful, toned body will attract attention.
- Restore harmony within yourself. A guy who is confident, courageous and not afraid of any hardships in life will attract attention and will also make the girl think about whether she was in a hurry to break up.
- Surprises and compliments. It’s easier to please your ex than your new one, because the guy knows her tastes and preferences. But this is the main problem - it will be difficult to surprise her, since she is familiar with all the tricks. You need to try to show imagination in order to get attention.
- Do not have a “man’s talk” with the girl’s boyfriend, because it will not influence her decision in this situation. This will only humiliate the young man and reduce his chances of winning his former passion away from his current boyfriend.
- Don't manipulate. Even if such a technique helps, it won’t be for long. You can induce feelings of guilt or carefully turn your loved one against a friend, but such attempts will have the opposite effect. Then the woman will no longer be able to return.
Remember that you may not succeed12
You can try to please the girl, you can get closer to her, prove to her that you are a better partner for her than anyone else. And yet there is no way to force things and be guaranteed to win her heart. Remember that all your efforts may not bring results. Be prepared to fail. Remind yourself that there are many single girls with whom your chances of reciprocity and a happy relationship are much higher.
Mystery above all
If a man is planning to take away someone else’s girlfriend, he must understand that this will cause a sharply negative reaction among her friends. That is why you should not tell anyone about your feelings. They must be kept under control until the girl finally wants to break off the previous relationship.
Psychologists advise staying in touch with your beloved all the time, becoming her “vest” into which she can always cry. Complaining about a guy should be used to your advantage, slowly but surely turning the fairer sex against her current partner.
