How to make your dreams come true: tips that make the impossible possible

1. Where does the realization of desires begin with the power of thought?
2. 11 rules for formulating desires to speed up their implementation
3. Overcoming obstacles to achieving your dreams

It is difficult to imagine a person who would not think about how to realize desires. Everyone is different. Some people dream of finishing the session without a C, for some, life is not sweet without a new car, while others just want to give homes to all the kittens they picked up on the street. But they have one thing in common - the strength of this desire. And the stronger it is, the faster you want to get what you plan.

But is it possible to speed up the realization of a desire? After all, we ourselves often lose faith in the achievability of our goal if, on the way to it, we again and again have to face seemingly insurmountable difficulties. The secret is that each of us can draw strength and energy from our dreams. You just need to learn to see new experience in mistakes in order to finally realize your desire.

The first embodiment of a dream is money

For the first time I realized that thoughts are material in the hungry post-crisis year of 1999.
I dreamed of a salary of 3,000 rubles (at that rate it was a little more than 100 dollars, and, let me tell you, that was a lot of money). The number “three” and the word “salary” were firmly stuck in my head - there was enough piece work, but, as a rule, it was always accompanied by delayed salaries and network marketing. Now I understand that I perfectly fulfilled the conditions for making my dreams come true (more on that later). And so, just a couple of weeks later I was offered (!) a job with a salary of 350... dollars. Anyone who did not live in Moscow in the late nineties will not understand this. A girl student from Bryansk was offered a legal job with an almost white salary, and even with a SALARY of $350! It really sounded like a dream. In those days, for $100 you could rent a decent apartment near the metro in a not-so-shabby area of ​​Moscow like Konkovo.

At the interview, I even forgot to ask the salary amount - I liked the idea of ​​​​stable earnings and the new responsibilities of a sales manager, unknown to anyone at that time. The director himself wrote this figure on a piece of paper. I followed the movement of the ballpoint pen: three... (Oh! Is it really 3000 rubles?), five... (Wow! 3500 is just happiness, because they also promised a percentage of sales!), zero... $ (WHATOOOO?! Are you serious? ? Salary of $350 plus interest?!)

I walked home dumbfounded, looking at the boutiques on Pushkinskaya, at the same time dreaming about a new apartment and boots from the window...

Solve mistakes, look for new ways

Be willing to continually evaluate and reevaluate as you journey from dreamer to doer. Know that the road will be bumpier than you expect.

Unforeseen obstacles inevitably arise. And failure is almost guaranteed. How you deal with these challenges and move forward will determine your success.

Be prepared to look critically at your paths and decisions. Find ways to work more efficiently. Be willing to try new things if something doesn't work. Challenge yourself to see routine processes in a new light. Always try to optimize your time. Efficiency is key!

Dreamers often work to become doers on the margins of life. It's rare that someone can quit a full-time, paid job to pursue a dream. More often than not, they have to build their dream in their free time. This even has its own advantage; such difficulties make your work smarter.

Second dream come true - marriage

The second serious insight into materiality and the embodiment of thoughts happened in 2004, when I met my Danish husband. He was simply a copy of my grandfather: both in character and appearance. Many other qualities written down on paper, and the Scandinavian appearance, dreamed up in distant childhood from the covers of foreign OTTO catalogues, EVERYTHING coincided. Didn’t drink, didn’t smoke, gave flowers, cooked, loved and... what else do we usually write on our wish list for a future partner when we’re twenty? That time I also fulfilled all the conditions for fulfilling my desire. And it came true!

But, as I managed to notice, not only good things come true. Our fears can come true just like our dreams. After all, these are also our thoughts. Particularly outstanding examples from my life are the loss of my second child during pregnancy.

Apparently, this is how I fulfilled the program that the fortune teller put into my head, who “predicted” that “I will have one child, and something will happen to the second.” When I became pregnant for the second time, I couldn’t get rid of the thought that something was about to happen. That's what happened...

Dreams can also... fall apart

And a few years later a new blow followed - a divorce from her husband. The Universe fulfilled my negative instructions: “All men go crazy by the age of forty, because of this, marriages collapse.” We broke up exactly after his fortieth birthday.

Imagine the end of the game

The journey from dreamer to doer begins with one step. Imagine where you want to be. You need to make sure you are going in the right direction. Spend time presenting the big picture.

• What would your dream come true look like? This seems like an easy step for a dreamer. After all, all this happens naturally, but dig a little deeper.
• What defines success? What would your daily life look like?
• How will it benefit you and others if the dream becomes a reality?

Write down your visions for the future so you can use them for motivation and goal setting.

Never give up!

I watched the famous film “The Secret”, began reading books, practicing cleaning internal blocks according to Sviyash, visualization and much more. Sometimes these techniques worked, and sometimes they didn’t. I couldn’t figure out the method by which I should act to make my dreams come true.

It was only when I was ready to hear real answers that I began to come across truly valuable books, articles and videos. Putting together what I knew, I took action. And guess what? The results were stunning! Let me give you a few examples.

How to turn a minus into a plus for your dream - housing

Soon after the decision to divorce, it became clear that I would have to move. After worrying and groaning, I decided to act. On Sunday evening, I knew exactly what area I wanted to live in, I Googled it and even found photos of those town houses, one of which I intended to move into. After calling a friend, I found out that the place is extremely popular, and to get there, you have to wait in a decent line.

There were so many people willing that, according to her, it was possible to wait a year or more... Well, I thought, I’ll continue to dream. A day later, the same friend sent me an advertisement she accidentally saw on Facebook that one of these very houses was for rent! I contacted the owner of the house, and in a languid voice they told me that of course you can come and look, but there will be 4 more (!) families there, and residents are chosen only based on who they like best. Promising: fifth in line, and not even Danish. But I went. And what do you think? I got the house! After just 8 days of visualization and clear plans, I achieved the almost impossible.

We continue to make our dream come true - we gain energy

Then it was more fun. I decided that that’s it, it’s enough to suffer from a failed marriage, and it’s time not just to dream about a bright future, but to start applying the knowledge gained about visualizations into life. First I had to decide what I wanted. Then I came across Joe Dispenza’s book “The Power of the Subconscious, or How to Change Your Life in 4 Weeks.” The author explains very clearly why our visualizations and fears work. With examples and scientific research. He even developed a special system that allows you to (really!) turn your dreams into reality in absolutely miraculous ways.

In fact, there is nothing so wonderful. After reading his book, I realized that it’s all about energy, the work of the subconscious and practice. But it was the scientific examples from the book that allowed me to believe even more strongly in the power of thought, and, most likely, that is why after applying the method proposed by Joe, real miracles began.

So, it was decided to dream of new love

Absolutely nothing came to mind, and according to the method, it was required not just to write a list “so that you don’t drink, don’t smoke, and always give flowers,” you had to imagine yourself in all the colors ALREADY in the moment. Who should I introduce if I’m not in love with anyone yet? I decided to trust my subconscious. I entered the meditation of wish fulfillment and began to simply wait for what would come to my mind. And I saw a very strange picture: the sea, white ropes, and next to me a man who for some reason said to me in English, “You are so beautiful!”, and I, laughing and embarrassed at the same time, answered: “Thank you!” The man replied: “Thank you for that! After all, you’re the beautiful one!” But the main thing was not the scenery or words, but FEELINGS. According to all textbooks on the fulfillment of desires, it turns out that you need to not only know what you want, but FEEL the moment when you get it.

I did this meditation several times, and this image constantly came to me. Later, I nevertheless wrote down a detailed list of wishes for my future partner and for our relationship. Still, at 38 years old, you understand that what is important is not the color of your eyes or the presence of culinary abilities, but how you want to feel with a person, what you can give to him and the relationship yourself. The list was 2 pages long in small handwriting!

And what do you think? During a digital detox in November, while talking with one young man, I suddenly realized that I HAVE ALREADY SEEN AND HEARD ALL THIS! I was sitting on a pontoon in the middle of the sea, right next to a fence made of white ropes, and he finished the phrase in English: “Thank you for what? After all, you are the beautiful one.” And I felt exactly like in my visualization that came from outside.

You can dream anything, even success at work!

By the way, you can dream not only about love! Now I can calmly set a minimum number of customers for one or another of my programs or the number of emails with requests for consultations.

Now, having knowledge of visualization, I apply it everywhere. For example, at the grocery store I suddenly needed thin markers for coloring books. And what do you think? They were there! The latter, with a “last copy” discount, are like a special promotional item that is only available in grocery stores in batches to attract customers. Or at the flea market, when it suddenly occurred to me that it would be nice if there were those bowls from IKEA, which I just needed, and I was too lazy to go to IKEA. And they were there! Exactly the ones I needed. Even I was surprised.

Let's make our dreams come true - a good vacation

When I'm going on my next vacation, I decide in advance where and when I want to go and how much it should cost. I am not proceeding from the data “I saw tickets to Paris for $100.” No. I simply decide that I personally think it makes sense to pay so much money for tickets to Paris and, for example, fly non-stop.

When it comes to dates, everything is difficult for me, because I work a lot, and I have children every other week, so I am always tied to certain dates. But my wishes still come true! I find the tickets I need for the dates I need at the expected price and even cheaper.

I can give a million more different examples, but let's move on to practice.

Set reasonable time frames

Understand that following your dreams is not for the faint of heart. There are, of course, examples of sudden successes. But many dreamers spend years chasing dreams before they become a successful reality.

Yes, most dreams are a long game. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't write down goals and set deadlines. Goals keep you motivated and accountable as you push toward the finish line.

Motivate and reward yourself as you achieve each goal on your journey from dreamer to doer.

What to do to make your dreams come true?

Here's a detailed step-by-step guide:

1. Decide exactly WHAT you want.

This is not a platitude, but a proven fact. Until you decide what you need, life will not be able to accomplish something. I have a lot of friends who have been wanting to change jobs for several years. But they don’t know what for! They simply DO NOT want the old job, and by doing so they reinforce their thoughts about it. The Universe does not understand the particle “NOT”. You need to think not about the hated and boring job you are currently in, but about your future position. I also got a job at my previous “regular” job using the proposed technology. I definitely got what I wanted. Not in a SIMILAR company, but in exactly the company and in the position that I had dreamed of: a dust-free job with a flexible schedule not far from home, which allows me to run my own business in parallel.

2. Write down your desires on paper in as much detail as possible

. This is an important condition, but you yourself need it more. For what? When you write down what you want, it takes on more specific forms. In addition, it will become clear to you whether this is really your desire, or whether it is imposed from the outside. For example, I don’t care what kind of car I drive – the main thing is that it is in good working order and economical. It's more important to me to be able to travel. That's why I don't have a new car in my plans. If you run a blog, write down how many visitors you want to have per day. By the way! There is a small peculiarity about money: you need to wish not just an amount of money, but money for a specific cause. For example, $2000 to go on a retreat. If you describe the desired relationship, then write about feelings, detail the process of communication with your future partner. For example, I wrote down that I wanted to have a man next to me who would support me in my projects and so that I could learn something from him. Plus, I had a clear FEELING of happiness and flirtation that was between us. That's how it is now

3.
It is not your place to decide when you will receive it.
The Universe has its own plans. I have often heard the point of view that you need to decide not only what you want, but also by what time it needs to be achieved. This is wrong. By trying to set exact deadlines, you are trying to put pressure on the Universe and setting conditions for it. This is not according to the rules of the game. Therefore, there is no need to dream “in 2 months I will get a new position.” And how would you know? You might be starting a new position in just a week! Just fulfill all the conditions for fulfilling your wishes and let the Universe surprise you

Photo source: Photo by Giulia Bertelli on Unsplash
4. Stock up on energy to fulfill your desires.

According to the theory of wish fulfillment, the speed and accuracy of the fulfillment of our desires depend on the power of the energy with which we send a signal to the Universe, and on the strength of thoughts and feelings that we put into our desire. When we want something, a signal is sent from us to the Universe. If the signal is weak, it can take a very long time to reach the “order table”, or it may not even get there while we are alive. If you have powerful energy, the strength of the signal increases significantly, and wishes come true faster. Besides this, the Universe is the Universe, but it has no other hands than yours. Therefore, energy will still be useful to you to begin to bring what you want to life. More about this in paragraph 10. By the way, my blog has a detailed article on how to increase your energy and even has a free marathon on increasing energy.

5. Decide what is stopping you.

According to Joe Dispenza, our subconscious programs prevent us from achieving our goals. If you have it firmly in your head that “all men are bastards” and “only scoundrels have money,” then you will not see either a devoted and loving husband or wealth. Therefore, first you need to identify all these attitudes, write them down on paper and methodically work through them during meditation - one at a time, until this list is finished. You can read more in his book.

6. Meditate according to the exact scheme:

first you enter a meditative state, then cleanse yourself of interfering attitudes, change them to new ones, and only then, having worked through all your negatives, start dreaming. This is ideal. I had so many settings that, after suffering for three weeks, I decided out of impatience to start the most desired part - visualizations. I described the results above. But I dare to suggest that if I had gone through my entire list to the end, there would have been even more miracles in my life.

What do I mean by the process of entering meditation and clearing attitudes?

For example, I wanted a new job. First, I sat down and wrote down (as per point 1) what specific job I needed. The list included: salary level, distance from home (I knew exactly where the institution where I wanted to work was located), duties and the number of hours in which I could cope with them, flexible schedule, and so on. Then I made a list of my FEARS that prevent me (according to my attitudes) from getting this position (foreign origin, lack of work experience, accent). And then each time I worked on one aspect per day as follows:

• Entering meditation using the “Body Parts” technique (developed by Joe Dispenza with translation into Russian) – about 10-15 minutes
• When a feeling of unity with the Universe is achieved (a certain state between sleep and wakefulness), then at this moment you need to talk to yourself or out loud about your fears (one per session). Why is this so? The fact is that when we are at the junction of vigor and sleep, our body emits special waves. They are coherent (go in the same direction), which means the power of your thought can more easily reach both the subconscious and the Universe. More details about this are in the book. There are a lot of scientific explanations there - I highly recommend reading before you take action.
• After you have spoken out your fears, you need to say out loud “I’m changing!” And imagine a new picture - what exactly do you want to change this fear to. For example, I decided that my Russian origin would be my advantage. When I decided this, it was absurd, because I just wanted to become an employment consultant. In Denmark. But the Universe surprised me: my native Russian language became my ticket to the position, because by that time they had just opened a NEW department for working with refugees, including those from Chechnya! And they speak Russian. And they took me.
• When all fears have been worked out (one per meditation), you can move on to visualizations. First, enter a meditative state using the Body Parts technique, and then imagine yourself in the moment. I imagined how I was driving my car to work in this place, what kind of desk I had and what I was doing at it. Next - everything according to the described scheme.

7. When dreaming, focus on your feelings and sensations.

Don't look at yourself from the outside, but feel the moment. Many of us, when dreaming, imagine ourselves from the outside or simply see the object of desire. As Vadim Zeland writes, this is a waste of time. Desire must be supplied with energy. If you dream of a house and even make a collage with it in the lead role, then you will definitely see this house, only... it will not be yours. When you imagine a house, you should ALREADY live there. Walk around it, sit in a chair, brew some tea, feel the velvet of the curtains and feel like a master. The universe responds not so much to thoughts as to feelings. I remember that I clearly imagined not only the ropes and the sea, but also how I FELT with this man. And when in reality I felt the same thing, it dawned on me that this was him, and that I didn’t have to wait 10 years after the divorce to find myself in a new happy relationship.

8. Believe me - your desires are “DONE DEAL!”

(resolved issue!) If you wish for something, it will definitely come true. It's a small matter! This is perhaps the most difficult thing on the list, along with the next item. It's easy to say - believe it. But I hasten to reassure you: when you begin to visualize using feelings, you will soon really begin to believe in it. And the more often your wishes begin to come true, the easier it will be to believe in this postulate. For example, now I truly BELIEVE that my soul can desire anything. After all, she came into this world to learn new things and it is better for her to know what kind of people and events she needs for this. This is also why it is important to find your TRUE desire, otherwise it risks not coming true.

9. Dream only what you really believe in.

For example, I will never dream that I am a movie star. Why? Not because I’m not attracted to the role of a star, but because I simply won’t believe it. And according to the previous point, you must BELIEVE in desire. In my case, I dream of how I will become such a popular and famous nutritionist that I will be vying with each other to be invited to various television programs as an expert. And this is already starting to come true! Recently I received a call from ORT from the program “Good Morning!” and asked me to come to their studio with the children to record as many as two programs about baby food. Another question is that I was not yet satisfied with their conditions, so we did not go to Moscow. But there will be more! Because I really believe in it.

10. Now let go of your desire.

Devalue it. What I mean? Forget about him or just become indifferent to him. This is the most difficult thing, but nevertheless one of the main conditions for the fulfillment of desires. Until you don't care whether you have it or not, your wish will not come true. In the case of my Moscow work, I relaxed and waited for the opportunity. Before meeting my Danish husband, literally 5 days before we met, I announced to my friends that my search for a prince was over for the next five years, because I was tired. Before I became pregnant with my second son Nicky (now almost 5 years old), after unsuccessful pregnancies and many years of trying to have a second child, I decided that oh well! There won't be a second one, and there won't be any need. When I decide that I need to gather so many clients for my next program, I cool my ardor in advance and simply watch the development of events, slowly moving my feet in a given direction (advertising without fanaticism).

11. Take small steps in your chosen direction every day.

This is what many books about the fulfillment of desires “forget” to write about. I remember, after watching enough of the movie “The Secret,” I dreamed of a new car. We then foolishly bought a new car on credit, reasoning according to the scheme: “By buying it, we are signaling to the Universe that we have enough funds for it, and they (the funds) will come to us themselves.” Not so! It took us a long time to pay off the debts for that ill-fated car. If you dream of a new job, start looking for it. If you want a new relationship, go to places where other people go. If you want to become a book author, then... yes! Start writing it!

In conclusion, I want to say that we can only dream about OURSELVES. You cannot change your husband, your boss, the climate in your country, or your neighbors with the power of thought. Everything you dream about should concern only you personally. These are the conditions.

Surround yourself with Doers

Find social media or mastermind groups that support your goal or business idea. Work with proactive people. Learn from other people's experiences. Their recommendations will help you better plan your steps.

Find other experts in your field who are willing to walk alongside you. Look for a fellow entrepreneur ahead of you who is willing to offer occasional guidance on the best next steps. Read stories of successful people in your field and get inspired to follow in their footsteps. Listening to podcasts is a great way to learn and stay inspired!

Surround yourself with success stories. And be constantly inspired by the fact that your dream can become a reality.

Rules for formulating a wish

Often people’s dreams sound vague, for example: “I want a lot of money” or “I want to find my love.” However, for the Universe, you need to accurately formulate your request; vague dreams can be postponed indefinitely.

Formulate your wishes in the present tense. For example, instead of “I want to travel a lot,” write: “I travel around the world,” and you can list your favorite places. Or I earn such and such amount.

A desire should not harm anyone or impose the will of other people. There is no need to touch other people when formulating a request. Dreams work for themselves.

The resources of the Universe are unlimited, it is abundant. Don't restrain yourself from your desires. Maybe you are dreaming of a picturesque villa on the seashore with a yacht, a snow house in the Alps, a large family or numerous trips. Goals must be realistic and achievable.

Checking desire for reality of fulfillment

Determine your desire for the near future and test it for truth. To do this, answer the following questions on a piece of paper:

1. What good will happen if it comes true.
2. What bad will happen if it comes true.
3. What problems may arise.

Define your desire and test it for reality.
For example. If I lose weight, the following positive changes await me:

• I can be more attractive, dress beautifully, and not be ashamed to go to the beach;
• physical activity will improve, ease of movement will appear;
• health status, reproductive function, etc. will improve.

Possible difficulties:

• you will have to follow the principles of proper nutrition and limit yourself to tasty food for a long period;
• you need to update your wardrobe, which entails financial costs;
• there will be no culprit (excess weight) on whom you can blame failures in your personal life and in other areas;
• someone will be jealous;
• In some professions it is important to look presentable, and a thin person is not taken seriously.

Now you can think and decide whether you really want to fulfill your dream. Perhaps you are satisfied with everything.

Correct condition

To materialize a desire, you need to create a special mood.

Often people use a rational approach, logically explaining why they can't get it. For example, how can I buy an apartment if I don’t have enough money? Or how I will meet the man of my dreams if I don’t know what to do for this. However, this approach does not always help.

A special attitude will help materialize your desire.

Connect your subconscious, and it will help you find a path to a dream that you have no idea about. Mentally imagine yourself in the future, when your wish has practically come true. And feel confident that it will definitely come true, and you will very soon get what you want. Feel calm, happiness, gratitude, satisfaction that everything happened in the best possible way. This state helps to realize desires.

What words should not be used

For the technique of wish fulfillment to bring greater effect, do not use the particle “not” and formulate the request in the present tense. For example, instead of “I never want to get sick,” write “I have excellent health,” or instead of “I don’t want to be fat,” write “I have a slim figure and an attractive appearance.”

Another way to determine interests

Many people find themselves at a dead end when it comes to the relevance of their interests. If you monitor your browser history, you will remember what ideas have been in your head for the past months. Filter sites 3 months in advance, select popular topics. Write it down in a notebook in groups. If topics are repeated, add pluses. Count the number, check the first three groups for relevance with the phrase, changing the desired part: “I make money from translations” or “I make money from the information business / selling cosmetics.” Pay attention to sensations and internal responses. Next, filter the information using the method described above.

Practice “Picture of the World”: our whole life... pie!

The essence of the practice is that you, like a real artist, paint a picture of a new reality. You draw your life in 3, 5, 10 years - the way it has become as a result of the fulfillment of your desires.

You will need a large sheet of paper, or better yet, Whatman paper. Write “I” in the center of the sheet. And then divide the sheet into ten equal parts - as if cutting a pie.

Each “piece of the pie” is one of the important areas of your life. And you need to draw (write) your new picture of the world for each such “piece”.

Do you still have nothing to wish for? You can put the most incredible, unrealistic and impossible dreams into your picture. It doesn’t matter how old you are - 20 or 75. Don’t want anything? In reality this does not happen. Drop all limiting beliefs and just write. Perhaps the examples of desires from this article will help you listen to yourself, understand what exactly you want, and see the light of the guiding beacon of your life.

What wish should you make? Let it be even unrealistic and extravagant! Listen carefully to your heart, catch the feeling of happiness and inspiration. It is in this state that you will achieve the greatest effect from this practice.

Ready? Begin!

Education and outstanding personalities

One of the biggest mistakes people make is judging their capabilities only according to their past performance. If I couldn't get into a prestigious university, my life is over, I'm a failure. If it didn’t work out with this guy, I’m nothing of myself as a woman. However, this is not the case.

You can become a successful person even after graduating from vocational school. For example, the lack of higher education did not prevent Bill Gates from organizing the Microsoft Corporation and making a true breakthrough in the computer field. Walt Disney, the honorary winner of 26 Oscar statuettes, also cannot boast of a graduate diploma. Neither does Henry Ford, whose company branches are scattered all over the map of the globe.

Without training as a dressmaker, Coco Chanel once did not have the right to sew dresses. Today, her achievements do not need advertising - thanks to Coco, the “little black dress”, fitted jackets, trousers, and faux pearls have entered the women’s wardrobe. Coco Chanel did not have not only a higher education, but not even a full-fledged secondary education.

Method #2: Get your uncle's inheritance

This is my favorite exercise! I'm sure those who like to dream will like it. Imagine that you have received an inheritance from a billionaire relative who suddenly appeared out of nowhere and suddenly died. So, a couple of million dollars. Now we begin to write a free essay on a given topic, in which we must reflect on the following questions:

1. What will you do now, what will you do with your millions?
2. What previous activities will you give up now?
3. What will you never give up, even if you have millions?

It is better to write an essay using the freewriting method: turn on the timer for 20 minutes and, without stopping, begin to pour out the stream of your consciousness onto paper.

Pay special attention to the second point, since it is this that shows what you are forced to do at the moment. For example, would you leave your current job (study) if you no longer need to work for a salary? Or maybe you will leave your husband/wife because you were forced to live with this person due to certain circumstances? This does not mean that you need to tear everything up at once, but it is necessary to pay attention and think about it.

After you finish your treatise, sum up the results by writing out all your desires in a column, and then carefully look at what you can realize from what you have written without your uncle’s inheritance. Personally, it turned out that for many of my desires all I need is the desire itself.

For example, in order to become a writer, to write books and articles for magazines, you do not need capital at all. And in order to travel (this point is always present for everyone), you also don’t need fabulous money. I recently met a guy from Finland who, at the age of 32, had already been around the world twice, and at the same time he had never flown on tours, but lived with ordinary people whom he found through the Couchsurfing community.

Techniques for fulfilling love desires

Love desires can be difficult because they involve strong emotions. And your state of mind depends on them. Therefore, approach the execution of such techniques carefully.

Attracting destiny

This ritual puts you in a special mood, helping you create the love relationship you want. To carry it out, you need to create the appropriate mood, feel confident in your strength, calm and joy. Turn on melodious music and wear light clothes, and let no one come to you for half an hour.

Attracting fate is a special ritual that will bring joy.

Then, in the twilight, light a candle, the flame of which will illuminate your reflection in the mirror. Think only about the good, your desire to meet your beloved half. Taking a deep breath and exhaling, let go of your worries about your appearance. Then draw on pink paper the image of the lover you dream of. And sign the words you want. For example: tenderness, love, kindness, harmony, etc.

Then tie your photo, in which you like yourself, and this drawing with a red or pink ribbon. And attach these 2 sheets to the mirror so that their reflection can be seen. Then read:

All my doubts have flown away, My heart is open to you, come, Future happiness is opening now, Joy and love are ahead.

Then use your fingers to extinguish the candle. Look in the mirror for a few minutes. And then you need to put the tied up photo and drawing in the southwestern part or in your love sector. After that, go to bed and wait for the result.

A break up

If you are experiencing difficulties in a relationship or a breakup or divorce, then you can perform the “Morning Pages” exercise, which was described above. This practice helps you release emotions, organize your thoughts, and overcome difficult times in your life.

Love wishes

No matter how much you want to be happy with this or that person, it is better to wish for success in love only for yourself, without specifying anyone. And after that, be distracted by ordinary life, useful things, without getting hung up on your desire, finding your soulmate. Then your dream will come true faster.

You need to make love wishes for yourself.

Ho'oponopono

This popular practice is suitable for solving difficult situations and helps improve relationships. It is otherwise called the Hawaiian Cleansing Method. To achieve the effect, perform the technique daily. The cleansing process starts with the repetition of phrases:

• I'm sorry;
• I'm sorry;
• thank you, thank you;
• I love you.

This practice helps to improve relationships with loved ones, colleagues and other people.

Mental conversation

There are many types of this technique. If you think that you have been treated unfairly and you are offended by some person, then have a conversation between your two higher selves. Relax and do this before bed. You mentally talk to the person, calmly explain why he is wrong. And convey your position. And after that, tell him what to do correctly, show him where he is mistaken.

Mental conversation has many types of execution.

And in your notebook you formulate the desired result every day. For example, this person apologized for his action, stopped pestering him, paid his salary, relationships improved and harmonized. This practice must be continued until the situation improves. The main thing is not to be nervous and be calm. In this case, the situation will be resolved in a positive way.