"Call me, call.
Call me for God's sake.
Stretch through time
The voice is quiet and deep..."
- Irina Muravyova’s heroine once sang in the film “Carnival”, trying with the power of thought to “command” the person who once loved her to open his heart to her again. Unfortunately (or perhaps, on the contrary, fortunately), it is impossible to impose love. Lawless Heart. But instilling in a person the idea that you are pleasant to him, that you are comfortable and interesting with you is a completely feasible task, which can be realized with knowledge of psychology, in particular, the techniques of hypnosis used by NLP and other practices.
How to suggest something to a person? Let's try to trace the chain of necessary actions using specific examples and exercises.
How to inspire a person with a thought, an action at a distance: exercises
How to inspire thoughts from a distance?
To instill thoughts at a distance in a person, it is important to constantly practice. There are a few simple recommendations for this. You should start doing all this before you try to instill an idea in someone for the first time.
People often get upset when they fail to influence others. Always remember that experience is important in any business, so train constantly, but in moderation, so as not to overexert yourself.
The best options for training are:
- Images. Think of any person you know and try to focus on all the details of his appearance, as well as thoughts and feelings. To do this, close your eyes and don’t be distracted by anything. Over time, you can complicate the task and introduce a stranger.
- Train on your neighbors . Concentrate on the person next to you. Feel it and give the order. For example, order someone to come to you. You can use any phrases, as long as they are short and clear.
These simple exercises will help you learn how to manage people. The main thing is to do them correctly, you must learn to concentrate as much as possible.
There are several recommendations that must also be followed in order to learn suggestion:
Suggestion of thoughts at a distance
- Choose a quiet and comfortable room for the procedure. The light should be dim
- Faith is no less important. You must believe that your order will reach the person
- Breathe deeply and slowly. At the same time, as you exhale, imagine that thoughts leave the 3rd eye and are sent to the right person
- The best time for the procedure is evening or night. It's harder to train during the day
- You must exercise every day
- You should not have any negativity during suggestion; give up dissatisfaction during this time
- Do yoga in your free time. She teaches proper breathing and concentration
- Choose the right person to inspire. You shouldn’t hire strong people for training.
- Play some relaxing music in the background
All recommendations must be followed if you want to get maximum results in a short time. Keep in mind that suggestion requires a lot of energy, so give yourself a rest.
Self-hypnosis: principles of work, its power
A kind of implantation of a certain command phrase or attitude in a trance state into one’s own brain is self-hypnosis. In other words, these are certain formulations repeated out loud or silently to inspire oneself with goals that need to be achieved (become slimmer, get better, quit smoking, learn something new, etc.).
Interestingly, this works in one situation, but not in another. Self-hypnosis has truly great power. Many believe in it and use it for their own benefit, fulfill their desires and dreams, and achieve their goals. By the way, for some reason negative thoughts are easier to inspire than positive ones.
How to suggest correctly? There are certain principles:
- The phrase you mentally pronounce to yourself should be briefly and clearly formulated in the first person in an affirmative form (you cannot use “not”).
- When making wishes, you need to imagine them already coming true in reality (visualize the setting).
- Belief has a strong and more effective effect on a person in a state of complete relaxation.
- You should remember the importance of completely concentrating your subconscious on your goal.
Methods: their types and features
Self-hypnosis has a whole arsenal of techniques. You can use:
- psychological attitude - suggesting the need to enter a state of positivity and find ways to solve vital issues, isolating oneself from pessimists;
- affirmations - repetition of formulated phrases, replacing negative thoughts with positive ones;
- meditative techniques - immersion in a hypnotic state to determine goals, enter the void and feel commands within yourself that will remain in the subconscious after the process is completed;
- visualizations - always positive mental representations and experiences of imaginary events, which gives the best result due to the illegibility of our mind (the brain is able to perceive reality and imagination)
Emile Coue method
Our subconscious is capable of influencing the functioning of the body, and this influence has no boundaries. Emile Coue noticed the effectiveness of the faith of patients in healing, which is capable of a lot. The result of self-suggestion can be both positive and negative.
Self-hypnosis is used for medical purposes. The Coue technique is a healing procedure that allows you to suppress painful, negative imaginations and emotions, replacing them with useful, positive ideas. Such representations are considered therapeutic and represent statements of fact. This is how self-hypnosis acquired its formula, which claims that improvement occurs every day. An attitude in the form of a sentence is pronounced in the present tense, regardless of whether it corresponds to the reality of the person’s condition. The meaning of the phrase must be grasped by the subconscious, and it is very trusting. It accepts the installation as a task for execution.
How can we make ourselves sick?
There is self-hypnosis associated with diseases. No one will argue with the fact that our well-being depends on our emotional state and way of thinking. A person who usually has positive thoughts, emotions, and a good mood maintains a healthy body and spirit. But constant despondency, painful thoughts, and fear of diseases do not benefit your well-being. This is self-hypnosis. Medicine has evidence of this. But it can both worsen and improve our health. And every person has such a gift, but, unfortunately, not everyone can use it for their own benefit. And there can be a variety of situations when a person’s well-being depends on him. Thanks to self-hypnosis for recovery, many patients were able to overcome even serious illnesses.
Read our article “Red jasper stone against all adversities.”
How do we set ourselves up to get sick? It's actually very simple and fast. For a person who is afraid of getting sick, sometimes it is enough to notice the presence of some sign of ill health, rummage a little on the Internet and work himself up to unimaginable proportions and completely lose heart. Negative thoughts on the face and on a subconscious level can, after some time, begin to trigger programming for the disease. Then, every day the situation worsens, new symptoms appear (the person is able to imagine anything). And it’s so easy and real to get sick. Such negative self-hypnosis is possessed by people with a wild imagination that has not been put to proper use.
If something bothers you, it is better to turn to specialists, get examined, and not beat yourself up by instilling negativity. You can resort to the same self-hypnosis for recovery, using the simplest techniques of meditation, positive attitude, visualization, etc. To enhance the effectiveness of autogenic training, you can rest for a while, sleep, relax and have a good time by yourself or in company. Daytime sleep, healthy eating, good mood and only positive thinking can work wonders.
What is self-persuasion?
The personal quality of self-persuasion is the ability to critically analyze information and, at the level of consciousness, influence each of your attitudes using logical thinking. This skill is useful and in demand, but the person must be positively disposed to his beliefs or goals, ideas that could not be realized due to indecision. Such people often tend to ignore self-persuasion as a way to rationally help themselves. But this happens until a certain push, motivation follows.
Self-persuasion and ordinary self-hypnosis have much in common. However, the first is based on logical constructions, reasoned arguments, confirmed by real facts. It is much easier to impose beliefs on other people than on yourself. You can use cunning, hoaxes, lies, and manipulate facts. To convince yourself, you will have to fight with your mind, conscience and soul. Your goal can be achieved, but only by working in tandem with beliefs. Thus, the main argument for the usefulness of self-persuasion is its active assistance in achieving goals.
How to influence a person’s subconscious and instill thoughts in him at a distance without his knowledge?
So, in order to instill thoughts at a distance, it is important not only to learn how to do it correctly, but also to master the technique:
Thought suggestion technique
- First, prepare the room. The conditions should be comfortable for you. The environment should help you relax.
- Prepare yourself. Take a comfortable position, turn off everything that may distract you. Focus on your breathing - inhale for 4 counts and exhale for 8 counts.
- Tune in to the person . Imagine it - how it looks, moves, feel it. To make it easier, look at his photo.
- Only when you have tuned in to a person and it seems to you that he is nearby, then begin telepathic influence . Send him a clear request. Confidently, firmly, as if you won’t accept refusal, make a request. It's better to do it out loud. You must not just say, but feel what needs to be done. Allow 3-4 minutes for this stage, but no more.
- Now get out of your state. This is important to consider because you have to come back to yourself. Give yourself a hug or a pinch. Look around at familiar objects.
After completing the procedure, it would be nice to rest. To do this, take a walk, drink tea, in general, do something that feels good to you.
Workout
It is important for both beginners and experienced operators of mental practices to develop and improve their skills. Like any art, it requires not only practice, but also the acquisition of important skills, their consolidation and training. Effective exercises will help you quickly master your strength and significantly increase it.
Effective exercises will help you quickly master your strength and significantly increase it.
Exercise No. 1
The first and most important training is for imagination. Without this skill it will be difficult to use mental energy. To develop and awaken your imagination, you need to take a comfortable position and protect yourself from any intrusions. In general, you should feel comfortable and calm. Relaxing with your eyes closed, you should clear your mind of all the husks and imagine the image of your loved one.
It is important to visualize his appearance carefully and in detail. As soon as the image becomes clear, you can stop the exercise.
Exercise No. 2
It is equally important to train your powers of observation and memory. To do this, under the conditions described in the first exercise, it is necessary to layer its characteristics on the appearance of the object. Habits, characteristic features and movements, gestures - all this will help achieve maximum integrity of the image of the object
Habits, characteristic features and movements, gestures - all this will help achieve maximum integrity of the image of the object.
Exercise #3
After working with the image of your loved one, you should train the energetic connection. You can attract a complete “picture” to yourself by imagining the flow of your energy as a rope. You can direct energy in a subtle stream or trickle to your chosen one, tuning in to your partner. In the beginning, I ran into a problem where my energy would just flow around the image of the guy. It was only possible to solve it with training. With this exercise, we tune in to the exchange of energies with another person.
Exercise #4
You should practice exchanging “bodies” with your loved one. This type of training improves ongoing relationships to the next level and helps increase skill. It is better not to practice the exercise while next to a guy, as the effect of the technique is very strong. First of all, oddly enough, you need to relax, but in this case, even more likely, dissolve in space. You need to abstract yourself from reality as much as possible, imagining yourself as a bundle of energy. Remembering the image of your partner from the previous exercise (in the form of an energy essence, biofield), place him next to you.
Next, you need to gradually get closer to your lover until the two images are completely transformed into one. Feel how comfortable you are with being one. Then you should slowly separate, exchanging all types of energy, knowledge, habits. Divided bodies already consist of opposite characteristics. The vital forces of your chosen one predominate in yours, and yours in his. The most important aspect of this exercise is analyzing the energy received from the guy. He gave you much more than he himself would have wanted. Feel all the subtleties of his desires, anxieties, and possibilities.
The last exercise is very labor-intensive and energy-consuming. It would be better to divide it into several stages:
- visualization of oneself;
- partner image;
- Union;
- disconnection;
- analysis.
The practice of such training helps not only in love relationships, but also, for example, in working with a difficult boss, in troubles with parents or friends.
Method of unobtrusive influence at a distance without orders: features
How to inspire thoughts in a person?
In fact, it is quite difficult to instill thoughts at a distance, but everything can be learned. Often people want to learn to act gently, and not in an orderly manner, as if injecting their thoughts so that the person thinks that these are his decisions,
In this case, the technique itself is the same as the previous one. The only thing that is different is your phrases. They should not be commanding, but softer. You should kind of plant thoughts in your head, for example, “I should like to eat something,” “Maybe I should call Natasha?” and so on.
Positive and negative suggestion
The nature of the suggestion depends on the manner in which the thought is expressed.
A negative suggestion is expressed with the particle “not”:
- don't lie;
- do not smoke;
- do not drink;
- be healthy;
- do not be like that…
Such phrases form a negative vision of the world and oneself. They become the basis for the emergence of fears, restrictions, and distrust of people. Parents and teachers often use negative suggestions towards children, wanting to force them to give up any actions.
Positive suggestions, on the contrary, form a positive worldview and help strengthen faith in one’s own strengths and capabilities. Positive suggestions sound as the opposite of negative ones:
- be brave;
- act; act
- study;
- tell the truth.
Negative suggestions do not give the desired effect; they act the other way around.
Children do not follow the instructions given to them, but do things that contradict it.
There are several reasons for this:
- children are not explained why they should not perform a certain action;
- there is no alternative - it is known what cannot be done, but it is not known what can be done;
- phrases about wrong actions become an additional suggestion.
To achieve the desired effect, you should focus on what needs to be done and try to avoid phrases about what not to do. This way you can focus your attention on the right thing.
Methods of inducing thoughts at a distance: methods
There are several ways to instill thoughts at a distance. Let's talk about the simplest ones.
- Using photos. This method is ideal for those who still have difficulty visualizing images or concentrating. To communicate, use a photo of the person you want to inspire thoughts with. Then you don’t need to close your eyes, but look at the photo all the time. Imagine how an invisible thread appears between your 3rd eye and the desired person. Start saying the thought you want to suggest. With each repetition the beam should become brighter.
- Transmission of thoughts over short distances. This method is also ideal for training. Ask someone to help. Go in different directions and ask the person to tune in to you. Concentrate and try to convey your thoughts. For example, the image of an animal. Don't expect it to work out right away. This requires time, at least 15-20 minutes a day for 3 months will be enough.
- Quick message. Sometimes you want to convey a message quickly. It's possible, but it requires a lot of energy. This method can only be done by people with experience. To convey, vividly imagine the person and briefly formulate the thought and present it. Send the message sharply with a deep, short exhalation. At this moment, imagine an energy ball and direct it towards the object.
How to inspire your thoughts about love at a distance to your loved one?
How to make your loved one think about you?
Keep in mind that you can inspire thoughts about love at a distance, but you won’t be able to fall in love with a man this way. You can simply make a person think about you, inspire interest and win them over.
Perform the ritual when you have a lot of strength and are healthy. If you are sick, it is better to postpone the ritual until you recover, because otherwise you will not get the result.
Go to bed around the time your loved one gets ready. Relax as much as possible and get unnecessary thoughts out of your head. It’s worth turning on some nice music. Mentally imagine your man, connect with him and penetrate his consciousness.
Then say short phrases - “miss you”, “remember” and always add your name. If you make a quality suggestion, the man will definitely think about you.
Types of suggestion
Experts distinguish two types of suggestion. Verbal (direct, indirect and explicit) is carried out using words and is expressive in nature. Intonation plays an important role in speech impact - through it, the persuasiveness and value of information, and the authority of the speaker are conveyed.
Nonverbal suggestion is based on facial expressions and gestures. The impact is carried out directly on the subconscious part of the psyche.
Self-hypnosis
A person can exert a psychological influence on consciousness in relation to himself. So, many people engage in self-hypnosis when they say: “I will succeed!”, “I am healthy!”, “I will achieve my goal.” The above examples demonstrate the positive attitude of the individual and the desire to improve the existing reality. By pronouncing words of self-hypnosis, a person adds confidence to himself.
In the case when self-hypnosis is negative, it sounds: “I can’t handle it,” “I don’t know anything,” “I won’t succeed.” Such phrases are evidence that a person underestimates his own capabilities and does not believe in positive developments.
Opposition
This type of psychological influence works “in reverse.” For a person in whose consciousness it is necessary to embed some ideas or force him to act differently from what he agrees with, opposition causes a backlash. For example, if the proposed action will definitely cause rejection, then the call for it is presented in such a way that the person himself takes the initiative and does what is necessary.
Thus, it is believed that the disobedience of adolescents is a response to restrictions on the part of parents and educators. If children know that they are allowed a lot, but they are responsible for their actions, then they behave more disciplined.
Erickson viewed opposition as a phenomenon based on bipolarity of speech and thinking. He gave this example: “When I tell a person about the light side, he begins to remember the dark side.”
Authoritative suggestion
The influence of an authoritative personality on the awareness of easily suggestible people is very great. Prestige, fame, status make people perceive the suggestor as a source of truth.
Authoritative suggestion is one of the ways that shapes a person’s attitudes and worldview. Authoritative indoctrination occurs in the family when parents communicate with their children, at school, and through media channels. It implies absolute uncritical acceptance of the suggested information. Such unimpeded absorption of other people's ideas is facilitated by insufficient competence and the feeling of lesser importance that a person develops in relation to authority.
Mass indoctrination
To influence a large group of people, techniques are used that directly affect their unconscious part of the psyche. Mass suggestion is achieved through the use of different voice intonations, a special rhythm of the information provided, posture, and gestures of the suggestor. Mass influence does not involve the parts of the brain responsible for critical perception and analysis.
According to Freud, there are two types of collective suggestion - that which is exerted by the leader, and contagion - which is subject to people caught in the crowd. In general, a person (almost always) loses his own individuality; the hypnotic influence of a large group changes his behavior, influences his emotions, feelings, and forces him to perform stereotypical actions.
Members of a large group begin to copy each other's behavior. People do things that are not typical for them. As a result, the crowd becomes one big organism that does not have the ability to critically see the situation or make thoughtful decisions. The direction of the crowd's actions is determined by the leader.
Technique of instilling thoughts at a distance to attract a loved one: features
There is another way to instill thoughts at a distance, but only at a short distance. For this method, the man must be in the same room with you. Mentally connect with him and send signals, for example, “You are in love with me,” “You want to date me.”
When you send a thought, imagine that a ray comes out of your forehead and penetrates the forehead of your loved one. This is a special energy channel and all thoughts are transmitted through it. Do it confidently so that everything works out.
How to make a guy think about you?
You can understand that the method works by the heat during the procedure. Well, a feeling of burning or unpleasant warmth indicates that you have received an answer. This means that the man will call you soon. In this way you can make a man think about you constantly.
How to get another person to call
Let's look at an example from life. A lonely divorced woman wanted a call from an old acquaintance, her former lover, whom she had not seen for several years. The idea is good, because you need to arrange your own destiny. All that remains is to mentally force the man to call her, and in such a way that he is sure that the thought of the call belongs to him.
What she did for this: she conveyed to him, using the noosphere, her desire to communicate by telephone and came up with what he would say during the conversation. She needed the man to have an irresistible desire to talk to her. She kept his image in her head, remembering the details of his appearance, his manner of speaking, and constantly gave him the command: “Call Natasha (your name).”
To this visualization the woman added the emotion of joy. And when the call came three days later, she saw the name of that same person displayed on the screen of her mobile phone, her happiness knew no bounds.
With the power of thought, she was able to transfer the desire into his consciousness over a distance. Incredible, but true: we transmit thoughts to each other with the power of our minds. Proven by life. Following such an experiment, we can attract to ourselves, in theory, any person we need. In practice, we only need “our” people, destined by fate.
How to act, how to influence a photograph with the power of thought in order to attract your loved one?
An equally interesting way is to use photos. This method of instilling thoughts at a distance is suitable when a person is very far from you. Moreover, as we have already said, this method is more suitable for a beginner.
Try not to be disturbed by anyone and sit comfortably. You should be comfortable, and every cell of yours should relax. Once you are focused on the object, start sending signals to it. Remember that the result cannot be doubted. You must be confident in him.
How to inspire trust with the power of thought?
As we have already said, you can inspire thoughts at a distance so that a person begins to trust. The techniques themselves for influencing the subconscious are no different. In this case, you must correctly select the thoughts themselves that will be broadcast. For example, during a session say: “You trust (name)!” and so on.
A close impact is also possible. The main thing is that the person is next to you and you focus on him as much as possible. Send the same thoughts as at a distance, but in this case it will be much easier for you to concentrate.
Description of the phenomenon
Suggestion of thoughts is understood as an external influence on the human brain, in which personal beliefs, views, attitudes and desires are replaced. The most significant influence of this nature is those close to you. This is due to the fact that relatives and friends are always open to each other, which is why they perceive information uncritically. It is for this reason that a kind of instillation of different thoughts and attitudes occurs between close people. The only exceptions can be people who have insufficiently developed communication skills, which makes them more closed, and their perception of information is very critical.
A striking example of suggestion is the relationship of a child with his parents. The baby easily accepts absolutely everything that adults say. There can be no question of any critical perception. Therefore, scientists note the importance of healthy relationships within the family for the development of the child’s psyche and intelligence.
Impact at a distance
Few people have the ability to suggest something from a distance. They are the ones who understand how independent thoughts and desires can be. Such people can easily exert the necessary influence; they can influence the subconscious of a person who is very far away. Distance is not a problem for them.
This mental method of one-way communication is explained simply: each person is a receiver who can catch thoughts intended for him, sent using energy impulses of a certain frequency. Most often, such messages are mistaken for their own ideas.
Suggestion is considered a type of hypnosis. When exposed at a distance, it becomes telepathic. Moreover, the latter has much greater power if we compare it with the first. The person being influenced is called a suggestor, and the hypnotist is called a suggestor. The process itself is called “suggestion”.
How does a person feel when thoughts are suggested?
Does a person feel the suggestion of thoughts?
Many people are interested in what will happen if they instill thoughts at a distance. Will a person feel it? As a rule, a person does not feel that they are sneaking into his subconscious. His thoughts just flow smoothly, but yours will arise unexpectedly. Many people do not even know that they are being influenced and therefore take other people's thoughts as their own. Moreover, it’s not every day that they sneak into your head; many don’t even know that this is even possible.
Protection against suggestion of thoughts at a distance: what needs to be done?
By the way, if you know how to instill thoughts at a distance, then it is important to learn how to protect yourself from such influence.
To protect yourself, it is important to follow a few simple rules:
- First of all, learn to say no. Keep your distance and don't let anyone get close
- Behave unpredictably
- Don't brag in strangers' company
- Don't show your weaknesses to others
The best prey for suggestive people are people who can't say no. If you open your soul, then you yourself convey valuable information so that you can be hiddenly influenced.
Don't ask strangers for directions. Better use maps, a smartphone with navigation, or something else. Otherwise you are vulnerable.
Never be frank in the office or large companies. People can always use it for their own purposes. So, it’s better to leave such conversations for later.
In unfamiliar company, behave in such a way that you cannot be counted. For each action you should have several options. And don’t even think about bragging, first of all, it’s ugly, and it can also make you a victim of indoctrination.
As a rule, suggestion is usually carried out using passion or weakness. For example, this is a thirst for money, curiosity, and so on.
Remember that you should not lose confidence in yourself because insecure people are easy to manipulate.
When suggestion is carried out at a distance, then, of course, it is more difficult to protect yourself. But you must distinguish between your thoughts and those of others. The subconscious will help you with this. You won't believe it, but it may really surprise you. The fact is that when thoughts are suggested to you, the subconscious still remains to its own. It doesn't change instantly, it takes time. You can easily protect yourself if you learn to control it. Then you will not be afraid of any suggestions and you will not succumb to the influence of others.
Is NLP possible at a distance?
What is NLP?
NLP is a way of modeling success. Some people are very successful and everyone would like to discover their secrets. NLP deals with the secrets of mastery and introduces them to the masses. And there are already many successful models in different areas - sales, personal growth, negotiations, and so on. But is it possible to instill thoughts at a distance in this way?
In this case, unlikely. The fact is that this method of programming consciousness requires visual contact and personal communication. For example, a coach communicates with an audience. He transmits thoughts to everyone in the room, but at a distance he will not be able to instill anything in them if they leave him. So, NLP is not suitable for use at a distance.
Recommendations from an expert
- Conveying thoughts to each other, if they are good and kind, is not only possible, but also pleasant. Positive thoughts are creative and inspiring, while negative thoughts have a destructive effect.
- You need to visualize desires in a good mood and health. Remember that bad energy responses also come in response, just like good requests to the Universe.
- It is important to understand that you cannot build your happiness on someone else’s misfortune. If your target has been happily married for a long time and loves another woman, then you should not pursue him in every conceivable and inconceivable way, including a telepathic attack.
- By interfering with the aura of someone else's love, you can cause a lot of trouble. This will have a detrimental effect not only on strangers, but on ourselves.
Do not forget about the great power of love and those who walk side by side with it: forgiveness, mutual understanding and compassion. Only true feelings can create a real miracle!
