We try to attract attention to ourselves all our lives. It is very important for us that our parents, friends, loved ones and other people pay attention to us. Because with their love, our lives are filled with colors.
We constantly dream and imagine situations in which we are a unique person, about whom other people constantly think, and with whom it is pleasant to communicate. We always want our opinion to be taken into account and to always be in first place. But unfortunately, dreams remain dreams, because we put ourselves above others.
When we make decisions on our own, people often try to help us by giving their advice. As egoists, we reject and criticize any advice, and sometimes we turn a deaf ear, considering it useless. And at the same time, we want attention from them. But how can we get it if we refuse it ourselves?
To attract the attention of people dear to you, first of all, stop rejecting other people's attention. You should always have a sincere attitude towards people trying to help you, and listen to their opinions. And when they understand that their opinions are important to you, they will begin to take yours into account.
If you want to attract attention to yourself, you need to try to maintain friendly relations with the one from whom you want it. If you need the attention of friends and colleagues, try to spend as much time as possible with them. If you lack the attention of your family, try to trust them and listen to their advice. If you want to attract the attention of your loved one, then love him sincerely, trust him.
These are all general recommendations, but to achieve really strong results you will have to work on each group separately. Therefore, use the list of rules compiled for the group you need.
Speak
Most likely, new people do not come into your life due to low communication skills. You need to overcome your shyness and start talking to people. Start a conversation about work, about mutual friends, or simply about the weather.
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How to get the attention of friends?
Friends are those with whom we spend the best time. The attention of friends is very important to us, because without it, we feel lonely. Therefore, to win over your friends, follow these recommendations.
1. Change your attitude towards life, be optimistic. I don't know people who like looking at sad faces. Because I know that people like to look at energetic people who love life.
2. Perhaps you have an interesting hobby, then tell your friends about it. Surely they will be interested in your hobby and will be interested in it. If you are not doing anything, then there is a reason to correct it. Find what you like and do it.
3. Learn to joke. Find or make up good jokes and entertain your friends this way. Just remember the main rule: jokes should be harmless.
4. Try to be the center of attention. Regularly attend joint events with your friends. Don't refuse them if they ask you for help. When they understand that you are always there, not a single event can happen without you. And you will be constantly invited to spend time together.
5. Be your own meeting organizer. Try to organize meetings as interesting as possible. For example, invite your friends to celebrate a holiday in an unusual place. The more meetings you organize, the more attention your friends will give you.
6. Tell your friends your secrets and let them understand that they will remain only between you. Thus, you will begin to trust each other and you will form an attachment.
Be careful with emotional messages
Not all people understand what functions an exclamation mark or large font (CapsLock) performs. When communicating, even with friends, do not use either one or the other. There must be a serious reason for the exclamation mark - especially don’t put several at the end of each sentence. You are trying to express approval, support, joy, and the person on the other side of the screen thinks that they are raising their voice at him. This can complicate further conversation and make communication tense. Use periods, commas, avoid large font. When thinking about how to interest a pen pal emotionally, choose emoticons and stickers. Today it is an important means of communication.
How to gain many subscribers on VK using content
We took care of sending out invitations and attracting an audience, but this is not enough. The question “How to recruit subscribers to a VK group” is still open, because receiving an invitation does not mean joining the group. In order for users to join a group, it must be of interest, “hooked” - of course, with content.
Take care of the cover and description of the group
A user who sees your group for the first time should understand the essence within a few seconds - who is the group for, what are the benefits of joining it, what problems will it help solve, what goals to achieve. Make sure that:
- The cover of the group is attractive,
- the description is clear and concise,
- all elements reflect the idea that unites the community.
Here's an example of a good cover.
TargetHunter group cover
And this is a description of that group.
Description of the TargetHunter group
Create compelling content
A good cover attracted attention to the group, but only high-quality content can retain the audience. We’ll tell you what types of content will help you hook a new audience and retain a regular one.
Educational
This type of content includes articles, checklists, video and audio lessons, and infographics. Below is a good example of educational content from the TargetHunter community. The publication succinctly and clearly presents the algorithm for parsing competitors’ advertisements. You can immediately apply and get results.
Example of educational content in the TargetHunter community
Communicative (involving)
This type of content includes answers to questions, error analysis, discussion support, chats, games, competitions, and quests.
In groups of like-minded people there are always common topics that can be discussed. For example, in the group for writers “How to write interestingly. How to Write a Book” offer to discuss returning to work after a vacation. This is an example of an engaging post - after all, you really want to share the secrets of getting back on track or complain about a short vacation.
An example of an engaging post in the “How to Write a Book” community
But in communities with a wide and dispersed target audience, games engage well. The Dodo Pizza community often uses a variety of puzzles.
Example of a game from Dodo Pizza
Entertaining
This type of content includes humor, quotes, stories, poems, interesting facts, memes. Entertaining content should be used even in serious communities - after all, subscribers may get tired of continuous use. Just make sure that the humor is understandable to the target audience and also relates to the direction of the group. Like, for example, the “Internet Marketing from Convert Monster” community.
An example of an entertaining post in the Convert Monster group
Other types of content - news, reputation and sales - are unlikely to attract many VK subscribers. But they perform other tasks - retention, increasing loyalty, sales - so you shouldn’t forget about them. Drawing up a content plan will help you maintain balance.
A few more recommendations:
- create content regularly;
- publish only unique content that is truly useful or evokes emotions in the audience;
- do not deviate from the topic of the community and remember the interests of subscribers;
- design your posts with headings and subheadings, emoticons, pictures;
- involve your subscribers in discussions, teach them to answer questions in your posts, and answer questions yourself in the comments;
- encourage users to create content, thank them for their activity.
For example, Dodo Pizza identifies and rewards active subscribers every week.
An example of stimulating the activity of subscribers in the Dodo Pizza group
Share content
It’s not enough to publish good content in your group; you need to distribute it beyond it. For example, offering news in other communities on behalf of a group :
Distributing content to other people's groups
Important! Look for communities with similar topics, but not direct competitors.
Now you know how to gain subscribers on VK for free by distributing content in other people's groups. If you are considering paid methods of attracting subscribers, you can advertise the group in other communities using promotional posts .
Select groups on the VKontakte exchange or using special tools - Pepper.Ninja, Cerebro, SmmUp, Sociate and the Search for Communities Chrome extension.
Here, to advertise a group that sells products for manicurists, they chose a group with a similar theme - “About Nails. Manicure".
An example of an advertising post in a community of similar topics
In the case of paid advertising, you don’t always need to look for groups of similar topics; you can choose popular groups and advertise to a wide audience.
The publication does not necessarily have to call for joining the group right now. The purpose of the post may be to go to a group, and for this you need to interest potential subscribers. In the TargetHunter.Agency community, for example, they wrote an interesting article, and in TargetHunter they reposted it and implemented the opportunity to continue reading in the advertised community.
An example of recruiting subscribers through access to interesting content
Or offer to sign up for an interesting event - free or at a nominal cost. For example, in the Target Hunter community they advertise an inexpensive marathon “Food Delivery Marketing 2020”, to participate in which you need to join the group.
An example of recruiting subscribers through an invitation to an event
Another way to spread content is to ask influencers or popular users to share the post . Free, for PR or paid - as agreed. You can specifically interview popular bloggers or write about them - then they will definitely be interested in reposting your publication. For example, in the Target Hunter community they interviewed Natalia Frankel, and she reposted the publication on her page. And almost 5 thousand of Natalia’s subscribers will see the mention of the group.
Example of reposting a publication by an opinion leader
Growing Up Alone
When it is not possible to build friendly or at least friendly relationships with others in childhood or adolescence, in adulthood it is very difficult to successfully make ordinary acquaintances. Trusting someone becomes so strange and unusual that fear and timidity appear. In addition, it is not common for a closed person to take initiative in communicating with others, which makes him feel lonely and cannot find a solution to his communication problem.
Unable to cope on their own, adults turn to specialists for help. Psychologists, working with their patients, identify the true cause of difficulties and offer solutions.
In Russia, a person without health problems rarely seeks psychological help. In the West, the practice of visiting a psychotherapist is widespread and produces positive results. Before making an appointment with a psychologist, a Russian person needs to overcome his embarrassment.
And many people solve problems with loneliness without the participation of specialists. Depressive states due to lack of support lead to the use of drugs and alcohol. Falling under the influence of sects, single people, without hesitation, join these organizations. The problem “I have no friends” is solved by replacing friendships with some kind of hobby. Internet addiction, addiction to games and the search for “virtual reality” can distract a person from loneliness. On the Internet, isolation goes away on its own, because there is an opportunity to become a different person.
Ingratiate yourself
Even if the interests of the interlocutor coincide with the topic of the agenda, this does not mean that the goal of attracting his attention will be achieved. Moreover, even the interest shown on his part does not at all guarantee that he will be ready to take certain steps - for example, to purchase a certain product. This will only be possible if you trust the narrator. And here another question arises - how can you interest a person so that he trusts? If we talk about the content itself, it is advisable to include as many short but personal stories as possible in the text. In principle, expressing a personal attitude is beneficial. The main point is in the plane of psychological adjustment through values and emotions. Again, it will be useful to have an idea about the interlocutor, his tastes, values, principles, etc.
Summary
- A VKontakte group is an excellent tool for doing business.
- You can get a lot of subscribers on VK without cheating, even using free methods.
- How to attract subscribers to a VK group: send invitations to friends and tell about the group, create and distribute good content, negotiate mutual PR with other groups, regularly hold competitions, use chatbots.
- In order for the group to grow, you need to worry not only about how to get a lot of subscribers on VK, but also about how to keep them.
- To simplify the work of sending out invitations, communicating with subscribers and increasing sales, create a chat bot in the SendPulse service
Use our recommendations and very soon you will get the desired measurable result - many subscribers on VK.
How to get the attention of a loved one?
The attention of a loved one is very precious to us. In its absence, it is possible to lose a loved one. Therefore, use these recommendations to save your relationship.
1. Always smile at your loved ones. With a simple smile, you show your attitude towards him. When a person sees a smile, he becomes pleased, because he understands that you like him.
2. Do an incredible thing for your loved one. For example, go on an unplanned trip. Your partner will be very pleased with such signs of attention.
3. Try to be constantly in sight of your loved one. It’s very good if you can make him think about yourself constantly. In the end, your significant other may wonder: “Isn’t this fate?”
4. Find out what hobby your loved one has. Tell him that you like what he does. He will understand that you have similar interests and the idea will appear that you are made for each other.
5. Wear colors that your partner likes. Then the subconscious of your loved one will say that this is exactly the person he needs.
6. Try to hint that your frequent meetings are not accidental. Perhaps after this, your relationship will move to a new level.
By following these simple recommendations, you will see how people will begin to show their attention to you. The only thing you should remember is the main rule:
"Treat people the way you want to be treated"
Pros and cons of friendship before love
Huge advantages if you want to interest a close friend:
- You don’t have to come up with reasons for meetings and topics for conversation;
- You know his tastes and you will try to match;
- You can always please;
- You can spend enough time together and not feel like you are intruding.
One of the psychological tips: “how to make a friend fall in love with you” is to try to start a conversation, where you carefully try to find out his attitude towards the transition from friendship to love, whether he is considering such an option. Close friendship even allows you to ask directly.
Disadvantages of close acquaintance:
- A guy simply may not perceive his girlfriend as a girl and view her as a sister;
- In the company of friends you become so “your guy” that turning into a girl is almost impossible;
If a direct question is answered with a vague answer: “Everyone has a chance,” will it be possible to remain close friends?
How to attract subscribers to VK using a chatbot
The process of inviting someone to a group can be automated by creating a chatbot for this purpose in the SendPulse service. A chatbot can also introduce users to a community or brand, answer frequently asked questions, or survey visitors. This will free you from routine, and you can do more interesting tasks - for example, creating content.
Discover the chatbot
Build sales funnels and answer user questions using a chatbot on Facebook, VK and Telegram.
Create a chatbot
We have already mentioned gamification. By launching a game, quest or test, you can increase your reach and the likelihood of joining a group. Here, a chatbot is simply irreplaceable - it processes comments, counts points, and gives instant feedback. And, of course, it encourages you to join the group. See how you can implement this in a selection of chatbot examples.
To participate in the game, you will need the user's consent to the newsletter. After a person has become involved and played, the chatbot will periodically send the subscriber messages, reminding them about the group, inviting them to join it or participate in new activities. Of course, the technique works better than cold sending of invitations.
Examples of using a chatbot in groups
In the group “Neurography. Color your world" launched a chatbot with a lottery - it gave out predictions for the new year within a week. The predictions are no longer relevant, so the chatbot is inactive. The screenshot shows an example of what a post with an offer to play using a chatbot might look like.
The group administrator assures that the chatbot has significantly increased its reach and has done an excellent job of gaining VK subscribers.
An example of using a chatbot to engage and recruit subscribers
Some tips for using a chatbot
It is better to place the chatbot in a separate section of the group, in a visible place. In this example, chatbots are integrated into the “Take the test” and “Sign up for promotions” sections.
An example of placing chatbots in a group menu
Pay attention to the calls - they stimulate the desire to interact with the chatbot. And don’t forget to announce the arrival of the chatbot in a post on the group page. You can run targeted advertising on the chatbot.
And here’s what the “Take the Test” chatbot looks like in action - it offers to answer 10 questions and receive a 1% discount for each correct answer.
Example of a chatbot with a test
Important! Chatbots can be used to recruit subscribers not only on VKontakte, but also on Facebook and Telegram. In the SendPulse service you can quickly and easily create chatbots for different platforms and purposes.
