How to touch a man's nerves with words

Male pride is an area of consciousness that, if touched, can undermine faith in one’s own strength and completely destroy one’s priorities. It does not matter whether the ego of the stronger sex was hurt intentionally or unintentionally. But if such situations are repeated frequently, we can speak with a high degree of confidence about the imminent death of the union. Even the calmest men who submissively obey women sooner or later come to the decision to break off the relationship. Experienced specialists give their recommendations on how not to hurt a man’s ego.

How to write a message to a guy to hook him

The content of the message will depend on your goal. The goals can be different: from the desire to make a pleasant impression to a radically opposite result. Whatever emotions you want to evoke, when composing the text, we recommend adhering to the following rules:

Your monologue should not be too lengthy or voluminous. Otherwise, having reached half, he may simply stop reading. Be concise, write to the point.
If your communication is just beginning, address him by name. No diminutive or cute nicknames. He may consider this as familiarity.
Do not use insults, rude expressions, or obscene words. This approach will be an indicator of your limited vocabulary, inability to express thoughts and restrain negative emotions.
Write without mistakes. Even if you want to emphasize your disdain for him in this way, don’t do it. After writing, read everything carefully, correct errors and shortcomings, and only then send.

If you want to write a message to get to know each other, don’t hesitate and don’t put it off. The times of modest Turgenev girls have long since sunk into oblivion. While you decide, he could become someone's boyfriend.

The essence of the concept

Male self-esteem is formed throughout a man's life. A representative of the stronger sex is born to become a conqueror, protector and breadwinner. Nature created him strong and courageous, capable of finding a worthy partner for procreation, protecting her from the attacks of other suitors, and also providing the woman with a roof over her head and food for food. These functions are a priority for any male individual and do not depend on his upbringing and desires. Everything is inherent in a guy’s mind by nature, so the slightest violation of boundaries or ignoring his main functions on the part of a woman is met with hostility.

What can you write to a guy in the first message to get him hooked?

Starting communication is an important aspect of a good relationship in the future. Use your imagination and follow some tips:

First of all, these should not be banal phrases like “How are you” and “Let’s get acquainted.” To attract a guy’s attention in the first seconds of communication and keep him, carefully study his page on a social network. So you will understand what he does, what music he listens to, where he has traveled. Perhaps you will learn something about his character, actions, taste preferences. Use this information to make connections. For example: “You have visited such beautiful places. Great! You probably have a lot of vivid impressions. Will you share?"
Identify your area of common hobbies. This will fuel his interest: “I, like you, love to play volleyball. Soon our city team will compete with the guests. Maybe we can go to the game?
As if inadvertently, let him know about your good attitude towards him: “I see that you are volunteering. I deeply like such people. Not everyone is ready to spend their energy and time helping those in need. I want to join this movement."
As if by chance, give him a light compliment: “I saw several dessert recipes on your page. Not all men are partial to cooking. I have rare dishes in my arsenal. I can send you the recipe."
Ask him for advice, a man’s opinion about some situation: “Your page has an excellent selection of music. I want to buy good headphones to listen to. Can you tell me which model to choose?”

To write first is not shameful or shameful. But imposing yourself is a completely different matter. Don’t monitor every second whether he answered or not. Don't give him the opportunity to understand that you are looking forward to continuing communication. When he writes, pause and only then answer. If your signal does not work and he does not respond to the first message, you should not continue the correspondence.

Let's consider another vital situation. What can you write to a man in SMS or on a social network to hook him if he has lost his temper?

To captivate him, try to create and maintain intrigue. Change, be unpredictable and contradictory. Try on different images: today you are the embodiment of modesty and gullibility, tomorrow you are pragmatism and rationalism. By unraveling you, he will understand how unusual and multifaceted you are, and will again become interested in you.
A person's most lively interest is in himself. Most of your messages should not be about you, but about him. Show sincere attention to his personality, life events, and hobbies. Don’t talk about what your mood is, but ask him about it.
All men are narcissists to a greater or lesser extent. Throw compliments into the fire of your relationship, but only those that he deserves. All men like to be praised.
Be funny, be positive. If humor is not your thing, stock up on a few funny stories in advance that will help smooth out rough edges and create a feeling of sympathy.

What are the reasons for the development?

Parental oppression and spoiling. The main roots of narcissism are in the “drama” of his parents. Most often, narcissistic men grow up in those families where ordinary childhood life is replaced by a cult of achievements and success. “You must”, “You will do”, “You are the best, the very first, the fastest”, etc. By pushing all their unrealized dreams into the child, admiring his successes and replicating these successes everywhere, parents keep their distance from the child himself, communicating quite distant and cold. The child gets used to being “the best” and “the first,” but grows up without ever knowing what love is.
Attention deficit. The child’s successes and achievements in this case are just an attempt to attract the attention of mom and dad. The child does not see any affection or care from them. A lack of love in childhood is reflected in an adult by the desire to take without offering anything in return.
"Overpraised." This is what mothers most often sin with. “You did the best,” says the mother, knowing full well that the other children drew much better. “You were the coolest in this competition!” (despite the fact that the child took 12th place). “You sing like an angel!” etc. You need to be frank with the child. Yes, I don’t want to offend a child, but there must be criticism! It just needs to be constructive and soft. By elevating children to the rank of super-heroes and Olympic “gods”, selecting “good/bad” reference points and presenting them with whatever they want on plates, we are dooming them to an unhappy adult life.
The influence of the media, the Internet, TV. The information that a child (teenager) receives from the outside, in most cases today, carries the message - to be a consumer, to love yourself, to think only about yourself, to buy all the most expensive things: “You deserve the best”, “You should simplify life”, “You are unique” etc. The era of consumption has spread so widely across cities and heads that consumption has become a way of life. Simple human feelings are gradually being replaced by the most primitive desires, for the satisfaction of which many young people live. Naturally, living together with a person who knows only his “I want” becomes difficult and eventually ends in divorce.

Typical mistakes of girls - what should you never say to a guy?

As for narcissism after 40 years, it is usually caused by a loss of guidelines and disappointment in oneself and one’s own values.

A new relationship that a man starts while in the state of “the train is not going any further, everything is gone, I don’t want anything, it’s too late to develop” is initially difficult.

He, who lived for so many years exclusively for himself, simply forgot that in love you also need to give.

Hit the weak points of men

The purpose of correspondence can be not only positive, but also negative emotions. After a breakup, the bitterness of resentment haunts a woman for a long time. What can you write to your ex-boyfriend, husband, lover in SMS and on a social network so that it hurts him?

It is known that men, unlike women, are more straightforward. Ladies, thanks to their natural resourcefulness and cunning, are able to calculate and play many moves on the playing field of relationships that an experienced womanizer has never dreamed of. To win “in boxing” by correspondence, manipulate the male consciousness, use psychological tricks.

We criticize his appearance. Men are just as concerned as women about how they look. Due to the fact that they are not so emotional and more restrained, they manage to hide their complexes. Sparse hair on your head, an unathletic figure, short stature, a tasteless, sloppy wardrobe, always dirty shoes - all this can become the subject of your ridicule.
A blow to self-esteem and pride. If your career is going better than his, you have enough arguments to launch a surgical strike. Start one sentence of your message with: “Unlike some, I have had to cope with difficult tasks, more than once.” Or: “Before entering into a debate with me, it would be nice for you to learn how to solve your problems, and first of all, financial ones.” Even if you are not very successful, you can always make an attack on his financial instability, of course, if he is not an oligarch: “Instead of arguing with me, it would be better to find a way to make money.”
A blow to the competitive instinct. Compare him with more successful friends or with those friends who have stable, strong relationships and have children. Report this as if inadvertently, in the form of well-known news, gossip: “I heard that your classmate Ivan is already in charge of the branch. People even with your education know how to climb the career ladder,” “Petrov has another addition to his family. Well done! This is already the third, and some still consider themselves irresponsible polygamous youths.”
We irritate our opponent by emphasizing his negative traits.

It is known that women devote much more attention and time to their education than men. At school, the reading part of the class consists mainly of girls. And often in a couple it is the representative of the fair sex who has a broader outlook.

Focus on his lack of education and ignorance. Of course, for this you yourself need to be a fairly erudite person. Use scientific terms in your speech, preferably ones the meaning of which he does not know. He will feel humiliated and insulted.
Another common negative male quality is laziness. For example: “Has your mother already tidied up your apartment this week? Or did you borrow money to pay for a one-time cleaning?”
His sloppiness can also become a subject of ridicule: “I’m thinking about breaking out to visit you. Let me know when you’ve collected the socks scattered around the apartment and washed the dishes.”

Mistake #7: Manipulation

A man's pride can be hurt when a guy realizes that he is being manipulated. Each representative of the stronger sex can apply a lot of effort to achieve a certain result. He tries to look after, help, pay attention to the girl and fulfill all her whims in order to achieve his own goal. Usually this goal is intimate relationships, since (in the man's opinion) sex is proof of a woman's love. He perceives any signs of attention from the girl as a call to action. But when the guy realizes that he was used, the whole world falls out from under his feet. This hurts his pride, as it infringes on his manhood.

You shouldn't humiliate a man's pride. If there are no plans to develop a serious relationship, the girl should behave accordingly. It is not recommended to accept gifts, ask for help or behave controversially (excessively flirtatious, hinting or flirting). Otherwise, you can provoke indignation or even aggression on the part of the guy and hear a lot of unpleasant things about yourself. A man’s wounded pride will allow him to be very inventive in his revenge, so you should be wary of such actions.

What to write in a message to make a guy feel negative emotions

If you still haven’t mastered the art of barbs over text, our advice will come in handy.

We humiliate with offensive jokes

Coming up with an offensive joke phrase is not so easy. It must meet certain requirements:

If you ridicule any quality of his, you must be truthful. If he is smart, there is no point in making fun of his stupidity.
The most noticeable blow is the one that is applied to sore spots. If you have been in a relationship for a long time, and you know what unpleasant situations he has been in and where he showed himself in an unsightly light, remind him of this and season him with “pepper and salt” so that it burns longer.

If you don’t know what SMS to write to a guy that will touch his heartstrings, you can turn to the ubiquitous Internet for help. The World Wide Web is replete with role models, but your recent admirer may have already heard them. Therefore, we offer you our set of humiliatingly funny phrases:

“The figurine you gave me was completely accidentally broken. Just imagine, I hit the wall myself. So sorry. I can’t give it back to you.”
“After our parting, I tried for a long time to find sadness in myself, or at least a little sadness. For some reason I didn't find it. We must have done something wrong. We must repeat the separation."
“Zhuzha misses you. Such a naive and stupid animal. Today I’ll start re-educating her.”
“Don’t touch my strengths with your shortcomings.”
“Apparently you were last in line when God gave out intelligence and beauty to people.” “You are like a vast ocean, covered with an endless series of waves. I feel sick when I look at you."
“Are you always so stupid or is today a triumph for you?”
“I see you’ve let smart thoughts get into your head?”
“I sympathize with your mirror. Seeing this face several times a day is not an attraction for the faint of heart.”
“Think at least with your bone marrow.”
“Did your parents offer you money when you were a child to run away from home?”
“I advise you to speak out as often as possible. Perhaps constant practice will eventually give you a chance, and you will voice some smart idea.”
“You probably don’t know this, but there are several hairdressers in our city. One of them is around the corner."
“Nature rested well on your face.”
“Have your brains returned from vacation yet?”
“I don’t even know how to explain this to you. After all, I don’t speak the language of stupid people.”

Causing jealousy

Is he worried about the fear of losing you completely and irrevocably? Fuel this destructive feeling with your messages.

“Your friend is really handsome. Can you text me his phone number?” With such a message you will not only cause jealousy, but also hurt his pride.
Ambiguous phrases are also suitable: “You don’t have to worry about me. There is someone to take care of me.” This “someone” can actually be not only a young person, but also parents, relatives, and friends.
Write him a long, beautiful compliment, and then send him a message indicating that you were the wrong recipient.
Send him a photo of a man's shirt and ask if he forgot it at your house? Let him think that you already have someone.

Show your imagination

To show him what a worthy woman he missed, engage in self-praise. At first he may take it ironically. But if you send him compliments infrequently but regularly, this can be an effective way to influence him.

“Today I outdid myself at work. I prepared such a delightful presentation. Everyone listened with their mouths open.”
“I myself am surprised how I manage to look so beautiful in our difficult times. I am attaching a photo report."
“I bought myself a new brand bag. For all bonuses. Unlike some, I can afford it.”

Some time after a strong quarrel, a man begins to feel remorse. Under their influence he becomes softer and more romantic. Memories messages will be effective here: about first dates, joint holidays and trips, cute trinkets or serious gifts that you exchanged, in general, about everything related to happy days that are a thing of the past. Messages like this would be suitable: “Remember that pretty courtyard where you kissed me for the first time? Snowdrops are blooming there now.” “What were we thinking when we killed our love? We can’t get these feelings back.”

Each couple has their own code words that seem funny and amusing only to them, because they are associated with some kind of embarrassment, an unusual event, which they happened to witness or participate in. Or it could be a song, a poem, even a joke. Write him your secret phrase. Such a move will not leave him 100% indifferent.

What definitely won't offend a guy

Sometimes, when composing a message in order to hook a guy, girls choose the wrong strategy: they shock with excessive frankness or unceremoniousness. Guys consider such girls to be narrow-minded and easily accessible and treat them accordingly. Wanting to warn you against mistakes, here are examples of messages that should not be written:

Don't discuss his finances with him. Don’t ask how much he earns, what his financial status is, or whether he can give you expensive gifts. You will seem materialistic to him, which will prevent him from building respect.
“Did you sleep with that girl next to you in the photo? And with her friend in a leather miniskirt, smiling from ear to ear?” Such a display of jealousy will not work in your favor. If he boasts of his demand from girls and emphasizes it, think about whether you need such a ladies' man. A message that challenges his feelings of jealousy is not the best option to attract attention. Men rarely leave such feminine behavior unanswered. In the course of further communication, he will definitely take out his anger on you.
Frankly talking about sex at the beginning of a relationship is taboo. Although from school the entire female environment inspires the young lady that men only need sex from her, she should not offer him the “forbidden fruit” in the first days of dating. Relationships that start this way will not be long and strong.
Never send him your intimate photos. These could be pictures where you appear in different images, imitating famous sex symbols, for example, Marilyn Monroe, Madonna or Christina Aguilera. The fact is that in the event of a quarrel, your revealing outfits or their complete absence may become public knowledge or the subject of blackmail. Be smart and don't create problems for yourself!
Don’t write “I’m pregnant. We’re having a baby,” if in fact it’s not true. Men don't forgive this.
Don't threaten him with suicide and things like that.

The best way to hook a guy is to invite him to dialogue. Restraint, confidence that you are doing the right thing, and wit will help you get a positive or negative emotional response from him. If he did not live up to your hopes, forgive him and turn this page of your life. If you are attracted to him, do everything in your power to interest him and use this opportunity to create a strong relationship.

Source: LoveTrue.ru

How to hurt a womanizer's ego. What's the most painful way to leave a womanizer?

We are 24. We have been with our boyfriend for a year. He cheated on all his exes. They were jealous. He disappeared, then returned. I was naive and thought I would change him. She didn’t control, she didn’t show jealousy, she didn’t burden her brain, she was even more promiscuous in sex than him, he really liked it. She didn’t call, didn’t ask where he was, etc. We already had him calling me, controlling me, making me jealous. His friends said that I took him from them, because he himself chose between them and me and wanted to stay with me, if before that he was the life of the company there. He already consulted with me, not with them. If I was free, he always wanted to be with me, he didn’t disappear. At first I thought it wouldn’t change. But when I had a lot of work, I could refuse to meet - he went to someone else. She even specifically refused to come to him, but an hour later she agreed again, and from his correspondence I saw that he had dumped the girl he was planning to go to. As if he wants to be with me, if he immediately refuses, it means I better, damn it, don’t understand this dog. But is it really necessary to go to the side? He doesn't know that I know about cheating. I remain silent and smile, I think about changing, because he cares about me and even seems to love me, although I don’t believe in love, if I hadn’t cheated, he would have been my ideal. But today my patience gave out.

What to write to your ex-boyfriend to hurt him?

You broke up - no matter on whose initiative, no matter how smoothly and how many tears there were. The important thing is that you are no longer together, you are not one. Sometimes you want to take revenge on your ex, sometimes you just want to make him think only about you. Sometimes - so that he regrets leaving you. There are plenty of options. How to make your ex-boyfriend hurt by your message?

Don't write romantically. He may think that you are imposing and want to renew the relationship. This must not be allowed under any circumstances!
Try to write indifferently. You see, every guy, deep down in his soul, considers himself the very best, the most irresistible, the most unforgettable. The only thing they cannot tolerate is indifference! Therefore, write rather dryly, restrainedly, indifferently.
If the breakup was difficult, you can write that you are inviting him to a party (of course, the date should be such that he cannot come). This will show that you do not suffer at all from the breakup, do not think that he is suffering and are indifferent to him - you are ready to calmly communicate with him despite everything that happened between you.
Don't write tritely. “I felt bad in bed with you”, “I’m pregnant”, “I cheated on you” - this is all a thing of the past. Boring, hackneyed, even funny in places. It won’t hurt the guy, it will only amuse him or disappoint you.
Try to write something ironic , with subtext. The phrase “The cat misses you.” Naive animal” - allows you to express all the negativity towards the guy. “Oh, what a pity - your mug broke. I can’t tell you” will make you think why you broke it or who broke it - wondering what is happening, why they are treating him badly. “I was looking for sadness from parting. Did not find. Let’s break up one more time, we did something wrong” can really hurt a guy, especially if he had a hard time with your breakup.

Let him bite all his elbows because he lost a gorgeous girl!

As you can see, the best way to hurt a guy, to provoke him into dialogue, to get an emotional response from him is to write to him without snotty poems about love, without hysterics and regrets about the past. Humor, indifference and restraint are the three best ways to offend a guy.

Source: eralady.ru

Hurt pride

Each of the individuals is a person, represents something, has unique character traits and worldview. This is an absolute and indisputable fact. And yet human psychology includes some points that unite all people. Such features include pride, which is one of the characteristics of human character.

Is self-love good or bad? Psychologists give the following meaning to self-esteem: an individual’s defense of his social value, as well as relevance. In other words, self-love defines a character trait due to which an individual becomes smarter, more attractive, grows above himself, and maintains value in society.

Is self-love a good incentive to improve your life? Everyone will answer this question for themselves. Some are inclined to believe that self-love is good, others that it is an illusion of one’s own superiority, leading to hyperbolization of one’s own “I”. One thing is clear that each individual has his own personal motivation and without respect, as well as self-love, intellectual, spiritual and physical growth is impossible. And negative statements, judgments, and indications of shortcomings negatively affect the personality, hurting self-esteem.

Each individual reacts to criticism differently: some feel guilty, some become aggressive, some have decreased self-esteem, some get very irritated, but in any case, criticism does not fall on deaf ears and deals a blow to self-esteem .

Not everyone can accept criticism with dignity due to their individual characteristics and character traits, but it is important to be able to correctly perceive constructive comments. If it so happens that a person has been given an unreasonable insult, then psychologists advise accepting it as a fait accompli, drawing conclusions and moving on with life.

Humans are very sensitive to social approval. When he is praised, he grows in his own eyes; when he is criticized, it is the other way around. A proud individual builds a certain scale of values in his head and tries to achieve it with all his might. This is good when a person strives for goals that are useful for himself and society, and it is destructive behavior when an individual deliberately takes the path of degradation. It must be remembered that pride itself acts as a catalyst for actions and desires, but not the main reason.

It is sometimes very easy to offend a proud person. To do this, it is enough to say just one word. In this case, there is heightened self-esteem, when a person exclusively concentrates attention on satisfying his needs and desires; by and large, he is indifferent to those around him. Such excessive self-esteem leads to egocentrism.

The desire to be first is considered normal, healthy pride. A physically and mentally healthy person is always endowed with this quality. In this case, it is motivation for professional and personal success.

Vulnerable pride is observed in women, so you should not intentionally offend them, since you can forever lose your good relationship with them. Women react sharply to comments about their appearance, way of thinking, and behavior. In adulthood, they react especially sensitively to words of flattery and compliments, so it is sometimes better to remain silent than to express a lie. It is important for the fair sex to feel calm and comfortable, so it is better to refrain from directly expressing shortcomings. If such a need exists, then it is better to express it in private. In this case, your hurt pride will not suffer much, and you will maintain normal relationships.

How can you beautifully humiliate a man or guy with clever words without swearing: phrases, expressions

There are a lot of life situations when a person can be offended, set up, humiliated and “laughed at.” You shouldn’t remain silent and accept such antics as something common. If you do not explain to your offender how wrong he is, he will be able to spoil the mood of the people around him for a long time and take advantage of their goodness.

In order not to use your fists and at the same time show yourself on the good side, you should, so to speak, “kill with words.” Education is not given to everyone, because getting it takes time and effort. The article gives you tips to help you learn how to respond to offensive phrases with delicate but firm words, making it clear that you are above any rudeness and obscene language.

What can you say to a man and what is important to remember:

The worst thing a man can do is to humiliate and raise his hand against a woman, and therefore he should be hit “where it hurts”, convicting him of weakness, but not physical. For example, the word “impotent” can affect anyone. Try to beat it with other “colors”:

“You are morally impotent!”
“Only an impotent man can offend a woman!”
“You are impotent not in your pants, but in your soul! (Or maybe both!)

Another thing that can affect any man is his status and wealth. Glory given to a man with low income or lack of work gains particular power. From time immemorial, it was believed that a man is a breadwinner and therefore the inability to have wealth is a humiliation for a modern man.

IMPORTANT: You need to humiliate a man with such phrases if he is really at least a little worried about the issue of family wealth. If he is deliberately supported by his parents or wife for a long time and this does not bother him, you are unlikely to be able to “hook” him.

“You are a disgrace to your parents and their ruin!”
“You are not able to provide yourself with even toilet paper!”
“Behind your insolence you hide your own inadequacy!”

If you want to point out to a man his stupidity and recklessness, even if he has a higher education and manners, but he regularly does stupid things, you should use the following phrases:

“You have failed neither as a person nor as a man!”
“Unlike mine, your dignity has sunk to the bottom!”
“You are an immoral, weak and wretched person!”
“All your words are helpless attempts to prove something!”
“I feel sorry for looking at you!”
“Don’t humiliate yourself and don’t try to say something smart!”
“I would offend you, but nature has already done it for me!”

How to humiliate a man with words without swearing?

Mistake No. 2. Ignoring a man’s decisions

If you constantly challenge or simply ignore the decisions of a representative of the stronger sex, a blow to male pride is guaranteed. A man always claims to be the head of the family, and this is normal according to all generally accepted canons. He is obliged to support his family and do the hardest work. But what to do if this function is constantly not performed by him, and the woman is forced to bear everything on herself? Even this serious situation does not give a woman the right not to listen to her partner’s point of view. If she neglects his advice and focuses only on her decisions, the guy will stop taking the initiative altogether. He will decide that he is being neglected as a man, and will go looking for those women from whom he can gain recognition.

Never argue with a man about his point of view and do not impose your ideas. He sees the situation in his own way and has every right to do so. If the guy’s proposal is absurd and there is no way to agree with him, you need to use all your feminine charm and tactfully offer your option. By loyally explaining all the benefits of your choice, you can get a stunning result. The guy will decide that this idea came to him. You shouldn’t disappoint him, let him think so, and you can give yourself an “excellent” for the wise behavior of a loving partner.

How can you beautifully humiliate a woman, girl, or husband’s mistress with clever words without swearing?

In some life situations, women themselves “ask for” insults and humiliation. In order not to cross the line allowed by cultural society and not show yourself as an ill-mannered person, it is important to know a number of phrases that can “put in place” any ill-mannered girl.

What to emphasize:

The first thing that can hook a woman is criticism of her appearance. It is important to choose words that will not directly shout “You’re ugly!”, but will just delicately hint about it. Your words should make a woman think and make her look at herself from a different perspective.

“When God created women, he decided to save money on you!”
“I would offend you, but I’ll just advise you to look in the mirror!”
“Your words are the helpless barking of a dirty mongrel!”
Surprisingly, she’s not rich in intelligence and has no face!”
“It’s a pity to spit in such a face!”

Another aspect of women's dignity is their popularity with men. Here it is important to focus on the problem itself (either there are very few men, since the lady is not attracted to them, or there are too many and it is comparable to a woman of “easy virtue”).

“There’s nowhere to put a sample on you!”
“You’ve already given all your dignity to other people’s men!”
“You are the shame of your father and your mother’s tears!”
“You are a quality man’s mat!”
“Your whole life is serving the master for sugar!”
“No normal man will even look in your direction!”
“All your attractiveness ended 10 men ago!”
“To get involved with you is to disgrace yourself!”

If you want to hurt a woman as a person, you should point out the shortcomings of her mind, showing her to be a fool in your eyes and in the eyes of others:

“If you were smart, then you would have a decent man!”
“Men don’t leave smart women!”
“Here, I look at you and at first glance it seems that you are a fool! And then you look and it’s true - you’re a fool!”

How to insult a woman with words without swearing?

How to avoid this mistake

Never voice your complaints in front of strangers, do not make comments, do not reprimand. Such behavior looks unworthy, since it insults not only the beloved man, but also all strangers. Nobody likes to be present at personal “showdowns”. A reasonable decision would be to praise your man or even attribute to him achievements that do not yet exist. For example, say (if asked about it) that the salary is still small, but the guy is doing everything to increase it. The man simply did not have time for broken plumbing; he will fix the faucet this coming weekend. Be sure that your beloved will try to justify the trust placed in him and will immediately begin to correct the situation.

How to insult, offend a man, a guy without swearing, with clever words?

Some phrases that do not contain swearing or rudeness should not be very long. The fact is that a person who offends you with obscene language is unlikely to be able to understand literate and cultured words, as well as their meaning and the delicacy with which you pronounce them. Answer in short, but as comprehensible phrases as possible. Deliver your speech confidently, firmly, and be sure to make eye contact so that what you say is heard.

IMPORTANT: You have the power to insult a man or guy for the wrongs caused with just one phrase that conveys all your pain and strength. Do not react to any cry and let everything said in your honor pass through you, because it is your word that will be the last and decisive.

Offensive, but “cultural” insults for a man:

“Only a wretched mongrel will get along with someone like you!”
“You will never succeed because you have little strength and masculinity!”
“You are not able to satisfy a woman either mentally or in bed!”
“You are a disgrace to anyone, even the most fallen woman!”
“You are not a man, but a temporary trinket!”
“Even the stupidest woman in the world cannot be happy with you!”
“You haven’t come into existence yet in your mother’s womb!”
“At your age of 40, you cannot become a man!”
“You are so weak and you are such a loser that listening to your words doesn’t even hurt me!”

Offensive phrases without swearing for a man

Why does a man offend a woman?

First of all, it’s worth understanding why a man constantly hurts his words and offends a woman. This behavior may be caused by the following factors:

accumulated irritation. Problems at work and conflicts with superiors lead to the fact that a person accumulates internal tension, which is resolved through quarrels with loved ones;
tendency towards psychopathy. Psychopaths have a tendency to offend other people because they do not have developed empathy and are not able to realize what effect their words will have;
presence of a mistress. If a beloved man offends you with words, it is possible that he has someone else. Unconsciously, he tries to find flaws in his life partner in order to prove to himself that he is right and justify the right to cheat;
lack of love. Sometimes relationships run out of steam. If people do not put an end to it in time, this can result in endless conflicts and resentments.

How can you insult and offend a woman or a girl with clever words without swearing?

Smart phrases without swearing will help you try not to offend a woman with obscene words and still be able to convey important information to her. Try to contain all your emotions and instill in every word not only your anger, but also the confidence that you are strong and the truth is on your side.

What phrases to say to a woman or girl:

“Instead of barking like a yard dog, better go think about your words and the stupidity with which you pronounce them!”
“Go wash yourself and wash away this idiocy!”
“I used to think that you were smart, but now I see that you have always been a fool!”
“Apparently, you were the last in line for intelligence!”
“Every time you open your mouth, another portion of slop comes out!”
“You act like you grew up in a brothel!”
“Yes, you have a brain, but there’s not an ounce of intelligence in it!”

How to humiliate and respond to a person’s offense with words without swearing?

Alter ego in men: what is it?

Alter ego is the perception of oneself as a person with two types of personalities. They can be completely opposite, but, nevertheless, coexist in one person. There are several types of alter egos , the most common of which are:

Male
Dark
Women's

Let's look at each of them separately.

Some men have what is called a "female alter ego" . A condition when men try on the role of a woman and feel quite comfortable in this role. For example, they are happy to do household chores such as cleaning, cooking, and so on. They like to monitor their appearance and the latest fashion trends and are generally interested in many things that society is accustomed to classifying as “feminine.” Some cannot even resist their “alter ego” and become transgender (a person who identifies himself with the gender opposite to his given one at birth).

A dark alter ego is a set of negative qualities inherent in a person and, as a rule, does not stand out in real, everyday life. It is very important to keep balance within yourself and not let the “second self”, the negative one, prevail over you. We all have skeletons in our closets and secret (private) lives. However, if this can somehow (emotionally or physically) harm you or others, then you should be more attentive to your inner state. In this case, many psychologists advise using all the negativity from the second personality for a kind of release, and in everyday life not letting emotions take over.

How to besiege, put a man, a guy, a subordinate in his place with clever words?

Very often, people at work completely lack professional ethics and a subordinate may “allow himself too much” during a conversation with his superiors. The administration, in turn, are highly educated and well-mannered people, which allowed them to occupy such a rank.

A person with a higher rank must be able to “verbally punish” his subordinate for an offense and force him to respect himself with cultural words alone. They need to be spoken confidently and strictly, avoiding emotional gestures and explosive phrases.

What you can emphasize in a conversation with a subordinate:

For lack of education
Ask to see a document on higher or professional education.
Threaten with loss of job due to incompetence
Say that a person risks losing respect in the eyes of his superiors and colleagues.
Threaten with a fine or loss of bonus

How to “put a subordinate in his place”:

“You make me regret that I once decided to hire you.”
“In my eyes, you instantly lost your qualifications!”
“I believe that our company is overpaying you, because your education is not worthy of such a salary.”
“I think you just spent your bonus!”
“I will not allow ignorance to flourish in my conscientious team!”
"You are our disgrace
“You are dragging our team and our company down!”

How to “put in place” a subordinate with words without swearing?

Is selfishness so terrible?

Before we talk about “why are men so selfish?”, let’s understand a simple truth. This trait is innate in every person. In moderation, selfishness is necessary. This is important to be able to take care of yourself and simply survive.

It’s a different matter when we talk about an exaggerated quality that prevents us from building full-fledged relationships with others. People with this quality are also called “narcissists.” They have difficulty getting along with colleagues, friends and family because they put their needs first.

Narcissistic men are focused on their feelings. They may feel deep affection or passion for a woman. But they are incapable of sincere love and care. Therefore, they often remain lonely. If they do get married, their wife, as a rule, is a girl with low self-esteem, who indulges all the whims of her chosen one.

Of course, no woman voluntarily chooses the role of victim. Everyone wants to be loved and surrounded by attention. But it is not always possible to immediately “see through” a pathological egoist. The reason is the inability to build a proper conversation with a gentleman. Girls don’t know what to ask, what points in a guy’s behavior to pay attention to. I tell you what is important to remember.

How to shut a person's mouth with clever words?

IMPORTANT: The concept of “shut your mouth with clever words” assumes that you will find phrases that, after an offense, can bring a person to reason and warn him against making a new mistake. “Smart words” are words devoid of obscenities and rudeness, but imbued with reasonable meaning. They push a person to conclusions and leave a mark on the soul stronger than any obscene word.

Phrases to “shut a person’s mouth”:

“Ever since you opened your mouth, the stench hasn’t stopped coming out of it, like a cesspool!”
“It would be better if you didn’t open your mouth, because all your words only showed how low you are!”
“You opened your mouth and immediately realized that this was a stupid person in front of me!”
“Your words did not show your best side!”
“Ever since you opened your mouth, my opinion of you has changed for the worse!”
“Your words have brought you lower than ever in my eyes!”
“You are incredibly stupid if you think that everything you say is smart speech!”

How to do and what to say to a person so that he can shut up: phrases without swearing

Statuses for social networks

Aphorisms and statuses about offense will help hint at your feelings and make a man repent. Here are some examples:

“It’s better not to trust people at all than to feel such disappointment”;
“I should have stayed away from you. It’s a pity that I didn’t listen to my mother”;
“It’s a pity that you can truly get to know a person only after a serious conflict”;
“Do you want to get to know a person better? Look how he behaves after a separation or divorce”;
“There are people who are better off kept in a cage. Separate from society. They are worse than rabid animals";
“If something needs to be explained, then is it necessary to explain something?”;
“I’m glad that now we will go through life on different paths.”

These phrases without swearing, offensive and deep, will give you the opportunity to express your resentment or help initiate a conversation during which you will be able to put everything in its place.

How to turn off, send a guy, a man away with clever words?

There are situations when a woman should rebuff a man so that he no longer pesters and has no plans for her. A weak and stupid woman will swear with obscene language, while a smart woman will allow you to put a person in his place with just one word and a look. A woman's strength is in her behavior and words.

What to tell a man:

“You are not even worthy of my glance!”
“I will not tolerate such humiliation as to give you my attention!”
“You’re so low that I didn’t even notice you at first!”
“In my eyes you are nothing!”
“To me you’re not even a man!”
“I don’t want to deal with such a low entity like you!”
“Looking at you, I only feel pity!”
“I can’t stand boors, they are my competitors!”
“May I send you intellectually?”
“You think I can actually spend time with you? Well, probably thinking is not about you!”

How to tell a guy off or rebuff a man with words without swearing?

Mistake #4: Making fun of men

Wounded male pride occurs due to ridicule from a woman. Each representative of the stronger sex has memories coming from childhood. He was small and didn’t know how to do much; he had to learn everything gradually. It's about strength, courage, experience. Today the guy wants to feel like a brave defender, and wants to forget periods of insolvency forever. That is why it is very painful for him to realize that the woman he loves sees his weaknesses. The man feels humiliated and begins to defend himself. A simple unobtrusive joke can become a reason for a serious conflict (not to mention serious things).

A simple remark in a joking manner can create a situation where a man’s pride is hurt. Psychologists advise what a woman who does not want to offend her lover should do. You should not focus on the joke or repeat it twice; you need to translate the topic of the conversation as correctly as possible. Show with all your appearance that the conversation is in a humorous form and in no way pretends to be sarcasm. In order not to offend your man in the future, you need to be extremely attentive to your words. A categorical ban lies on the topic of appearance, discussion of his family members, intimate possibilities, favorite hobbies, etc. Jokes in any form on this topic lead to conflicts or even separations.

Wise words to say goodbye to the guy who betrayed

Very often, men do not behave conscientiously and betray women who are in love with them. In situations where women find out about this, many decide to break up. To make a man understand how low and wrong he was, you should choose worthy and true words that will simultaneously serve as humiliation and farewell.

What can you say to a man:

“Get back under that skirt you just crawled out of!”
“I don’t want to share a bed, a table, a life, or even the air on the same planet with you anymore!”
“I hate even just listening to your excuses! Such a man simply does not deserve me!”
“You have become so low that you began to seek happiness from a strange woman between the legs!”
“I was so stupid that I believed in your sincerity and now I’m sick of all the years we’ve lived together!”
“I hope that you will be happy and that someone else can give you at least part of the care that I blindly gave to you!”
“You will regret in time that you offended me, but then I will even forget your name.”
“How low you have fallen and the funny thing is that you don’t see it, but everyone else has already noticed!”

How to break up with a guy after betrayal without using swear words?

Mistake No. 6. Showdown

Representatives of the fair sex love to sort things out. As a result of multiple conversations, the woman realizes that she has hurt the man’s pride. What to do in a situation where your partner does not want to find out who is right and who is wrong? A woman must understand that a man’s psychology is fundamentally different from women’s logic. The guy is used to acting, not reasoning, and all discussions of personal problems seem ridiculous and pointless to him. He wants to hear a call to specific action, and not listen to multiple complaints.

How can you call a person smart words?

Choose more friendly curse words to insult your offender without using obscene language. This will show you only from the best side, as a reasonable and educated person, not spoiled and knowing dignity.

What words can you choose:

A trinket is an unnecessary thing, empty and soulless, having no purpose, on which time is wasted, something without mind and reason.
A cheap utensil is someone of low worth, someone who is not needed and has little value in the world.
A soulless person is a person devoid of any values and inner peace.
Shame (shame) - a person devoid of dignity, a person who brings shame and problems to loved ones.
A shameless person is a person devoid of respect and understanding of the people around him, a person without spiritual values.
Carrion is a person who has fallen in the eyes of others, a person who is comfortable existing in the dirt of words, actions and betrayal.
A cattle is a person who does not behave rationally, a person who is compared to an animal.
A stupid creature is a person who does not know how to do smart things.
An animal is a person who does not know how to act well and is deprived of his essence.
An insect is a person devoid of a human being
A mongrel is a person devoid of nobility and education

How to call a person without using obscenities?

How to say in smart words that a person is stupid?

Use these phrases:

“Your mind is like a cat crying!”
“The brain is no bigger than a chicken!”
“The head is big, but there is no brain!”
“Your brain has no convolutions!”
“You only have one curve and it’s smooth!”
"You understand me? Although yes, where are you going?”
“Were you born this stupid or did you become so stupid?”
“You were last in line for brains”
“Nature did not reward you with intelligence”

How to tell a person that he is stupid without using swear words?

Male ego: what is it in simple words?

Male ego
To designate the “male ego” , you must first understand the very concept of “ego” . What is this in simple words?

Ego is a person’s understanding of his real “I” .
In other words, this is how a person perceives himself in comparison with the rest of society.
Women should remember how important the “ego” is in a man’s life and how easy it is to throw him out of balance.

At its core, it is this that determines his social role, therefore, what a man really is, and what role he plays in relationships, also directly depends on the woman.

How to replace curse words with smart words?

In order not to look stupid and overly emotional, try to develop in advance the ability to replace obscene words with cultural analogues. It's not difficult at all if you practice in advance. Try to understand in advance the full meaning and significance of the obscenities you know, and then in your understanding you will be able to replace them with more “cultural” words.

IMPORTANT: Clever words spoken “strongly” and confidently can be more painful and meaningful than any obscenities that already exist constantly in the speech of a modern person.