19 Tricks for Reading Other People's Body Language

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We have already examined the features of head shape, facial features and eye color. Now about the most interesting and difficult thing - the meaning of facial gestures. If all the previous sections were devoted to the details of the image, now we will look at dynamic processes, which, in fact, are much more complex and interesting.

How often do we notice that our interlocutors make certain characteristic gestures? They sometimes scratch their hair, grab their ears, and cover their mouths. Each such gesture has its own meaning. Facial expressions entirely reflect the internal state of a person: is he lying, is he comfortable, does he like what he says.

Once you master the technique of recognizing gestures, you will always distinguish lies from the truth and understand the real motives of your interlocutor. Where did his eyes go? Why did he curl his mouth like that? Did the cat really eat his annual report, was there really a traffic jam on Kutuzovsky? All this can become your secret weapon, since it will become difficult to deceive you. Moreover, this is an indispensable technique in negotiations, communication with a new partner or lover.

The science of interpreting facial gestures itself is enormous in scope. So it will not be possible to fully cover all the subtleties even in several books. There are more than fifty lip gestures alone. Therefore, we tried to select the most common, basic elements.

Man covers his mouth with his hand

When a person covers any part of his face, it is a defensive reaction. On a subconscious level, he protects himself from negative consequences. When a person covers his mouth with his hand, he does not want anyone to suspect anything in his words. Perhaps he is not telling the truth or is not sure of his words.

This gesture also means embarrassment, uncertainty, and tightness. Perhaps the person found himself in an unusual or uncomfortable environment. The same mechanism operates - protection from consequences. Many people try to cover up their laughter - this is one of the manifestations of tightness.

Interesting point. A similar mechanism works when someone else lies or avoids answering. If you tell something to a person, and he covers his mouth with his hand, then most likely he does not believe you or does not trust some words.

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Why do I keep touching my nose?!
This is just some kind of misfortune.:) As soon as I sit down on the Internet, my left hand is freed up and so I smooth this nose of mine, rub it, tug at the very tip. Lately I’ve noticed that I don’t even need the Internet, and I rub my nose in the mirror and just casually. That’s why it’s grown like Pinocchio’s :))) I’m very sharp-nosed :))))

And then I decided to find out what the reason was. Excerpts appear to be from a book, but which one is not specified:

TOUCHING THE NOSE

The slightest damage to the nose affects a person's intelligence... therefore, be attentive to your nose. When we push animals, we clog them and at the same time they develop a painful, unpleasant condition. When you grab a dog by the tail, it immediately bares its teeth and shows that it is unhappy. Why does she do this? – Because energy flows strongly through its spine... This happens with all mammals. This process also occurs in humans, except that blockage occurs in the nose. And that’s why Bulgarians often say about someone: “Puffed up his nose.” If you become blocked and energy collects in your nose, how will you heal? There is one mental treatment method. If you are clogged or unhappy with something, take your nose and say: “There is nothing!” If you don’t uncork, again grab your nose with your hand, swipe it from top to bottom three or four times, say your name out loud and say: “There’s nothing!” You can hold your nose with both hands. This way you will calm down. Try this when you are in a split state to see whether this law works or not. This is an experience for easy transformation of energies. Otherwise, a whole week may pass until your strength is balanced. 76.8-60 The glands in the nose may stop functioning. To restore energy, rub your nose until the glands begin to work. This can be recognized by the mucous fluid that flows from them. Run two fingers across your nose from top to bottom until you concentrate. This way you will turn your bad mood into a good one. If you do something stupid, grab your nose and run your fingers from top to bottom, and after some time a bright thought will come into your head 69-155 Treat your nose carefully, don’t pull, don’t pull it roughly. 68-142 One of the reasons people fail is that they do not know how to touch their nose. Someone touches their nose often - this is a black box technique. When you need to touch your nose, think a little, then take a clean handkerchief and rub it lightly. The nose must be handled very delicately. Someone grabs his nose roughly, pulls it, not suspecting that by doing this he is hindering his future development. 69-229 If you roughly grab your nose and pull it, all your affairs during this day will be ruined. 191-29 When you clean your nose with a handkerchief, pull it down, not to the sides. If you pull your nose to the side, you disturb the harmony of mental forces, and thereby change the direction of the forces acting in it. 87-78 Any touching of the nose must be reasonable. As you touch your nose, think about the Lord and everything he has created. Touch your nose with reverence and say, “Thank you, Lord, for the good nose you gave me.” If your nose has any flaw, don't concentrate on it. 68-196 When you look at yourself in the morning, look at your nose and say: I have a good nose, but it has not yet grown as much as it needs to, it still needs to grow. Lightly stroke your nose and say: “Be smart, think well!” The nose is associated with intelligent beings who work for its development. This process is not yet complete, so you must take part in it. Do not touch your nose roughly or push it. Every morning, stroke him gently, with skill, because your happiness and well-being depends on him. It makes the face beautiful. Your thought depends on your nose. No matter how much you put on airs, if you don't have a nose, you're worthless. He who understands the meaning of the nose rejoices and blesses. Stroke your nose and say: “How good you are!” I love you so much!" You are looking for some external wealth, but you forget that all your wealth is in your nose. There is no better friend in the world than the human nose. He solves all difficult issues. Pet him and thank him. He is the station for the human mind, and the mind is the minister of education. Ring the bell, i.e. stroke your nose and ask him: “Can I meet Mr. Minister?” - "Can". Go inside and bow politely. You are required to have a good attitude towards your nose. When you get out of bed, stroke your nose gently and thank him for the work he does. Make sure no one sees what you are doing, because they will not understand you. 68-120 You get up in the morning gloomy, in a bad mood, as if the world has turned upside down. Don’t be angry, lightly stroke your nose and tell him: “Something is hard for me, help me.” A little time will pass and your bad mood will disappear. Caress your nose when you are in a bad mood, unhappy, or when you cannot do some homework. Grab your nose lightly and ask him for help, and he will help you right away. 90-29 So, every morning, lightly touch your nose, stroke it from above with the desire that it does not become sharp. Study your nose, work on it to acquire new, true knowledge. 64-102 If you know how, what place on your nose to take and when, you will be able to use its energies. People pull their nose, tug at it, and instead of using its energies, they harm themselves. It is not easy to deal with your energies. That is why every morning, after washing your face, lightly touch your nose, stroke it and wish to gain energy from it for work. Look at your nose as something beautiful and fashionable. Today the nose works the most. A lot of energy passes through it. Get in touch with the activity of the nose and work on it to lengthen and widen it according to nature's parameters. 64-102 Someone sits at home for hours, does nothing and blows his nose. He doesn't know why he blows his nose. I know why a person blows his nose. When he blows his nose, he holds his nose and thus affects his mind. I have given you many rules on how to blow your nose, how to hold your nose, but you do not follow them. If you applied the rules I gave you, you would straighten out a lot of messed up cases. If you are in a bad mood, touch your nose first on both sides, then on top and say: “I will be careful not to cause any harm.” 68-17 Imagine that you are in a bad mood, irritated, nervous, and cannot sleep all night. What should be done? Concentrate your thought, your consciousness on the upper part of your nose and imagine that your nose is gradually expanding. By concentrating your thoughts on your nose, you will calm down and fall asleep. 73-257 If your nose is itchy, it means that you want to lie to someone or do some kind of trick. What should be done? “You don’t need to get irritated and scratch your nose, you need to pick it up and say to yourself: “Think as a reasonable person thinks.” 10.17-25 Something is annoying you. - Why? – You have excess energy gathered on your nose. Touch that area lightly and the irritation will go away. 68-204 If the child is angry, touch the top of his nose lightly with two fingers. 82-134 It’s good when teachers in schools practice this method on their students. When a child gets angry at school, have the teacher lightly stroke his nose and say, “It’s okay.” This method is a way of uncorking the pathways through which energy flows. Give your nose a little massage and the energy will flow. Why do you need to massage your nose? – Since the nose is the peak on the human face, excess electricity and magnetism sometimes collects on it, which clogs it. 76.8-61 You are in a bad mood. If you know your nose, it is enough to tug it a little to change your condition. If you don’t know how to pull it and in what place, then instead of helping yourself, you will only worsen your situation. It's good to pull your nose from time to time, but consciously. When nature sends illnesses to a person - runny nose, cough, she turns to her wayward children. So she forces them to do movements, to heal. Whether they want it or not, they pull their noses and thus help themselves. - “I’m tired of blowing my nose, I don’t want to pull my nose.” - Thank the runny nose. Without it you would become a cripple. He who does not pull his nose dies, but he who does tug lives. Learn to know where and how to touch your nose. 68-125 A runny nose is a consequence of the deposition of excess matter. To get rid of a runny nose, lightly touch your nose from time to time and think about the unnecessary matter that needs to be thrown away. After some time, the runny nose will disappear and the mind will become clear. 68-204 When you hold your nose, you are treated with the energy coming out of your fingers. If the nose is completely inactive, it will atrophy. 68-204 If I want to make a gesture, I will hold my nose and say, “Listen, you have been placed up here, so remember that you must express God’s thought”! 10.17-25 Touch your nose with reverence and say: “Thank you, Lord, for the good nose that you gave me!” 68-204

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Here is the answer to why people with plastic surgery seem soulless... After all, nose surgery is one of the most common operations. They end up losing part of themselves. A very important part.

Man holding his chin

There are several meanings of the gesture. About the most harmless thing is the habit of scratching your beard, they say it calms you down. Especially men who have grown a beard or stubble.

Another option is that the person is trying to hide some confusion in his head. Do you know the feeling when you can’t figure out the answer to a fairly easy question? This pause lasts a few seconds, but for you it turns into an eternity. You feel awkward. Indeed, sometimes you immediately gave the answer to more complex problems. Such moments happen to everyone and are associated with fatigue and exhaustion. Some people start scratching their beard, trying to cover up this pause.

Man looks away

If during a conversation a person often looks away, then he feels some uncertainty. An animal instinct is triggered, which can be observed in cats: what I don’t see is not there. Sound familiar?

If a person looks away before saying something, it means that he is choosing his words. At the same time, what is interesting. Looking down, he turns to memory, that is, he remembers some details. At the moment when a person looks up, fantasy works. This does not necessarily mean that he is ready to lie. Perhaps you asked a question from an area that the person has not encountered or has little experience with, so he analyzes his knowledge, begins to reason and turns on his imagination. Averted gaze to your left corresponds to speech, that is, a person is constructing sentences. Looking away to the side is a visual picture. A person represents something.

The myth about the direction of gaze.

This myth is based on the channels of ocular access, that is, an attempt to catch a liar, taking into account the direction of movement of his eyes. This technique is used in NLP and, with some “buts,” it can really be used.

Again, to avoid unnecessary labeling, one should take into account the individual characteristics that each person exhibits, and in particular their eye movements. If you are going to use this technique, first of all, pre-calibrate this person, try to understand the basic code of his ocular access. To do this, talk with him about some neutral topics.

That is, in a calm, casual conversation, ask your interlocutor a question, the answer to which there is simply no point in deceiving him. For example, ask him how he rested on the weekend. Your goal is to track the direction of his gaze when remembering, remembering what really happened. Please note that when recalling, the subject’s eye movements will not always correspond to those indicated in the known pictures. For example, he can look up, down or to the right. Your task is to remember this direction.

The next question can be asked about plans for a new weekend or vacation. Questions of this type help to track individual eye movements during fantasy, that is, lying. Because a lie is the same fantasy, imagination, although sometimes well prepared.

And only by taking into account all these individual characteristics, it is possible to create a working scheme for the personal ocular access of a given, specific person, and it can only be used with him, and in no case with anyone else.

Be sure to constantly recheck the effectiveness of the overall human eye movement pattern. Only individual work and calibration of a person’s reaction will make it clear whether this universal system is functioning or not. Often a person visualizes and remembers while looking in the same direction, which, if one trusts the standard scheme, can easily deceive.

Tense lips

If, after what has been said, a person tenses his lips, they rise slightly and protrude forward, then this means that the person himself is disgusted with what he said. Such a gesture can be compared to the words “what can we do?” Often this gesture is used when bad news is reported, or a person shares something that he does not like to say. Thus, he protects himself from negative influences from the recipient of information. After all, he had to say something unpleasant, which means he caused negative emotions.

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