Having sorted out and understood your feelings for a guy, having established yourself in the seriousness of your experiences, a new, no less important question arises - how to confess correctly so that your words touch the deepest notes and produce the right effect.
We will help you create touching declarations of love for a guy (or man) that will touch your soul.
If you decide to break up
It’s easier to express difficult thoughts on paper, and if you don’t have the strength to say “goodbye” looking into your eyes, write:
- Hello, you are probably surprised to receive an email from me. But lately our communication has become increasingly impossible, we constantly swear and quarrel. Therefore, I decided to talk in this form. Having realized that this cannot continue like this, I inform you that we are breaking up . I'm sorry for everything and I forgive you.
- Dear, good man! I can't muster up the courage to talk, writing would be easier. Our relationship has outlived its usefulness, we can no longer stay together. If we continue this performance, we will be lying to ourselves and those around us. Forgive me for my insolence, but I think you will agree with me.
- Hello, I am writing a farewell message. I don’t have the courage for another meeting, I turned out to be a terrible coward. I feel that you are no longer looking at me so affectionately, you are not hugging me so tenderly. I don’t want to be unhappy, for you to be around only out of pity or a sense of responsibility. I let us go in different directions. Thank you for the wonderful time, goodbye and farewell.
It’s hard to write about a breakup, but gather your will and explain yourself. Don't wait until you become a burden to each other.
It doesn’t matter what you need to write a letter to your beloved man about. Whether it's a happy occasion or a sad one, stay honest and show respect until the end.
How to properly confess your feelings to your beloved man
- To be the first to reveal your experiences, you need to be sure of your feelings. It is this choice that can be considered the most important, because you need to have a fairly strong inner core, because you are taking a serious step that can radically change your life.
- Such conversations cannot be conducted on the fly, which means it is necessary to prepare in advance. Of course, it’s better to talk about love in an appropriate setting, create your own romantic corner or dinner.
- When talking about your feelings, look into a man's eyes, or even better, take his hands. Physical contact will help you calm down and add touching notes to your words.
- A woman is associated with tenderness, so use gentle words in your confession. But passion is a man’s lot, so it’s better to forget about it.
- Don't be shy about your feelings, speak boldly and openly. You can prepare beautiful poems or a quote from the classics.
- If you doubt that your partner will share your feelings with you, or maybe you’re just embarrassed to admit it face to face, then write a letter of recognition. Of course, on paper it is much easier to express yourself, but remember - sooner or later the dialogue will have to be conducted “live”.
A declaration of love is not just a set of beautiful words, but a willingness to radically change your life and reconsider your life priorities.
It is necessary to remember the man's age. The fact is that with age, men become pragmatic and distrustful, which means that first you need to gain trust and only then open your heart.
Another category is convinced bachelors. Men of this group, at the mere mention of serious intentions, try to immediately retreat. This means that it is not at all necessary to say the phrase to your face: “I love you, we should be together.” Better, unobtrusively show tender care and concern.
To a stranger who likes
Before sending your first message, you should study the young man’s profile on a social network. The information you learn can become a starting point for your message. After all, you don’t think that if you write a banal “Hello. How are you?”, then the guy will perceive this as something pleasant?
Don't be afraid to write first. Guys are attracted to active and enterprising young ladies. If you are overly shy, fight this negative quality.
Think about which method from the following is suitable for this young man:
- Question. The topic of the first message could be a general hobby: “Do you do martial arts? I used to go to karate at a sports school and participate in competitions. You probably also have awards?”
- A simple compliment said as if by chance: “They say that you can determine his character by a person’s face. I want to try it. You have a very nice smile. This happens to open, decent people. I guess?" If you are not a timid person, then the compliment can be more explicit: “You have very beautiful eyes and an athletic figure. I couldn’t pass by such a cute pull-up. Let's get acquainted". “You impressed me with your charisma and athletic physique. I want to talk to you."
- Smart advice. Men like it when weak women turn to them for help: “Can you tell me where the best gas station is in our city?” “I don’t know which car service center in our area I can trust with my treasure. I really need your advice."
Look carefully at your page on the social network. While texting with you, the guy will definitely look into it. Remove facts and photographs that compromise you.
The first messages are the most difficult. Their content should be carefully considered. You can initiate communication only if you have something to write about in order to continue your dialogue. It’s stupid to expect the guy to bring up some topic on his own, because it was you who suggested the acquaintance. To prevent communication from stopping and causing him bewilderment, carefully collect a “dossier” on him, prepare in advance a list of possible questions and a few jokes that will come in handy in case of an uncomfortable pause.
Be light, friendly, sweet, positive. Then the guy will be pleased to communicate with you.
Love vocabulary in English
Love knows no boundaries. Therefore, a girl can have feelings for a person who is even in another country. Due to the abundance of instant messengers and social networks, this is already a fairly common situation. In such a situation, it would not be a bad idea to master a few English phrases that can fully convey her feelings across hundreds of kilometers.
Examples of beautiful words to a guy about love in English:
- I am under your spell (You charmed me).
- My heart calls out for you (My heart beats faster because of you).
- If you need to hear why I love you, I can go on all night (If you want to hear why I loved you, then I can talk about it all night).
- I am all yours (I am all yours).
- I adore you (I adore you).
You can pick up many more beautiful words in English about love, but we must not forget the well-known phrase - I love you! And this is often enough to explain.
