Relationship
“I’ve never had anything like this before!” Have you ever heard such words from a girl? If you look at how most guys behave in the process of seduction, you will notice that they are simply trying to “buy” the girl’s interest or logically prove why she should date them. Many people behave banally, ask the same standard questions, give flowers on the first date and invite them to dinner at a restaurant. But logically, persuading a girl to meet and not only is a “dead number.” You need to communicate with girls in emotional language so that her inner world explodes with surprise every time.
Surprised girl?! For what… ?!
Any man who wants to conquer a girl must know how to surprise her. Girls love emotions very much. Many men don't even understand the role emotions play in their lives. Women are like that by nature. They receive much more information from emotions than from words. Their logic and actions directly depend on the emotions they receive. The sun is shining and she is being fed ice cream - she is in a good mood. So you are so positive and wonderful. But, if a bird pooped on her new dress, then you are a scoundrel and she is ready to kill you for this stupid walk. But in any case, she will be with you because you give her these very emotions.
Let's immediately decide why it is necessary to learn how to surprise girls.
1. Be able to stand out from a large number of “standard” fans in order to arouse genuine interest.
2. Simplify the process of seduction and bring acquaintance to the first intimacy.
3. Speed up the time to create a strong relationship in which the girl will be ready to do anything for you.
There are a large number of ways that can surprise a girl. Now I want to focus on their quantity or uniqueness, but I’ll tell you about the correct sequence of their use. Because a lot of guys have big problems with this. The main point is that emotions need to be strengthened gradually as you communicate and move from free methods to more expensive ones. It may even turn out that surprising a girl without money will work out much better than, say, taking her to an expensive restaurant or giving her a large bouquet of 101 roses.
The easiest way to meet girls is, of course, dating sites and social networks. So, let's say you liked some girl on VK. It is important to understand that first you just need to establish contact, and not try to immediately surprise the girl. The simple word “HELLO” will be enough. and began correspondence. And if it is clear that the girl is ready to communicate, then we need to move on to inducing positive emotions in her.
Touch and stroke
Of course, it depends on your comfort zone, but one of the sexiest things is feeling your partner's hands all over your body. Not to mention, for women, stroking and squeezing certain parts of the body can lead to extraordinary pleasure. Also, if you do this while you tell her how attractive she is, you will make her feel incredibly desirable. A surefire way to get repeat trips to the bedroom.
How to surprise a girl on VK?
An interesting story from your life with photos
Your communication has begun. And, as a rule, we try to learn more about each other. And these should not be banal questions of the same type and short answers to them. You need to learn to present yourself, your best qualities, your interesting life. To do this, you need to have a couple of good stories in stock that will evoke positive impressions of you. For example, this could be a story about your extreme hobby, about an unforgettable trip with friends in Europe, or about helping someone in a difficult situation. The stories themselves should have a large number of adjectives, which will evoke the emotions themselves. It will be an even bigger plus if bright, memorable photographs are attached to the story itself.
A beautiful compliment
After you find out more about the girl, you can give her a nice compliment. The whole point of a compliment should be one thing – to surprise the girl! It should not look like just “grease.” Therefore, it is better to write it not straightforwardly, but between the lines. And it should be both extraordinary and beautiful. You should not use standard phrases and banal confessions. The compliment must be truthful or, in other words, “from the heart.” Girls feel everything, so there’s no point in lying. And we must not forget that different girls love different compliments. You will surprise some by complimenting your appearance, others by emphasizing your intelligence or individuality.
Drawing from symbols
What can I write to her?4
Nobody notices such things at all, but they play a huge role in maintaining relationships.
- Wish her good night and good morning;
- Write to her what you like about her;
- Ask her questions to learn as much as possible about her and become closer;
- Playfully tease her;
- Tell her jokes;
- Send her corny pick-up lines to laugh together;
- Send emoticons, stickers and funny pictures;
- Play 20 questions;
- Organize a date, even if you have been dating for a long time;
- Write after the date that you had a great time;
- Send her dirty sexy texts;
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If a girl accepts your compliments, asks you a lot of questions, jokes, then you can invite her on a second date. In VK this can be done very simply by sending a message with a beautiful picture of symbols. It is very easy to find such drawings. You can try to be creative and come up with something yourself. This will only emphasize your originality. The drawing should be meaningful and unite you at the same time. For example, you found out that she loves to walk along the embankment. So draw it with symbols and under the drawing itself make a call to take a walk in the evening this weekend! She will be pleasantly surprised and, of course, will agree.
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How to surprise a girl on a date?
Appearance and positive thinking
The first impression, as we all know, is based on appearance. Clothes and shoes should always be clean, tidy and new. Face, hair and hands are always well-groomed. This is exactly the standard. You also need to be able to communicate well. The speech should be clear, short and meaningful. And, of course, a smile on your face and positivity in everything. The easiest way to evoke emotions is to joke. Laughter should be your weapon on the first date. Funny stories, a couple of cool anecdotes should always be in stock. Just don’t turn into a clown, everything in moderation.
Naturalness
Then you need to show naturalness. The fact is that on the first date, every person still puts on some kind of mask and behaves unnaturally. This is simply a defensive reaction. But on the second one it’s quite possible to be natural! It is “to be”, not “to seem”. Forget about all sorts of templates and showing yourself as an alpha male. This does not work. Always behave with girls the same way you behave in cases when you are alone with yourself. This may take some time, but it's worth it. Individuality always reveals itself in naturalness! And the manifestation of individuality cannot but evoke emotions.
Determination
Every man should have goals in life. Clear, understandable and best of all ambitious. A man by nature should be an achiever and always have a vector of forward movement. At the same time, goals should not be someone else’s, they should be consistent with internal desires. Buying a house, a car and earning a million a month are common goals that you won’t surprise anyone with. And you need those who will evoke positive emotions towards you as a person. For example, my goal is to create a modern youth development center in Moscow. Think about what a cool goal you could have. And if on the third date you tell about her, it will make you more interesting and give her confidence in you, which is very important for the further development of the relationship.
If 3 dates went well, then you can move on to intimacy.
Kiss her for real
If you're a terrible kisser, there's no way you'll be any better in bed. Some people think that foreplay should include nudity, but even regular kissing on the couch can serve as a great key in the car's ignition. When you kiss a girl, make sure your mouth is not full of saliva. You're kissing, not sharing a drink. Ideally, fresh breath will do a great job of making your partner more willing to kiss.
Advanced Tip : Don't be afraid to kiss or gently whisper in her ear about what you want to do to her!
How to surprise a girl in bed?
Erotic massage
When approaching for the first time, you need to be more than careful, affectionate and willing to give the girl maximum pleasure. You can surprise a girl by offering to give her a relaxing massage first. First of all, everyone loves massage. Secondly, according to data, in 80% of cases the massage ends in sex. Therefore, you should definitely adopt the massage technique. Girls, like cats, hide their claws when you show care and affection. Moreover, the better she relaxes during the massage, the better her orgasm will be. And this is only a plus for you!
Fierce poses
During the second sexual intercourse, the girl must be given varied and quick sex. The Kama Sutra should be your second book after the Bible. Study all the poses, choose the ones you like best. Show that sex with you is not just a 69 position, but a tornado that sweeps away everything in its path. Different speeds, different poses. You have to wear her out in a good way. She should be pleasantly surprised by how much you want her and how much energy you have.
Hard sex
The third time you have to show who is finally the alpha male. You need to be tough with her. This needs to be learned, of course. Attention! Rigidity is not cruelty! This does not mean that you need to spank her until she is red and it really hurts her. Rigidity is not pain, it is the transfer of inner male strength. If a girl is of a romantic nature and you think that this will not work with her, then you are mistaken. Sex is, in fact, an animal passion. Girls want to give themselves to the strongest male. For her, you must become exactly like that.
Sex is not yet a serious relationship, so you need to continue to surprise a girl without money.
How to surprise a girl without money?
Beautiful place in the city
You can surprise a girl with an invitation to one of the unusual places. There are such in every locality. These could be beautiful parks, the banks of a river or pond, the roofs of abandoned buildings, or maybe a place where you like to spend time alone. There may be two options here. Either bring the girl to this place with her eyes closed, which will already cause some intrigue, or make a date near him, also without saying anything. The place should really evoke a lot of positive emotions!
Romantic gift
You will give a girl a lot of impressions if you show yourself as a romantic. It could be a beautiful poem written by you, a song performed with a guitar, or a picture drawn of the place of your first date. It’s very easy to go buy a gift for money, but it won’t contain your love. And you just need to start giving your love to strengthen your relationship. Give your all. The most pleasant thing is to receive gifts made from the heart!
Free event
And, of course, you shouldn’t miss the chance to surprise a girl with various free trips where something interesting might happen. These could be Friday concerts in bars, exhibitions in museums, city festivals, car and air shows. You should always have a poster of upcoming events in your browser bookmarks. Of course, you have to be sure that she will definitely like it. Once or twice a month, such trips will give you new bright emotions. It’s definitely not worth sitting at home alone!
Time will pass, relationships will only get stronger. But the time comes when you have to part ways for a while. This could be school, a business trip, a trip home to visit parents, or any other occasion. Communication via the Internet or telephone will become commonplace. Therefore, next you need to learn how to surprise a girl from a distance.
Take your time
I don't know if you know, but sex isn't about the end result. The main thing is what is the path to it. If you want to become a Sex God, you need to make sure that your partner is thoroughly warmed up before the main act. The biggest tip is to try to relax and take your time. Too often guys rush things, making everything a stiff and unpleasant experience. Most importantly, listen to her. And remember, there is more than one pose, and changing them gives a huge advantage.
How to surprise a girl from a distance?
Surprise with courier
Every city already has a delivery service for flowers, jewelry, soft toys and various exotic foods. Why not pamper her and remind her of your innermost feelings? You can't do this without spending money, but it will be worth it. You just need to check with her in advance about what specific time she will be there. Otherwise some other incident will happen)
Letter
Why not. Do you think it's no longer relevant? Vice versa. Few people use this method at all. Write how dear she is to you, express all your thoughts, feelings and emotions. Pack it in a beautiful designer envelope and send it with an “emotional dove” to pleasantly surprise her. The only caveat is that letters take a long time to reach the addressee, so it is better to speed up the whole process by sending a registered letter.
Here I am
An option that will cause a storm of surprise in a girl. If you are impatient and don’t want to deal with separation, then you can come to your beloved. Let the girl know that you are ready to fly to the ends of the earth for her. Plan your arrival carefully so that she doesn't suspect anything. Give her a whole day of surprises. Draw the cherished “I love you” on the asphalt in front of her window. Launch a lot of balloons so that she can see, and say that this is how you send all your joint wishes to the Universe. And, of course, show up in the evening with a bouquet of flowers and a bottle of sparkling champagne!
Your relationship continues to develop and her birthday is coming! Such an event must be approached very seriously and interestingly. You already know a lot about your companion, so you need to do something that she doesn’t expect at all.
Something simple but meaningful
These little things should be done by every young man who would like to show the depth of his feelings. They will cost absolutely nothing, but will make a huge impression on her.
- Leave notes with nice phrases in the most unexpected places. Let her be sure how much you love her;
- Prepare food for her at work so she thinks about you during her lunch break;
- Hold her hand, especially in public places;
- Touch her arms or shoulders. Touch is as important as intimacy;
- Set her photo as your mobile phone wallpaper;
- Tell her that you were thinking about her while you were apart;
- Give her compliments. She should always know that you consider her the most beautiful;
- Play with her pets;
- Spend time with her family. These are the people closest to her;
- Let her choose your clothes;
- Hug her;
- Kiss her hands or forehead. Such seemingly small tenderness can show your deep affection;
- Bring her water during the hot part of the day or tea in the evening;
How to surprise a girl on her birthday?
Hike
All girls love animals very much. Some are cats, some are fish, some are pandu. After all, they are just as cute. You can touch them, feed them, cuddle them. You can actually ride with dolphins. Therefore, you can give a lot of impressions by going to a park, circus or aquarium for your birthday. In general, to where these animals are.
Extreme
Give her some kind of mind blowing already. The easiest way is to add a little extreme to her life, but so that there is a lot of adrenaline, and not a sea of tears and swearing. Here you need to understand what dose to give. This can be an off-road ride in the mountains, fast riding on road motorcycles along the highway, a hot air balloon or paragliding flight, diving, surfing, river rafting, horse riding, snowboarding, flying in a wind tunnel and much more. It may be better to ask in advance between conversations what extreme things she would like to try.
Travel tickets
What would bring the most emotion to you two? That's right, traveling together. Once a year you definitely need to go somewhere with your beloved girl. Relaxing with your loved one on the seashore, relaxing from work, bringing cool photos to your girlfriends is every girl’s dream. Therefore, for your birthday it is worth investing in emotions in a big way - giving trips to the resort. The format should be “all inclusive”, so as not to catch a taxi at the airport, look for a place to stay and not think about how to diversify your vacation. For example, I myself would not refuse a trip to the Maldives! Well, you can finish her off in the good sense of the word by giving her a ring and proposing!
I think that if you learn all these methods, then over time you will be able to surprise girls “automatically.” Gradually collect your “backpack of surprises”. Let me remind you that you need to strive at first to give emotions without resorting to money. Ideally, you should not spend a penny before having sex. The mistake most guys make is that they immediately start spending money on flowers, movies, gifts, cafes, etc. This is simply called prostitution. You buy sex with money. And the main currency should be emotions.
But I’ll tell you a secret: giving positive emotions is only the first level. In general, ideally, girls should be given a different range of emotions, both positive and negative. Therefore, at the second level, practice ways of presenting negative emotions. And the “God” level in seduction will come when you learn to alternate positive and negative emotions in equal parts. As big as “+”, so big is “-”. This will allow you to make a variety of girls fall in love with you even more!
Idea . Virtual gift-impression
Gifts that do not need to be delivered and can be ordered at any time, even 5 minutes before the holiday. It’s also convenient when you want to make a surprise, but you don’t know the recipient’s address. The choice is for any budget, from free to several thousand rubles. Basically, these are gifts and impressions: subscriptions to various services, online excursions, prepaid master classes and other virtual activities.
To personalize the surprise, you can order a designer card online and write the text yourself. Such gifts are available, for example, on the YouGift.online service
