First, indignation passes in a wave, and then the thought returns on repeat: “Why not? What if it changed? Or maybe he loves? and this is the biggest meanness of the situation.
The ex is like a boomerang - it flies unexpectedly and rarely past.
I'll tell you what happened to you and why he needs you again. Read, understand, remember!
So, 5 reasons for his comeback that you don’t need to fall for:
Intimacy
For some, sex is one of the components of a relationship, but for others, it is the most important component. And some men return to their former partners solely because they have not found another girl with whom it would be just as good in bed. If for some women a union built purely on sexual relations is unacceptable, then for others it is more than satisfactory. For some, an emotional connection is important, but for others, male libido and the ability to use it to their advantage are enough to be happy.
What to do?
According to psychologists, a man sees a woman losing her youthful attractiveness and growing old, but in no case does he realize that he has also aged. Next to his 40-50 year old wife, he feels like the same boy of 20-25 years old. When (after leaving) insight occurs, the men return.
What should a woman do, how to understand the psychology of separation and timely separate the wheat from the chaff? Probably the best thing is not to make hasty decisions (it’s he who has returned, this is his return), so it’s worth taking a closer look and checking the sincerity of intentions. There is no need to idealize the situation; as practice shows, “return syndrome” is more often a disease of infantile men than a completely conscious choice of a strong husband.
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