How to seduce and conquer a man: seduction lessons for women. 7 steps

Seducing a man is a whole science that Japanese geishas mastered to perfection. Most women will roll their eyes pathetically and snort contemptuously: “Science? Yes, we will seduce any man in three times!” This is followed by clear evidence that the “art of seduction” is in girls’ blood. Most often these include: stupid antics, short skirts, vulgar jokes and “shooting” flirtatious eyes.

Usually, this is where the set of seductive qualities ends and women are left with broken expectations, reassuring themselves with the banal phrase: “If I didn’t fall for it, it means it’s not for me!” But, after all, seduction lessons give stunning success and revive in the ordinary, average citizen, the image of the charming Cleopatra. By the way, the latter was not considered a beauty. Cleopatra had irrepressible charm and the ability to charm any man she desired.

Appearance

A seductive woman is, first of all, a neat woman. She wears clean, ironed clothes, mostly made of light fabrics. Candid, translucent blouses and dresses, short, tight skirts are best put aside. The girl should be seductive, but not vulgar or overly frank.

Women often confuse the appearance of a temptress with the image of a Moulin Rouge girl. They assume that showing off a woman's charms automatically makes her sexy and seductive to men. A lady should look attractive, seductive, but dignified.

Train your seductive gaze

You certainly shouldn’t neglect such a powerful weapon of seduction. True, practicing in front of a mirror several times is a mandatory recommendation. As an example, take the looks of actresses from erotic films or just paintings in which there are scenes of seduction.

Just push the porn far away: with such false and feigned glances, the only thing you can cause in your husband is a fit of laughter.

Here's a little instruction to help you:

catch your husband's eye;
try to hold it for 3-4 seconds;
If your husband looks away, try again.

The first sign that you are succeeding in seduction is a blush on the man’s face. Congratulations if so, but don’t flatter yourself: the result needs to be consolidated. How? Read below!

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Demeanor is the main trump card in seduction lessons. The smooth movements of the hands, the swaying gait of the hips and the grace of the queen will not leave the stronger sex indifferent. Gait is far from an unimportant fact. It should be feminine, smooth, interesting.

Strong, modern women are accustomed to rushing somewhere, striding and waving their arms, like Napoleon in front of the garrison. Not every man can boast of such a firm and decisive walk with which most girls move.

Why can a guy ignore your actions and how to understand that the reason is in him?

It seems that the right moment has already arrived, you are hinting in every possible way to your loved one about sex, but on his part you are met only with coldness and indifference? It may not be just your mistakes. There are several common reasons why even the most skillful hints may not excite a guy .

A man simply doesn’t want sex, or rather, he’s even ready to resist

If a person does not respond to your hints, this does not mean that he does not notice them. Perhaps some principles are preventing him now, or maybe he is simply not in the mood. If a person is deeply immersed in his experiences that are far from sex, then sometimes the chance of making love with him is zero.

Shyness

Perhaps the person is shy by nature. Often, negative sexual experiences in the past cause some constraint when making new contact, and even if the guy wants you now, his actions may not be very active.

Your lover is a virgin

Yes, that happens too. Moreover, there are inexperienced partners at very different ages. In such a situation, the main thing is to be careful and make it clear to your loved one that he can trust you with his true face without encountering criticism and all sorts of ridicule.

Love your men and take a closer look at their characteristics and preferences, knowing how to light them up at one time or another. And remember that the key to a man's heart and other parts of the body lies through care and trust. A lover who is in deep intimacy with you will never deprive you of attention, be it emotional or physical.

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Working on gestures when communicating with a man will help a woman present her image as a soft, seductive cat that you just want to pet.

When a woman is next to a man, her hands “contain magic”, with the help of which she can attract and bewitch, or repel and disgust her interlocutor. Seduction lessons place a huge emphasis on manners. The struggle for male attention includes the maximum “artillery”: hair, facial expressions, lips, body, wrists, legs. Not a single man can resist such an arsenal if it is used correctly.

Hair is a serious weapon for girls. The length of the hair is not as important as its cleanliness, condition and smell. One of the seductive techniques dictates the following: sitting opposite a man, a woman should relax and play with her fingers along the ends of her hair.

The hand moves slowly, fingering the strands, and the fascinated guy watches this picture, frozen in mid-sentence. A careless gesture of straightening your hair will help bring it back to normal. Are the man's interested eyes following the movement of his hand? Great! You can move on to the next “procedure”.

How to seduce a man quickly

How to get a man into bed ? How to seduce a man without losing his interest?

This article is for those who selflessly love sex, but at the same time, for various reasons, cannot follow their desires.

So. As we know, in order to seduce a man there are two surefire ways. First: coquetry, coquetry and coquetry again, as described in the article Flirting - arousing unnoticed! It works, but... it takes time and does not always give results.

That is why many modern emancipates, who cannot always afford to build the most serious relationships in the process of long courtship, are more interested in the second method: stop wasting time and simply take the initiative into their own hands. How? First of all, use sign language.

Body language to seduce men and not a word about sex!

What do you want when you see the object of desire? You really want to touch him or, on the contrary, make him touch you. So go ahead: follow your feelings! Just follow an important condition: don’t drive yourself or him into a corner! This will make it possible to cover your tracks if something happens. Not a word about sex, no platitudes, like: “I’m yours - take me!” No fancy stuff like, “Let’s talk about the possibility of sexual relations in our friendships!” Sex is the worst topic to discuss if you want to succeed in seducing a man quickly.

Don’t forget, any touch you make always conveys your inner mood - as you progress, you should not doubt anything (exercises that help to extinguish unnecessary doubts, as well as transfer the desired mood to another person, were included in the distance training Hypnosis of the Manipulator.)

It is easier to evoke a response desire when you yourself are in a light trance; in this case, communication between you occurs not verbally, but at the subconscious level. The easiest ways to put the most “crazy” thoughts into your smart head: you can, for example, remember what pleasant and exciting emotions you experienced before sex with another man. Or just catch the feeling “here and now” and imagine the following: here you are gently hugging him with your arms, then your hands shamelessly descend lower and lower and... stop there. Such mind games are always reflected in the gaze. An insolent look and its variations, described in the article Flirt, will always and everywhere help you!

If you want to move forward in a relationship, touch him with both word and body. The possibilities are simply endless!

If you shake his hand, look at him playfully and hold the handshake a couple of seconds longer than you would in standard situations.

The next time you hand him documents, casually run your fingers over his hand.

The following series of “techniques” are performed only when you are sure that they really “want” you, but for some reason the object shows indecisiveness:

Sitting next to him, rest your head on his shoulder.

Invite him to dance and, wrapping your arms around his neck, press your whole body against him.

Sit closer to him and, having asked his opinion on some frivolous issue, laugh and push his thigh with yours.

While maintaining your eye-to-eye gaze, gently “cover” his hand with your palm.

Approach him from behind and slowly, very slowly begin to massage his collar area.

Act as if you have already “had it with him,” and then your desires will soon come true.

Seduce without complexes

In order for “everything to work out,” it is important to set yourself up correctly: stop broadcasting duality and turn off your sanctimonious analyzers.

An effective way to become sexy is to not worry about your sexuality. This is especially true at the moment when you find yourself “at the goal.”

Men value women who know how to behave at ease in any environment: spontaneous girls or women who are infinitely confident. The secret of the wild popularity of fools has long been revealed: at the moment of seduction, they do not worry about anything.

Do I look good enough? What will he think if I jump on his lap right now... Give him a compliment (how to “pick apart” a man with the right praise is written in the book Secrets of Manipulation for the Experienced) or brag about my achievements? - flashes through your head, and again you do not act “as you should.” But why? Because by having such conversations with yourself, you inevitably fall out of reality.

In the movie “The Last Samurai,” the teacher explained failure in battle this way: “When you raise your sword, there are too many thoughts in your head.” What should we do in this case? Basic exercises, which, among other advantages, develop the habit of “ seducing without thinking,” are described in detail in the book From Donor to Vamp. Their implementation requires regularity - only in this case will your state of mind be under your control. However, you can already now form the necessary indifference in yourself, with a correct understanding of the essence of the situation.

What will he think of you, how will he answer you? Who cares? After all, in any case, you will be at your best! Because at this moment you will fulfill your desire. And the ability to fulfill one’s desires is a characteristic of all seductive women.

How do you know when the moment has come?

When you are at your goal, you should not decide: “this is the right person or the wrong one, whether your time has come or not.” Better yet, ask yourself another question: what will you remember tomorrow: another insipid meeting or your sexual triumph?

And then the next question arises: if I take the initiative, what will he think of me?

The answer falls on his head: as soon as you “pounce” on him, he will instantly decide that you are... a whore! Ah, ah, ah, but what about our feminine pride and other sweet nonsense?!!! And I will answer you: Throw it all away, and the sooner the better for you! Moreover, there is a category of men for whom any attractive woman is a potential whore.

You think: “It’s easy to write about this: just drop your head, leg, hand on his... But what about mom’s popular advice: “What is valued is what takes a long time to achieve. Be inaccessible, remember what female pride is, etc.” And in general, how to calculate and how to understand the exact onset of that very “moment”?

My opinion: if you don’t want to get caught in the trap of feelings, you shouldn’t wait for the moment! If a desire appears, and you delay it too much, your own lust will deceive you: you will start to think too much about it, and then fall in love, which may not be part of your plans at all!

Why won't a man do it for you?

You may ask, but why me? Why doesn’t he himself, the first, throw me onto the bed? There could be many reasons... and the first one that comes to mind is that he simply doesn’t need “it” right now.

On the other hand, there is a saying that appetite comes with eating! And do you know what can affect this “appetite”? Your appropriate behavior! Know what you want and don't be afraid to part with a fool or a hypocrite. Here are the stories, written down from the words of my resourceful friends.

Dasha: When I was fifteen years old, I already looked twenty-five, which gave me the right to enter a nightclub. There I liked one adult man who did not dare to get to know me. I invited him to slow dance once, then a second and a third, and only after that did he “risk” inviting me to his table. The further development of our relations followed the same pattern. It was always me who “attacked,” and I had to do it in the most unambiguous way. First there was a stolen kiss, and a few days after, I simply whispered in his ear: “I want you.”

Zina: For half a year I was just friends with one person. We met from time to time, and the more I saw him, the more I wanted sex with him. I tried the entire arsenal of coquetry - and he, the scoundrel, translated everything into a friendly wave. To be honest, I was already beginning to think that he had some kind of male problem or that I was somehow different. But, thank God, my habit of always being active did not let me down this time either. One day, at the end of our next friendly meeting, he, as always, offered me his cheek for a friendly kiss. And I - take it, and give it an “adult” kiss. There is fear in his eyes. Apparently he didn't expect this. Me: “Oh, sorry, I accidentally missed!” In the next meeting, which, by the way, took place no less than a week later (I gave him time to think it over) we became lovers.

Ella: For the entire first month of meeting my future husband, we simply held hands. During all this time, we were alone several times, and he behaved more than modestly. One day, when I was visiting him again, I sent him to the kitchen to put tea. And at this time she took off everything, down to her underwear, and met him, reclining on the bed. How do you think that tea party ended?

…And how not to lose it later?

If you want to lead in a relationship, learn the concept of emotional independence. If you add emotional independence to your slightly inflated self-esteem, the question of how to get a man into bed without ruining your image will no longer be relevant to you.

And then you won’t write to me on the forum something like this: “My love stories end in the same way. I’m a passionate woman and have sex on the first or second date, but for some reason it becomes the last.”

If you love sex unselfishly, emotional independence should be your credo. This is the first quality of women with a truly masculine philosophy.

You can talk about emotional independence when your mood does not depend too much on the presence of your man nearby. When, in any case, you feel on the wave. This means not living from meeting to meeting. By the way, against the backdrop of this attitude, you can say and do almost anything - you will get away with it. This means enjoying yourself, regardless of anyone else's attitude towards you.

– by letting go of the fear of “being used and abandoned,” you will become emotionally independent and gain a number of privileges over your partner.

– stop being afraid of your increased sexuality or you will have to learn how to refuse in order to attach;

– learn to take the initiative in doses and correctly not only in terms of sex, but also in terms of ordinary communication with a man;

– learn to behave correctly after the first sex with a new man (More about this in the book Falling in Love by Causing Pain (Conquering a Manipulative Man)

Stories from prejudice

I wish you to become thoroughly saturated with male philosophy as soon as possible. And as a cure for prejudice, I’ll tell you this encouraging story that I heard from one resourceful girl:

I'm walking through the shopping center. Suddenly I hear: “Girl, what should I do so that you agree to meet me. I ask: Are you married? No, what? That's how you get married, then we'll get to know each other. Because I’m married,” I said proudly and, as if by chance, slipped my business card into his pocket.

We met with him on the second day. When we were driving his car on the way from the restaurant, he suddenly slowed down and attacked me with kisses. Me: What are you doing! Not so fast! Him: Well, you want this yourself, right? Me: I want to, but decide for yourself - if we do this now, it will be the first and last time. He: Okay... Me: If you agree, then I do too,” and I attack him myself.

After mind-blowing sex, he took me where he was told and asked: “So what?” How about tomorrow, otherwise I’m already bored... - Well, we’ve already agreed on everything. This was the first and last time, and I slammed the door and left. The next day he calls me in the morning, but of course I don’t answer the phone. Then he writes me an SMS, and here I answer him: “Remember, you yourself refused to continue. You said it yourself - okay, let it be the first and the last...” He calls back and apologizes profusely: they say, I’m sorry, you didn’t think the right thing, you misunderstood, and tra-la-la. I answer: Okay, since you realized your mistake, I agree to the meeting. Let's meet again. Let's fall in love again. And this has been the case for a year and a half now.

I knew one girl with average appearance and almost complete absence of breasts, but she danced very fieryly. And then, one day, having gone into a fashion boutique to buy her lover a new shirt, she drew attention to the man who was choosing clothes there. Without hesitation, she went into the locker room with him and there... she seduced him. She put a business card with only her phone number in his trouser pocket. Then, she came out with the most imperturbable look and a few days later he called her. She invited him on a date to a nightclub. And the first thing he saw when he appeared there was her writhing figure dancing right on the table. Of course, it was difficult to break through the ring of admirers of her talent. But he gave her his hand and she, hugging his neck, immediately went down. What happened next? And then this man first became her producer and then her husband, thanks to which she got her own dance troupe and now gives concerts throughout the country.

But don’t get me wrong, I’m not encouraging you to become slutty, I just wish you to focus on yourself and remain internally free!

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PS: In order to correctly understand the meaning of the article How to seduce a man quickly, I recommend reflecting on my article What a woman can give a man and how much it will cost him.

Mirror of the Soul4

The languid gaze of a relaxed tigress will have a huge effect on Tarzan, who is sitting close. Relaxed upper eyelids, hiding brilliant, deeply open eyes, the look of which invites you to plunge headlong into them. A great effect on men is obtained with the help of a flutter of eyelashes raised to the top of the eyes.

In front of a mirror, a girl should practice looking like a goddess. Squinting her eyelids and languidly flapping her eyelashes, she gradually learns to look seductively.

When communicating with a man, you should not be afraid to look at him and look deeply into his eyes. The main thing is that it is the gaze of a seductress, and not the caustic, inquisitive gaze of Inspector Zhuva.

The lips enter. A slightly open mouth, with soft, semi-moist lips, combined with a relaxed look, are an explosive mixture. A cheeky wet tongue, slowly and naturally licking your lips, will perfectly complement the picture. Don't overdo it. A tongue endlessly wandering around the mouth looks stupid and funny.

What kind of women men don't like?

Researchers have identified several feminine qualities that repel the stronger sex:

Wants his partner to make decisions. Many gentlemen believe that problems in relationships should be solved together.
Excessive control. Some ladies track every step of their lovers, which does not suit the latter. Every person needs personal space, otherwise the relationship will quickly come to an end.
Turns into a slave of the family. Wives like to forbid their husbands from seeing their friends or engaging in their favorite hobbies. They believe that after marriage the spouse should devote all his time to the family circle. This opinion is also wrong.

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Seduction lessons include eloquent body language. A seductive woman should combine everything: clothes, image, gestures, body movements. If a woman stumbles into the room like a collective farmer after milking, falling heavily onto a chair, her back slouched, her image will not be saved by a silk dress or a flutter of eyelashes with plump lips.

The temptress sits straight, crossing her legs. In her movements one can feel languor, relaxation, but not fatigue and a desire to rest.

Bracelets and wristwatches sliding on slender wrists beckon and attract the eyes of the stronger sex. The girl should show her wrists unobtrusively.

When she is next to a guy, she touches his cheek, shoulders or neck. This should be done gently and unobtrusively.

Rough Methods

Men have different attitudes towards sexual life. Some are shy and need subtle hints, while others are ready to engage in intimacy at any time and in the most unexpected places. Rough stimulation methods are naturally more suitable for the second type. However, if you see a confident male in front of you, ready for unexpected sexual adventures, it is not necessary to directly show your desire by grabbing the man’s intimate areas. You can excite a guy in more skillful ways.

Skin contact

Kiss your partner not only on the lips - direct your affection to the chin, neck and shoulders. Such signs will quickly let a man understand your desires. You can also touch other parts of his body, such as his thighs or chest. A light slap on the buttocks will be a very accessible hint about your intentions.

Vulgarities

Hint to your partner not only physically, but also verbally - vulgar jokes or ambiguous statements will immediately prompt him to the right thoughts.

Postures and movements

Make a man pay attention to the most attractive parts of your body. Try to demonstrate your sexuality in every possible way; accidentally (supposedly) taking intimate poses will only speed up his actions.

Nudity

And, of course, feel free to show off your body in the most interesting ways. Moreover, you can undress by accident, allegedly because of the heat or a drink spilled on your shirt.

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A woman should talk to a man softly, tenderly and bewitchingly, like a cat. Don't cluck like a chicken, filling the dialogue with continuous chatter, don't squawk like a crow, but "purr" like a furry pet.

Obscene and rude words must be removed from the speech of a seductive lady. The flow of phrases should flow like a stream, melodic, interesting, enticing.

If a girl is in a close relationship with a guy, she can conquer his words that describe her feelings and emotions. They sound something like this: