Ivan Vdovin
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An inferiority complex is what can be called self-doubt, low self-esteem and other psychological problems directed inward with constant comparison of oneself and others. A typical “mother’s friend’s son” complex. Next, I will tell you more specifically about the inferiority complex, what it is and where legs grow from. And most importantly, how to get rid of it and start living a happy life.
Psychologists would NOT want you to know these secrets about yourself
—Imagine this situation...
What if, instead of paying for years for useless consultations with a psychologist, in 21 days you can work with yourself? Get rid of negative thoughts and states forever. And instead live a calm and happy life? Stop living in stress due to relationships or constant lack of money?
Tell me this is impossible?
I thought so too, until I started working with myself
LIVING HAPPY IS EASY
My name is Ivan, I am 35 years old, and I have been practicing psychology for 15 years. I have studied all the basic methods and techniques through which I help people find happiness. NLP, hypnosis, body-image therapy. I was invited on television as an expert.
And it was... just a nightmare!
I lived in a state of depression for 7 years (constant stress exhausted me). I had a lot of low self-confidence (my self-esteem was below 0). I could not calmly communicate with people, it seemed to me that I was not worthy of them.
The relationship did not work out (because I was very negative, jealous, a doormat). I’m generally silent about decent earnings; I earned 15,000 rubles a month and thought that was the limit. I didn’t want to live... Envy.
The worst thing is, I thought I would have to live like this forever, and I don’t deserve love and happiness.
But it only got worse, negative states fell on me like a snowball. It felt like I was sitting in a deep, black hole from which there was no way out. Hopelessness, despair, pain, resentment.
My life has turned into endless torture. But then a miracle happened...
I FOUND THE KEY... EVERYONE HAS IT...
One day my father came home from work, a little drunk, although he never drank much.
He came into the kitchen..., looked at me with a dissatisfied expression and began to say with anger how worthless I was, how I couldn’t do anything, and in general, how sorry he was that he was my father.
At first I felt severe mental pain (this is very painful to hear from my family). Then I got offended (does that mean I’m not a favorite son?!) And then an insight came to me...
I received that magical kick that I had been waiting for all my life. It changed my thinking, my life and my relationships with my environment.
I had already forgiven my father simply because he told me the truth and I was happy about it!
But then the most interesting thing began...
Literally 5 minutes later I was already sitting at the computer and writing out all the psychological (!) methods of working with myself.
I was even confused, because my plans were to continue to suffer all my life.
It was such an incredible feeling of freedom and desire to do something that I burst into tears of happiness.
THE MAIN SECRET OF HAPPINESS
If you think that you cannot change your life, become rich or successful, or create a happy relationship - you are mistaken!
You can change your life by changing your thinking and the main thing is to do it EASILY!
• 5 simple and powerful methods of working with yourself (they work even if you use them incorrectly) - You don’t have to turn to psychologists, you are your own psychologist.
• “The secret method” of working through any negative state. This will allow you to eliminate the negative and switch to the positive in 5 minutes.
• 15 minutes a day - Just 15 minutes a day to change your life 180 degrees. Become happier and more joyful.
• Saving up to 100,000 rubles in 1 year - You will save on trips to a psychologist, and spend the saved money on a vacation by the sea.
• 21 days – It only takes 21 days for you to see changes in your life. You will start smiling. Wake up with joy.
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PS If you want to say “thank you” to me, just download the guide and start using it every day.
PPS How about becoming happy today? =)
Inferiority complex
To be honest, I have not yet met people who are 100% satisfied with themselves. There are probably some, but they obviously don’t tell everyone on the corner about it. It will be useful to read about assertive behavior here.
So, billions of people have an inferiority complex. Every person has something they are dissatisfied with about themselves and would like to change. Therefore, there are two types of people who immediately change what they don’t like about themselves, and those who don’t want to do anything, but only feel sorry for themselves and expect compassion from others. If you are the first type of person, you are lucky, and you can easily find the reason for your inferiority in yourself and correct it, and if you cannot cope with it yourself, then contact a psychologist who will help with this problem.
Failure to motherhood
When her personal life is at least relatively normal, then the woman further realizes herself in another key role - maternal. But it happens that not everything goes smoothly with this. This is another ground on which a woman can acutely feel her inferiority and failure.
When a woman cannot get pregnant or carry a child to term
Our psyche and body are inextricably linked. Physiological problems with conceiving and bearing a baby are most often inherent in women with a certain type of psyche. These are the owners of the skin-visual combination of vectors.
Evolutionarily, women of this type were not childbearing for many millennia. This even influenced the features of the figure; even today they are often narrow-hipped and thin. But thanks to medical advances, such a woman can now carry and give birth. It happens that doctors are powerless and do not find the cause of the infertility problem - in this case, the reason lies in the psychological state of the woman.
The fact is that by nature, a woman giving birth has a priority for the child’s life over her own; she is ready to die for him. The owner of a cutaneous-visual combination of vectors, like a woman who has not given birth, does not have such a natural priority. But from birth there is a root fear of death - deep, fundamental. If in childhood, for some reason, the psyche of such a girl was traumatized, for example, they were frightened, suppressed feelings, forbidden to cry, then a huge internal contradiction arises. Even consciously wanting to give birth, she unconsciously involuntarily resists it because she is afraid.
The problem of internal contradiction between desire and fear is resolved if a woman understands the structure of her psyche. This changes the woman’s psychological state, all fears go away, and the desired pregnancy finally occurs.
... This is the most unexpected result of the training for me. Stunning! And many, many things (more on this in the next review) that I previously deprived myself of thanks to incorrect attitudes, which, apparently, became a barrier for many years to my happiness and such a purely female process as pregnancy and childbirth. The whole solution to the departure of these prejudices and incorrect mental superstructures, without a doubt, lies in completing a full training on SVP, in realizing systemic meanings, knowing yourself and your properties-desires...
Svetlana Ts., lawyer, Palma de Mallorca, Spain
“Thanks to my parents for the inferiority complex”
An inferiority complex is like a prison from which you cannot escape. Self-hatred and dislike are the main emotions that keep you locked up.
And you can’t cope with this on your own, it requires serious work, otherwise you’ll end up with a wasted life and loneliness.
The only correct decision is to find all the past events where the inferiority complex conditions were laid and solve them and then you will become self-confident.
In 40 minutes we will find the main event of your inferiority complex and solve it.
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