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Do you want to sew up your hymen? The operation of surgical suturing of the hymen is called hymenoplasty (English - hymenoplasty, Hymen Repair, artificial hymen plastic surgery). It can be performed by any girl who has lost her virginity. There is no health hazard in this. High-quality and reliable hymenoplasty in Moscow has been performed in our clinic for more than 15 years. Only good reviews and positive results!
In our time, for the first time, such a manipulation on the human hymen was performed in the 60s of the 20th century by the Italian gynecologist Bernull on his own daughter. Since then, the technique of its implementation has been improved; many plastic surgeons and gynecologists have mastered it. This procedure is in steady demand in many countries around the world, although it is not possible to maintain complete anonymity everywhere, despite the very delicate nature of this issue.
How to become a girl if you are a guy?
Transforming a man into a woman is actually much easier than the other way around. To do this, the penis is removed and a vagina is created in the groin area from the tissues of the penis, nearby areas of the skin and part of the intestine. The scrotal tissue is transformed into the labia, and implants are inserted into the breast area. If the operation is successful, even gynecologists will not be able to distinguish a transsexual from a real girl. After surgery, the course of hormonal treatment is continued, the patient takes estrogens to make the body as feminine as possible.
Gender dysphoria
Among most people, biological sex, that is, what is given at birth, along with gender identification and role in society correspond to each other. But nevertheless, people suffering from gender dysphoria experience a discrepancy between their own identity and their biological sex. It is in such situations that a guy wants to become a girl or vice versa.
It is worth noting that gender incongruity in itself is not considered a disorder. However, in cases where the discrepancy between perceived identity and biological sex causes significant discomfort or leads to an inability to function normally, a diagnosis of gender dysphoria is very likely. Discomfort is usually a combination of anxiety, depression, and at the same time irritability.
People who suffer from severe gender dysphoria (often called transsexuals) may experience severe and long-lasting symptoms. Along with the question of how to become a girl if you are a guy, there is a strong desire to change your body through surgical, medical or other means in order to bring it into the necessary compliance with your existing identity. But the term gender dysphoria itself can increase patients' discomfort. We must convince them that it does not contain evaluative characteristics.
Some scientists claim that such a diagnosis is not a mental disorder, but primarily a disease related to problems in sexual development. On the other hand, some such people view their extreme form of sexual nonconformity as one of the normal options for identity and self-expression.
Parental responsibility
While the child has not yet formed, the responsibility is in our hands to ensure that he grows up to be a good, happy person. The path to developing sensuality for skin-visual boys - the ability to sympathize, love, worry about others - is the only opportunity to get rid of fears, and therefore to succeed as a man. And the main role here is given to reading classical literature.
Sasha’s mother does a lot of right things to make the boy’s fate and life better. Dancing, music school, surrounded by girls. No one insists that he play with the boys. Sasha is not teased at school - he studies well and participates in the life of the class. Like a gentleman, he is attentive to my Masha and other girls. There is no need for him to become a girl - he can find his place in life. Only parents can sometimes be reminded that their influence on the child is quite broad and implies not only sensitivity to desires, the creation of a favorable environment, but also knowledge of the characteristics of the child’s development, and the ability to guide in the right direction. I received this knowledge at the training “System-vector psychology” by Yuri Burlan
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Author of the publication: Tatyana Kunigel
The article was written based on materials from the training “System-vector psychology”
Symptoms of gender dysphoria among children
The childhood form of this disease often begins to appear between the ages of two and three years. The following signs are usually observed among babies:
- They prefer to try on clothes exclusively of the opposite sex.
- They insist to parents that they are of the opposite sex.
- They constantly express a desire to wake up as a person of the opposite sex.
- They prefer to take part in games and activities that are atypical for them.
- They have negative feelings towards their own genitals.
Often such girls urinate standing up like boys, and boys, on the contrary, do it sitting down like women, and so on. For example, girls tell their parents that when they grow up, they will grow a penis and they will be boys. And guys can fantasize about how they turn into a girl, talk about how to become a girl if you are a guy, and be glad that they don’t have to play rough games. The boy may also express a desire to get rid of his penis and testes.
Among guys, the stress of physical changes during puberty often leads to a desire to undergo feminizing somatic treatment during adolescence. As a rule, among most children, such a problem as gender dysphoria is not detected until the age of six to nine. When a guy dresses like a girl, the disorder becomes chronic.
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A capricious boy can become an exemplary girl
Mom bought a dress, but I didn’t understand that it was for me.
- Put it on! It’s yours and you can’t contradict your mother! - But mom! I'm not a girl! I won't wear a dress!! - Put it on! You’re not going anywhere, did I buy it for you in vain?! “I have no idea why you bought it!” - Oh, you have no idea! Well, now I'll show you! -Ay! No need!! But it was late and my mother confidently put this pink lace, girlish dress on me over the top. When it was on, I was so amazed by it that I almost cried. But I also understood that this was a punishment for my disobedience and perhaps the only way to somehow pacify my “ugly character.” - Let's straighten the sleeves... Yes, and the apron too... Here... Now you will be an obedient boy. I was simply in shock and stood silently, sobbing a little, as my mother carefully straightened all the folds on the dress. She also adjusted my hair slightly, as if making it match the dress. Thus, for the rest of the day, I really lost the desire to play around and be mischievous, as I always did. I slept as usual in a T-shirt and shorts, but I took off my dress and thought I wouldn’t wear it again. No matter how it is! The next morning, when I had not yet put on tights and a shirt, my mother brought me some things and said that today I would wear them. Damn, it was a girl's clothes again! - So, I’m not forcing you to change your panties. You'll just put tights on over them now. Mom took white thin tights out of the box and began to quickly roll them up so she could easily pull them onto my legs. It didn’t work to interfere - I just jerked my foot to prevent them from being put on, when I received a slap in the face and a sharp reprimand. “Ugly boy! I will make you obey! Pantyhose were on. They're really girly because they're very thin and sheer, which really confused me. “Now put on the dress and don’t try to resist anymore.” Do you hear Oleg, this is all for your good! - she reassured me as I sat all pompous, feeling my legs unusually. It was a different dress - blue with lots of lace around the edges and buttons in the front. I didn’t want to believe it, but such expenses for buying dresses for me could only be explained by serious intentions to dress me in them: I wore tights for the first time. It always seemed to me that I was a girl now, and I could not get rid of this thought. It was very difficult to walk around in such clothes and continue to be a boy, which I soon admitted to my mother. She explained that these were forced measures that should soften my character and when she achieves proper obedience from me, she will allow me to do without these clothes. The next day began with the same thing - my mother checked that I got up and dressed me the same way as yesterday. Without any resistance, I put on everything I was supposed to. Then we decided to go for a walk with my mother. It was summer outside and at first I was very worried about what I would have to wear outside, my mother wouldn’t force me to wear a dress! And so it was - they allowed me to take off the dress, but I kept the tights, since I was wearing pants over them. Wearing tights under my pants, I still felt constrained and insecure throughout the entire walk. On the way back, we went to a store where my mother, in the girls’ department, despite my active attempts to dissuade her, chose suitable clothes for me. I tried my best to pretend so that the saleswomen wouldn’t understand that my mother was choosing a dress for me, but my mother herself then told them that we were choosing a dress for my sister and were trying it on me because I had the same size as my sister. From a huge variety of dresses, my mother took each one in turn and made me try it on. Some I put on, some I simply applied to the body. In the end, we chose one beautiful thin summer dress, even though it was a little tight. The purchase of clothes did not end there - other parts of the girl’s wardrobe were next in line. It didn't take long to choose panties and panties - mom took the most girlish ones, which had more lace decorations. We also bought tights quickly - three pairs of different colors - flesh, white and pink. But when choosing shoes I had to tinker. I in every possible way refused the ones with stiletto heels, because I thought that I wouldn’t be able to get used to them, but my mother insisted on them, saying that they were prettier and that all the girls wore them without complaining. In the end, they took something between my preferences and my mother’s - the stiletto heels are not very big, and the shoes themselves look really good. To my even greater confusion, my mother also bought me dolls. It was of course very disappointing because of all this, but I understood that the sooner I became obedient, the sooner I would be freed from all this girly life. When we returned home, my mother immediately ordered me to undress completely until I was naked. I was not embarrassed to be naked in front of my mother, since she always bathed me in the same form in the bathroom, and I undressed without arguing, trying to be obedient. - Now you will dress completely like a girl. No more boyish shorts and T-shirts! - Mom said sternly, - choose what color tights you want? - Don't know. Well, pink... - Pink is so pink... - she unpacked the package, took out a pair of thin pink tights and pulled them on her legs, - okay... Turn around... sooo... Just your size! Now put panties on over your tights! The same panties I had just bought, with an abundance of lace embroidery, were soon on me. This was another “first time”, I had never worn girl’s panties before. It was very unusual to feel how tightly they wrapped around the waist, and how poorly they covered the buttocks. Mom admired me and then continued dressing me up. I bent down slightly to allow her to slide the dress through the top. Everything was visible through the fabric of the dress, even the panties, which immediately caused my negative reaction: “I don’t want to wear this transparent dress!” I won't! Please mom, let me wear that blue one, I like it better. - No! You will wear this! Are you starting to argue again? Do you want me to extend your girl life even more? - No, no, don’t! I'm staying in it! Soon, mom unpacked another purchased box of shoes. I put them on and immediately felt discomfort in my feet, and when I walked around the room, I had difficulty moving my legs at all. No, the shoes weren’t tight, I was just absolutely not used to them. Mom explained: “All girls feel discomfort in such shoes for the first time, but it goes away quickly, don’t worry!” Well, whether you like it or not, you’ll have to get used to it; it’s unlikely that mom will change her decision. The days of my re-education began. In such clothes I began to behave even more obediently, which made my mother infinitely happy. I stopped being rude, contradicting her, being capricious, and became “pink and fluffy” because I really wanted to earn her trust and stop wearing dresses. My rare requests and hints did not convince my mother; she was very strict with me and did not allow me to part with my clothes for a minute! I gradually tried it on myself, because everything was not so bad - dresses, tights, panties - comfortable and beautiful things, it’s not for nothing that girls wear them. Mom tried in every possible way to buy me something new, and this also made me happy, because before I rarely made purchases. Mostly these were dresses of various colors and shapes, panties and panties were bought less often, and tights - as I wore out and tore out the old ones. I got my own closet where all the girls’ things were stored. By the end of the month, the closet was filled almost to capacity and sometimes I even had to look for the right thing from this wide variety. True, then my mother put things in order in it and told me to maintain it in the future - she divided each type of clothing into compartments and now it has become much more convenient. For example, a whole bunch of tights were on one shelf, and panties on another, and I could easily choose everything I wanted to wear. Yes, I began to choose for myself; at first, of course, my mother dressed me, but then I was allowed to do it myself. There was a large mirror hanging on the closet door in front of which I often admired myself. One day, when I was already quite obedient and didn’t really mind girls’ clothes, my mother made me a new gift. She bought a large, good cosmetic set, which included lipstick, brushes, powder, and some other things - in general, just the thing for girls. But I’m still not a girl! Or is it already a girl? I was afraid that it would go too far and therefore made very active attempts to let my mother paint her face. - Give me your lips quickly, I’ve already opened the lipstick! Hurry up or it will dry out! I ran away, struggled, covered my mouth, but still, under strong pressure from my mother, I soon gave up. She sat me down in front of the mirror and quickly applied lipstick. They turned a rich red color, swollen and took on a very girly appearance. Then mom did the rest - she powdered her cheeks and painted her eyelids and eyelashes, after which the eyelids became blue and the eyelashes were hard and lush. The face was unrecognizable - it became so feminine that it seemed to belong to a real girl. So he walked around the house wearing makeup. In combination with a dress and tights, this “doll face” suited me very well, my mother said. She also said that I no longer need to cut the hair on my head and when it becomes really long (and it’s not small anymore) she will give me a very nice hairstyle with curls and braids. By the next morning, the makeup had turned a little pale and washed off, so my mother repeated the procedure for applying it. Moreover, she was dissatisfied with the quality of the lipstick from my cosmetic bag and brought her well-tested one, which is very difficult to wash off. She had a slightly different shade - burgundy red and the lips painted in it became slightly shiny and smooth. Soon they bought me another cosmetic bag, an expensive one, with high-quality accessories, and I no longer had to borrow lipstick from my mother. I gradually began to paint my lips myself, because it was very pleasant to do it, and my mother only corrected and corrected my actions, teaching all the rules of this art. My mother also taught me how girls should behave, namely, correct gait, manners, good tone, taking care of their appearance, etc. The new rules for me seemed too ridiculous at first, but then I began to understand their necessity for any a normal girl. Over time, I began to play more with dolls and began to gravitate towards girly games. I even had a friend - the girl Anya from our entrance sometimes came to us and I played everything with her. It was a lot of fun, we shared different secrets, I showed her how many clothes my mother bought for me and Anya just almost died of envy. We stood near the closet, and I showed everything I had, sometimes letting her try on the ones she especially liked. Anya said that they don’t buy her so many dresses and she doesn’t have thin children’s tights either. Therefore, I gave her two pairs of tights and one dress, of course, after asking my mother’s permission. I also visited Anya. Her parents saw me as an ordinary girl who was friends with Anya and did not suspect anything like that. We practiced braiding each other's hair, played daughter-mother, loved to play tricks, and in general were good friends. After a month, I could no longer be distinguished from a girl, and after two, my voice, character traits, and behavior changed. Everything boyish came out of me, giving way to everything girly. I became a girl, and my mother even began to call me differently - Tanya, that’s my name now. Well, mommy knows best, so being a girl is my destiny. You must pay an invoice of 500 rubles for advertising
Operation
The most drastic solution to the question of how to become a girl if you are a guy is surgery. The procedure associated with gender reassignment can take more than a year in total. First of all, a person who decides to undergo such manipulation must undergo an examination by a psychiatrist. He, in turn, must confirm that the patient is transgender, but is mentally healthy.
Then a course of hormonal treatment is started, which lasts about a year. During this time, transsexuals live as representatives of the other sex in order to make sure that their decision is correct. During this period, men's breasts grow, and their facial features become more feminine. In women, the menstrual cycle stops, hair growth increases and the voice becomes rougher. Only after going through the previous stages can a person be assigned a date for surgery, which in some situations takes place over several time periods.
Thus, many transsexuals who want to change their gender from male to female often turn to doctors for surgery. Male to female gender reassignment surgery involves removing the penis and creating an artificial vagina. Part of the head of the former male organ is preserved as the clitoris, which can retain sensitivity along with the ability to orgasm.
A beautiful male figure is in fashion6
Someone may notice that now, more than ever, a beautiful, pumped-up male figure is in fashion. And this, it seems, does not fit at all with the femininity of our men. How can you combine brutality and feminine softness into one? And yet, it’s possible. How many sugary boys are there on glossy covers, flexing their muscles while they themselves are shiny with sugariness? A pumped-up body costs more. And you don’t always want to imitate such boys. After all, very often only the muscles are pumped up, but the worldview remains feminine.
And one more thing - to pump up a truly beautiful body, you need good exercise equipment, competent trainers and a balanced, proper diet. Well, what guy from the village of Vasyuki can afford this? Well, not a village, a small town? But the country consists not only of Moscow. So who? Well, there is a gym, you can buy dumbbells yourself. And the coach? What about food?
Here's an example: one man decided to pump up his body. At first he went to the gym, did everything as expected, worked out with a trainer, ate according to a schedule, took some supplements, and his body, I must say, grew. Then changes happened in life (I decided to expand my business and got into debt), the stream of money began to flow less regularly and not so generously. The guy tried to get out, but didn’t quit.
Now I worked out at home with dumbbells, and to nourish my biceps I looked for some supplements on the Internet. In general, with these “magic” supplements he lost his liver, almost lost his kidney, and most importantly, he was blown apart like a dirigible. Now doctors forbid him to do much physical activity; his heart may not be able to withstand it, and he doesn’t have the patience to lose weight by a milligram a day. In general, you need to be careful with these biceps-triceps.
Postoperative stage
After appropriate intervention, the person will receive new documents. In Iran, for example, people are given a new birth certificate. In addition, the person will have to take hormonal drugs for the rest of his life, because modern medicine has not yet reached the point of growing organs that can independently change secondary sexual characteristics. This is fraught with problems with the kidneys and liver.
Also, a person who has changed gender will have to deal with negative reactions from people around him. In this regard, he will most likely have to be observed by a psychologist for some time in order to more thoroughly adapt to his new life in a renewed body.
There is less and less manual labor left
Yes, this is one of the main reasons why male power began to disappear. Nowadays, both in everyday life and in production, work is automated. If you compare everyday life with everyday life even thirty years ago, this is heaven and earth. Yes, at that time there were already washing machines, vacuum cleaners and other devices that made work easier at home. But all this was not the same. Washing machine - you had to throw laundry in there, and then take it out yourself, rinse it and wring it out with your hands.
Yes, this is all women’s work, but the man also helped. A screwdriver - we had never heard of this before; the owner did everything with his own hands - with a screwdriver. Instead of mowers and trimmers of various models, there was a regular scythe; mini-harvesters were also not used; everything was done by hand. Now technology is at every step. Yes, and before, townspeople didn’t use scythes or tractors too much.
But still, there was more manual labor. And he was appreciated. Today, the highest salary goes to the employee who works with his head. And even more for the person they work for. And why then strive to get a job somewhere as a mechanic or an anode operator, if these professions are paid ridiculously low? The kind of money they earn can be easily earned on a computer without leaving home.
So it turns out that manual labor has disappeared, male strength is no longer in such demand, and if there is no demand for it, then it fades away.
But we have a lot of examples where you can get money without your hands. Complete special courses in order to later get a job as an electric locomotive driver? What for? You can get a job as a men's clothing model. All sorts of people will go there, both skinny and normal. Tall and thin are even better - everything fits on them perfectly, like on a hanger.
Who thinks that this is an exaggeration, go out into the street and ask the guys you meet who Serena Auñon, Alexander Gerst and Sergei Prokofiev are?! (just in case, these are modern cosmonauts). 1 out of 500 will answer. Because our youth does not know people in such serious professions.
The cosmonauts will not be named, but who Borya Moiseev, Sergei Lazarev or Sergei Zverev is will be announced right away.
About hormone therapy
The main goal of hormone therapy is to ensure maximum safety during gender transition. Its process is divided into three stages:
- Diagnosis by a medical commission.
- Operation.
- Performing hormone therapy.
There are some risks directly associated with taking hormones for guys. Doctors develop a special strategy, and the subsequent treatment regimen is adjusted in accordance with indicators of general health. In the case of male transsexualism, female sex hormones are selected along with estrogens and antiandrogenic drugs. There are currently a large number of these medications and there will definitely not be any problems in getting the necessary funds. Estrogens are produced in the form of gels, patches and tablets. Hormonal levels, as a rule, are regularly monitored by doctors with hormone tests using OAM and OAC.
How to choose a bra for a guy?
A new woman without real breasts can choose any cup size, from the smallest to the largest options. AA is the smallest size and DD is the maximum. You need to choose the model that best suits your body. Therefore, before choosing a bra, you should pay attention to your build: if a person is thin and at the same time short, it is better to buy smaller cups in order to look more natural.
The guy acts and dresses like a girl
Psychologists have repeatedly proven that a person’s character is influenced by the feminine and masculine principles in upbringing. Thus, girls raised by their father alone can grow up to be strong personalities; sentimentality and romance may be alien to them. Boys raised by their mother alone, on the contrary, become romantic and gentle in nature, and therefore behave like the opposite sex.
It often happens that guys are immediately born with a feminine character. Since childhood, they prefer the company of girls rather than boys, and are not interested in men’s hobbies. They love themselves too much to care for anyone else. In this case, the guy behaves like a girl. He may devote a lot of time to his appearance, and therefore such people are called narcissists.
As a result, such behavior often leads to transvestite tendencies and the development of gender dysphoria. To prevent such problems from arising in the future, parents should correct any non-standard gender expression of their children.
Micaela Romanini, 51 years old
The lift and injections have made the Italian socialite a walking example of what not to do. Due to her extreme thinness and disproportionate parts of her face, Michaela is becoming more and more like Gollum from The Lord of the Rings. Raised black eyebrows, voluminous lips, sharp cheekbones and a thin nose - Romanini tried on all the beauty trends.
Having gone too far with beauty injections and other procedures, she achieved the opposite result: the skin lost its elasticity and became like crumpled paper. Rumor has it that the celebrity is pleased with the result. But it seems to us that now she is more likely not Michaela, but Michaelo.
