What compliment can you give a man in your own words?

Compliment your man more often. Praise is crucial in any romantic relationship—yes, even for men. Although your partner may seem apathetic about praise, believe me, when he does something well, he definitely wants to hear about it. Whether in the bedroom or in everyday matters, complimenting your man or boyfriend will not only bring you closer to your partner, but will also make him feel more confident in the relationship.

The good news is that these compliments for men will help you avoid problems in the following areas: how to praise a man for his appearance and clothes, his personality, how to compliment a guy via SMS, and how to compliment a man in bed or after a stormy night.

Short phrases in your own words for SMS

The examples of how to give a man a compliment in correspondence, offered below, will not leave even the most brutal heart indifferent:

I dream of being in your strong hands.
I constantly think about your tender and at the same time passionate kisses.
Your strong arms and broad shoulders excite me.
You are the best.
I can't forget last night.
I love. I am waiting. Want.
I thought that nothing could be hotter than the sun. I was wrong - your kisses.
Next to you, the day flies by like an hour.
Your smile makes you forget about all the troubles.
My biggest dream is to become one with you.
The thought of you takes my breath away.
I dream of touching your strong body as soon as possible.
Next to you my heart beats faster.
I can't believe that you are mine.
I'm yours forever.

Beautiful compliments will always lift your spirits.
The best compliments to a man are those that come from the heart. Listen to your feelings and desires, broadcast them to your loved one and you will become a real queen for him.

Why are young ladies afraid to encourage their knights?

Our mothers and grandmothers, full of traumatic experiences, our fathers and grandfathers were rarely praised. Sometimes they’ll say: “Only I’m a smart guy.” All! The target for the next five years has been met. The daughters absorbed: men cannot be pampered, everything they do is a matter of course.

Meanwhile, men in such families often stop showing any initiative. For what? All the same, they won’t say a kind word, or even yell at you prophylactically if something isn’t perfect. It's better to lie on the sofa.

Those who were braver ran away altogether. To whom? To the aunties who, despite their age, knew how to roll their eyes and rejoice at everything: a nail that was nailed, scrambled eggs for breakfast, a modest paycheck. Everyone appreciates it when their efforts are appreciated.

Men often work and achieve heights not for their own ambitions, but to please the woman they love. Most people don’t need millions, or nails, or a clean apartment. But seeing how his beloved is delighted, ordinary Ivan Ivanovich changes irreversibly. Now he is ready to vacuum, earn money and bring coffee to bed every morning, if only his wife would purr: “You are so good! How lucky I am to have you!”

Okay, we've sorted out the theory. You need to praise. But how is this done? How often can you express gratitude? How to formulate all this and put it into words?

How many kind words is a man entitled to per day?

We are used to doing everything strictly according to the rules. It is unclear who set the standards. But since British scientists said: 8 hugs a day, that means no more, no less. Try listening to yourself. Tired and off your feet? There is no need to squeeze out the “dance of a happy woman” and three hours of oral sex, because “that’s what the psychologist advised.” A few sincere, warm words will be enough.

Is he steadfastly chopping salads while you are looking for that very dress to greet guests? Or maybe he took the kids out for a walk so you could get some sleep for the first time in a week? Then whatever you have enough energy and imagination for, in any quantity, is appropriate.

Don't be afraid to over-praise a man. If you really notice that he behaves somehow strangely because of praise, this is a prompt to think: “Isn’t my Innokenty an asshole?” Praise won't spoil a normal guy. At least praise him every day: if you are sincere, an overdose will not happen.

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Take your gifts!

It is not necessary to lick it every time it moves. “Oh, you took the child to the garden! Oh, you know how to put shoes in place! Oh, you washed your plate!” - this is also overkill. Just notice the good and be sincere. Most likely, he accidentally bought cornflowers of this particular shade. But if you tell them that these are the flowers of your childhood dreams, you will begin to find them on the table more often.

Funny compliments for a guy

The ability to give compliments is an art. By saying them in your own words you can hit the nail on the head. But if you doubt your abilities, then it’s better to practice. Otherwise, your words will fall into the category of “funny compliments,” which are more like a joke. They occur when a person inappropriately compared the dignity of another person, and the phrase received a negative or even funny connotation.

You have such huge eyelashes, like a cow's
You have a beautiful mane, like a thoroughbred horse
You're so funny (association with a fool, a buffoon, frivolous)
With such long arms you can reach anyone
You're so fast like spiderman
I'm drowning in your brown eyes
You are as economical as my dad (uncle, brother)
You have such a beautiful hump on your nose
Your lips are as plump as Angelina Jolie's
Your legs are very long
You're cute like a girl
Fatness suits you
It's scary to approach such a handsome man
Are these your real muscles? So natural!
You have so much hair on your chest
Your mind is sharper than a knife
You have beautiful lingerie
Your teeth blind my eyes
Your appearance makes you dangerous to others
You're like a prince without a white horse

From the movies.

Strong, confident, purposeful. Darling, you are my tough nut to crack.
Economical, smart, strong, caring. Honey, you’re just a transformer - all in one.
Your name, of course, is not Bruce, but you are also Almighty.
Can I call you Thor when you're angry? Otherwise, lightning, sparks and waves of sexuality roll out from you in different directions at such moments.
You are as brave as Aragorn, charming as Legolas, and funny as Gimli. If you propose, we will be the brotherhood of the ring.
In my opinion, even the Joker doesn't have the charisma you have.
Forrest Gump doesn't run like I do to meet you. I am always happy when I know that I can see you.
When you leave for work, my “Hachiko” mode turns on.
Let's retire to the secret room, light a goblet of fire and play around until we see the philosopher's stones.
How about "dirty dancing"? I really like the way you move.

Mistakes a woman makes when trying to compliment a man

What is the most common way of praising a man from a woman? "Well done!" This phrase is usually used by female trainers who teach other women to praise their man. What is the word “well done” associated with? With school. Did you get 5? - "Well done". And immediately a picture appears of a mother praising her son, who is “well done.”

Or, even worse, “You’re smart.” Umnichka is generally feminine! When you tell your man or son: “You are smart,” you are at least calling him feminine. I do not recommend using such phrases in relation to men.

I understand that now some of you may say: “Yaroslav, you are being very picky, these are trifles.” But I think these are not trifles. It is from such “little things” that male perception and self-identification are formed. Do you want to understand what words men like? I will help you with this.

Men love specifics. Words of admiration for a man should sound something like this: “Listen, how purposeful you are! I set a goal and achieved it!” or “You're smart. You said then that it would happen, and that’s how it happened. We did it your way, and it was right, great!” And I repeat once again, the best compliment to a man is a compliment about his masculine qualities.

Do you remember? Then let's move on. If you haven't given compliments before, chances are you'll be at a loss as to what kind of compliment you can give your boyfriend, man, or husband. It will be difficult for you to figure out what words to praise a man with and find new compliments to his masculine qualities.

You may feel a sense of fear: “How will he react? What will he say in response?” My dears, this is quite normal. And here you will either use trial and error to figure out what kind of compliment you can give a man, or you will go to learn this, for example, at “The Way of a Woman.” During the course, we separately analyze examples of compliments to a man and teach how to correctly express words of praise to a man.

Our program has a separate task, thanks to which graduates of “The Way of a Woman” get compliments from their teeth to a man. They feel no embarrassment, shame or fear of evaluation and know exactly what compliments a man needs to give. During the training, a woman can see in practice how cool it is to praise her partners.

Why praise a man

Have you ever cooked a complex dinner after spending half a day chasing the “liver of a dragon born on a full moon”? Remember how you didn’t even want to eat because of the worries: “Will you like it or not? Happened? Wasn’t your effort in vain?

Do you remember when you first decided to meet him in seductive lingerie? There seems to be nothing to worry about here, but still: “What if I look funny? Maybe it's not on time? Why hasn’t he reacted for three seconds already?!”

Men also want to be rewarded for their efforts. They do not know how to read emotions “by an unusual flutter of eyelashes.” And in general, we need to stop this: “Well, I smiled, blinked three times - is it really not clear?”

Let’s not delve into all the Vedas with their theses about a man as a breadwinner and a woman as an inspiration. It pays to praise men! Praise reinforces desired behavior. Do you want to receive flowers regularly? Jump to the ceiling, even if he brought a branch from the Christmas tree.

Admire it, look at it from all sides, take a photo for Instagram, send the photo to your mom and all your girlfriends. Men, poor things, are used to people only yelling at them emotionally. And they take all the amenities for granted, getting off with “thank you.”

Say in a reverent whisper: “Her husband hasn’t given Tanya flowers for five years. And then the bouquet is so unusual! You are the best!". It is very likely that the man will be stunned, think about it and deliver half of the flower market to his apartment tomorrow.

Compliments to your beloved man

You are an unusually sensitive person. I would never have thought that a man could be so sensitive and attentive to a woman’s needs.
I value your opinion and value it. You always find the right solution for any situation.
With you I always feel comfortable and reliable.
You are an amazingly romantic person! With you, my life is filled with romance, beautiful adventures, like in the fairy tale “A Thousand and One Nights.”
I'm afraid of you coming to my work (study). My girls will rebel in the fight for the palm to attract the attention of such a handsome man.
I think you will be a better father to your children based on how your children treat you and love to play with you.
I thought it was hot outside. In fact, it makes me hot when I see you.
Sometimes it seems to me that there is no task that is beyond your control. Everything is in your hands.
Your presence makes me think of wonderful things such as love, family, children and eternal life with such a person. (Surely you will like 50 good night wishes for a loved one that a woman can say to her husband).
My co-workers (classmates) cannot take their eyes off you when they see us together.
When I see you, I fall in love more and more every time. Even if it's against all the rules that I know, I can't help myself.
You, unlike others, know how to make me laugh, even when I’m sad.
I really enjoy spending time together, which flies by. For me, being together 24 hours, seven days a week is negligible.
You always know how to find the right words, say them right to the point and at the right time.
I really like the way you talk. You have a voice of extraordinary depth. My hearing is literally drowning in it.

Comical.

Young man, here next to you, the sensor that determines the best man on earth has gone off. And he’s not wrong with me.
Do you have a license? Finally, I met at least one good driver. I can walk calmly. Even at night. With my eyes closed. Along the road and diagonally.
As soon as you kiss me, I immediately want to run to cook borscht, buy all the underwear in sex shops and glow like a New Year's garland.
Oh, aren’t your lips always sugary? No? Exactly? Well, let me try. Well, but you say that they are not sugar.
Is it your perfume that is so alluring or your own pheromones?
You're like champagne. Sparkling, it makes you dizzy, it makes you blush and it also makes you feel so hot inside.
Man, I see that you are a jack of all trades. And I’m a lonely girl, my shelves are not nailed down, the taps are leaking, the doors are creaking...
Do you happen to know how to put out fires? Now you will learn from me. And then he started a fire here.
I haven’t drank yet, but you already seem like the man of my dreams.
I don’t remember when I placed an order for delivery at the “Best Boyfriend/Husband” store.

How do men react to compliments?

Consider the following situation. Your man or admirer takes good care of you, like a woman. Is it possible to praise a man for this to confirm the importance of his actions? You can compliment a man by saying: “You are very attentive, I am extremely pleased.”

And, in my understanding, this confirmation encourages a man to do even more for you. Something like this conclusion is formed in his head: “She likes what I do to a woman. She confirms that it is valuable, she rejoices. Great! And if I do this for her, she’ll probably be pleased.”

Examples of compliments in poetry

Telling a girl about her beauty in poetry is a romantic move. Even if you can't write a poem yourself, there's probably one online that's perfect for showing how much you love a girl's appearance.

It seems to me that the stars are not needed, The moon and the sun are all secondary, After all, you shine brightest for me, So excellently, easily and unforgettably!

Your beauty is invaluable, Your look is filled with positivity. You inspire heroic deeds, And you fill life with a smile!

I admire your gaze Your wonderful beauty So flawless and beautiful And in one word - unearthly!

Your features are graceful, sophisticated, Your eyes are beautiful and modest! Facial features are unsurpassed, Charmingly cute!

You are simply a Goddess! Why are there words here, Insanely beautiful and very tender!

What kind of compliments do men like?

The purpose of the praise is important. What exactly do you want to achieve by complimenting a guy? And here we shouldn’t talk about manipulation. After all, any dialogue has its purpose. And a compliment, as a type of verbal communication, is no exception. Therefore, focus on the task that praise is intended to solve. If you choose the right words, you will succeed.

How to compliment a man, but not overdo it with exaggeration of his advantages? Just control what is said. If he has a slight build and takes up sports, then it goes without saying that he looks like Dwayne Johnson. Note his diligence and the fact that the first results are already noticeable. This way you will inspire the guy, and not push him away with rude flattery.

Men love compliments that they believe. Sometimes they can even “tighten” reality to fit the image that his woman creates. A coward can become a daredevil. Daredevil is a reliable husband and father, and so on. It all depends on the depth of a woman’s faith in him. Therefore, knowing how to compliment a man with an eye on a grandiose goal, it is quite possible to achieve it.

By the way, Dmitry Karpachev’s online course “Man. User guide" . In it you will find a lot of useful information on how to achieve mutual understanding and build harmonious relationships.

Important rules, or Don't forget about submission

So, the task is clear. You need to learn how to correctly give original compliments to a guy. Either funny or pleasant - it doesn’t matter. The main thing is that he is touched, hooked, in some cases even excited, and compliments become part of your relationship.

You probably need to imagine yourself in his place, that is, imagine that you are a little bit of a man. Yes, an unfamiliar situation. But this is the only way to rehearse the tone, facial expressions, gestures and even touches at the moment when kind words are spoken. This is on the one hand. On the other hand, don’t forget that a guy won’t appreciate a compliment on his “new pants”; he’s not a girl. You should forget about the wardrobe, at least in this form.

What then? You need to learn the rules that will help you not only pronounce a compliment correctly, say pleasant words, but also assure (once again!) of the softness, tenderness and depth of your feelings!

Men like unobtrusive compliments, short, succinct and meaningful. To do this, you need:

Remember that the left, “feminine” side, is responsible for emotions and expression of feelings in men. At a congress on psychology, recently held in Berlin and bringing together world luminaries, it was proven that gentle words should pronounced in the left ear
, but tasks that require execution are on the right.
A man will quickly forget how sexy and kind he is if you tell him about it in his right ear. But to the left is what you need! All that remains is to sneak up behind you, hug you by the shoulders and whisper exactly those words, slightly touching your ear with your lips. The answer won't take long to arrive!
Emphasize with words truly masculine, “tribal” qualities: sexuality, endurance, willpower, etc. You can also add personality traits that you adore about him. You love him for something special, something that caught your eye on the first date. Remind him of this more often, especially if the relationship begins at a distance. You can even write a poem or delight in prose.
Don’t pay attention to appearance: this is secondary for a guy - he’s been taught this idea since childhood. But emphasizing in a compliment those parts of the body that excite is a non-trivial decision. These can be strong arms, wide chests and even elastic buttocks, why hide it!
Don't babysit - guys don't like that. Choose an intimately exciting whisper and give a compliment with your whole body: with your eyes, smile, hands, slightly touching. Light flirting, a special mood, a few grams of excitement will not be superfluous!
Remove the irony and sarcasm that run through each of us when communicating with our loved ones. “Darling, I didn’t even know that you can use a hammer so well: the wall is intact and your fingers are in place
. What is this anyway? Your own bitter experience, dragged from past relationships? But they are no longer there, and your man, good, affectionate and extraordinary, is with you!

Giving compliments, as it turns out, is as easy as shelling pears. Pronounce your words with feeling, love and never forget that there are never too many beautiful words!

For the beloved

Experts identify several options for compliments that can be said to a spouse or gentleman:

the reason for a compliment may be an action committed earlier. The young lady herself can remind her lover about him: “The flowers are simply magnificent,” “Yesterday evening will forever remain in my memory”;
praise in a question forces a person to answer and maintain a conversation : “Why did you fascinate me so much?”, “Where did they teach you this?”;
in the presence of strangers, enthusiastic words have a much stronger effect, as they increase his importance in the eyes of others. This is an effective technique used in psychology when it is necessary to increase self-esteem: “You can only dream of such a husband!”;
when making a request to your lover, you can unobtrusively praise him , and then you definitely won’t hear a refusal: “Your hands are so strong, help me nail the shelf,” “I can’t cope without you, advise me how to do better”;
associative compliments are some of the most popular in relationships : “You are like a lion in bed!”, “My affectionate kitten”;
The best option is considered to be phrases about love : “Every minute I love you more and more,” “I can’t imagine life without you.”

As a rule, loving compliments to their boyfriends are given to girls in the form of SMS messages at the stage of the candy-bouquet period.

Legitimate wives are less likely to pamper their spouses, but there is no need to deprive them of praise - because they will appreciate it.

His achievements.

Wow! Are these all your medals/certificates/diplomas/cups? You really worked your ass off.
Did you get a promotion? Did your boss praise you? Finally, they rightfully appreciated you. Congratulations! I am so proud of you.
Your gym sessions are not in vain. These muscles are just steel.
Have you decided to enroll in new courses? Smart girl, you are so purposeful and determined.
I'm glad you stopped smoking/eating fast food/going to bed at dawn. It was difficult, but you put in a lot of effort and did it. I'm proud of you.
Thank you for working with me on our relationship. It’s difficult for me now too, but looking at your efforts, I understand that we can handle it.
Have you made peace with your friend/mother/colleague? You are so young that you took the first step, even though it was difficult and awkward.
Did you assemble the closet/rearrange the furniture/fix the equipment yourself? There is nothing that your golden hands cannot handle.
Do you play guitar/burn wood/skydive? Your hobby is so interesting. I like that you have something other than work that you can get better at.
Do you have a lot of friends? No wonder you are an amazing storyteller and comedian. You won't get bored.

Take the test: Does he like me?

Who is who, or how to characterize a man. Characteristics of the man of your dreams

The man you love needs to be pampered. Or that guy who you really like and is currently your favorite. An unusual solution that we women sometimes forget is compliments. Everyone loves them. But what compliments can you give a guy?

What if a compliment said in your own words seems inappropriate? Is it possible to find funny phrases for this, will the recipient be offended?

No, he won’t be offended, but will be amazed, flattered and surprised! And once again he will be convinced of your affection and love. Try to speak kind and affectionate words, and then... Well, you'll see for yourself.

Perfect Praise

Do men like compliments? And how! They make them stronger, turning them into heroes and knights. Smart women motivate their loved one in this way, getting everything that others dream of and try to get out of their other half.

However, you can only use masculine characteristics - this can be an assessment of his strength, appearance, actions. But any speech of praise should be made sincerely. A man's ear will quickly sense falsehood or inappropriateness. You should evaluate only the action, and not every reason. For example, if he notices that the wallpaper is peeling off or it’s time to take out the trash, you shouldn’t start putting him on a pedestal. A compliment for an ordinary task that does not require significant effort can easily humiliate. It is important to notice those things to which he really put effort, even if he did not succeed very well.