Recommendations for choosing the type of sex
It is impossible to single out recommendations that would be suitable for every person. All people have their own fantasies. To get maximum pleasure from sex, you need:
- shares your desires with your partner;
- be able to talk about problems, if any;
- constantly get to know your body and find places where touching allows you to experience pleasant sensations.
Sexologists claim that the best position for a woman is when she is on top. A woman can independently control the depth of penetration and intensity of movements, due to which she quickly approaches orgasm.
The best position for men is from behind. Firstly, he manages to achieve the deepest penetration possible. Secondly, he has a beautiful view of his other half.
Where to begin?
The very first piece of advice for couples who feel monotony in their intimate life is to try to look at your loved one as if from the outside. When you see your spouse every day, spend a lot of time with him, you begin to think that you know almost everything about him.
In fact, it is impossible to know a person down to the smallest detail, to get into his head; much remains inaccessible even to spouses. This applies to sex too. Everyone has fantasies, secret desires that they can remain silent about. The easiest and most accessible way is a regular confidential conversation on the following topics:
- How a spouse views a sexually diverse life.
- What she/he would like to experience and try.
- What positions does your partner like, what new caresses would you like to experience?
It is best to have such a conversation on a romantic, calm evening. A good dinner with candles and a glass of wine can liberate even a modest, constrained person.
If the couple comes to an agreement during a confidential conversation, then you can try to come up with some ways to revive intimacy together. Sometimes a surprise can be useful, adding an element of surprise. It's worth trying to do something together.
Choose a new intimate accessory together, for example. Or watch an erotic film together. Such time spent together can reveal new facets of a partner that were not previously known.
By the reaction to the choice of a toy or the plot of a movie, you can understand what preferences your spouse has to diversify sex. This will significantly facilitate all further actions and give new ideas on how to make your intimate life brighter and richer.
Sex in the future
Today, sex between a man and a woman is commonplace. Scientists have already suggested that perhaps it will soon change, and people will enjoy it a little differently. Possible assumptions include:
- increase in the number of masturbation;
- an increase in the number of same-sex relationships;
- the appearance of sex with a doll, which will become a full-fledged prototype of a person;
- Sex games at a distance will become realistic through the use of special underwear, which partners can control through the virtual world.
However, it is impossible to predict exactly what sex will be like in a few years.
Today, in many ways, the relationship between a man and a woman depends on how good they are with each other in bed. You should not be afraid of your desires; you should always make new discoveries for yourself and tell your partner about your deepest desires.
What can a wife do to diversify sex with her husband?
If a wife sees that her husband is beginning to lose interest in sex with her, it is necessary to urgently take action and add fire to intimacy. Options:
Change appearance
There is a controversial but fairly common theory that all men are polygamous and desire to prey on many different women. Any girl can give her lover such a chance. A new style, a new hairstyle or even a wig, unexpected makeup - this will create a feeling of novelty. To fully get into character, you can change your manners or add a slight accent to your speech.
A change of scenery
To make sex with your husband more interesting, you need to get out of the bedroom and go somewhere else for sexual sensations. To the park, to the forest, away from prying eyes, or to visit friends in another city, country, or sanatorium.
Water increases the sensation of intimacy. So, a good option (if the couple has not done this before) would be a joint bath with candles and foam. It will give you a feeling of weightlessness, the ease of what is happening.
Sex shops sell special cosmetics that make water look like a gel, which increases glide and gives unusual tactile sensations.
You can surprise your spouse by joining him while he takes a shower. A piquant highlight would be a T-shirt or T-shirt worn over a naked body - when wet, it will emphasize the breasts and nipples.
Involvement of third parties
If a woman is confident enough in her attractiveness, you can try a threesome or call a stripper at home. Who will be the third in bed, whether the spouse likes striptease, it is better to discuss these points in advance.
There is a stereotype that men dream of possessing two women at once. This is not always the case; many do not accept strangers in bed or even just in the house.
Correspondence, photos
With the development of Internet technologies, a new opportunity has emerged to spur passion with the help of erotic correspondence and explicit photographs. If you please your spouse with racy photos or intimate messages in the middle of the working day, he will look forward to meeting you in the evening.
Masquerade
If you meet your loved one from work in an unexpected sexy suit, it will be a great surprise. The choice of costumes for this game is great.
In adult stores you can find different options for a sexy nurse, kitties, a passionate mistress, and a wise geisha. The choice depends on the sexual preferences of the spouse.
Indiscreet talk
You should not remain silent during sex, indulging in it silently with a concentrated expression on your face. If during intimacy you have piquant conversations, comment on actions, describe sensations and desires, the difference will be noticeable.
There is no need to be shy in your expressions, even dirty phrases at such moments do not look vulgar, but on the contrary, they can excite. Lewd talk will be appropriate both before and during sex.
Don't forget about appearance
Many men convince their wife that they do not pay attention to the lack of hair removal or what kind of underwear she is wearing, whether her hair is washed, whether she wears perfume. Perhaps at the beginning of a relationship, when passion is burning, such little things may indeed be overlooked.
But when a spouse neglects her appearance for years, while not getting any younger and losing her attractiveness more and more over the years, it begins to catch the eye. Over time, such disadvantages begin to overshadow the advantages.
You need to take care of yourself at any age and condition. Pregnancy, child care, retirement or remote work - all this is not a reason to give up caring for your appearance.
It is necessary to wear beautiful lingerie, attractive home clothes, home shoes with small heels, and use perfume that is pleasant to your husband (this is important, if the scents are suffocating, nothing good will come of it). A sexy wife will not bore her husband.
Choose another time
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Sex is associated primarily with the evening and night. But by this time, many feel tired, especially after a hard day at work. But in the morning, after a good sleep, sex can bring much more pleasure and benefit. It is believed that morning sex makes you more productive Morning Sex May Make You More Productive, A New Survey Says / Bustle, improves immunity How a spot of morning passion can make you glow all day long / The Daily Mail Online and is quite capable of replacing Forget the gym , SEXERCISE is the best way to slim: Making love burns almost as many calories as a 30‑minute jog / The Daily Mail exercise.
Add some adrenaline
Many people are annoyed by movie scenes in which characters have sex in moments of danger - instead of running as fast as they can. Neither a volcanic eruption, nor a zombie invasion, nor a shootout between drug dealers can prevent lovers from uniting in ecstasy.
And this is not just an invention of crazy scriptwriters! Risk is truly exciting A Guide to Your Body's Pleasure Chemicals/Swell. We in no way encourage you to chase orgasm in a car that is speeding at 100 km per hour. It’s easy to raise your adrenaline level even at home if there is a danger that you might be caught by guests or relatives.
Change your scenery
You don’t even need to travel anywhere or spend money on hotel apartments. You are surrounded by places to have sex. In such quantities that it is easier to list the locations where doing this is dangerous or prohibited by law Article 244 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation. Desecration of the bodies of the dead and their burial places, Article 135 of the Criminal Code of the Russian Federation. Depraved acts (playground, kindergarten, cemetery).
Variety begins just beyond the bedroom threshold - on the kitchen table, in the shower or even on a wide windowsill. Just in the heat of passion, try not to forget about safety so that your experiment does not end in a fall.
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